OHbaby! Forums : Im beginning to crack.... https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Mon, 06 Apr 2026 16:00:42 +0000 Tue, 24 Jun 2008 15:48:18 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 11.10 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=18465 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Im beginning to crack.... : Does anyone else go from not wanting...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=422442&title=im-beginning-to-crack#422442 Author: Mum_mum
Subject: 18465
Posted: 24 June 2008 at 3:48pm

Does anyone else go from not wanting to ttc for a lil while longer, to wanting to the next day and can't wait?!?!

Yesterday i wasn't so keen cos am totally scared sh*tless about going through it all again and getting past the 7 week mark. Today i really want AF to hurry up so we can try again!

]]> Tue, 24 Jun 2008 15:48:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=422442&title=im-beginning-to-crack#422442 <![CDATA[Im beginning to crack.... : Aww Mel what ever it is I hope...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=421577&title=im-beginning-to-crack#421577 Author: WestiesGirl
Subject: 18465
Posted: 23 June 2008 at 9:16pm

Aww Mel what ever it is I hope you can start TTC soon ]]> Mon, 23 Jun 2008 21:16:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=421577&title=im-beginning-to-crack#421577 <![CDATA[Im beginning to crack.... : Good, im still not convinced that...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=421547&title=im-beginning-to-crack#421547 Author: mummyofprinces
Subject: 18465
Posted: 23 June 2008 at 9:04pm

Good, im still not convinced that it isnt AF on the way, but its nice to know someone else has had it.

Mind you Rachel, I probably knew about yours with the TMI sharing that goes on in here

Just a bit self absorbed at the moment ]]> Mon, 23 Jun 2008 21:04:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=421547&title=im-beginning-to-crack#421547 <![CDATA[Im beginning to crack.... : Yep mel I had brown bits in my...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=421474&title=im-beginning-to-crack#421474 Author: rachelsea
Subject: 18465
Posted: 23 June 2008 at 8:19pm

Yep mel I had brown bits in my EWCM about a week ago! Brown spotting for two days, then it went away. So not sure if it's normal or not, but you're not the only one ]]> Mon, 23 Jun 2008 20:19:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=421474&title=im-beginning-to-crack#421474 <![CDATA[Im beginning to crack.... : Well I have had brown CM today...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=421382&title=im-beginning-to-crack#421382 Author: mummyofprinces
Subject: 18465
Posted: 23 June 2008 at 7:25pm

Well I have had brown CM today and quite a bit... mixed with watery?????

Has anyone else had this with Ovulation???

We BD "properly" for first time last night since D&C. TMI, there has been penetration previously, but its been quite reserved and only at the end so to speak. Last night was normal BD. It could just be a bit of old blood right??

I have never spotted before, not even at the end of AF really.

Anyway, we have decided that it has been four weeks now, and we both feel ready to start again. We both want to be parents and feel that if its meant to be it will be. Its in universes hands now (and FF of course )]]> Mon, 23 Jun 2008 19:25:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=421382&title=im-beginning-to-crack#421382 <![CDATA[Im beginning to crack.... : We MC around the same time and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=421104&title=im-beginning-to-crack#421104 Author: linda
Subject: 18465
Posted: 23 June 2008 at 3:38pm

We MC around the same time and my AF arrived SAT so now I am back to eating healthy and will be trying again this month. It was one of the things that helped get me through the MC....trying again asap!]]> Mon, 23 Jun 2008 15:38:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=421104&title=im-beginning-to-crack#421104 <![CDATA[Im beginning to crack.... : Yeah, it was first trimester. Nikki,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420790&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420790 Author: mummyofprinces
Subject: 18465
Posted: 23 June 2008 at 1:01pm

Yeah, it was first trimester.

Nikki, I have been temping... no temp hike yet. Spotting today.

Will just wait and see.

Totally prepared for emotional breakdown with AF!!!!!!]]> Mon, 23 Jun 2008 13:01:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420790&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420790 <![CDATA[Im beginning to crack.... : Your miscarriage was a first trimester...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420761&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420761 Author: scarecrowfarm
Subject: 18465
Posted: 23 June 2008 at 12:39pm

Your miscarriage was a first trimester miscarriage wasn't it? If so, I see absolutely no reason to wait. One doctor will suggest waiting, another will say go for it.

I say go with your heart.

The only thing to be cautious about, is that AF when ttc after a miscarriage is even harder to deal with than prior to a miscarriage. For me, it felt like I was experiencing my loss all over again, so if you do ttc be prepared to brace yourself for that.

Edited by scarecrowfarm]]> Mon, 23 Jun 2008 12:39:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420761&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420761 <![CDATA[Im beginning to crack.... : I was sure AF was due when we...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420744&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420744 Author: peanut butter
Subject: 18465
Posted: 23 June 2008 at 12:20pm

I was sure AF was due when we decided to ditch them just one time......I guess it was Ov not AF]]> Mon, 23 Jun 2008 12:20:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420744&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420744 <![CDATA[Im beginning to crack.... : Melnel hope you&#039;re gonna...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420738&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420738 Author: rachelsea
Subject: 18465
Posted: 23 June 2008 at 12:18pm

Melnel hope you're gonna Ov then instead of get AF! But if it is AF then I guess that's a good thing too coz you know where you stand and you won't have to worry about if you should have waited or not. My doctor basically said that waiting a month is to make it easier to date the pregnancy, and for emotional reasons. Good luck!

Edited by rachel25]]> Mon, 23 Jun 2008 12:18:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420738&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420738 <![CDATA[Im beginning to crack.... : Well we ditched them Think AF...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420731&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420731 Author: mummyofprinces
Subject: 18465
Posted: 23 June 2008 at 12:15pm

Well we ditched them

Think AF is on the way though.....]]> Mon, 23 Jun 2008 12:15:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420731&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420731 <![CDATA[Im beginning to crack.... : Mel, I did get pregnant straight...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420726&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420726 Author: peanut butter
Subject: 18465
Posted: 23 June 2008 at 12:14pm

Mel, I did get pregnant straight away.  But my MC was straightforward and I didnt need a D&C.  If I hadnt have tested I would have thought it was a late period so maybe that is the difference.  I was told to give it one or2 cycles but I got the impression that was for emotional reasons.]]> Mon, 23 Jun 2008 12:14:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420726&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420726 <![CDATA[Im beginning to crack.... : Oh Melnel, definatly know how...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420580&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420580 Author: Mum_mum
Subject: 18465
Posted: 23 June 2008 at 10:41am

Oh Melnel, definatly know how you feel. I am still waiting for my AF 5 weeks after! Is very annoying.

I thought i was ready to TTC again, and haven't been emotional but last night when hubby suggested we not use anything i insisted, told him that it was cos i wanted to wait for first AF but after i was trying to hold back the tears cos i don't want my heart broken again. Obviously im not ready ]]> Mon, 23 Jun 2008 10:41:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420580&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420580 <![CDATA[Im beginning to crack.... : I wish there was something that...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420340&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420340 Author: mummymegs
Subject: 18465
Posted: 23 June 2008 at 8:17am

I wish there was something that I could say to make it all better and can only imagine how frustrating this must be. I hope that you feel better soon. Take care of yourself.

Edited by mummymegs]]> Mon, 23 Jun 2008 08:17:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420340&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420340 <![CDATA[Im beginning to crack.... : I know how you feel Mel - I am...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420329&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420329 Author: catcase
Subject: 18465
Posted: 23 June 2008 at 8:12am

I know how you feel Mel - I am just like you so wanting to be pg again after mc in May.  I am still waiting for my af to arrive and am getting so annoyed it has not arrived so we can get back on to TTCing.  In saying that though I told my hubby not to use protection as I am sure my body knows what to do.  I hope that you, Emmecat and I are all in a pg thread soon  ]]> Mon, 23 Jun 2008 08:12:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420329&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420329 <![CDATA[Im beginning to crack.... : Aaaw Mel I completely know where...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420141&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420141 Author: Emmecat
Subject: 18465
Posted: 22 June 2008 at 9:41pm

Aaaw Mel I completely know where you are coming from in wanting to try again.....bless.

After both my m/c (the missed one at 13 wks and the latest at 5), both times the Dr's said start trying whenever you're ready....although one AF is probably a good idea I think...partly for the emotional healing that needs to happen and partly so any residue tissue left over from the m/c is given a chance to clear?

I think your body will get pg when it's ready to IYKWIM. Sounds like this cycle is gonna be a bit all over the place for you anyway? So you may well find that next cycle is the one that gets you your BFP. I hope it happens for you and your DH when you both want it to.

]]> Sun, 22 Jun 2008 21:41:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420141&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420141 <![CDATA[Im beginning to crack.... : I want to start trying again! I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420119&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420119 Author: mummyofprinces
Subject: 18465
Posted: 22 June 2008 at 9:31pm

I want to start trying again!

I have not been given a good reason to wait, it is just recommended.

I am not trying to replace my baby, I know she is gone and I have to move on... but I am just so ready to be pregnant again.

I dont even know if I am going to ovulate this month, and obviously we have not been going hard out to get UTD this month, but I would like to ditch the condoms and if its supposed to happen this month it will.

But then, I am worried that there might still be tissue left over and that cant be good for a wee bubba. I am a bit confused as to what to do.

For those of you who have mc, what reasons did the medical professionals tell you to wait?]]> Sun, 22 Jun 2008 21:31:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18465&PID=420119&title=im-beginning-to-crack#420119