https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sun, 12 Apr 2026 06:20:18 +0000 Fri, 23 Jan 2009 23:05:16 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 11.10 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=23880 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=596081&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#596081 Author: Bobbie
Subject: 23880
Posted: 23 January 2009 at 11:05pm

Grrr Dayna people who spout that are as bad as the ones who tell you that miscarriages are 'probably for the best'


to all of you.]]> Fri, 23 Jan 2009 23:05:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=596081&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#596081 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=596063&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#596063 Author: JadeC
Subject: 23880
Posted: 23 January 2009 at 10:38pm

Fingers crossed!!

We're not even onto our second yet, still trying for the first! This is our 14th month, so it def sucks when it takes so long.]]> Fri, 23 Jan 2009 22:38:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=596063&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#596063 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=595342&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#595342 Author: 2boysnbug
Subject: 23880
Posted: 23 January 2009 at 8:55am

Thanks for all of that ladies- i have been ovulating for the last day or two so am crossing my fingers (and not my legs LOL) that this month will work out- if not i have told my husband that i am not even going to chart anymore and let what will be happen. Thanks heaps for your support and GOOD LUCK too everyone. will love to see ya in the Due forums real soon]]> Fri, 23 Jan 2009 08:55:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=595342&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#595342 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=594727&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#594727 Author: buzzydaisy
Subject: 23880
Posted: 22 January 2009 at 2:15pm

Hate to add doom and gloom but we have been trying for 3 years and 4 mths.
I have managed to concieve twice but they did not stick.
I have a wonderful little boy but he is starting to get only child syndrome. People say "you should e happy you have 1 already, but I really dont feel like our family is complete yet.

We will keep tryng, hopefully one will stick soon

Good luck, hope you get a BFP real soon. ]]> Thu, 22 Jan 2009 14:15:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=594727&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#594727 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=593014&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#593014 Author: myfullhouse
Subject: 23880
Posted: 20 January 2009 at 6:50pm

A friend had accupuncture and she said it helped her conceive so I hope it works out for you too]]> Tue, 20 Jan 2009 18:50:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=593014&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#593014 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=592989&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#592989 Author: kriss
Subject: 23880
Posted: 20 January 2009 at 6:32pm

No advice i'm sorry as I also only have one baby but and good luck! x]]> Tue, 20 Jan 2009 18:32:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=592989&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#592989 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=592895&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#592895 Author: Limochick
Subject: 23880
Posted: 20 January 2009 at 4:53pm

I just wanted to wish you luck and I hope that you get your BFP soon .

We are trying for my 3rd child and nothing has been happening so I totally understand where you are coming from, I really didn't want a huge age gap either but my youngest son is going to be 5 in July.]]> Tue, 20 Jan 2009 16:53:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=592895&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#592895 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=592884&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#592884 Author: 2boysnbug
Subject: 23880
Posted: 20 January 2009 at 4:42pm

hi ya- yeah we have had some tests done before Jackson was born. i was ovulating okish and so was my husbands sperm... nothing to rave on but there was sufficient amount there. i have started acupuncture to try and conceive again. maybe its stress but so hard not to think about dates etc when you want a baby!]]> Tue, 20 Jan 2009 16:42:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=592884&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#592884 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=592601&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#592601 Author: LouD
Subject: 23880
Posted: 20 January 2009 at 12:29pm

Hey JDs Mum

Big Hugs

Sounds to me like you have secondary infertility. Not sure exactly what that means but apparently its really common.

Ive been trying for number 3 for 12months now but my dilemma is because i was taking Depo as a contraceptive hence why its taking so long.

Have you been to the docs? I am about to get bloods done to find out a few things.

My son is turning 5 this year and i didnt want to have such a big gap (as big as the 9 years with my first and him) but since its taking so long to get preg, the gap is getting bigger and bigger...........and its driving me nuts............
My second took me 6 weeks to concieve and my first 6 months, so this is all a whole new game for me to have to WAIT

this site is great for info on why and how to help things along, Im learning so much about how it all works

Good luck, hope it happens real soon for you

Edited by Chickielou]]> Tue, 20 Jan 2009 12:29:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=592601&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#592601 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=592592&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#592592 Author: myfullhouse
Subject: 23880
Posted: 20 January 2009 at 12:18pm

Sorry I am not much help as we were very lucky to get pg quickly both times. Before we started TTC #2 I asked the same question and got alot of mixed results, some got pg quickly the first time and took ages with #2, others were the opposite.
Good luck ]]> Tue, 20 Jan 2009 12:18:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=592592&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#592592 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=592563&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#592563 Author: VioletStar
Subject: 23880
Posted: 20 January 2009 at 11:53am

Didn't want to lurk and run....

So just wanted to give you big !
I'm still working on our first, but I'm sure someone will be here soon that could offer some advice ]]> Tue, 20 Jan 2009 11:53:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=592563&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#592563 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=592556&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#592556 Author: 2boysnbug
Subject: 23880
Posted: 20 January 2009 at 11:44am

We have a two year old son but have been trying to get pregnant for 18 months... how long has it taken for others to fall pregnant with their second child? it did take 18 months to fall preggers with 1st child thats why we havent sought help till now ]]> Tue, 20 Jan 2009 11:44:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23880&PID=592556&title=2nd-child-desperately-wanted#592556