OHbaby! Forums : scared https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 09 Apr 2026 01:08:44 +0000 Wed, 30 Jul 2008 13:57:06 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 11.10 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=19547 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[scared : You know I totally understand...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=453821&title=scared#453821 Author: SMoody
Subject: 19547
Posted: 30 July 2008 at 1:57pm

You know I totally understand what you are feeling. I think this is one of my big fears as well. If I can just get past that 12 weeks. But first you need to get pregnant (that is a huge problem for me too.)

What did help is to talk to others that went through that. If you do a search for life after miscarriage. It is a great group of girls that are either not trying anymore ttc, or are mommies already. Really great group and so supportive. Sometimes people dont get where you are coming from because they havent been there and even when you have been there you dont totally get it for another person.

I cant really give words of encouragement but just sending some sticky baby dust your way. ]]> Wed, 30 Jul 2008 13:57:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=453821&title=scared#453821 <![CDATA[scared : Sending you lots and lots of...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=453166&title=scared#453166 Author: Two Blondinis
Subject: 19547
Posted: 29 July 2008 at 8:28pm

Sending you lots and lots of and baby dust!]]> Tue, 29 Jul 2008 20:28:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=453166&title=scared#453166 <![CDATA[scared : Kazzle, I&#039;ll be watching...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=453130&title=scared#453130 Author: busymum
Subject: 19547
Posted: 29 July 2008 at 8:01pm

Kazzle, I'll be watching and waiting as hard as I can for you as well. I'm hanging out for your sticky BFP day! With the keeping a secret thing, my advice would be to tell one good IRL friend so that you have a shoulder if you need it. But I definitely appreciate that you won't want everyone to know.]]> Tue, 29 Jul 2008 20:01:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=453130&title=scared#453130 <![CDATA[scared : Good luck Kazzle, lovely to see...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=452777&title=scared#452777 Author: honeybun
Subject: 19547
Posted: 29 July 2008 at 2:41pm

Good luck Kazzle, lovely to see you back here and best wishes for a healthy trouble free pregnancy.

My sister is in the same boat she is just at the stage of seeing specialists at the moment to find out why she has had 4 miscarriages, it is heartbreaking and no one can change how you feel no matter what words they say, the worry and fear will be there just how much is purely up to you.

Best wishes Kazzle. ]]> Tue, 29 Jul 2008 14:41:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=452777&title=scared#452777 <![CDATA[scared : you guys are great, we have decided...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=452749&title=scared#452749 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 19547
Posted: 29 July 2008 at 2:26pm

you guys are great, we have decided that this time around when we get pregnant that we wouldnt tell anyone until the 12wk mark...but i promise to tell you girls ]]> Tue, 29 Jul 2008 14:26:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=452749&title=scared#452749 <![CDATA[scared : aww hunn here lots of hugs for...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=452633&title=scared#452633 Author: james
Subject: 19547
Posted: 29 July 2008 at 1:14pm

aww hunn here lots of hugs for u]]> Tue, 29 Jul 2008 13:14:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=452633&title=scared#452633 <![CDATA[scared : Aww kaz, i think you would be...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=452591&title=scared#452591 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 19547
Posted: 29 July 2008 at 12:51pm

Aww kaz, i think you would be abit strange if you WEREN"T worrying! its only natural.

As soon as you get the BFP , i will be keeping my feet hands, arms and legs crossed for you til your past your danger mark ....which will make work and everyday living rather entertaining ]]> Tue, 29 Jul 2008 12:51:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=452591&title=scared#452591 <![CDATA[scared : awww thanks guys, i dont know...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=452326&title=scared#452326 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 19547
Posted: 29 July 2008 at 8:37am

awww thanks guys, i dont know what i would do without you.

Vanillabean, keep me posted on how it goes]]> Tue, 29 Jul 2008 08:37:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=452326&title=scared#452326 <![CDATA[scared : I sooo get where you are coming...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=452248&title=scared#452248 Author: Vanillabean
Subject: 19547
Posted: 28 July 2008 at 10:36pm

I sooo get where you are coming from. I've only had 2 mc but I am also scared to get pregnant.

I have my first specialist appointment tomorrow.]]> Mon, 28 Jul 2008 22:36:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=452248&title=scared#452248 <![CDATA[scared : Good luck Kaz! I hope to hear...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=452078&title=scared#452078 Author: Nefertiti
Subject: 19547
Posted: 28 July 2008 at 8:54pm

Good luck Kaz! I hope to hear some good new from you in a couple of weeks. And I'm sending you tons of sticky vibes!! :)]]> Mon, 28 Jul 2008 20:54:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=452078&title=scared#452078 <![CDATA[scared : You have every right to be scared...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=452063&title=scared#452063 Author: Leelee
Subject: 19547
Posted: 28 July 2008 at 8:43pm

You have every right to be scared Kaz.

I hope you cruise through next time.

Lotsa sticky vibes coming your way]]> Mon, 28 Jul 2008 20:43:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=452063&title=scared#452063 <![CDATA[scared : Its ok to be scared hun - you...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=451995&title=scared#451995 Author: pikelets
Subject: 19547
Posted: 28 July 2008 at 7:53pm



Its ok to be scared hun - you have had to deal with 4 miscarriages - that is alot and you have every right to feel scared or anxious.

Big big hugs and all the very best!

Sending the biggest stickiest vibes to you!






]]> Mon, 28 Jul 2008 19:53:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=451995&title=scared#451995 <![CDATA[scared : Awww Kaz you have every right...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=451859&title=scared#451859 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 19547
Posted: 28 July 2008 at 6:15pm

Awww Kaz you have every right to be a bit scared.

]]> Mon, 28 Jul 2008 18:15:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=451859&title=scared#451859 <![CDATA[scared : awww hun, yeah you have every...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=451809&title=scared#451809 Author: alexbabe
Subject: 19547
Posted: 28 July 2008 at 5:27pm

awww hun, yeah you have every right to be scared, its just natural. All i can say is all the best and my thoughts are with you.

]]> Mon, 28 Jul 2008 17:27:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=451809&title=scared#451809 <![CDATA[scared : Hi Kaz, I&#039;m waitng to hear...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=451766&title=scared#451766 Author: kezplanet
Subject: 19547
Posted: 28 July 2008 at 4:38pm

Hi Kaz, I'm waitng to hear some good news for you.  I only had the 1 mc last year and it has me nervous enough, hanging out to see the 12 scan, have a form to get a blood test done this week just have to make time to get down to see someone.  I hope you have smooth sailing this time around.....]]> Mon, 28 Jul 2008 16:38:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=451766&title=scared#451766 <![CDATA[scared : Freesia wrote:Kazzle, they...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=451701&title=scared#451701 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 19547
Posted: 28 July 2008 at 3:35pm

Originally posted by Freesia Freesia wrote:

Kazzle, they are probably trying to be reassuring and positive but after what you've been through, of course you are going to be scared.

Good luck and I'll have everything crossed for you as well.


yeah I know they are only trying to reassure me, I know this is my issue, but it just doesnt help to hear it thats all ]]> Mon, 28 Jul 2008 15:35:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=451701&title=scared#451701 <![CDATA[scared : Fingers crossed, I can only imgine...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=451679&title=scared#451679 Author: mummymegs
Subject: 19547
Posted: 28 July 2008 at 3:08pm

Fingers crossed, I can only imgine what you are going through, hoping next one is a sticky.]]> Mon, 28 Jul 2008 15:08:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=451679&title=scared#451679 <![CDATA[scared : Kazzle, they are probably trying...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=451604&title=scared#451604 Author: Freesia
Subject: 19547
Posted: 28 July 2008 at 1:50pm

Kazzle, they are probably trying to be reassuring and positive but after what you've been through, of course you are going to be scared.

Good luck and I'll have everything crossed for you as well. ]]> Mon, 28 Jul 2008 13:50:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=451604&title=scared#451604 <![CDATA[scared : I totally understand Kaz. Most...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=451602&title=scared#451602 Author: MrsMojo
Subject: 19547
Posted: 28 July 2008 at 1:47pm

 I totally understand Kaz.  Most people freak out within the first few months and you have more reasons to than most. 

It's ok to be scared as long as you don't let that get in the way of doing what you want, and that's having another baby.  Feel free to come on here and sound out your fears anytime.

 

BTW:  My older sis had DS1 followed by 3 MCs, strict instructions not to TTC and an operation.  The minute she was given the all clear she TTC'd again and has gone on to have 2 more DS's.  Once a plan is in place things are better - I'll be keeping you in my prayers and hoping that things go well for you this time.

]]> Mon, 28 Jul 2008 13:47:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=451602&title=scared#451602 <![CDATA[scared : Good luck Kaz - totally understandable...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=451597&title=scared#451597 Author: CuriousG
Subject: 19547
Posted: 28 July 2008 at 1:42pm

Good luck Kaz - totally understandable why you are scared - downright petrified would probably be how I would be feeling!

Fingers, toes, legs, arms and eyes all crossed for you! ]]> Mon, 28 Jul 2008 13:42:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=451597&title=scared#451597 <![CDATA[scared : well actually terrified, our last...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=451592&title=scared#451592 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 19547
Posted: 28 July 2008 at 1:34pm

well actually terrified, our last miscarriage was in april, we are officially ttcing this month (am on my tww), but i am scared of getting pregnant again...

And no matter how many people say to me "But why are you scared, you know what is wrong and have a action plan"...just doesnt help ya know!

I know i know whats wrong, I know that we have an action plan, but after 4 miscarriages in a row, i cant help but feel scare.

I also know that im probably going to feel like this until im actually pregnant and past my danger mark (11wks).

anyway thanks for letting me babble on ]]> Mon, 28 Jul 2008 13:34:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19547&PID=451592&title=scared#451592