OHbaby! Forums : TMI warning: question about boobs and sex https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sun, 30 Aug 2026 13:07:57 +0000 Fri, 08 Jan 2010 22:51:01 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 11.10 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=30834 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : My libido was very high and I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=890280&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#890280 Author: shadowfeet
Subject: 30834
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 10:51pm

My libido was very high and I had a girl  And I remember those dreams  about the strangest people.

]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 22:51:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=890280&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#890280 <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : I did have a particularly raunchy...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889932&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889932 Author: X
Subject: 30834
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 6:38pm

I did have a particularly raunchy dream about Bono from U2 the other night-mmmmmmmmm....

Yeah, maybe it's just being pregnant with baby2 that leads to no libido. I'm so exhausted from running around after DS & being pregnant that by the time it's just me & DH all I want to do is lie on the couch.

Enjoy the skyrocketing libido while you have it Treen! ]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 18:38:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889932&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889932 <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : Yes forgot to say that too! i...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889745&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889745 Author: palomino
Subject: 30834
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 3:17pm

Yes forgot to say that too! i would wake up and be like 'omg ew no way' then couldnt look that person in the eye for a wee while ]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 15:17:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889745&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889745 <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : zero libido here as well..both...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889696&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889696 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 30834
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 2:38pm

zero libido here as well..both times.. :) and the dreams are weird sometimes as they often arent hubby and are people you wouldn't think of being with :) ]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 14:38:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889696&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889696 <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : Yea I have zero libido, but kept...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889681&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889681 Author: gossamer
Subject: 30834
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 2:29pm

Yea I have zero libido, but kept doing it anyway, only because I think it triggered my labour with my first and Im hoping it will be the same this time! Haha disposable plates...thats a bit ridiculous. You could also wear disposable clothes I suppose, to save on washing, and while youre at it you could sleep in disposable bedlinen . All wonderful ideas.]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 14:29:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889681&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889681 <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : Libido?? What libido! Haha, I&#039;m...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889568&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889568 Author: Richie
Subject: 30834
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 1:00pm

Libido?? What libido! Haha, I'm 35wks preg with a girl and I can count on ONE hand the amount of times we've... you know..... since getting our BFP. Poor DF........ although there have been a few times I've tried to instigate a bit of fun time but he is afraid we will hurt the baby So we've just given up all together. Doesn't worry me in the slightest! And DF seems happy with it so thats the main thing. ]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 13:00:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889568&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889568 <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : LOL! Libido with Hollie was mighty...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889524&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889524 Author: flakesitchyfeet
Subject: 30834
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 12:11pm

LOL! Libido with Hollie was mighty high, but gee I wish I had the dreams!!]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 12:11:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889524&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889524 <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : melnel wrote:My libido went...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889428&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889428 Author: palomino
Subject: 30834
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 10:54am

Originally posted by melnel melnel wrote:

My libido went and hid in the washing basket when I was pregnant wth Jake but I do remember saying very early on that I must be having a boy as I was having the most vivid sex dreams... VERY REALISTIC iygwim....


same here, can probably count the number of times on two hands that actually did the deed. but oooohhh those dreams they were great!]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 10:54:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889428&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889428 <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : Odettenz wrote:Anyone else...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889419&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889419 Author: escadachic
Subject: 30834
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 10:44am

Originally posted by Odettenz Odettenz wrote:

Anyone else agree with me that carrying a boy means skyrocketing libido & carrying a girl means ZERO libido? When I was preg with DS I was super-keen but this time round (carrying a girl) I could not be less interested....


I found that not to be true with me. I had more of a libido with my first pregnancy, and I was pregnant with a GIRL baby. This time I am also pregnant with a GIRL baby and my libido is very lacking.

Edited by escadachic]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 10:44:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889419&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889419 <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : My libido went and hid in the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889354&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889354 Author: mummyofprinces
Subject: 30834
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 9:59am

My libido went and hid in the washing basket when I was pregnant wth Jake but I do remember saying very early on that I must be having a boy as I was having the most vivid sex dreams... VERY REALISTIC iygwim....]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 09:59:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889354&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889354 <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : Thanks girls, yeah, I&#039;m starting...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889282&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889282 Author: Treen
Subject: 30834
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 9:14am

Thanks girls, yeah, I'm starting to think this book is a bit rubbish. Along with the warning on over-stimulating your breasts, one of the suggestions with a newborn is to use disposable plates so you don't have to do the dishes. Hmm, I think I value my environment a tad more than that and what, are DH's arms and legs painted on? ]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 09:14:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889282&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889282 <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : From someone who had nipple stimulation...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889274&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889274 Author: Aprilfools
Subject: 30834
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 9:09am

From someone who had nipple stimulation while giving birth you'd slap him before you got excited about it and there's probably no way he'd be bothered to give it that much effort. It's not a loving little tickle And squeeze so much as a clamp pull and twist feeling. ]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 09:09:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889274&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889274 <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : I wouldn&#039;t worry about it,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889266&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889266 Author: Tastic
Subject: 30834
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 9:01am

I wouldn't worry about it, like everyone said you would have to be playing with the nipples 24/7 to do anything!

Odettenz - sorry but not true here. had less with the boys then this little girl]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 09:01:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889266&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889266 <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : Anyone else agree with me that...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889257&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889257 Author: X
Subject: 30834
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 8:47am

Anyone else agree with me that carrying a boy means skyrocketing libido & carrying a girl means ZERO libido? When I was preg with DS I was super-keen but this time round (carrying a girl) I could not be less interested.... ]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 08:47:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889257&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889257 <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : Meh I was like that with Hollie...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889254&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889254 Author: flakesitchyfeet
Subject: 30834
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 8:47am

Meh I was like that with Hollie right up to her birth, she was a few weeks late

Already like that with this baby too, when I'm not sick ]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 08:47:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889254&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889254 <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : first off, good on you for having...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889217&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889217 Author: MissAngel
Subject: 30834
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 8:14am

first off, good on you for having a libido! Yea dont worry about the nipple thing as the others said. I'm sure you'll be perfectly fine lol. ]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 08:14:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889217&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889217 <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : LOL Yup, you need constant stimulation...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889192&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889192 Author: mummyofprinces
Subject: 30834
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 7:29am

LOL Yup, you need constant stimulation for a LONG time for it to work.

For instance, there are plenty of women who bf right through pg.....]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 07:29:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889192&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889192 <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : nzpiper wrote:I wouldnt worry...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889127&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889127 Author: High9
Subject: 30834
Posted: 07 January 2010 at 10:42pm

Originally posted by nzpiper nzpiper wrote:

I wouldnt worry in the slightest. It sounds totally normal. Also i read somewhere that the amount of nipple stimulation needed to bring on labour was such that it would feel like a bloody chore!!! So you'll be good. Remember...its all natural so our bodies must be designed for it.


Yeah I heard you would pretty much have to touch/squeeze/rub them 24/7 for a few days!]]> Thu, 07 Jan 2010 22:42:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889127&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889127 <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : I wouldnt worry in the slightest....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889085&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889085 Author: peanut butter
Subject: 30834
Posted: 07 January 2010 at 10:14pm

I wouldnt worry in the slightest. It sounds totally normal. Also i read somewhere that the amount of nipple stimulation needed to bring on labour was such that it would feel like a bloody chore!!! So you'll be good. Remember...its all natural so our bodies must be designed for it.]]> Thu, 07 Jan 2010 22:14:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889085&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889085 <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : No I wouldn&#039;t say nipples...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889076&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889076 Author: escadachic
Subject: 30834
Posted: 07 January 2010 at 10:09pm

No I wouldn't say nipples are a no go zone during pregnancy. Though at some points it can annoy you having them played with. Your nipples might be itchy because they are dry. You could always buy some Lanisoh and put that on them to sooth them. The leaking might just be colostrum, which is totally normal. Squeezing them to see if anything comes out will cause no harm and won't start contractions. I mean I squeeze mine every now and then to see if the colostrum is still there and I've not gone into labour at all, so I'm not worried. All I can say is you can have them played with by your partner as much as you like and just don't play with any breast pumps and you'll be fine.]]> Thu, 07 Jan 2010 22:09:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889076&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889076 <![CDATA[TMI warning: question about boobs and sex : Okay, so I&#039;m one of those...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889067&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889067 Author: Treen
Subject: 30834
Posted: 07 January 2010 at 10:01pm

Okay, so I'm one of those lucky (or unlucky) girls who's libido has skyrocketed since falling PG and err, boobs and nipples play a big part in our bedroom if you know what I mean.

So anyhoo, I was reading one of my many PG books the other day and I came across a couple of pages which in a nut shell, suggested that your breasts not be over stimulated. They were referring more to practising with a breast pump but um, I'm guessing there can be a similar amount of suction when... you know.

The book said it can cause contractions and something about your body expressing colostrum which sounded like a bad thing to do pre baby?

To add to my concerns, I've had itchy nipples throughout my PG and I wear breast pads as they do leak a teeny tiny amount of yellow stuff when I scratch them. I thought it was just my body's natural oil from damaged skin as I used to get itchy nipples in my teens and the same thing happened. But then this morning, I thought I'd test it out and pressed down on one of my nipples. When I did so, the smallest drop of moisture appeared on the tip which surprised me.

So basically what I really want to know is: are nipples a no go zone while you're PG?]]> Thu, 07 Jan 2010 22:01:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30834&PID=889067&title=tmi-warning-question-about-boobs-and-sex#889067