Thanks Hippymama, we pretty much had a sleep through last night and the night before. Only one wakeup each night but was before we went to bed.
I might look into the rescue remedy though.
When she wakes, Dh and I have a night on, night off so whoever is on duty waits a few minutes to check whether she is awake or just awake and off to sleep again, if she is awake we will make a bottle for her and sometimes she will come in and co-sleep (we have been doing this heaps!) mainly due to earthquake and tiredness and also me being away because she wouldn't go back in her own bed. Now I am trying to make sure she is back in bed if waking during middle of night.
I know she doesn't need the bottle during the night though, plunket have told me she doesn't need it. I've tried water with her and she'll take it but often doesn't settle after it.
The vomiting isn't proper vomit though its the milky vomit, but its still horrible for her. I suspect it is due to all the crying and phlegm from working herself up.
What other sugestions do you have, I would like to hear them