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   <title><![CDATA[The vent thread : Dealing with your two kids on...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19697">Shelt</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 22 July 2012 at 7:45pm<br /><br />Dealing with your two kids on your own for 4 days does not mean you know what its like to be a solo mum. You talked to your husband every day, I don't have that kind of emotional support. I work 35+ hours a week, you work 5 hours a week. I do every single thing in my house, inside and out. You had the choice to leave it for when your husband got back, and I'm betting you didn't have to mow the lawns or put the rubbish out while he was away, and that you got a sleep in when he got back. It's not a competition and I'm not saying my life is harder than yours, all I'd like is a bit of empathy not a constant tirade on how its so much harder to be you coz you have a family to care for. <br /><br />Please don't tell me I'm lucky that I just have one kid, my child is lonely and just has me to talk to and play with, your kids at least have a mum and a dad and each other to play with. Often I am busy with work and chores and she has to wait. I would like nothing more than for my daughter to have a sibling and a family that all lives in one house.<br /><br />I am sick of feeling like you are belittling me for my battles to cope with keeping my little family on track, just because there is only me and my daughter. Please stop commenting and let me get on with my life.<br /><br />Whew, feels good to get that off my chest!]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[The vent thread : I agree with Kelly, don&amp;#039;t...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=41280">Hadlam</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 June 2012 at 11:26am<br /><br />I agree with Kelly, don't apologise thats what this threads for. Look after yourself tictac :)]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[The vent thread : Don&amp;#039;t apologise,its what...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24599">TheKelly</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 June 2012 at 12:26am<br /><br />Don't apologise,its what this thread was invented for,getting things off your chest that may be harder to say in person...It sounds like a very heartbreaking,frustrating situation for you,im sorry you're going through it  :-( ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24910">tictacjunkie</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 May 2012 at 10:48am<br /><br />Sorry that was a novel]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[The vent thread : ARRGGHH.   FFS mother get rid...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24910">tictacjunkie</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 May 2012 at 10:47am<br /><br />ARRGGHH. <br /><br />FFS mother get rid of your gay handbag and start turning to your own family for once. I really wish you would just get rid of him once and for all.<br /><br />He's a leech, only there for you when it suits him, he's a manipulative sulking gossiping back-stabbing bitch. WE are right here, WE CAN help, stop waa-ing you have no one to help you and then spurn our offers. Go on like he's the only person who's there for you but not let us know what's actually going on. Then come crying to us when he lets you down. <br /><br />Your grandchildren would really like to see you. They've already lost their Papa, it's not fair they should have to lose you too just because that drama queen thinks everyone and everything should revolve around him. How about you come and see us for once for longer than 30 mins, instead of rushing around to have "drinkies" with people, like seriously, you're 47, too old to put "ies" on the end of any word.<br /><br />Soooo sorry we're not cool enough for you, but someone in this family has got to be sensible and responsible.<br /><br />Just because we aren't in your face sooking all the time and demanding your attention doesn't mean we don't want to be involved. We're too busy picking up all the pieces all the time to let ourselves be sad for a bit.<br /><br />He has his own family, he can go see them, live with them, bludge off them. Your own family needs you.<br /><br />Stop listening to his empty words and pay attention to our actions. I'm sorry I'm not an emotional person, but really- WHO's responsible for that?!<br /><br />It's just not fair. We're doing all this for you, not for him to sh*t all over, what is he actually DOING that's productive? What has he done to actually make things better? Stand your ground for once. We're selling you a house that we've literally put blood, sweat and tears into for far less than it's worth to get you somewhere stable and secure and you say no one ever helps you?! At least be honest and just tell us what it is you actually want, rather than leaving us in financial, mental and emotional limbo. You'd better bloody not go putting him on the flipping title, I will refuse to sell to you and it will get messy.<br />GGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGRRRRRRRRAAAAAARGGHH  <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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   <pubDate>Thu, 31 May 2012 10:47:43 +0000</pubDate>
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   <title><![CDATA[The vent thread : I asked mum to let you know about...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=35580">redtulip</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 30 May 2012 at 9:22pm<br /><br />I asked mum to let you know about our 1st m/c and to explain that we were ok and to please not feel helpless living half way around the world. But after that you stopped emailing or sending photos of your son/our nephew.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br />Recently you've had your new baby and still no real communication... the couple of times I have phoned and spoken to you you're just strange, no other word for it!  When I spoke to your DW straight after your DS2 was born all she could say was how he was an ugly baby?! Was that supposed to make me feel better about you guys having him??! Mindblowing! I was expecting a exciting, cheerful catch up and instead I get that real doozy! <br />Why can't the two of you just act like normal? You are in constant contact with mum and dad, it hurts that you can't even just copy us in when you email them news and photos... you skype them every other weekend so I hear all your news second hand...you're our family idiot!<br />We've already lost enough without you guys cutting us off.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br /><br />Whew!  Such relief offloading that lot!  <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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   <pubDate>Wed, 30 May 2012 21:22:45 +0000</pubDate>
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   <title><![CDATA[The vent thread : Thanks Hadlam. ]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23622">fairy1</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 22 May 2012 at 8:35pm<br /><br />Thanks Hadlam. ]]>
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   <pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 20:35:04 +0000</pubDate>
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   <title><![CDATA[The vent thread : Hi Fairy1  TOTALLY TOTALLY understand...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=41280">Hadlam</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 22 May 2012 at 8:11pm<br /><br />Hi Fairy1<br /><br />TOTALLY TOTALLY understand the rant! Its amazing how a few of my friends manage to turn anything I say about myself into something about them and don't even listen to what I was initially talking about. <br /><br />Take care :)]]>
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   <pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 20:11:24 +0000</pubDate>
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   <title><![CDATA[The vent thread : If all you are going to do is...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23622">fairy1</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 21 May 2012 at 2:10pm<br /><br />If all you are going to do is complain then I really can't be bothered with any of you. Life doesn't revolve around you and friendship means listening to the other person, not just complaining about your life.<br />You: maybe there is a reason he's not proposing, just shut up about it to him and let him do it when he wants to and how he wants. Obviously complaining about it isn't helping. If you're worried about the cost of a wedding then stop travelling around NZ all the time spending loads of money and save it. By the end of the year you would have enough for a great wedding. You both earn plenty so stop complaining that you don't have enough money!!!!<br />You: You cut your daughters hair so short that it looks stupid and you say that you wanted it cut so short then don't get so upset when people tell you it look stupid. Stop complaining to me about every little thing that goes well. You know full well that I have a lot going on right now yet you always complain. Maybe thats why I'm avoiding you.<br />And you: Stop taking on everyones problems and stressing about it. People don't want to work with you cos you are being so annoying and helpless. Stop complaining when you don't do anything about it. You've dropped a day a week of work so shut up, deal with your own problems and stop stressing about everyone else who you can't help.<br /><br />To everyone that reads this, I'm not really this mean, I'm just over them constantly complaining about every little thing when I have stuff going on and when I do meet up with them I can't even talk about anything as they are so busy complaining about everything.]]>
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   <pubDate>Mon, 21 May 2012 14:10:52 +0000</pubDate>
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   <title><![CDATA[The vent thread : Argh, what a crappy crappy crappy...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=39436">ScaredyKat</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 18 May 2012 at 7:25pm<br /><br />Argh, what a crappy crappy crappy afternoon!!!!!!!!!!!!!  My 2 year old decided not to have a nap today.  Fine.  But then don't be a grumpy tantrum throwing crying monster the rest of the day!  Since he didn't sleep I let him watch Mickey Mouse for 20 min.  MISTAKE.  HUGE tantrum wanting MORE tv.  I wanted to go shopping before his dentist appt at 3.15pm, but would he put some pants on?  No.  Would he do ANYTHING I ask - NO!  Finally get him into the car, and FOOLISHLY think I can do the shopping in half an hour.  I might have been able to do it, had it not been for the old couple taking FOREVER at the checkout.  Who the hell pays by cheque these days??!!!  Got to the dentist 15 min so appt gone, had to make another.  Then late for my next appt at the Dr, while behind cars driving 25km an hour.  WHYYYYY do you need to drive so slow?!!!  Even if I have nowhere to be, you could drive NEAR the speed limit so the rest of us can get somewhere on time!  Luckily Dr was running late.  Get home and have to rush dinner as its already almost 5pm.  I give in and let DS watch Jungle Junction for 20 min while I cook so I can do it in peace.  Dinner cooked, tv goes off, and MASSIVE tantrum.  Won't sit in his seat, won't do anything, just screams and cries.  Eventually get him in to his seat and he barely eats.  After dinner he cries because his toys are cooperating and it soooooooooo grinds on my nerves.  Try to get him to bed early, but he procrastinates and plays up till I could scream <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0">  <br /><br />Oh and I have lost my sunglasses.  Pregnancy/mummy brain can't remember for the life of me WHERE I have left them.  Sooo angry <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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   <pubDate>Fri, 18 May 2012 19:25:52 +0000</pubDate>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23551">dino1</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 17 May 2012 at 8:50am<br /><br /><p>Breastfeeding your baby and not using a dummy is not a form of child abuse it doesn't make me a bad mother infact most would say it makes me a good mother, I don't care if Carly Finn's baby uses a dummy I am not her and this is how we raise our child and it is my child not yours you are a grandmother it is not your choice. You should be more worried that your son lets his wife metally abuse your grandson.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Well that feels better<img src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley17.gif" border="0"></p>]]>
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   <pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 08:50:20 +0000</pubDate>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=41280">Hadlam</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 14 May 2012 at 10:25pm<br /><br />If you are soooo sick you're going to complain all day don't come to work!! <br />If you feel you absolute must come in please don't stand coughing next to me all day and NOT put your hand over your mouth!! ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24935">blueberry</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 13 May 2012 at 11:30am<br /><br />Yeah I'll be 4 years out of the game if we stay here as long as intended which scares me a little as I worry will I be employable, I hope so. In my case I only earn half of what DH does buy still it's money and plenty of people make do with less than what I used to earn.  But it's a bitter pill to swallow. ]]>
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   <pubDate>Sun, 13 May 2012 11:30:21 +0000</pubDate>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20742">Delli</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 May 2012 at 4:09pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by blueberry" alt="Originally posted by blueberry" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>blueberry wrote:</strong><br /><br />I f**king hate living here! Yes this move is great for your career, but I'm totally screwed over, can't work in my profession as there is an over supply in this city and jobs cuts too and no child care in this f**king part of this god forsaken city anyway. The wait lists are 20 families long. No friends, no family and it's cold so hard to get out when you don't have a car and there are only so many places to walk to. I'm lonely and have not spoken to a real life person other than you since last Wednesday before Easter and those are people weren't even friends just randoms who go to the local play group. The last 4 months have been my own personal hell, I'm starting to go grey, did I mention I'm so f**king angry , I would have never agreed to this move if I knew what I know now. All of this does not make me a good mum, I'm doing a sh*t job of that too, I don't know what to do to fill our days at home alone.<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> And I'm finding it hard to cope with the toddler tantrums.</td></tr></table><br /><br />I know exactly how you feel <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley6.gif" border="0"> <br /><br />We moved. I left a job that I absolutely loved. Was supposed to be a great opportunity career-wise for the both of us. Instead, I have ended up a SAHM (something I never aspired to be longterm) and he is streaking ahead (promotions and awards) in his job. I try to feel happy that he loves his job and is doing so well. Sometimes I manage it. Other times, I just feel jealous and so f*cking angry all the time that I have made the sacrifices and have gotten nothing out of this move. I also would never have agreed to the move if I knew what I know now. We have agreed to stay here for another year as partner has another great promotion lined up for a months time. At the end of that year, it will have been three years since we moved. I don't know what I want anymore. If I choose to go with the same career as DP (what we originally planned), then I will be three years behind him and forever in his shadow. If I go back to the career that I have a degree for (we will have to move back to an area in which it is possible for me to do so), I will have been out of the workforce for three years and will essentially have to start back at the beginning. <br /><br />I hate this.<br /><span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Delli</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24935">blueberry</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 May 2012 at 3:32am<br /><br />Thanks AbzandH and epictraveller, we moved to Toronto and I'm slowly getting used to it, still hard but things are easier as we get set up. DD is in daycare on Mondays and Fridays so I'm getting a break and she's getting some social interaction rather than just spending all her time with me and DH. The weather is warming up so it's easier to get out and about. I'm also getting used to it being alone. ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=32787">epictraveller</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 16 April 2012 at 8:32pm<br /><br />Hugs here too. Where have you moved to? Is there a mum's and bub's group you can join to meet some other mum's? Hope things look up soon.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24048">AbzandH</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 13 April 2012 at 11:42am<br /><br />Hugs blueberry <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley6.gif" border="0"> xx]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24935">blueberry</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 13 April 2012 at 11:22am<br /><br />I f**king hate living here! Yes this move is great for your career, but I'm totally screwed over, can't work in my profession as there is an over supply in this city and jobs cuts too and no child care in this f**king part of this god forsaken city anyway. The wait lists are 20 families long. No friends, no family and it's cold so hard to get out when you don't have a car and there are only so many places to walk to. I'm lonely and have not spoken to a real life person other than you since last Wednesday before Easter and those are people weren't even friends just randoms who go to the local play group. The last 4 months have been my own personal hell, I'm starting to go grey, did I mention I'm so f**king angry , I would have never agreed to this move if I knew what I know now. All of this does not make me a good mum, I'm doing a sh*t job of that too, I don't know what to do to fill our days at home alone.<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> And I'm finding it hard to cope with the toddler tantrums.<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by blueberry</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24048">AbzandH</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 06 April 2012 at 10:42am<br /><br />ARGH do you really have to ruin every single holiday and birthday for us??? Looking forward to a nice relaxing long weekend and the first thing we both get this morning is a text from you! Grrrrr just leave us alone already!!!!!! A text about the weather is NOT going to make up for all the damage you have done!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17625">IVFGirl1111</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 04 April 2012 at 10:16am<br /><br />Some people are SO friggen upthemselves!!! Seriously get a life - everyone can see through you!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=41098">LuckyRed</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 04 April 2012 at 5:44am<br /><br />Damn you jet lag!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22440">escadachic</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 02 April 2012 at 10:25pm<br /><br />OMG!  Just stop taking things the wrong way already!  Argh!!!<br /><br />You are reading WAY too much into things and seeing things that are simply not there.  You are going to make yourself miserable if you don't stop this crap!  <br /><br />Vent over <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=32787">epictraveller</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 26 February 2012 at 7:09pm<br /><br />DH. I know you want to be UTD. I want to be too. But let's not tell everybody we know, eh!! Especially when you get drunk. When you get upset cos you want to drink again soon and I'm say no, I'm not being a b*tch, I'm simply safeguarding our sanity and protecting us from months of people asking us if we are UTD.<br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=36455">Stoked</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 25 February 2012 at 8:18pm<br /><br />That sounds like my MIL frankie.<br /><br />And on the subject of MIL - stop being a jealous old bitch. We're not only entitled to have lives, we're entitled to live them the way we like, with the people we like.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23966">frankie</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 25 February 2012 at 8:02pm<br /><br />Do you have a radar for detecting when it is the worst possible time to call? Why do you have to ring up just when we've put DD to sleep and DH is cooking me dinner?]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24048">AbzandH</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 28 January 2012 at 12:23pm<br /><br />He's crying and upset because whenever you're home you never spend time with him, and when he comes to see what you're doing you get pissed off and want him out of the way, get it through your thick bloody head!!!!! He sleeps 2 hours every avo and from 7 every night giving you PLENTY of time to get everything you need to get done. Give the poor kid some attention!!!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23622">fairy1</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 24 January 2012 at 8:47pm<br /><br />Why are you causing so many problems. Can't you just do your job and stop making things harder for some of us. Please <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19544">GuestGuest</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 January 2012 at 4:52pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Bowie" alt="Originally posted by Bowie" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Bowie wrote:</strong><br /><br />You're a single mum on a benefit WHY are you planning another baby? Gahhhhhhhhhhh</td></tr></table><br /><br />This is the kind of chick who would complain that John Key sucks because he isn't paying her enough money to live on!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=37666">Tissy</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 January 2012 at 4:42pm<br /><br />edited to remove double post.<br />computer spaz/505 error double posted it<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by EmptyVessel</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=37666">Tissy</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 January 2012 at 4:26pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Bowie" alt="Originally posted by Bowie" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Bowie wrote:</strong><br /><br />You're a single mum on a benefit WHY are you planning another baby? Gahhhhhhhhhhh</td></tr></table><br /><br />addition:<br />why the fark are you planning a 2nd kid??? you complain about living pay to pay and paying 40% of your income into rent and you cant afford $400 of car repairs and refuse to cancel mysky and yet you STILL want another baby]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20864">Limochick</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 January 2012 at 9:34pm<br /><br />I made the kids bday party on a bloody sunday just so you could come up on your long weekend and now you can't come!!  I even talked dates argh it's not like there birthday changes dates every year.  God sometimes inlaws peeve me off <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22440">escadachic</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 January 2012 at 9:07pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Bowie" alt="Originally posted by Bowie" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Bowie wrote:</strong><br /><br />You're a single mum on a benefit WHY are you planning another baby? Gahhhhhhhhhhh</td></tr></table><br /><br />Is she avoiding getting a job do you think?<br /><br />I don't know her, but I know some people do that.  Have another baby so they don't have to work and can collect more DPB.<br /><br />I used to be a single mum and on the DPB and I went back to work as soon as it was realistic.  So it's not a judgement on single mum's at all.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19714">Plushie</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 January 2012 at 7:10pm<br /><br />You're a single mum on a benefit WHY are you planning another baby? Gahhhhhhhhhhh ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=32234">SethsMama</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 January 2012 at 4:18pm<br /><br />yeah Fack Him!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=39274">Ducky101</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 January 2012 at 3:13pm<br /><br />How dare you! How dare you call me the weaker one? "you are the woman, look after the house" " you r too soft to handle interviewing these people " so your sisters better? Please<br /><br />Ok, honey... Please! Weak? Fack you! I could have a full time, demanding as job AND still take care of every aspect of the house! And work overtime. I go to hospital for 2 days and u couldnt even do the friggen dishes! Not even make the bed!!!!! Now i appreciate you work hard and u have an amazing business mind. But im not going to sit at home all day and u tell me i cant have a hobby i get paid for. Thanks for kicking me out of the office u egg! I need to do things too. Its not like ur sister has a good job history and she knows nothing about our business. Yes.. OUR business! Who helped u set it up u selfish ass?]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22270">naysgirl</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 January 2012 at 3:06pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by SethsMama" alt="Originally posted by SethsMama" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>SethsMama wrote:</strong><br /><br />guess this is the place for this...<br /><br />walking past the supermarket on the first nice day in ages, having an awesome morning, loving the sun!<br />Someone pulls up and tells me to cover my sons legs please as he was getting sun on them. I kinda politely say thanks and walk on, only to have them follow me and tell me the importance of it, and how they are always telling their granddaughter to cover her child up in the sun.<br /><br />I may have been nice about it and kept going but really F**K you! It's hot, my son is wearing sun screen, wearing a sunhat and shorts BECAUSE it's HOT!! I'm not going to cover him up to excess just because you think I'm letting him get sunburnt or something. I didn't ask for your help, don't assume the worst when you don't even know me! <br /><br />GRRRRRR!!!!<br /><br />ETA: spelling <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley12.gif" border="0"></td></tr></table><br /><br />That would peeve me off too. So interfering!! Thats what sunscreen is for!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=32234">SethsMama</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 January 2012 at 2:27pm<br /><br />I know right! I can't believe they thought they weren't out of line FOLLOWING me!<br /><br />On a side note....40 weeks Hopes!! Bet your not enjoying this heat as much as the rest of us <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20418">Hopes</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 January 2012 at 2:24pm<br /><br />Grrr indeed!!!! Some people! And what's with not letting the poor wee thing get some air on his legs on a hot day?! <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley5.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=32234">SethsMama</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 January 2012 at 2:08pm<br /><br />guess this is the place for this...<br /><br />walking past the supermarket on the first nice day in ages, having an awesome morning, loving the sun!<br />Someone pulls up and tells me to cover my sons legs please as he was getting sun on them. I kinda politely say thanks and walk on, only to have them follow me and tell me the importance of it, and how they are always telling their granddaughter to cover her child up in the sun.<br /><br />I may have been nice about it and kept going but really F**K you! It's hot, my son is wearing sun screen, wearing a sunhat and shorts BECAUSE it's HOT!! I'm not going to cover him up to excess just because you think I'm letting him get sunburnt or something. I didn't ask for your help, don't assume the worst when you don't even know me! <br /><br />GRRRRRR!!!!<br /><br />ETA: spelling <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley12.gif" border="0"> <span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by SethsMama</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=36455">Stoked</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 20 December 2011 at 10:16am<br /><br />You're unprofessional and you've behaved unethically and immorally. F*** me if you don't fit in a loop hole in the law. <br /><br />I hope you get everything coming to you and then some for screwing me over.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=10154">fattartsrock</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 19 December 2011 at 8:16pm<br /><br />What fricken eva.<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24048">AbzandH</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 16 December 2011 at 12:11pm<br /><br />So bloody over morning/all day sickness!!! Oh and if you're going to take the monitor for the night, FFS get up when he wakes up!!! Grrrrrr]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=36455">Stoked</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 15 December 2011 at 7:10pm<br /><br />Oh Fairy, are you ok hun?]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23622">fairy1</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 15 December 2011 at 5:02pm<br /><br />Why <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=39274">Ducky101</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 15 December 2011 at 1:59pm<br /><br />Oh stupid confusion and doupt go away and leave me alone<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=12584">EmDee</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 15 December 2011 at 5:37am<br /><br />1. Quit b!tching about it and DO something, it's been almost 2 years now and I'm sick of hearing about it!!<br /><br />2. No-one else can do it for you. YOU have to make the change, so just do it already!<br /><br />3. Yes, if you put your fingers in your mouth and bite, it is going to hurt! Stop doing it!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20132">Troods</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 14 December 2011 at 7:29pm<br /><br />argh you are so frustrating I just want to slap some sense into you, you stupid man.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=10278">james</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 December 2011 at 6:53am<br /><br />why do people treat me this way spose i shoulnt be surprised they have done it before it just hurts<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22747">snugglebug</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 December 2011 at 10:31pm<br /><br />Argh why is this relationship so tough lately! I feel like we're just fighting and being annoyed then making up and resolving to be better in this way and that way then going round and doing it again. Why do kids change everything? Why can't we go back to how it was before? No one tells you hwo hard things will be when you have a baby! Or is it just us who finds it this hard?]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22440">escadachic</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 09 December 2011 at 8:09pm<br /><br />Oh sucky babykatnz <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley6.gif" border="0"> <br /><br />Happy Birthday though.  You deserve better treatment then that! ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20541">DzinerGirl</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 09 December 2011 at 8:03pm<br /><br />screw you cancer]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18063">T_Rex</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 09 December 2011 at 7:06pm<br /><br />Aww happy birthday babykatz! <br /><br />i want the gorge to open!! Stupid slip.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19501">Babykatnz</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 09 December 2011 at 6:26pm<br /><br />All I wanted was a $3-4 flucking cake (I make everyone elses birthday cakes, highly doubt anyone in this house would/could return that favour)... Guess even that small gesture was asking too much for my birthday but its alright for you to come home, announce you've had a bad day (gee, want to swap and deal with 2 grumpy, post-jabs kids!?) then walk across the road and buy yourself 1/2 a dozen woodstocks.. yet you couldnt afford to even buy a cheap mudcake from supermarket... arse.<br /><br />Then you leave in a foul mood this morning cos apprently IM in the wrong here?! There had better be a cake following the text apology I got today <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> <br /><br />Didnt even get a card <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=27198">jamsta</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 07 December 2011 at 4:40pm<br /><br />grrrrr EQC you keep moving the goalposts and now we are back where we started. Just frickin buy our house off us or something ffs]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22440">escadachic</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 December 2011 at 6:05pm<br /><br /><img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> Ducky101 <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"><br /><br />You so shouldn't have to put up with that!  Friggen males!  That's why we love to hate them <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=39274">Ducky101</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 December 2011 at 12:05pm<br /><br />AAAAARRRRRGGGGGG!!!<br /><br />Dear Husband I love you... but seriously, you have known for a whole YEAR what week our honeymoon is (having had to cancel it last new years/xmas because you were too busy) you WILL NOT and i repeat WILL NOT cancel it this time! My parents didnt pay for week at a 5 star resort for us just to turn is down two years in a row!<br /><br />You have known we are going, our friends and family are all busy too and they cannot look after our puppy when we go. We have to put him in a kennel. "no im not paying for it, why cant your parents??" <br /><br />ARRRGGG U egg!<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> its always about your and your stupid scheduel! <br />We cant neuter our puppy cuz according to you its costs too much. So my solution - lets use HALF that money and put him in kennels. and what do you say?? "I cant. I'm not paying that much" YET you dont mind getting pissed in the weekends and spending $100s on extra food and snacks we DONT NEED!!!! <br /><br /><br /><br /><br />fack you<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Ducky101</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=36455">Stoked</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 02 December 2011 at 7:50am<br /><br />I don't know what the hell you do or don't do except for failing to follow our routine but my son never sleeps well after you've looked after him.<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> <br /><br />And as for you, I work, I'm pregnant and I am still getting up to all our sons wake ups, I damn well know which nights are worse than others!<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20742">Delli</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 30 November 2011 at 3:20pm<br /><br />Just feckin argh.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17625">IVFGirl1111</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 30 November 2011 at 2:35pm<br /><br />I know life isn't fair, but this whole TTC thing sucks balls and is just unfair.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20132">Troods</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 30 November 2011 at 2:25pm<br /><br />I miss being a SAHM.  This whole going to work thing doesn't agree with me anymore.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24048">AbzandH</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 29 November 2011 at 8:18pm<br /><br />Don't touch the belly!!!! Anyone!!! grrr]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24599">TheKelly</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 29 November 2011 at 7:29pm<br /><br />BOOOORING BORING BOOOORING]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17430">mummy_becks</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 09 November 2011 at 2:07pm<br /><br /><P align=left>Stop contracting, you have no need to do it so stop. I can't wait for you and your friend the ovary to go in January. I will not be sad when you are out of my body.</P>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19501">Babykatnz</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 03 November 2011 at 1:40pm<br /><br />Grrr... I get up early (before either of the kids have woken up), bake cookies, clean my house... for ONE person to turn up... and the 3 who said they would come, never showed up.... I could have slept IN! Grrr <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18996">_Deb_</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 03 November 2011 at 11:14am<br /><br />Why can't people just do what they say they WILL and not lie about why they're not going to after all.<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> <span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by _Deb_</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24599">TheKelly</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 02 November 2011 at 9:50pm<br /><br />same..is that Jordan? I thought he was a girl for ages till I facebook stalked him haha,not that it makes any difference,they cant see anything but what they want to see...some of their narrowminded views are very hard to imagine anyone having ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24048">AbzandH</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 02 November 2011 at 5:53pm<br /><br />Haha yep totally agree!!! I like how that guy has jumped in with a few comments... good on him!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24599">TheKelly</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 02 November 2011 at 3:26pm<br /><br />Well...I hope you know she is dead wrong! ask any mother of more than one child.<br /><br />Sounds to me like shes jealous hun! <br /><br />Abz (shortened your name ;-) ) ha,I know...same here,I can't stop reading it either,even though I think most of them are narrow minded people who only try and understand what they want to understand.<br />The debates can be quite amusing at times...<br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19293">rachelsea</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 02 November 2011 at 1:40pm<br /><br /><img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley3.gif" border="0"> that's a horrible thing to say!!! I hope she never has children <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley5.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17772">minik8e</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 02 November 2011 at 12:18pm<br /><br />Good golly.  What an evil witch to say something as ridiculous as that.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25281">Isabella</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 02 November 2011 at 11:12am<br /><br />OMG Evelyn that's terrible!!! ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17971">sunnyhoney</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 02 November 2011 at 10:22am<br /><br /><img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley3.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley3.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley3.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley3.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley3.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=37281">Evelyn4409</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 02 November 2011 at 10:16am<br /><br />I went out for Melbourne Cup festivities yesterday. Apparently everyone judges you if you are a pregnant walking around a bar. Too many people are of the opinion "shouldn't you be at home knitting booties?". By the end of it, I ended up going home after nearly punching some stupid b!tch in the nose. <br />Her comment...and I quote..."You're c*** is going to be totally ruined after you squeeze that bastard out. Your man is never gonna want you again...you may as well just go home and hang yourself..." <br /><br />So not really a good night over-all.  ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24048">AbzandH</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 02 November 2011 at 8:33am<br /><br />Grrrrr people like that really get up my nose!! What were to happen if their 13yr old gets raped and pregnant, u sure they would want her to go through with the pregnancy and birth?? I think they are pretty narrow minded people on that page!! Seriously can't stop reading it though!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24599">TheKelly</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 01 November 2011 at 11:33pm<br /><br />Lol Jen,its "we can end abortion" <br />And for the record I have nothing against pro lifers,that doesn't bother me....its when I see comments such as<br /> "If a girl is raped and gets pregnant that is no reason not to keep the baby,its not the babies fault,and anyway if a girl is raped its probably her fault for not defending herself better " <br /><br />that make me mad.What a thoughtless thing to say ! ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=36455">Stoked</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 01 November 2011 at 6:23pm<br /><br />Yes, you have a key to my home BUT, it is not to just let yourself in. Knock or use the bloody doorbell, that's why they're there!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=38115">Gen2011</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 01 November 2011 at 2:51pm<br /><br />ohh kelly you have me curious lol I want to see this facebook page!<br /><br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24599">TheKelly</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 October 2011 at 3:06pm<br /><br />WHY do I have to share the same planet with such small minded people ?It actually astounds me that people could even think the sorts of things you do,sickens me in fact...but I can't stop looking at the FaceBook page where the comments reside...curiosity gets the better of me every time....<br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24048">AbzandH</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 October 2011 at 7:28am<br /><br />Good on you blossombaby!! I would do the same, but he wouldn't take the initiative to take them out and hang them! Grrrr!!! Over males right now!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23563">blossombaby</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 30 October 2011 at 10:19pm<br /><br />i totally hear you on the weekend thing!! <br />Grrrrrrr! Even tho I work all week i spend what feels like all weekend tidying up catching up on washing etc and he moans "its the weekend i want to relax and don't want to do jobs" well no clothes for you tomorrow egg they are wet in the washing machine - on PURPOSE! <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley17.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24048">AbzandH</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 29 October 2011 at 10:45am<br /><br />Bloody hell it's not just YOUR weekend!!! Yes you work hard all week and I get that but do you think our son takes care of himself all day?? Do you think this baby in my belly doesn't suck the life out of me?? And do you think I enjoy spending my whole "weekend" cleaning because you have something to say about every little tiny thing not done around the place??? Get off your ass and leave the gym alone for 2 whole days IT WON'T KILL YOU!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=32715">minipig</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 20 October 2011 at 11:42am<br /><br />Money - you suck!!!!!!<br />Also car - you suck for costing me so much money!!!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=27157">....</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 19 October 2011 at 10:24pm<br /><br />It's lovely that you all want to play with DS, but I still exist :(]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23078">Jelly</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 18 October 2011 at 1:32pm<br /><br />FFFFFUUUUUUUUUU<br /><br />Why can't it be easy for once?! I'm so f***ing sick of crying over this.<br /><br />BE REASONABLE, YOU ASS.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20581">fallen</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 18 October 2011 at 12:15pm<br /><br />Stupid cancer!!  Leave my friends alone!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=27728">PorterLou</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 15 October 2011 at 6:36pm<br /><br />I appreciate that you're busy.  I know you are sick.  I know the world cup is on and the bar is busy and you're working long hours and your bro doesn't know everything to take over and you're tired and they're drilling during the day so you don't sleep.<br /><br />But...  I am also busy, studying, working full time, helping out when its busy and trying to do as much as I can at home so you don't have to worry about stuff.  It would be nice if you were able to a) say thank you for helping b) make me a cup of tea every now and then c) ask me how I am and d) GET OFF THE COUCH AND PRETEND YOU CARE!!<br /><br />Oh, and don't tell me you want kids soon and then not make out with me at all.<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by PorterLou</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23050">kodasmum</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 October 2011 at 3:49pm<br /><br />Argh!  I just want a darn answer as to why my DD2 still has a cough, esp as it's been 7 and a half weeks since we first saw the doctors and every test has not come back with a defintive answer.  Now more test and x-rays need to be done.  Im just over this]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=32787">epictraveller</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 04 October 2011 at 9:32am<br /><br />Argh!! Just found out my mother who I haven't spoken to in coming up two years has sold the house and moved. I know that I'm overseas but it might have been nice if she could have arranged for all the stuff of mine that is still at her house to be taken somewhere for me when I get back! Now because nobody has told me you moved, I don't know if she has thrown everything out of mine from the first 20 odd years of my life or if its waiting for me when I get back!!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22440">escadachic</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 03 October 2011 at 6:37pm<br /><br />Can I for once be the person who gets something back?!  Is that too much to ask of my friends?...<br /><br />I do all the giving, driving and put in ALL the effort when you need me.  But when I'm in need, do I get any visitors?...NO!<br /><br />I don't really like to complain and I do things because I care and I'm kind.  But gee, I think I deserve some effort from some of you, considering all I do for you guys!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25281">Isabella</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 03 October 2011 at 4:33pm<br /><br />You are a selfish, self-centered a*s*h*l* who had just dumped our poor mum right in it all because your life has become too stressed... Pfft for you.  Shame you wont get to know your grandkids - not that that seems to bother you.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22592">Nothing</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 03 October 2011 at 2:05pm<br /><br />RAIN GO AWAY <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20581">fallen</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 03 October 2011 at 1:56pm<br /><br />You're not his doctor.  DO NOT tell him to stop taking his medication!!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=10154">fattartsrock</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 02 October 2011 at 8:41pm<br /><br />You are a dick.  I wish you would sod off.<br /><br />You are nothing but thick stupid white trash, you can sod off too.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24910">tictacjunkie</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 01 October 2011 at 11:20pm<br /><br />Stupid unreliable under-invested national grid, I wanted my husband home this evening, not out in the cold working by himself in some scary old substation!<br />Oh and go away stupid tummy-rota-noro-whatsit-virus!!! Think you've spent enough time at my house! <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley11.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=26235">nicolariley</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 30 September 2011 at 11:34am<br /><br />why would I be 'grumpy' you stuck up old cow?- Just coz Im moving house with a cold, a ten month old with a chest infection who refuses to sleep, and a partner who has to work-Sorry if Im not all smiles -how inconvient for you!!!!!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19705">Blankney94</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 29 September 2011 at 11:17pm<br /><br /><P align=left>First ever vent.&nbsp; Pulled in to petrol station.&nbsp; No free pumps.&nbsp; Line up behind a lady getting the last drop into her tank.&nbsp; She walks towards the shop, but then veers in the direction of the forecourt attendant who looks like a friend and starts yakking.&nbsp;<IMG src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> A car pulls out of the pump beside me, but another car shoots straight off the road and into the gap.&nbsp; <IMG src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"></P><P align=left>Go back to queueing behind gossip woman again.&nbsp; Finally I've had enough and let her know "I'm waiting, shift your arse into the shop and pay&nbsp;for your petrol" (in nicer words).</P><P align=left>Finally after 10mins another pump became free.&nbsp; As I went in to pay, gossip woman was still mucking around at the counter getting the staff to look up phone numbers for her.&nbsp; <IMG src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley29.gif" border="0"><IMG src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0">&nbsp; Farq some people are from a different planet.</P><P align=left>And I wonder why I never use that station unless it is absolutely necessary.&nbsp; </P>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23621">KiwiAtHeart</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 29 September 2011 at 11:09am<br /><br />OMG i give up on trying to keep my furniture clean. These kids are masters at covering it with food, and dirt and everything in between. It is such a b*tch to take all 15 covers off the couch and wash them then put them back on. ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=21590">jazzy</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 26 September 2011 at 7:33pm<br /><br />oh get over yourself, its not all about you all the time...think you need to be brought down to earth ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22440">escadachic</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 26 September 2011 at 3:45pm<br /><br />My vent.<br /><br />PMS I HATE YOU!!! <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> <span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by escadachic</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=21518">NewPhoenix</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 25980<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 26 September 2011 at 8:59am<br /><br />agreed fairy1]]>
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