Embarrassing Question, with added TMI

I think you should go to the Dr & have your fufu checked!! If you've been feeling some discomfort then something maybe out of place..... I hope you get some answers....

TMI

I just didn't wear a tampon for the first 3 AF, just use a pad. And special cuddles are not what they used to be pre-baby. sometimes uncomfortable, but not as much fun (I didn't have an orgasm until 5 and a half months after, and that's the only one I've had) If in doubt, have the doc check you out (from memory you should have a smear done at the 6 month mark anyway so maybe kill 2 birds with one stone?).

Well, it hasn't fallen out! But it just feels very gapy and open. I just assumed that was normal until now. However, when I look, I can see my cervix near the entrance, which is in a different spot... I guess... to where I think it should be. And surely if it is not in the right spot I won't be able to get pregnant again?!?

I'll definately see my doc when AF is over. Good point about the smear.

I haven't gone near tampons since, just didn't feel right.

I would get it checked with a Dr since special cuddles are sore though.

Yep also must remember to get a smear myself, have been saying that for a week or so now, will book it and get it done.

I'm there with you Laurie, that's a fine description of my own vjj. Like everything is hanging really low. I can't see my cervix but I can feel that it is way down there with the rest.
I asked my mw about it as I didn't think it was right either and she said everything looked fine but I didn't believe her, she also said that prolapses are very unusual for first babies. Pfft, doesn't mean they don't happen though!
In my limited research, it seems you just have to do millions and millions of pelvic floor exercises for the rest of your life and you can have surgery to fix it but only when you have finished having babies. So I guess that is saying you can still get pregnant.
I will be VERY interested to hear what your dr says. Seems I have a hard time getting any professionals to look at my bits (long tedious story).
Ew, I didn't know about the 6 month smear! I had one not long before I got preggy!

I'm so glad I read this thread, I've had an IUD fitted so AF is VERY heavy and lasts extra long and I also HATE pads but when I try and wear a tampon I can feel it. Its as if its fallen out a bit, so I decided I must just be extra loose but am so glad thats normal lol.

I was like that after Tom...but also really uncomfy.  My MW told me it was possibly a prolapse and to do pelvic floor.  I did a few...not many...eventually it came right.  <y pelvic flooor was weak during my last pregnancy but not uncomfy.  All feels great now