OHbaby! Forums : Amnesty! https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 09 May 2026 19:01:04 +0000 Sat, 06 Feb 2010 21:52:04 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 11.10 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=31431 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Amnesty! : mummy_becks wrote: If you ask...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=927519&title=amnesty#927519 Author: _H_
Subject: 31431
Posted: 06 February 2010 at 9:52pm

Originally posted by mummy_becks mummy_becks wrote:


If you ask for advise you are going to get alot of different advise, don't shoot it down you did ask and it will be varied.


I have seen so many people on here ask for advise and get shi*ty when they get told something they don't want to hear.



i dont post much out of the TTC thread but i read a lot of the posts and agree with this comment! if you ask for advise from other people (on a public forum!) that is what they are going to give you! you dont have to agree with it or even use the advise but its that persons opinion and its what you asked for!

Edited by H2289]]> Sat, 06 Feb 2010 21:52:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=927519&title=amnesty#927519 <![CDATA[Amnesty! : Here goes...! I think that some...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=927511&title=amnesty#927511 Author: RoSee
Subject: 31431
Posted: 06 February 2010 at 9:48pm

Here goes...!

I think that some people need to chill out and stop taking every damn post so seriously! If you ask a question... and get a reply you don't like... SHUT UP! You asked for advice! Just ignore it and moooove on

There's far more important things in life to worry about rather than something someone posted on a forum...

Amen]]> Sat, 06 Feb 2010 21:48:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=927511&title=amnesty#927511 <![CDATA[Amnesty! : lilfatty wrote:Funny thing...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=927488&title=amnesty#927488 Author: MummyFreckle
Subject: 31431
Posted: 06 February 2010 at 9:36pm

Originally posted by lilfatty lilfatty wrote:

Funny thing half the time I try to be nice ... if I posted what I really thought ....

I think we should stop singling out people like LF for voicing their opinions, I think its unfair to label someone as a "bully" and a bit like high school IMO.

]]> Sat, 06 Feb 2010 21:36:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=927488&title=amnesty#927488 <![CDATA[Amnesty! : caliandjack wrote:This forum...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926891&title=amnesty#926891 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 31431
Posted: 06 February 2010 at 1:42pm

Originally posted by caliandjack caliandjack wrote:

This forum is a pussy cat to what goes on TM parenting forum take your life into your own hands venturing into that arena.

Yep I totally agree, a woman I know here is on there and it is horrible some of the things said.

I know I have been called a bi*ch for some things I have said on here in the past (been here for almost 4 years now) and I like other people don't care. I love the people on here I have met IRL and others that I am FB friends with too.

]]> Sat, 06 Feb 2010 13:42:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926891&title=amnesty#926891 <![CDATA[Amnesty! : This forum is a pussy cat to what...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926873&title=amnesty#926873 Author: caliandjack
Subject: 31431
Posted: 06 February 2010 at 1:28pm

This forum is a pussy cat to what goes on TM parenting forum take your life into your own hands venturing into that arena.]]> Sat, 06 Feb 2010 13:28:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926873&title=amnesty#926873 <![CDATA[Amnesty! : I think because we&#039;re all...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926862&title=amnesty#926862 Author: my4beauties
Subject: 31431
Posted: 06 February 2010 at 1:15pm

I think because we're all women with hormones and obviously different personalities, there will always be conflict of some sort.  But I do think this board is nice compared to a lot of others out there (that I've heard, I don't visit any other forum - who has the time?!?!)  But I come in here for support and friendship and I get that and just stay away from the negative stuff.

]]> Sat, 06 Feb 2010 13:15:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926862&title=amnesty#926862 <![CDATA[Amnesty! : Do people really care about upsetting...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926823&title=amnesty#926823 Author: pepsi
Subject: 31431
Posted: 06 February 2010 at 12:43pm

Do people really care about upsetting other people here though? I mean, it's not your fault if people take things the wrong way, so why should you lose any sleep over it?

The ones who take things the wrong way usually aren't people who "know" you.. I mean, my OB/FB friends probably get that I'm a joker, so when I come on here acting like a dick then it's no shock.. but someone who may not know me could find me offensive. Ah well..

I my OB/FB friends ]]> Sat, 06 Feb 2010 12:43:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926823&title=amnesty#926823 <![CDATA[Amnesty! : melnel wrote:Me too J, dont...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926803&title=amnesty#926803 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 31431
Posted: 06 February 2010 at 12:31pm

Originally posted by melnel melnel wrote:

Me too J, dont know whats going on atm but I seem to be annoying people off left, right and centre!



oh?!

sometimes i think people think they have offended but dont... and vice versa of course.. i dont think there is anything wrong with offending someone, thats just life and its bound to happen...

i feel sorry for people who are scared to post - and for the people who miss out on what could potentially be some good advice or feedback.

i was having a look at the TM message boards the other day, boy are they a bit hardcore. People go out of the way to actually insult, not offend!]]> Sat, 06 Feb 2010 12:31:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926803&title=amnesty#926803 <![CDATA[Amnesty! : However after a recent incident...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926745&title=amnesty#926745 Author: caliandjack
Subject: 31431
Posted: 06 February 2010 at 11:20am

However after a recent incident I wish you could only view the forums by being a logged in member.
Some of the threads come up on google.]]> Sat, 06 Feb 2010 11:20:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926745&title=amnesty#926745 <![CDATA[Amnesty! : Me too J, dont know whats going...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926742&title=amnesty#926742 Author: mummyofprinces
Subject: 31431
Posted: 06 February 2010 at 11:16am

Me too J, dont know whats going on atm but I seem to be annoying people off left, right and centre!

]]> Sat, 06 Feb 2010 11:16:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926742&title=amnesty#926742 <![CDATA[Amnesty! : Bizzy it should be like that for...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926741&title=amnesty#926741 Author: caliandjack
Subject: 31431
Posted: 06 February 2010 at 11:16am

Bizzy it should be like that for every post and thread

There could be some great ideas and advice I'm missing out on cause people don't want to 'offend' by posting.

As long as it isn't nasty and there are general forum rules around that post what you like.]]> Sat, 06 Feb 2010 11:16:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926741&title=amnesty#926741 <![CDATA[Amnesty! : melnel wrote:If you cant handle...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926739&title=amnesty#926739 Author: My3Sons
Subject: 31431
Posted: 06 February 2010 at 11:14am

Originally posted by melnel melnel wrote:

If you cant handle the responses dont post the question
I do think that sometimes people could be a little bit more tactful in their repsonses though.

Agree with both of these comments  At the end of the day though everyone is entitled to express their opinion, and hey if something annoys me or p*sses me off I always have the option of turning off the computer

]]> Sat, 06 Feb 2010 11:14:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926739&title=amnesty#926739 <![CDATA[Amnesty! : lilfatty wrote:Funny thing...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926735&title=amnesty#926735 Author: Raspberryjam
Subject: 31431
Posted: 06 February 2010 at 11:13am

Originally posted by lilfatty lilfatty wrote:

Funny thing half the time I try to be nice ... if I posted what I really thought ....


like]]> Sat, 06 Feb 2010 11:13:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926735&title=amnesty#926735 <![CDATA[Amnesty! : Funny thing half the time I try...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926732&title=amnesty#926732 Author: lilfatty
Subject: 31431
Posted: 06 February 2010 at 11:08am

Funny thing half the time I try to be nice ... if I posted what I really thought .... ]]> Sat, 06 Feb 2010 11:08:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926732&title=amnesty#926732 <![CDATA[Amnesty! : I wont shoot you down becks......]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926728&title=amnesty#926728 Author: mummyofprinces
Subject: 31431
Posted: 06 February 2010 at 11:07am

I wont shoot you down becks... totally agree!!! If you cant handle the responses dont post the question (boy I am gonna get it for that comment!).

I do think that sometimes people could be a little bit more tactful in their repsonses though.

There you go, I have added one of my own!]]> Sat, 06 Feb 2010 11:07:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926728&title=amnesty#926728 <![CDATA[Amnesty! : I will start for you Deb and see...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926724&title=amnesty#926724 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 31431
Posted: 06 February 2010 at 11:04am

I will start for you Deb and see what repucussions come back.

If you ask for advise you are going to get alot of different advise, don't shoot it down you did ask and it will be varied.

I have seen so many people on here ask for advise and get shi*ty when they get told something they don't want to hear.

]]> Sat, 06 Feb 2010 11:04:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926724&title=amnesty#926724 <![CDATA[Amnesty! : Bobbie wrote:People have loooong...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926702&title=amnesty#926702 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 31431
Posted: 06 February 2010 at 10:43am

Originally posted by Bobbie Bobbie wrote:

People have loooong memories


so it would seem!

Edited by Bizzy]]> Sat, 06 Feb 2010 10:43:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926702&title=amnesty#926702 <![CDATA[Amnesty! : Haha I like it too but it&#039;ll...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926699&title=amnesty#926699 Author: Bobbie
Subject: 31431
Posted: 06 February 2010 at 10:40am

Haha I like it too but it'll never happen - there's no such thing.

People have loooong memories

Edited by Bobbie]]> Sat, 06 Feb 2010 10:40:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926699&title=amnesty#926699 <![CDATA[Amnesty! : Again, need a &#039;like&#039;...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926695&title=amnesty#926695 Author: Joscia
Subject: 31431
Posted: 06 February 2010 at 10:36am

Again, need a 'like' button! ]]> Sat, 06 Feb 2010 10:36:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926695&title=amnesty#926695 <![CDATA[Amnesty! : i think we should have a posting...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926691&title=amnesty#926691 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 31431
Posted: 06 February 2010 at 10:32am

i think we should have a posting amnesty...

one or two days where anyone can say anything without repercussions!

]]> Sat, 06 Feb 2010 10:32:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31431&PID=926691&title=amnesty#926691