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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=226714">HazelGrace266436</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 47594<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 22 March 2021 at 9:14pm<br /><br />So I’ll keep this as short as possible.<br /><br />My partner had a baby with someone before he met me. They had only been together a couple of months - was an accident but they both decided to keep it. She has done some really crazy things including stalking us, vandalising our cars etc.<br /><br />Now after a year and a half of  battling, my partner can finally see his child. He is meeting the baby a few times a week and then once he is comfortable, I will be meeting the baby and becoming apart of his life. I would just like some advice on how to handle a situation where the mother is quite unstable. Also some advice on how to go about being this babies well I don’t know step-mum (I don’t really like to call it that yet as it’s very early days but you get what I mean)<br /><br />Thank you! And please no judgment - I’ve had people tell me to just leave which is silly as everyone has “baggage”. Just  wanting advice on dealing with the mother and my role in this :) <a href="https://shareit.&#111;nl/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">https://shareit.onl/</a><a href="https://appvn.&#111;nl/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">https://appvn.onl/</a><span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by HazelGrace266436 - 23 March 2021 at 9:02am</span>]]>
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