OHbaby! Forums : HELP!!!! https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 09 Apr 2026 02:17:47 +0000 Thu, 10 Jul 2008 20:56:26 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 11.10 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=18910 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[HELP!!!! : Ok i think your mad!! LOL ---...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=436703&title=help#436703 Author: AnnC
Subject: 18910
Posted: 10 July 2008 at 8:56pm

Ok i think your mad!! LOL --- I did when Rhyley was around Kiazehs age want a nother one - i was having so much fun with Rhyley and things were pretty easy. He slept thru could sit and play easy.... But now he is 19 months i know i don't want anymore - i mean hes easy peasy as far as 19motnh old go - and thats it - it is easy and do I really want to put more pressure on myself by having another....

I did how get a wee bit clucky today as I was sorting out Rhyley's baby stuff (to sell on trademe and some to give away to pregnancy help) and couldn't part with someof them --- Just in case we happened to have another - cause accidents happen you know!!

Do what you and your partner wants to do.

ETA: It also makes it hard to be completely happy with the decision not to have anymore when DH would have one more if i said YES

Edited by AnnC]]> Thu, 10 Jul 2008 20:56:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=436703&title=help#436703 <![CDATA[HELP!!!! : How about: Neeks: Remember how...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=436414&title=help#436414 Author: TraceyA
Subject: 18910
Posted: 10 July 2008 at 2:27pm

How about:
Neeks: Remember how I said no more
DH: No more what?
Neeks: *sigh* no more babies
DH: hmm, I guess so
Neeks: Well I've changed my mind
DH: *looking a little panicked* Oh!
Neeks: So I'm ovulating in the next few days so I'll be wanting to shag everyday till then ok
DH: *forgets everything else you said as his mind gets stuck on "shag everyday"*

Result - Neeks gets another baby ]]> Thu, 10 Jul 2008 14:27:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=436414&title=help#436414 <![CDATA[HELP!!!! : HAHA emz, blunt and straight to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=435958&title=help#435958 Author: Neeks
Subject: 18910
Posted: 09 July 2008 at 9:37pm

HAHA emz, blunt and straight to the point... I like it

if only it was that easy

]]> Wed, 09 Jul 2008 21:37:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=435958&title=help#435958 <![CDATA[HELP!!!! : Neeks: &#039;I want another baby&#039; DH:...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=435889&title=help#435889 Author: emz
Subject: 18910
Posted: 09 July 2008 at 9:01pm

Neeks: 'I want another baby'
DH: 'A few months ago you said no (blah blah)'
Neeks: 'It's a woman's perogative to change her mind, so that's that. End of discussion. Baby please'

Sounds good to me ]]> Wed, 09 Jul 2008 21:01:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=435889&title=help#435889 <![CDATA[HELP!!!! : eeeeek, I&#039;m finding it hard...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=435713&title=help#435713 Author: Neeks
Subject: 18910
Posted: 09 July 2008 at 7:11pm

eeeeek, I'm finding it hard to 'confess' to my partner about wanting another baby.. just a few months ago I saw saying 'No more babies... this is too tough, I can't do it anymore" and now I want another one??

How do I approach this in a way that wont make me sound crazy?

]]> Wed, 09 Jul 2008 19:11:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=435713&title=help#435713 <![CDATA[HELP!!!! : I think the Kelly wanted you to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433587&title=help#433587 Author: susieq
Subject: 18910
Posted: 07 July 2008 at 4:26pm

I think the Kelly wanted you to be her preggy buddy Neeks]]> Mon, 07 Jul 2008 16:26:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433587&title=help#433587 <![CDATA[HELP!!!! : Excellent news Neeks You seem...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433554&title=help#433554 Author: NikkiB
Subject: 18910
Posted: 07 July 2008 at 4:05pm

Excellent news Neeks You seem to be a really great mum, I'm sure another one won't be too difficult for you!

]]> Mon, 07 Jul 2008 16:05:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433554&title=help#433554 <![CDATA[HELP!!!! : That&#039;d be cool ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433482&title=help#433482 Author: Neeks
Subject: 18910
Posted: 07 July 2008 at 2:47pm

That'd be cool ]]> Mon, 07 Jul 2008 14:47:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433482&title=help#433482 <![CDATA[HELP!!!! : We could be pregnant together...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433480&title=help#433480 Author: peachy
Subject: 18910
Posted: 07 July 2008 at 2:45pm

We could be pregnant together again Neeks ]]> Mon, 07 Jul 2008 14:45:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433480&title=help#433480 <![CDATA[HELP!!!! : Okay, I think I&#039;m going to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433462&title=help#433462 Author: Neeks
Subject: 18910
Posted: 07 July 2008 at 2:38pm

Okay, I think I'm going to go for it..didn't take much convincing on my behalf because of my heightened amount of hormones... I'm going to try convince DF to start baby dancing mid next year for a 2010 baby ]]> Mon, 07 Jul 2008 14:38:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433462&title=help#433462 <![CDATA[HELP!!!! : Go for it Neeks. Convince DF and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433418&title=help#433418 Author: MrsMojo
Subject: 18910
Posted: 07 July 2008 at 2:00pm

Go for it Neeks.  Convince DF and shag for gold

As Charly said the older kids will be self sufficient to a point and at their age they probably have friends whose parents remember what it was like and would be sympathetic and invite them for sleepovers etc during the early months with a newborn plus they love hanging with Keziah don't they? 

Bring on the BDing!



Edited by MrsMojo]]> Mon, 07 Jul 2008 14:00:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433418&title=help#433418 <![CDATA[HELP!!!! : my neighbour had 4 kids to a previous...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433411&title=help#433411 Author: Mum_mum
Subject: 18910
Posted: 07 July 2008 at 1:56pm

my neighbour had 4 kids to a previous marriage all of whom live with him. they are all teenagers.
He now has a new partner and they have two under two year olds together and everything works well for them, the older kids all help out with the younger!]]> Mon, 07 Jul 2008 13:56:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433411&title=help#433411 <![CDATA[HELP!!!! : No I don&#039;t think you are...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433405&title=help#433405 Author: susieq
Subject: 18910
Posted: 07 July 2008 at 1:51pm

No I don't think you are made either, Hey comon You can see how clucky Kelly my daughter is and she is caitlynsmy girl)]]> Mon, 07 Jul 2008 13:51:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433405&title=help#433405 <![CDATA[HELP!!!! : as the others have said, if you...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433387&title=help#433387 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 18910
Posted: 07 July 2008 at 1:35pm

as the others have said, if you and DP both want another one, then go for it!   it's definately not mad, i can understand you wanting another child of your own.

because you have that big age gap between the 9yr old and keziah, i'd think (and i can only guess!) that it would be easier to have another one because the older ones could help you out a little around the home etc

]]> Mon, 07 Jul 2008 13:35:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433387&title=help#433387 <![CDATA[HELP!!!! : I don&#039;t think you&#039;re...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433107&title=help#433107 Author: Snickerdoodle
Subject: 18910
Posted: 07 July 2008 at 7:20am

I don't think you're mad at all!
It's only natural to feel that way, I think.

How old is the oldest?
If the youngest is 9, then they're all going to be self sufficient, to a degree, yes?
Would the older kids welcome another wee bubba?

I think it would be lovely, personally
]]> Mon, 07 Jul 2008 07:20:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433107&title=help#433107 <![CDATA[HELP!!!! : no, i dont think your mad at all....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433096&title=help#433096 Author: mum2emj
Subject: 18910
Posted: 07 July 2008 at 6:10am

no, i dont think your mad at all. i think it would be only natural to want one more of your own, and 5 kids- im sure it isnt much different to 4
i say if you want more, and he does go for it!!! ]]> Mon, 07 Jul 2008 06:10:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433096&title=help#433096 <![CDATA[HELP!!!! : My fiancee has 3 kids from his...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433086&title=help#433086 Author: Neeks
Subject: 18910
Posted: 06 July 2008 at 11:21pm

My fiancee has 3 kids from his previous marriage. They live with us full time because their mum died when the youngest (now 9) was 3 months old.

Keziah is my one and only blood related child so do you think I'm crazy for wanting ONE more of my own??? I'm so freakin clucky at the moment (what with Tilly, Caden, Max and all the other cute wee bubbas)

We'd probably start baby dancing early next year if I can convince him..

Am I stark raving mad??? Will be 5 kids in this house if we do



Edited by Neeks]]> Sun, 06 Jul 2008 23:21:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18910&PID=433086&title=help#433086