OHbaby! Forums : I’m feeling very sorry for myself https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 11 Apr 2026 07:38:07 +0000 Thu, 01 Jan 2009 17:47:45 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 11.10 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=22901 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Hi Fallen, I have just been reading...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=576301&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#576301 Author: brixey
Subject: 22901
Posted: 01 January 2009 at 5:47pm

Hi Fallen, I have just been reading your thread too and wondering how things are going. Is DF back home yet? I think the decisions you made about the internet and SKY are sound. We quit SKY almost 2 years ago and do not miss it at all.
Do you work in a pharmacy? I wondered with your comment about methadone clients hooking up together. I work in a field where I see people who really shoudnt be breeding having kids at the drop of a hat. I work with mostly men and they get very upset when we come across mistreated children.
Its a new year so a good time for a new start and outlook on life - I hope DF comes back and treats you with the love and lust you deserve. Hugs! ]]> Thu, 01 Jan 2009 17:47:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=576301&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#576301 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Hi Fallen - have just read over...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=575059&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#575059 Author: monkey33
Subject: 22901
Posted: 30 December 2008 at 10:40am

Hi Fallen - have just read over your thread and it is great to hear that he has realised how good he has it with you! Just be strong when he gets home and still change your passwords etc so that he can't buy extra time on the computer to avoid him falling back into the same pattern.

Good luck! ]]> Tue, 30 Dec 2008 10:40:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=575059&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#575059 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Yay he comes back today! Hes...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=574926&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#574926 Author: fallen
Subject: 22901
Posted: 30 December 2008 at 7:29am

Yay he comes back today!

Hes had a few awakenings while hes been away which is probably the best thing that could have happened.

Hes discovered that he really missed me and has made the decision to work harder on our relationship. He even said last night that he needs me in his life. His libido seems to have returned to that of a normal 21 year old without the constant distraction/obsession of the computer. He even said that having a baby with me, the person he loves is very important to him.

So heres hoping he can keep all this up! I am looking forward to him arriving home.]]> Tue, 30 Dec 2008 07:29:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=574926&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#574926 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : hahahaha I love!! karma ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=570992&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#570992 Author: tiptoes
Subject: 22901
Posted: 20 December 2008 at 8:21am

hahahaha I love!! karma ]]> Sat, 20 Dec 2008 08:21:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=570992&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#570992 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Well my friend&#039;s surgery...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=570982&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#570982 Author: fallen
Subject: 22901
Posted: 20 December 2008 at 7:52am

Well my friend's surgery went well. They didn't have to remove her whole breast. Just the lumps and the lymph nodes on that side. We went to see her yesterday and she was in good spirits and without any pain which was awesome. She has another night or possibly two before shes allowed to go home.

DF arrived safely in Aussie. The funny thing is hes absolutely hating it there. He says the house is a pigsty. Rubbish everywhere, no clean dishes in the house and a mountain of laundry on the floor in the wash house. They haven't organised anywhere for him to sleep so hes sleeping on the couch at the moment. Today some other people arrive so he'll have to give up the couch to them. From then on he'll probably end up on the floor in his brother's room. Thing is you can't see the floor in brother's room at the moment. He is counting the days till he comes home. I guess hes discovered the grass isn't greener on the other side of the ditch. ]]> Sat, 20 Dec 2008 07:52:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=570982&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#570982 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Oh fallen it sounds like a rough...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=568554&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#568554 Author: tiptoes
Subject: 22901
Posted: 17 December 2008 at 8:26am

Oh fallen it sounds like a rough day for you I'm glad things improved with DF before he left, especially the name calling. Hopefully you'll be having such a good time you'll hardly miss him!

I hope your friend's surgery goes well, that must be pretty scary.]]> Wed, 17 Dec 2008 08:26:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=568554&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#568554 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Well tomorrow is D day. DF leaves...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=568544&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#568544 Author: fallen
Subject: 22901
Posted: 17 December 2008 at 7:48am

Well tomorrow is D day.

DF leaves here at 3am. His flight is early tomorrow morning.

And my close friend has to be at the hospital at midday for surgery to remove her breast cancer.

I have to work, I'm going to find it hard I think.]]> Wed, 17 Dec 2008 07:48:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=568544&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#568544 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : hugs for you Fallen, Im pleased...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=564520&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#564520 Author: Crakleys
Subject: 22901
Posted: 11 December 2008 at 3:29pm

hugs for you Fallen, Im pleased it's getting better for you xxxx]]> Thu, 11 Dec 2008 15:29:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=564520&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#564520 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Well things are a bit better now....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=564016&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#564016 Author: fallen
Subject: 22901
Posted: 11 December 2008 at 7:48am

Well things are a bit better now. Hes layed off the name calling, hostility and late nights after reading this thread.

Hes still doing bare minimum around the house, but nothing new there. Only a week until he heads off to Aussie.

I have decided there will be some changes in place for when he comes back. I will be changing my broadband plan and password so he can't buy extra time when he uses it all. I will be cancelling sky movies and possibly putting sky on hold for a couple of months. Though that might be punishing DD and myself a bit much. She likes her Disney channel and I like Casulty, Holby City and the WWE programmes.

I know I complained about him alot, but its never been all bad. He makes me laugh like no other person and when the mood takes him can be the most tender loving man. Urgh I'm getting all teary eyed lol.

Thank you ladies for your support. Its awesome to have somewhere to just unload.]]> Thu, 11 Dec 2008 07:48:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=564016&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#564016 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : no advice, just wanted to say...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=563238&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#563238 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 22901
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 11:06am

no advice, just wanted to say Im sorry your'e having such a rough time of it , I really hope things start looking up for you in the new year .
Im appalled at your DFs attitude to you , thats really not on , i hope he sees some sense soon !

as for life being unfair, it sure is , especially Ive found when it comes to how easy it is for people who don't appreciate their kids to concieve, and how difficult it is for people who would be such loving parents to concieve ]]> Wed, 10 Dec 2008 11:06:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=563238&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#563238 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Maybe downgrade to a 1GB plan...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=562810&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#562810 Author: tiptoes
Subject: 22901
Posted: 09 December 2008 at 8:41pm

Maybe downgrade to a 1GB plan or something then it will slow down automatically and he'll have no choice but to limit his usage. ]]> Tue, 09 Dec 2008 20:41:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=562810&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#562810 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Aww Hun that sucks You are...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=562002&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#562002 Author: WestiesGirl
Subject: 22901
Posted: 08 December 2008 at 10:10pm

Aww Hun that sucks
You are very patient to put up with that. I wouldnt be putting up with it and I'd be kicking him out!!!
I hope it gets better soon hun ]]> Mon, 08 Dec 2008 22:10:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=562002&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#562002 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Hugs to you, gosh you have a lot...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=561765&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#561765 Author: caliandjack
Subject: 22901
Posted: 08 December 2008 at 5:49pm

Hugs to you, gosh you have a lot on your plate.
Is DF looking for another job? If you stopped supporting him what would he do?
Those computer games can get really addictive, have you asked him to limit his usage?

Yup your DF should be helping out more, and being supportive of you and DD. ]]> Mon, 08 Dec 2008 17:49:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=561765&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#561765 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Have to say, if I was in you&#039;re...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=561676&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#561676 Author: yermasyada
Subject: 22901
Posted: 08 December 2008 at 4:10pm

Have to say, if I was in you're shoes, I wouldn't be putting up with any of that cr*p and he's be out the door swiftly followed by his belongings in a bin bag!

If that's not an option for you, I'd cancel you're internet connection (or change it to pay as you go dial up) cause you're the one paying for it. Failing that, I'd lock all the computer/gaming stuff in a cupboard and explain that when he's prepared to pay for the electricity/internet bill, he can have them back.

He's not showing you any respect or love....take some positive action!

Milliemoo

]]> Mon, 08 Dec 2008 16:10:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=561676&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#561676 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Fallen that sounds awful, you...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=561581&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#561581 Author: tiptoes
Subject: 22901
Posted: 08 December 2008 at 2:52pm

Fallen that sounds awful, you poor thing!

Are you able to go stay with a friend for a couple of nights to give him a bit of a fright and a wake up call? That's really not on.

Is he feeling depressed about not having a job? Maybe tell him it's time to start the job hunt and just let the employers know he can't start till the new year - that's not too far off anyway.]]> Mon, 08 Dec 2008 14:52:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=561581&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#561581 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : He shouldn&#039;t be calling...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=561341&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#561341 Author: sno0ze
Subject: 22901
Posted: 08 December 2008 at 10:27am


He shouldn't be calling you any names, maybe the time away will give you guys time to think.
Big ]]> Mon, 08 Dec 2008 10:27:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=561341&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#561341 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Oh my gosh, I&#039;d be angry...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=561263&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#561263 Author: rachelsea
Subject: 22901
Posted: 08 December 2008 at 8:38am

Oh my gosh, I'd be angry too! You so don't deserve that! I hope that he comes back from his holiday with renewed motivation to pull his head in. If not, you might have to show him the door, that's no way to behave! I hope you manage to get it sorted out really soon...]]> Mon, 08 Dec 2008 08:38:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=561263&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#561263 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : I feel angry now. DF&#039;s latest...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=561232&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#561232 Author: fallen
Subject: 22901
Posted: 08 December 2008 at 7:51am

I feel angry now.

DF's latest thing is not coming to bed until between 12-3 in the morning then sleeping in till who knows when. When I try to persuade him to come to bed with me he gets really hostile and accuses me of telling him what to do. I wouldn't have to tell him what to do if he used a bit of common sense. Of course he usually wakes me up when he comes to bed.

Hes also obsessed with the computer. Thats what he spends the majority of his day doing. He plays one of those stupid shooting online games and hangs out with his online gaming club. When I ask him to get off I get the same hostility again.

He has some lovely pet names for me too. Ones like b!tch, wh@re and c#nt. They come with the hostility. I find them insulting and degrading and have asked him to stop. Which hes just laughed at. If he thinks I'm all those things he shouldn't be here.

I would think if someone is financially supporting you for 3 months so you can take an overseas holiday you'd be doing everything in your power to make their live easier. I have to write him a list of things to do around the house. Sometimes he does them, sometimes he doesn't. I've explained to him that he should be doing them AND looking for extra things that he can do to help out.

I feel like I'm living with a belligerent 16 year old school boy on school holidays. I can't go on like this. Its wearing me down, plus the disturbed sleep isn't helping. If things don't improve I think he'll need to get his Dad to cancel his return flight.]]> Mon, 08 Dec 2008 07:51:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=561232&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#561232 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Aggghhh!!! So frustrating isn&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=559248&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#559248 Author: tiptoes
Subject: 22901
Posted: 04 December 2008 at 2:15pm

Aggghhh!!! So frustrating isn't it? How on earth do people like that get pg and healthy people trying their hardest not? ]]> Thu, 04 Dec 2008 14:15:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=559248&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#559248 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Thanks ladies. I&#039;m feeling...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558868&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558868 Author: fallen
Subject: 22901
Posted: 04 December 2008 at 7:52am

Thanks ladies. I'm feeling a bit better now.

I think the invitation was always there for myself and DD to go, we just had to pay for it ourselves. However I work in retail and December/January is our busiest time. So the boss doesn't allow leave in either month.

Two of our methadone customers got together a few months ago. They both smoke, drink and joke about smoking pot. I found out yesterday that they're having a baby. Life is sooooooo unfair sometimes.]]> Thu, 04 Dec 2008 07:52:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558868&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558868 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558822&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558822 Author: queenbean
Subject: 22901
Posted: 03 December 2008 at 11:05pm

]]> Wed, 03 Dec 2008 23:05:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558822&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558822 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Hugs Milliemoo ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558608&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558608 Author: yermasyada
Subject: 22901
Posted: 03 December 2008 at 5:20pm

Hugs

Milliemoo]]> Wed, 03 Dec 2008 17:20:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558608&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558608 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Lots of hugs Fallen...hang in...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558573&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558573 Author: Flipsta
Subject: 22901
Posted: 03 December 2008 at 4:48pm


Lots of hugs Fallen...hang in there hun. Things will get better. Bring on 2009 I say!!!

has to be our year ladies

or even better a lovely Xmas pressie of a BFP.
now that would be a damn cool gift

]]> Wed, 03 Dec 2008 16:48:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558573&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558573 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : hugs guys...times can be really...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558517&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558517 Author: mummymegs
Subject: 22901
Posted: 03 December 2008 at 3:22pm

hugs guys...times can be really trying...hang in there and hopefully things will get better... I too hope the 2009 will be very different from this year]]> Wed, 03 Dec 2008 15:22:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558517&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558517 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : ((hugs)) Take care of yourself...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558481&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558481 Author: Emmecat
Subject: 22901
Posted: 03 December 2008 at 2:38pm

((hugs))

Take care of yourself and vent away!

]]> Wed, 03 Dec 2008 14:38:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558481&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558481 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Oh hun, I am so sorry that this...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558466&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558466 Author: BusyMum2three
Subject: 22901
Posted: 03 December 2008 at 2:22pm

Oh hun, I am so sorry that this is all going on for you! Please dont apologise to us, this is what we are all her for, and you sure have supported many of us through difficult times.

xx]]> Wed, 03 Dec 2008 14:22:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558466&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558466 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : I kid of know how you feel (apart...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558347&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558347 Author: lilfatty
Subject: 22901
Posted: 03 December 2008 at 12:03pm

I kid of know how you feel (apart from the ovulating part lol)

My DH informed me that he is going to the UK in Jan/Feb .. as thats before this baby is born, after Isabelle's 1st and before his course starts (he is looking at starting a Batchelor of Education early next year)

So .. I cant take time off as I need my holidays for bub number two's arrival so I had to get my Mum to take time off to care for Issy.

And .. he tells me it wont cost us anything .. but I just have this nagging suspision that things will magically go onto the cc and wont get repaid! ]]> Wed, 03 Dec 2008 12:03:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558347&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558347 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : So frustrating!! You poor thing....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558280&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558280 Author: tiptoes
Subject: 22901
Posted: 03 December 2008 at 10:45am

So frustrating!! You poor thing. I especially hate it if DH makes plans to go away or something around ovulation. Terrible that life has to be planned around that, but I guess that's how it goes... here's hoping that because the end of 2008 isn't going so well that you get a nice little surprise in the new year (in the form of a BFP).   I've been having a bit of a crap time recently with work too and think a BFP for xmas would only be fair

What a pain that his Dad didn't extend the invite to you and DD - does that mean he's gone over xmas and new years? ]]> Wed, 03 Dec 2008 10:45:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558280&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558280 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Big &#039;s fallen, thats alot...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558068&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558068 Author: mylilmosaic
Subject: 22901
Posted: 02 December 2008 at 10:19pm

Big 's fallen, thats alot to be dealing with as well as ttc'in. But hope the vent helped, and we are always here if you need to vent some more ]]> Tue, 02 Dec 2008 22:19:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558068&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558068 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Aww Hun. No Advice just big hugs...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558065&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558065 Author: WestiesGirl
Subject: 22901
Posted: 02 December 2008 at 10:13pm

Aww Hun. No Advice just big hugs and I hope it gets better for you Vent as often as you like, were good at listening ]]> Tue, 02 Dec 2008 22:13:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558065&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558065 <![CDATA[I’m feeling very sorry for myself : Where to start... Well DF quit...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22901&PID=558041&title=im-feeling-very-sorry-for-myself#558041 Author: fallen
Subject: 22901
Posted: 02 December 2008 at 9:52pm

Where to start...

Well DF quit his job in October and hasn't made any attempt to get another one. The reason for this is his father said he'd pay for him to spend Christmas in Aussie and he knew if he'd get another he'd be unlikely to get Christmas off. So I've been financially supporting all three of us.

I came home today to find out that DF's father has been in contact and tickets are all booked and paid for. And hes going for nearly two weeks!! He wonders why I'm upset?

So I have to stay here and work to pay ALL the bills, while trying to organise childcare for DD as her centre is closed for two weeks over Christmas and New Year.

PLUS he'll be gone around the time I'm likely to ovulate, so I guess a September baby isn't in the plans.

Last week I found out a close friend of mine has been diagnosed with breast cancer. Whilst I'm trying to be supportive to her I'm having my own battles dealing with the emotional baggage left over from my own mother dying from cancer.

I'm also trying to organise my Dad's rental property to be retennanted. We had someone lined up, so spent last weekend cleaning and moving furniture only to hear today that they'd changed their mind.

Oh and work is having a major refit, so the place is a shambles. Then we have all the Christmas stock and people buying it. I work in retail.

I'm so over everything right now.

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