OHbaby! Forums : Hi, I’m new! https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 09 Apr 2026 18:25:07 +0000 Tue, 05 Aug 2008 19:59:34 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 11.10 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=19457 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Hi, I’m new! : Hugs for you Hope! let us know...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19457&PID=460494&title=hi-im-new#460494 Author: _Soda_
Subject: 19457
Posted: 05 August 2008 at 7:59pm

Hugs for you Hope! let us know how you are doing :)

]]> Tue, 05 Aug 2008 19:59:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19457&PID=460494&title=hi-im-new#460494 <![CDATA[Hi, I’m new! : Hi Treen - love your avatar. I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19457&PID=457679&title=hi-im-new#457679 Author: Hope
Subject: 19457
Posted: 02 August 2008 at 9:10pm

Hi Treen - love your avatar.

I actually re-posted down in the miscarriage forum. The scan came back fine, no cysts, BUT I was down at A and E (my new home away from home) yesterday because I got a shock bfp and then side cramping - a sign of another possible ectopic

I have to go back to hospital on Mon to see if my hcg levels are climbing appropriately - if not it will probably mean I will have another ectopic.

In no-mans land at the mo, but DH and kitties have been very loving!]]> Sat, 02 Aug 2008 21:10:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19457&PID=457679&title=hi-im-new#457679 <![CDATA[Hi, I’m new! : Hi Hope, I&#039;m sorry to hear...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19457&PID=457419&title=hi-im-new#457419 Author: Treen
Subject: 19457
Posted: 02 August 2008 at 6:07pm

Hi Hope, I'm sorry to hear about your situation. How did it go at the gyno discussing your scan results? xx]]> Sat, 02 Aug 2008 18:07:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19457&PID=457419&title=hi-im-new#457419 <![CDATA[Hi, I’m new! : Hello and Welcome to OhBaby, I&#039;m...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19457&PID=448732&title=hi-im-new#448732 Author: caliandjack
Subject: 19457
Posted: 24 July 2008 at 7:46pm

Hello and Welcome to OhBaby, I'm sure you will find everyone really lovely and helpful on here.

Don't know much about ectopics sorry as still waiting to TTC.

But can sympathize with putting everything else first, ie career, finances and marriage there always seems to be an excuse to wait.]]> Thu, 24 Jul 2008 19:46:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19457&PID=448732&title=hi-im-new#448732 <![CDATA[Hi, I’m new! : Hi - sorry I realised I have posted...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19457&PID=448717&title=hi-im-new#448717 Author: Hope
Subject: 19457
Posted: 24 July 2008 at 7:37pm

Hi - sorry I realised I have posted in the wrong section. Have re-posted in M/C, as that is prob more appropriate. Please excuse newbie!


I would like to have a wee rant, if you don't mind. I've been having ttc dramas and I don't really have anyone to talk to about it. My friends are either preggie / have babies - or they are career focused at this point and not interested in ttc.
Me and hubby ditched the birth control on the honeymoon and I came home pregnant! But sadly only a few days after a bfp, I was in the Emergency Dept. I had had sharp stabbing pains in one side and bleeding and PAAAIN! In the scan they never saw an embryo, but I was told it was most likely an ectopic. I was so lucky I didn't have to have surgery or the injection that removes the embryo from the tube.
Although I was only preggie for 5 weeks, I was so devastated, but after a week I put on a brave face and got on with it. I'm so happy I didn't tell all and sundry I was pregnant! It was really hard breaking the bad news to family members who did know. Sometimes when I see babies now I feel like crying!
Anyway I was told to wait two cycles and then I was free to try again. Well two cycles rolled around and I was free to try again this month. But goddamn it, at the time when I would have been ovulating I had the worst flu eva! No baby making was possible - snotty, feverish and deeply unsexy! Then I started having pains in my abdomen and thought it was a UTI. Turns out it was not a UTI and I eventually get sent to Emergency Dept again. Gyne suspected it was a cyst. But I had a scan today and no cyst, but maybe some scarring on the ovaries. I'm scared because I know scarring in the tubes can cause ectopics. I had really painful periods in my early twenties but just thought it was all part of being a woman - now I think maybe it was something more serious?? Going to gyne to discuss scan results tomorrow and I'm soo nervous to hear bad news. All I want now is a baby.
One more thing, I have wanted a baby for ages but tried to be a good girl and do all the right things careerwise, financially and even got married - and now I feel so depressed that this is happening and like I should've just thought stuff it a few years ago and got me a bun in the oven then!
That was quite long - sorry. If any of you have been in a similar situation or have any suggestions, I would love to hear from you:)

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