OHbaby! Forums : So when is baby number 2 coming??? https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 16 Apr 2026 09:54:30 +0000 Thu, 26 May 2011 17:12:03 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 11.10 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=39324 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[So when is baby number 2 coming??? : yep all the time!!Sometimes people...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1334454&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1334454 Author: My3Sons
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Posted: 26 May 2011 at 5:12pm

yep all the time!! Sometimes people need to think before they speak...

]]> Thu, 26 May 2011 17:12:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1334454&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1334454 <![CDATA[So when is baby number 2 coming??? : Snap Delli- we have a Willem too!!!!!!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1334439&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1334439 Author: RedHeadDuck
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Posted: 26 May 2011 at 4:55pm

Snap Delli- we have a Willem too!!!!!!
(in fact, I think I've commented on this before, haha!)

DS is nearly 11mo and I get asked quite often. But when people don't ask when we are having another one, they are usually busy commenting on my age (I'm quite young) or assuming I'm a solo mum (I'm not, happily married, but why would it matter if I was???)

People are so judgmental these days!!! ]]> Thu, 26 May 2011 16:55:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1334439&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1334439 <![CDATA[So when is baby number 2 coming??? : Lol. Willem was less than 12 hours...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1334323&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1334323 Author: Delli
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Posted: 26 May 2011 at 2:40pm

Lol. Willem was less than 12 hours old when the lady doing his hearing test asked if we were "going to try third time lucky for a girl". And have had various forms of that question ever since. So there you go - even when you have two, and have them close together - you still get asked similar sorts of questions! ]]> Thu, 26 May 2011 14:40:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1334323&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1334323 <![CDATA[So when is baby number 2 coming??? : I have had similar questions and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1334294&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1334294 Author: myfullhouse
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Posted: 26 May 2011 at 2:16pm

I have had similar questions and my babies are all just over 2yrs apart!

LovelyMummy I would just say to people "I already have 2 children" or "she is 5yrs old" and leave it at that.

As said people are so nosey and I find that they feel they can say anything to you about your children, whether they know you or not. It is like kids are a free-for-all on the comments/advice front ]]> Thu, 26 May 2011 14:16:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1334294&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1334294 <![CDATA[So when is baby number 2 coming??? : I am amazed people ask this of...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1334280&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1334280 Author: FionaO
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Posted: 26 May 2011 at 1:57pm

I am amazed people ask this of each other when they are not close or something, I have a friend going through IVF and people keep asking her when the 2nd is coming, which is a painful topic and very personal

That being said, having just had my second I am equally amazed at randoms who say so is that it now are you having more - people are just nosey

]]> Thu, 26 May 2011 13:57:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1334280&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1334280 <![CDATA[So when is baby number 2 coming??? : Thanks Pickle, you have made my...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1334183&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1334183 Author: LovelyMummy
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Posted: 26 May 2011 at 11:50am

Thanks Pickle, you have made my situation feel so much better :-) My Step-son is an awesome big brother to his little sister (5 in September) and I'm just so so happy and lucky to have them as my kids & we will have more babies when the time is right for me and my partner.

That is awesome about your friend.
It just shows that no matter what the age gap is between your kids, you love your kids just the same :-)

]]> Thu, 26 May 2011 11:50:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1334183&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1334183 <![CDATA[So when is baby number 2 coming??? : Thanks - the five year gap is...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1334169&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1334169 Author: pickle
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Posted: 26 May 2011 at 11:24am

Thanks - the five year gap is great - I was worried about how my DS would accept the baby but he has been great - Any age gap to be honest is fab, I honestly think if you are lucky enough to have two plus kids the age gap doesnt matter - it is public perception that we should have a 2-3 year gap I think. I have a friend with 3 boys oldes 15, then 7, then 10 months (all same dad!!) and she loves it!!!!!!]]> Thu, 26 May 2011 11:24:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1334169&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1334169 <![CDATA[So when is baby number 2 coming??? : AandCsmum wrote:Yep...we always...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1334167&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1334167 Author: LovelyMummy
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Posted: 26 May 2011 at 11:17am

Originally posted by AandCsmum AandCsmum wrote:

Yep...we always got A needs a sibling, when are you giving her a sibling...we had that stupid secondary infertility.


I see you guys have a similar age gap like Pickle, how did you find it?]]> Thu, 26 May 2011 11:17:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1334167&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1334167 <![CDATA[So when is baby number 2 coming??? : pickle wrote:Yes we did constanly...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1334166&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1334166 Author: LovelyMummy
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Posted: 26 May 2011 at 11:16am

Originally posted by pickle pickle wrote:

Yes we did constanly as we had one child - some people are soooo rude and nosey!!! Occassionally being spiteful and probably a bad day I would take delight in telling them we had had 1, 2, 3, 4 misscarriages!!! You should of seen them shut up and run for the hills!!!!

we have a 5 year gap between our two!!


Thanks for your reply Pickle. Sorry to hear about your miscarriages.
Your right though some people are way too nosey!
And for us we don't just have 1 child, I have a Step-son (my partners son) who I consider to be mine, he is 11 and has lived with us full time since he was 3.5 years old.

Yay for the 5 year age gap :-) How did you find it?]]> Thu, 26 May 2011 11:16:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1334166&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1334166 <![CDATA[So when is baby number 2 coming??? : Yep...we always got A needs a...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1334026&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1334026 Author: AandCsmum
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Posted: 26 May 2011 at 8:14am

Yep...we always got A needs a sibling, when are you giving her a sibling...we had that stupid secondary infertility. ]]> Thu, 26 May 2011 08:14:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1334026&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1334026 <![CDATA[So when is baby number 2 coming??? : Yes we did constanly as we had...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1333974&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1333974 Author: pickle
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Posted: 25 May 2011 at 10:06pm

Yes we did constanly as we had one child - some people are soooo rude and nosey!!! Occassionally being spiteful and probably a bad day I would take delight in telling them we had had 1, 2, 3, 4 misscarriages!!! You should of seen them shut up and run for the hills!!!!

we have a 5 year gap between our two!!

Edited by pickle]]> Wed, 25 May 2011 22:06:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1333974&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1333974 <![CDATA[So when is baby number 2 coming??? : Does anyone always get the big...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1333950&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1333950 Author: LovelyMummy
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Posted: 25 May 2011 at 9:24pm

Does anyone always get the big question "So when is baby number 2 coming"?? And I'm talking about when their first born is nearly 5 years old.]]> Wed, 25 May 2011 21:24:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39324&PID=1333950&title=so-when-is-baby-number-2-coming#1333950