https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sun, 17 May 2026 01:38:43 +0000 Wed, 18 Aug 2010 15:19:54 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 11.10 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=35287 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1129507&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1129507 Author: Pook72
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Posted: 18 August 2010 at 3:19pm

No, you're not a bad person at all! Totally understandablle! I think most people in your situation have done smiliar things, I know I have and still do!

Good luck and hugs to you]]> Wed, 18 Aug 2010 15:19:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1129507&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1129507 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1129417&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1129417 Author: Emmi_
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Posted: 18 August 2010 at 1:43pm

Totally not a bad person.  Ive done similar things with friends who were pregnant...  You have to do waht you have to cope]]> Wed, 18 Aug 2010 13:43:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1129417&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1129417 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1129361&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1129361 Author: mum2ollie
Subject: 35287
Posted: 18 August 2010 at 12:54pm

Everyone new I was pregnant and everyone new that I m/c. My aunt has had 4 miscarriages.]]> Wed, 18 Aug 2010 12:54:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1129361&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1129361 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1128977&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1128977 Author: busymum
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Posted: 17 August 2010 at 10:43pm

I absolutely agree with Honey (above). Also, you've only just m/c so your emotions will naturally be up and down. Did any of the family, like the aunt, know that you had been pg? Developing sensitivity around m/c is only something that comes with experience, and everyone copes with it differently too (as in, some ppl want others to not talk about it but other ppl want others to not avoid the issue). Big hugs.]]> Tue, 17 Aug 2010 22:43:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1128977&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1128977 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1128925&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1128925 Author: pickle
Subject: 35287
Posted: 17 August 2010 at 9:17pm

no you are definately not a horrible person just someone going through a rough time, hope all your dreams come true soon ]]> Tue, 17 Aug 2010 21:17:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1128925&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1128925 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1127859&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1127859 Author: ScaredyCat
Subject: 35287
Posted: 16 August 2010 at 8:18pm

No not a horrible person at all, and I can relate exactly to how your feeling.

So sorry your having a rough time of it, just do whatever you have to do to get through ]]> Mon, 16 Aug 2010 20:18:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1127859&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1127859 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1127800&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1127800 Author: High9
Subject: 35287
Posted: 16 August 2010 at 7:37pm

It doesn't make you a bad person at all!! *hugs* ]]> Mon, 16 Aug 2010 19:37:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1127800&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1127800 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1127741&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1127741 Author: Rachel1982
Subject: 35287
Posted: 16 August 2010 at 6:48pm

didn't want to read and run - I think this is totally understandable!!

Best of luck with your TTC journey ]]> Mon, 16 Aug 2010 18:48:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1127741&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1127741 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1127724&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1127724 Author: mum2ollie
Subject: 35287
Posted: 16 August 2010 at 6:34pm

I had my first m/c a week ago today.]]> Mon, 16 Aug 2010 18:34:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1127724&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1127724 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1127723&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1127723 Author: HoneybunsMa
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Posted: 16 August 2010 at 6:32pm

didn't want to read and run but no it doesn't make you horrible. If you've just had a m/c and you are grieving for that loss then its perfectly natural to be envious/hurt/upset because they are having something you want.

Don't worry one day you will be 14days away from your EDD complaining about being pregnant and telling the baby to get out as much as you'll love the baby and may love being pregnant we all do it ]]> Mon, 16 Aug 2010 18:32:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1127723&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1127723 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1127718&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1127718 Author: mum2ollie
Subject: 35287
Posted: 16 August 2010 at 6:27pm

So my cousin and his partner are expecting their first daughter in 14 days and I just feel so green with envy! I've even screened calls from my Aunt because she talks non stop about the baby and I've hidden his partners facebook updates from my newsfeed because she constantly moans about being pregnant when I would give practically anything to be expecting a baby in 14 days! Does this make me horrible?]]> Mon, 16 Aug 2010 18:27:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35287&PID=1127718&title=oh-dear-am-i-a-bad-person#1127718