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Topic: water birth stories please Posted: 02 October 2009 at 2:52pm |
I am thinking about having a water birth for this one, so would love to hear about others experiences of labouring/and or giving birth in water.
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Posted: 02 October 2009 at 3:19pm |
Good topic I would too love to hear some stories as I am thinking of changing my mind on my birth plan
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Posted: 02 October 2009 at 3:36pm |
I just had my second baby in the water - totally unplanned but an amaaaazing experience :-)
I had only planned to use the pool for pain relief - wanted to go drug free cos first time round I had an epidural and didn't even know the baby was out!! So, I didn't want to do that again and chose to go drug free and to deliver at Birthcare Parnell instead of in hospital
The pool was great for pain relief, so much so that my contractions slowed down and I got a bit bored in the pool, just floating and waiting for the next one. I got out for a wee while and when I got back in it was literally 5 mins and he wanted out and I was pushing, bit of a blur thru the pushing to be honest but when he was born it was just a great feeling, my midwife 'scooped' him up and put him on my chest and we had a couple more minutes in the pool before we got out. DH wasn't in, don't think there was enough room plus I don't think he really would have wanted to be in there anyway!!
I liked the freedom of movement the pool enabled - can't do that on a bed and walking around the room just isn't the same.
I'm also a bit of a water baby myself, I love water and being around it so I loved the soothingness ( is that a word??) of it
Would definitely plan a water birth for next time
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Posted: 02 October 2009 at 3:50pm |
Oh I had an amazing waterbirth.. Firstly, when I was 18 I watched my sister give birth to her first in a pool - It left such a lasting impression that I vowed that was the way I wanted to birth my babies.
Started my labour at home till contractions were 2mins apart, quick dash to the birthing unit where I had to wait for the pool to fill (roughly 30-40 mins). Started on gas just before getting in - didn't have any examinations but knew I wasn't too far off.
It was such an awesome relief getting into the water - DH sat behind me on a stool (outa the water) and rubbed my shoulders. I felt relaxed and able to concentrate on working through my contractions. 45 mins after getting I started involuntary pushing, 20mins later she was born with me in the sitting position, it was beautiful! She was calm, let out a small cry but just wanted to take in the whole world, it was amazing! I opted for a natural third stage which took 25mins. A couple of pushes and the placenta was out, I then got outa the pool and cleaned up. She was then passed to DH for snuggles. Total labour 3&half hours. I felt fantastic, on a natural high.
Best part would be how calm and relaxing the whole experience was - exactly how we wanted to welcome our baby. Second best part was I had no tears or grazes, which I attribute to my completely relaxed state.
Good luck with your decision, I can't recommend it highly enough, it was truely an awesome experience!
I will be opting for home water births for subsequent babies, circumstances permitting of course. I can't recommend it highly enough.
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Posted: 03 October 2009 at 10:07am |
I had my Babys #3 & #4 at home in the water. Both of them were pretty much the same, it was so comfortable being able to move around and it helped a lot with the pain, pushing was pretty esy as well. DH was in there with me and it was aweome when they were born my m/w just brought them up and I cuddled them on my chest, we stayed in there till placenta came out and then got out. Recovery for me was easier cause I didnt have the aching muscles Id had previously.
I cant recommend it enough. baby #5 for us had to be a hospital birth and we didnt make it in time for the pool to be filled so se was born in the shower, which was actually good pain relief to.
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Posted: 03 October 2009 at 10:17am |
My first birth was a waterbirth (planned) and it was fantastic! No pain relief and such an amazing experience. I was wanting to do it again for #2 but it wasn't an option cause she was breech so ahd a c/s.
I'd recommend a waterbirth to anyone...well worth the experience
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Posted: 03 October 2009 at 6:21pm |
Has anyone laboured in water and then delivered out of the water?
While I love the idea of labour in water, I'm just a bit concerned about the risks (although small) of delivery in water?
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Posted: 03 October 2009 at 8:19pm |
I had my 2nd baby in the water and it was great. I have to admit, when I first got in the pool I was dissapointed because it still hurt full on (my contractions were right on top of each other which was hard). I had gas while in the pool which was nice. Once I was in there, I couldn't think of anything worse than trying to get out and dried etc.
I felt great afterwards, but I don't know how much of that is due to it being my 2nd child or the water. It was really good to be able to float around the pool rather that feeling heaving outside the pool.
If it works out for you, Im sure you will be really pleased.....but, I do have a friend who was planning on using a birthing pool, but when it came down to it, she couldn't stand having the water around her.
Good luck
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Posted: 03 October 2009 at 9:01pm |
I am still undecided about my water birth. Totally unplanned with number 2.
I labored in the pool for a while which seemed to be working well as I wasn't in too much pain. Turned out the water just slowed right everything down until it almost stopped completely. I was sent home to try and sleep only to end up back lass than an hour later.
The pool was still fill so just jumped back in and 10 minutes later had her.
I guess it was good in the fact I was able to give birth to a 9lb 6 baby without any hassles. And the whole thing was so calm. Maddi came out, gave a quick screech then just fell back asleep.
The things I didn't like were having to sit in the bath almost an hour later waiting for the placenta (looking back I would have totally just got out) The bath was getting cold so they were refilling it meaning it got deeper and it became difficult keeping the baby out of the water.
Also I am really not a bath person and I found it quite draining sitting in the warm water for so long.
If I were to have another baby I don't know if I would totally rule it out but would definitely see how I felt at the time.
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Posted: 03 October 2009 at 10:05pm |
I laboured at home with Jackson as long as possible - when I got to the hospital I was 8cm dilated and wanted drugs but the MW asked if I'd like to give the deep bath a go.
I really loved it in there, I liked being able to just move into different positions easily, and the water was really calming. It just took away that "hospital" feel for me. DH and my mum were on the edge of the pool rubbing my back and giving me water.
I ended up delivering out of the water, which I was quite disapointed about. MW was telling me to push but I was adament I wasn't ready, so they got me out on the bed to examine me (getting out of the bath sucked! I went from feeling like a lightweight to barely being able to stand) and see what was going on. She burst the rest of my waters and within seconds I was pushing and it was all go. I hated being on the bed - I went from being calm to darn right traumatised and scared! I felt like I had lost a bit of control as well.
He was 9lb 3oz born, I got a small graze so I'm pretty sure it would have been worse had I not been in the water.
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Posted: 03 October 2009 at 10:10pm |
myonlineself wrote:
Has anyone laboured in water and then delivered out of the water?
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Yep, the water was awesome pain relief  It did take ages for the pool to fill, I remember it took much konger than just running a bath lol.
I stayed in there for my whole labour, but once I started involuntarily pushing my MW asked if i wanted to deliver in the water and I said no. I had thought about it when doing my birth plan, but at that moment I decided I didn't want to. Getting out of the pool was not easy! I ended up having DS beside the pool. It was good to lean on
Will definitely be using the pool for pain relief next time too
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Posted: 04 October 2009 at 11:12am |
I laboured in the pool and delivered out of it... It was great for pain relief but it did slow things down for me... I was 6-7 cm dilated when we got there and the MW thought it would be over in a few hours as I had been dilating reasonably fast. I had to get out of the pool to be checked after 5 hours and Id made no progress which was pretty devastating at the time... ended up having to be transferred to hospital so couldn't use the pool anymore. I would still try for a waterbirth or at least labour again as it definitely helped with the pain more than gas or pethadine
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Posted: 04 October 2009 at 1:22pm |
thanks for the stories guys- good to both the good and bad points. Still undecided as whether I would like to deliver in the water, so it was especially good reading the comments from people who got out of the water to deliver and didn't like getting out.
Question- does anyone know how many birth pools NSH have? and how hot the water normally is?
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Posted: 04 October 2009 at 2:20pm |
I don't know about temp or anything but when we did a tour around NSH from memory there were 4 birthing pool rooms. I remember thinking it was worth having a water birth just to use those rooms cos they have the coolest ceilings, they have little led pinprick stars (y'know, like the ceiling of the Civic). Awesome mood lighting, must be very peaceful
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Posted: 04 October 2009 at 4:40pm |
Oooh good thread I really want a water birth this time if I can. Great to read different stories!
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Posted: 05 October 2009 at 7:48pm |
thanks weegee, I remember those lights- they did look really cool 
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Posted: 06 October 2009 at 8:23pm |
lol, I hated being in the water with C , was ok up to a point with Ty, but that was just a normal bath at home ,once the contractions were closer I wasnt comfortable
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Posted: 07 October 2009 at 3:50pm |
I did home waterbirths with #3, #4 & #5. Doing it again with #6.
I found being in the pool to feel very safe & secure, I was in my own little world. #5 was born out of the water, she was 10lb & didn't want to come out, I didn't really want to get out of the water. She was born within minutes of lying down on my bed - just the change of position did it.
Hubby definately didn't want to go in the water, he leaned over the side to put counter-pressure on my back when I needed it.
I think that the water really helped to soften everything 'down there' - which was good.
My babes that were born in the water & even #5, didn't cry when they were born (just a little grizzle maybe) my other 2 came out screaming, it just seemed to be a much more peaceful birth for them.
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Posted: 07 October 2009 at 4:31pm |
1 out of 3 has been water birth hopefully this one will be a water birth but that just depends on how long it takes to fill the pool.
recovery after water birth was by far the easiest.
ds1 was suppose to be a waterbirth but at 9.5cms he was still posterior so had to get out and didnt get back it.
ds2 was water birth i was only in the water about 10mins as his birth was less than an hr long and i only just made it into the water b4 needing to push he was my biggest baby at 8lb 8oz and so far the only baby to not graze or nick me down there and i felt very normal not sore at all.
ds3 i wasnt in the water at all, i got on the bed sucked the gas and was offered the pool but the meant having to move lol and i was happy where i was but i regret not getting in the water, but he was brow presentation til 7cm which wasnt picked up til mw did ve and he tucked his head in. so proberbly best i was out of the water.
my labours dont tend to be very long and if this baby is in a good position at birth we may not have time to fill the pool, but since ill hopefully be at hope i will get in our bath if he seems to be in a hurry.
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Posted: 07 October 2009 at 7:16pm |
There are 3 at NSH  I so want the option to do this but its not looking likely unless I have a homebirth and I am not comfortable with that.
Oh and if your mw rings the hospital when you are on route they will start filling the tub for you so you can just get in as soon as you arrive
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