https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 16 May 2026 21:12:31 +0000 Sun, 06 May 2007 09:06:39 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 11.10 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=7265 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140921&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140921 Author: my2angels
Subject: 7265
Posted: 06 May 2007 at 9:06am

Thats a nice idea Emma. I got my tattoo on Friday so now I have my two living angels and stars to represent my two lost angels.
Its so nice to hear that you and Janine are getting/got your baby back. When i said i told people I was getting mind they thought i was crazy. I just didnt like the idea of them being destroyed like they were nothing.
Oh and Janine I got my mum to go collect my "unwanted products of conception" as they were called, I couldnt do it.]]> Sun, 06 May 2007 09:06:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140921&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140921 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140894&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140894 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 7265
Posted: 06 May 2007 at 12:07am

That sounds really good Emma, ties it all together, and ties you to baby.]]> Sun, 06 May 2007 00:07:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140894&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140894 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140879&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140879 Author: Maya
Subject: 7265
Posted: 05 May 2007 at 11:10pm

Not tomorrow Sunday, next Sunday. I need a week to get my thoughts together! I have been thinking on the tattoo design tho. I had the box out of the drawer yesterday and it has an inlaid triple twist design in the lid, and inside the box is a little sheet that tells you about the design - it's a Maori symbol of eternity and lives entwined. So I'm thinking of getting a stylised version of that with the date and possibly the name we gave bub. I really like the meaning, and also the fact that the box with the symbol on it will be buried with bub but I'll always have a part of it with me. ]]> Sat, 05 May 2007 23:10:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140879&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140879 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140833&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140833 Author: Bubbaloo
Subject: 7265
Posted: 05 May 2007 at 8:55pm

We will be thinking of you Emma big for Sunday.]]> Sat, 05 May 2007 20:55:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140833&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140833 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140780&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140780 Author: caraMel
Subject: 7265
Posted: 05 May 2007 at 7:30pm

I'll be thinking of you Emma and sending you all lots of love and prayers. I hope it is a really precious day ]]> Sat, 05 May 2007 19:30:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140780&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140780 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140779&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140779 Author: SMoody
Subject: 7265
Posted: 05 May 2007 at 7:28pm

Emma will be thinking of you. Hugs. ]]> Sat, 05 May 2007 19:28:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140779&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140779 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140604&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140604 Author: Maya
Subject: 7265
Posted: 05 May 2007 at 11:50am

I was 7 weeks pregnant, but baby had stopped growing at 5w5d.]]> Sat, 05 May 2007 11:50:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140604&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140604 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140522&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140522 Author: ooEvaoo
Subject: 7265
Posted: 05 May 2007 at 12:18am

Awwww I think that is such a precious idea Emma @ bracelet. I hope you don't mind me asking..but how old was your Anahera?. That is such a beautiful name you have for her and so appropriate.
I really commend you all for having the strength and bravery to talk about your little angels. God must have loved them too much to let them go.
I know that my older sisters have had MC but they never shared how it had affected them. I know that if I was ever to go through something like this I wouldn't want to bottle any hurt up. This forum is going to allow so many mothers, and possibly fathers the chance to heal their hearts, and to know that they are not alone. ]]> Sat, 05 May 2007 00:18:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140522&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140522 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140496&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140496 Author: james
Subject: 7265
Posted: 04 May 2007 at 10:32pm

]]> Fri, 04 May 2007 22:32:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140496&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140496 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140472&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140472 Author: Maya
Subject: 7265
Posted: 04 May 2007 at 9:41pm

Probably Sunday. I had already committed to go up north to see my grandparents for the weekend, so will probably come home earlyish Sun morning and do it then. I want to let some balloons go, and write her a letter to put down with her, so I need to get that organised. I want to play Nickelbacks "Far Away" as well. Willie is just sort of "whatever you want dear" about it, I wish he'd tell me what he's thinking (wishful thinking, he never does).

Teresa, I think I will do something to remember baby by, I'm planning to get a tattoo, but still thinking of an appropriate design. Maybe a baby bracelet the same as the one Maya and the gremlins have, that way I can keep it in my memory box with the scan pics and pathology reports etc.]]> Fri, 04 May 2007 21:41:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140472&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140472 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140465&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140465 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 7265
Posted: 04 May 2007 at 9:21pm

Aw Emma, that is so sad and yet so nice to be placing her there with them.   

As yet i am actually dreading them tellin gme that the histology reports are done and i can go get my baby.. i have no idea how i will be.

I hope that next weekend goes as well as it can. Will it be saturday or sunday.. on mother's day? I spose if it was possible it would maybe be better if it wasn't mother's day, just to save future mother's days being a bit of a sadder day so to speak.

Anyway. big hugs to you. ]]> Fri, 04 May 2007 21:21:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140465&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140465 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140463&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140463 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 7265
Posted: 04 May 2007 at 9:17pm

]]> Fri, 04 May 2007 21:17:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140463&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140463 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140458&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140458 Author: AlyAyde
Subject: 7265
Posted: 04 May 2007 at 9:12pm

oh hun, that will be lovely though to have her with her GP hey. ]]> Fri, 04 May 2007 21:12:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140458&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140458 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140447&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140447 Author: busymum
Subject: 7265
Posted: 04 May 2007 at 8:58pm

Is there something you could have as a reminder instead? Pot plant? Pretty diary? Something on the mantle?]]> Fri, 04 May 2007 20:58:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140447&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140447 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140442&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140442 Author: Maya
Subject: 7265
Posted: 04 May 2007 at 8:53pm

Bury baby next weekend It's something I guess I know I 'have' to do but at the same time there's a sense of closure about it that I'm not sure if I'm ready for just yet.

We were undecided whether to bury her at the urupa with Willie's parents, brothers and niece, or whether to bury her on the family land, but now the whanau are getting the ground at the urupa ready for the unveiling of Jim and Mona's stones in September, and Willie wants to put baby down there. They're turning the soil next weekend and having the edging put in a few days later.

I like the idea of her being with her grandparents, especially as Willie's dad passed away when I was carrying Maya so he's always seemed like a bit of a guardian angel for our kids, and it's consecrated ground, but at the same time it's so final. I know I need to get over it, and to be honest I haven't actually had her out of the bedside drawer in months (altho I might a bit later on, feeling a little sad ) but I just don't know if I'm ready to let go.

Sorry, just thinking out loud.]]> Fri, 04 May 2007 20:53:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7265&PID=140442&title=so-it-looks-like-i-have-to#140442