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MissAngel
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Topic: Hubby doesnt want another Posted: 24 June 2012 at 2:16pm |
Honestly, I never thought i'd want another one. But however, my ovaries are SCREAMING at me to have a 3rd baby. I cry when I see my friends are pregnant or have had a new baby, I cry when I see programs on TV about people giving birth etc etc.. what the hell do I do!? He said no, that he doesnt get enough sleep as it is, our house is little but we could keep a baby in our room for at least 2 years (done it before) and I have alllll the stuff from the previous two (boy and girl) So I really wouldnt need to buy any new things. Help! lol.. advice is really needed.
TIA.
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Posted: 24 June 2012 at 2:48pm |
Sorry no advise but that must suck not being on the same page. Im in the "my ovaries are screaming at me to have a 3rd baby" stage too, lol!!
Fortunately DH wants another one too and we started trying a year ago but we arent there yet. We are on a modest income but ok when Im working part-time, but back on one income with 3 kids with be tight but like you we already have everything we need for another baby ( well except a big enough car) and once the 3rd baby is older and all 3 kids are costing more I'll be back at work and we'll be ok again.
I hope someone has better advise on how to twist his arm.
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AandCsmum
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Posted: 24 June 2012 at 11:22pm |
You need to ask yourself if you want three kids (bigger than toddlers) and not just another baby cause the baby stage has gone.
It's been a hell of a lot harder going from 2 to 3 and I've had a fair bit of family support.
Our decision to have #3 was cause we wanted a 3rd sibling for when they are older, definitely didn't want a 3rd new born! Based on that if something happened to one of our children the other was never then left alone IYKWIM
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susieq
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Posted: 25 June 2012 at 9:07am |
hope for your sake hubby changes his mind but agree with the others
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Posted: 26 June 2012 at 1:15pm |
MissAngel, you and I and Mathi can gang up on him :p
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MissAngel
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Posted: 04 July 2012 at 5:50pm |
Good news is, he's finally said yes :D
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susieq
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Posted: 04 July 2012 at 5:57pm |
Great news
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