OHbaby! Forums : Impatient and frustrated! https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Mon, 20 Apr 2026 15:26:04 +0000 Thu, 14 Jan 2010 13:57:19 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 11.10 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=30827 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Impatient and frustrated! : Good luck at the Drs, hopefully...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=896629&title=impatient-and-frustrated#896629 Author: Hopes
Subject: 30827
Posted: 14 January 2010 at 1:57pm

Good luck at the Drs, hopefully it goes well.]]> Thu, 14 Jan 2010 13:57:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=896629&title=impatient-and-frustrated#896629 <![CDATA[Impatient and frustrated! : I&#039;m going at 4 so won&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=896577&title=impatient-and-frustrated#896577 Author: caliandjack
Subject: 30827
Posted: 14 January 2010 at 12:58pm

I'm going at 4 so won't be back till later.

]]> Thu, 14 Jan 2010 12:58:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=896577&title=impatient-and-frustrated#896577 <![CDATA[Impatient and frustrated! : Thinking of you Fleur!!! ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=896576&title=impatient-and-frustrated#896576 Author: mummyofprinces
Subject: 30827
Posted: 14 January 2010 at 12:58pm

Thinking of you Fleur!!! ]]> Thu, 14 Jan 2010 12:58:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=896576&title=impatient-and-frustrated#896576 <![CDATA[Impatient and frustrated! : Good luck at the doctor&#039;s...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=896568&title=impatient-and-frustrated#896568 Author: kiwisj
Subject: 30827
Posted: 14 January 2010 at 12:51pm

Good luck at the doctor's mrsg1!! It's nearly afternoon in NZ now .... hope it went all right hun ]]> Thu, 14 Jan 2010 12:51:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=896568&title=impatient-and-frustrated#896568 <![CDATA[Impatient and frustrated! : Good Luck with the doctors appointment...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=896506&title=impatient-and-frustrated#896506 Author: sem
Subject: 30827
Posted: 14 January 2010 at 11:44am

Good Luck with the doctors appointment mrsg1! Will be thinking of you ]]> Thu, 14 Jan 2010 11:44:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=896506&title=impatient-and-frustrated#896506 <![CDATA[Impatient and frustrated! : I&#039;m off to my GP this afternoon...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=896426&title=impatient-and-frustrated#896426 Author: caliandjack
Subject: 30827
Posted: 14 January 2010 at 10:05am

I'm off to my GP this afternoon to get some help and advice with TTC, I'm a little bit scared as to what he'll have to say. 

I don't know if I want there to be something wrong that can be easily fixed, or to be nothing wrong and to keep trying.

I'm so over not being pregnant.

I even had a lovely temp rise this morning, wondering if the tiniest bit of pink I had on the 29th of Dec really was AF?  I hate uncertainty.

]]> Thu, 14 Jan 2010 10:05:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=896426&title=impatient-and-frustrated#896426 <![CDATA[Impatient and frustrated! : Glad to hear AF arrived (in the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=891506&title=impatient-and-frustrated#891506 Author: mummyofprinces
Subject: 30827
Posted: 10 January 2010 at 1:02pm

Glad to hear AF arrived (in the sense that now you know what the go is).

Good luck for this cycle!]]> Sun, 10 Jan 2010 13:02:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=891506&title=impatient-and-frustrated#891506 <![CDATA[Impatient and frustrated! : Thanks Bobsta. Well, AF has arrived...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=890935&title=impatient-and-frustrated#890935 Author: kiwisj
Subject: 30827
Posted: 09 January 2010 at 7:04pm

Thanks Bobsta.

Well, AF has arrived with a vengeance today so either that was a random long cycle or ....? Am thinking about charting this month so I can figure out when I'm ovulating, specially if my cycles aren't going to be so regular any more

On the bright side, DH and I have Date Night tonight so I can enjoy a wine or three and not feel too guilty about it

Thanks for letting me vent my frustrations!]]> Sat, 09 Jan 2010 19:04:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=890935&title=impatient-and-frustrated#890935 <![CDATA[Impatient and frustrated! : kiwisj, I think no matter how...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=890343&title=impatient-and-frustrated#890343 Author: Bobsta
Subject: 30827
Posted: 09 January 2010 at 8:00am

kiwisj, I think no matter how long anyone has been trying, it is just as hard and frustrating to get that BFN.  I too am a fairly regular gal.  I have 29-31 day cycle, it has never varied from this except once.  Last year I had a random cycle that was 34 days.  Was so annoying as it really got my hopes up. 

 

I hope it happens for you soon, hang in there

]]> Sat, 09 Jan 2010 08:00:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=890343&title=impatient-and-frustrated#890343 <![CDATA[Impatient and frustrated! : Mrsg that&#039;s a really normal...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=889773&title=impatient-and-frustrated#889773 Author: Rachel1982
Subject: 30827
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 3:48pm

Mrsg that's a really normal feeling.

my best friend got pregnant after being off the pill for a week and BDing once...

When DH and I started trying I was acutely aware of the 'standard' that had been set and got a bit stressed out each month when AF arrived... She kept asking how my 'little project' was going and I felt like a failure.

I think the key was stopping stressing about it. easier said than done though!]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 15:48:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=889773&title=impatient-and-frustrated#889773 <![CDATA[Impatient and frustrated! : I&#039;m off to my Drs next week...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=889670&title=impatient-and-frustrated#889670 Author: caliandjack
Subject: 30827
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 2:17pm

I'm off to my Drs next week too as this is getting frustrating. ]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 14:17:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=889670&title=impatient-and-frustrated#889670 <![CDATA[Impatient and frustrated! : mrsg that sounds exactly like...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=889589&title=impatient-and-frustrated#889589 Author: kiwisj
Subject: 30827
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 1:17pm

mrsg that sounds exactly like what I had yesterday. Hmmmm .... I haven't bothered testing today (down to my last one now!) and am going to go see my gynae next week if AF still hasn't arrived.]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 13:17:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=889589&title=impatient-and-frustrated#889589 <![CDATA[Impatient and frustrated! : That&#039;s what I had a last...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=889579&title=impatient-and-frustrated#889579 Author: caliandjack
Subject: 30827
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 1:11pm

That's what I had a last week, wiped and got pink, wore a liner all day and nothing this lasted for 3 days with a tensy bit of brown in cm on the last day.
Got a BFN yesterday so no clues as to what that was.]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 13:11:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=889579&title=impatient-and-frustrated#889579 <![CDATA[Impatient and frustrated! : (maybe TMI to follow) OK so last...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=889575&title=impatient-and-frustrated#889575 Author: kiwisj
Subject: 30827
Posted: 08 January 2010 at 1:07pm

(maybe TMI to follow)

OK so last night I was getting some brown spotting when I wiped, but nothing actually in my knickers. Wore a pad to bed thinking AF was on the way. This morning - NOTHING, not even when I wiped.

Weird weird weird.]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 13:07:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=889575&title=impatient-and-frustrated#889575 <![CDATA[Impatient and frustrated! : Aww Fleur.... I would get so...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=888934&title=impatient-and-frustrated#888934 Author: mummyofprinces
Subject: 30827
Posted: 07 January 2010 at 8:48pm

Aww Fleur....

I would get so annoyed with people like me when I was TTC.. "you already have one (or more) babies stop being so greedy" especially after the mc.

I dont mind if people feel that way about me.... I totally get it

I so hope you get our BFP really soon!!!!!!]]> Thu, 07 Jan 2010 20:48:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=888934&title=impatient-and-frustrated#888934 <![CDATA[Impatient and frustrated! : Dang mrsg, that must be REALLY...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=888832&title=impatient-and-frustrated#888832 Author: kiwisj
Subject: 30827
Posted: 07 January 2010 at 7:46pm

Dang mrsg, that must be REALLY frustrating!!!

I feel bad for being so impatient about it all. But it's the not knowing that's the worst part for me at the moment.

As much as I hope you guys get your own answers soon, I do love this forum coz there's always someone who "gets it" ]]> Thu, 07 Jan 2010 19:46:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=888832&title=impatient-and-frustrated#888832 <![CDATA[Impatient and frustrated! : Can I join in? I came off bcp...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=888820&title=impatient-and-frustrated#888820 Author: caliandjack
Subject: 30827
Posted: 07 January 2010 at 7:34pm

Can I join in?

I came off bcp 12 months ago and back into 28 day cycles, had a 35 day cycle in June and then regular 35 days on vitex until September when that cycle lasted 43 days.

Its now been 50 days since my last AF and no BFPs.

I could easily say I'm jealous of both of you cause you've already got beautiful babies but that would be unfair.

Annoyed and frustrated ahh just a bit.]]> Thu, 07 Jan 2010 19:34:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=888820&title=impatient-and-frustrated#888820 <![CDATA[Impatient and frustrated! : Aww hugs hun. I can relate.......]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=888766&title=impatient-and-frustrated#888766 Author: mummyofprinces
Subject: 30827
Posted: 07 January 2010 at 6:57pm

Aww hugs hun.

I can relate.... I was never nice and regular but 31-37 days never earlier never later.

First 3 cycles have been 40, 39, 40 so figured that was the norm. Alas, CD47 and no sign of ov or AF!

No point taking a test at this point as Prog test on CD38 was 0.5 LOL Definately no ov at that point....

Very annoying!]]> Thu, 07 Jan 2010 18:57:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=888766&title=impatient-and-frustrated#888766 <![CDATA[Impatient and frustrated! : I just need to have a moan really,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=888748&title=impatient-and-frustrated#888748 Author: kiwisj
Subject: 30827
Posted: 07 January 2010 at 6:45pm

I just need to have a moan really, because just when I thought I knew my body it is really confusing me!

My cycles have always been 28 days exactly (weird I know lol). We started TTC #2 this cycle, plan was to BD every day from CD 10 and hope we got lucky Worked with C and we're happy to do that this time for a while before charting "properly."

Anyhoo, I'm now up to CD 31 with no AF and still getting BFNs    Which is peeing me off because at least if AF arrived I would be closer to OVing next time

I don't really have a question I guess, just needed to get that off my chest! I'm still hoping (a little bit) that I might get a BFP at some point but with C I got one the day before AF was due...

Argh!

(and apologies to anyone who has been trying for ages. I know this probably seems really lame, but I really am confused about what's going on.)]]> Thu, 07 Jan 2010 18:45:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30827&PID=888748&title=impatient-and-frustrated#888748