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Kazzle 
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Posted: 17 March 2008 at 4:37pm |
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Okay so i rang the hospital and spoke to the nurse i normally deal with and said "im pregnant" she goes "oh are you sure", im like no im just ringing you to waste yours and mine time.
So off she goes to talk to the ob, comes back to me and says "okay we are going to send you for bloods, today and wednesday, but we dont hold out much hope given your track record"
Im like WTF...seriously thinking about going private
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Mama2two
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Posted: 17 March 2008 at 4:41pm |
That is shocking!!! How wrong 
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Posted: 17 March 2008 at 4:43pm |
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OMG what a bitch!!!!!
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Kazzle
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Posted: 17 March 2008 at 4:52pm |
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i dont intend to, she avoided me when i went to do the bloods though....all i thought was "chicken sh*t"...so more bloods on wednesday and we will go from there
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Posted: 17 March 2008 at 4:57pm |
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cause she knew she was wrong to say such stupid and terrible things... grrrr.
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Posted: 17 March 2008 at 5:08pm |
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wtf!!! Thats so friggin rude!!!!! WHY would you say that to a women who has gone through what you have, grrrr that really makes me mad. id be complaining, and I dont blame you for wanting to go private!
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Posted: 17 March 2008 at 5:16pm |
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Oh my gosh that is SO insensitive, you poor thing. I'd actually be making a formal complaint I reckon...
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Kazzle
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Posted: 17 March 2008 at 5:19pm |
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honestly i just cant be bothered, but when i see the ob in person (which i never got to last time) i will say something to her....actually i think i will say something to the nurse and make her apologise to me in person
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Posted: 17 March 2008 at 5:21pm |
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That is totally inappropriate, unprofessional and down right insensitive. I'm a passive as they come but even I think that warrants a formal complaint.
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Posted: 17 March 2008 at 5:28pm |
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That is disgusting!
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Posted: 17 March 2008 at 5:39pm |
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Well then, this little one has to stick so you can "stick" it to them!
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Posted: 17 March 2008 at 5:50pm |
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OMG I'd biarch slap her! How freakn rude of her to say that to you.
Don't worry about her, you know you're feeling good this time around and THAT is all that matters!
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Posted: 17 March 2008 at 6:01pm |
OMGosh that is seriously rude!! I would put a complaint in BIG TIME!
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Posted: 17 March 2008 at 6:05pm |
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Kazzle that is so rude of her to say that to you. I would definitely be saying something to her or at least the OB.
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Posted: 17 March 2008 at 6:15pm |
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That's totally off! Definitely complain.
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Posted: 17 March 2008 at 6:19pm |
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Kaz - that's totally un-professional and damn well rude.
I would be making a complaint chick - she needs to know (learn) how to speak to people kindly and sensitively. Especially in her kind of work (its probably never happened to her or someone close to her grrrr)
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Kazzle
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Posted: 17 March 2008 at 6:32pm |
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i know she has never lost a baby, i also know that she is pretty thoughtless, as in speaks before thinking; I also know thats its really unprofessional, which is why when i see her on wednesday i will be demanding an apology and once given it will all be forgotten.
Besides cant be bothered with ppl like that, and the only reason im gonna say anything is so she doesnt say it to anyone else
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Posted: 17 March 2008 at 6:49pm |
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Posted: 17 March 2008 at 7:22pm |
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I would definately make a complaint Kaz. After all you've been through, the last thing you need is someone assuming that heartache is assured. Whether or not you've had a miscarriage yourself, when you're a nurse you have a duty to ensure the things you say are appropriate.
I would be so upset!! Very mad for you!
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Posted: 17 March 2008 at 8:33pm |
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OMG Kaz. I can't believe that rude cow.
Good on you for saying something to her next time. You have to make sure she learns to think before she speaks, there's no excuses for that kind of behaviour.
Let us know how it goes.
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