Hun,
I'm actually glad you've opened a thread about this as I've been considering it for days already. Exact same thing here, BUT nina is even weeks older than tom!!
She gets 3 meals offered a day and she goes mental if we don't offer it, so she wants it but she does not swallow it, IYKWIM?
She plays, she chews, she bites it into a milion bits but she always lets it drop out of her mouth!
We have occasionally a few bits of carrot or sorts in her poos but it's ridiculous.
She is really in the solids routine but she hasn't figured out that she could swallow it, if she swallows it's kind of a mistake.
I'm not sure what to do and I am getting worried but don't want to talk to GP/Plunket as they don't know much about BLW.
Just wanting to let you know we're the same here....