what does the uterus feel like

Another mad person up at all hours :) If you push in around and inch or 2 above your belly button you will probably feel it now I would imagine. You can feel a definite change from hard to soft as it ends. As it gets higher it gets easier to feel :) My suggestion would be to have a bit of an explore and you will feel it.

lol my husband is working so waiting for him to get home and im more a night owl

nah we we are fine here.

he works for acall centre company that takes calls for a power company(IT department)and the work he does he can only do when the call centre is closed.

but one good thing is that he gets paid time and a half :)

depends when he finishes what needs doing.

I am 90% sure I am having a girl...havent found out officially but after looking at the cd at home I saw what looked to be girl bits :)

You need to be lying flat on your back to feel it, (because if you sit up, your abdominal muscles get in the way). They measure from your pubic bone to the top of your uterus. My MW said that generally it expands an inch a week, so if you are 21 weeks, it is likely to be 21 inches.