OHbaby! Forums : arrrgghhh good news not so good news https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Tue, 19 May 2026 13:14:04 +0000 Mon, 07 Apr 2008 17:43:59 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 11.10 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=16002 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : oh yes it&#039;s zoo day - great...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=347897&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#347897 Author: Bobbie
Subject: 16002
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 5:43pm

oh yes it's zoo day - great weather for it. I hope they had fun.]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 17:43:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=347897&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#347897 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : She&#039;s not online atm coz...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=347891&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#347891 Author: Maya
Subject: 16002
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 5:37pm

She's not online atm coz she's having a holiday up in Auckland! I saw her this morning, nothing new to update, so far so good.]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 17:37:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=347891&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#347891 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Kazzle I hope everything is going...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=347879&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#347879 Author: kiwigal
Subject: 16002
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 5:26pm

Kazzle I hope everything is going well with you and the baby.

]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 17:26:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=347879&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#347879 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Kaz how are you getting on? ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=347555&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#347555 Author: tropics
Subject: 16002
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 1:26pm

Kaz how are you getting on? ]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 13:26:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=347555&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#347555 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Another person who thinks that...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=347095&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#347095 Author: scarecrowfarm
Subject: 16002
Posted: 06 April 2008 at 10:28pm

Another person who thinks that doesn't make any sense at all. At 4 weeks pregnant I doubt that you'd really see anything at all, and you certainly wouldn't see a heartbeat.

Did you find out the actual measurement? I'm kind of wondering whether they're meaning 4 weeks from conception, i.e. 6 weeks.

I also know people who have measured way behind simply because their uterus is tilted a funny way, and when bubs grows a bit more the measurements catch up. There was one woman I know who had had IVF and because of the miserable measurements they convinced her she was going to miscarry. As it turned out everything was perfect.

Any chance you have a tilted uterus? Did they mention it at all?]]> Sun, 06 Apr 2008 22:28:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=347095&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#347095 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Big hugs Kazzle the heartbeat...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=346682&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#346682 Author: susieq
Subject: 16002
Posted: 06 April 2008 at 7:00pm

Big hugs Kazzle the heartbeat should be a good sign]]> Sun, 06 Apr 2008 19:00:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=346682&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#346682 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : kaz that sucks! talk about confusing...great...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=346533&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#346533 Author: tropics
Subject: 16002
Posted: 06 April 2008 at 3:29pm

kaz that sucks! talk about confusing...great news that there is a heart beat though I hope you get answers soon ]]> Sun, 06 Apr 2008 15:29:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=346533&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#346533 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Thinking of you Kaz and hope you...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=346303&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#346303 Author: LockieandLiam
Subject: 16002
Posted: 06 April 2008 at 9:00am

Thinking of you Kaz and hope you get your answers soon. Have a great weekend away.]]> Sun, 06 Apr 2008 09:00:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=346303&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#346303 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Oh Kaz - how confusing, upsetting...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=345524&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#345524 Author: KiwiL
Subject: 16002
Posted: 05 April 2008 at 1:33pm

Oh Kaz - how confusing, upsetting and stressful for you! I am thinking of you and will keep my fingers crossed that this is all a big confusion.

Like the other girls have said, these things get muddled up all the time. I am hoping and praying that you will be ok.

Hugs. ]]> Sat, 05 Apr 2008 13:33:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=345524&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#345524 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Kaz - that sucks, my gosh I was...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=345471&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#345471 Author: chonnni
Subject: 16002
Posted: 05 April 2008 at 10:54am

Kaz - that sucks, my gosh I was gona come on the net to see how your scan went but I fell down our outdoor stairs and have completely buggered myself, check out the due july thread on here. I am so sorry you have to go thru this stress, hopefully at your next scan it shows more. If not I would be going and finding a different place to go thru that will help you figure out why these situations happen to you.]]> Sat, 05 Apr 2008 10:54:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=345471&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#345471 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Kaz, not sure if this helps......]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=345439&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#345439 Author: Snickerdoodle
Subject: 16002
Posted: 05 April 2008 at 10:07am

Kaz, not sure if this helps... but I mentioned this to a couple of friends and, like you, they know of others who had the same thing and they have healthy bubbas now

From Answers.com: The fetal pole is a thickening on the margin of the yolk sac of a fetus during pregnancy. It is usually identified at 6.5 weeks with abdominal ultrasound imaging, and 6 weeks with vaginal ultrasound imaging. However it is quite normal for the fetal pole to not be visible until about 8 weeks. ]]> Sat, 05 Apr 2008 10:07:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=345439&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#345439 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Hope you get some answers soon...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=345362&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#345362 Author: caraMel
Subject: 16002
Posted: 05 April 2008 at 1:07am

Hope you get some answers soon Kaz! I'm glad you've got your break in Aucks to look forward to in the meantime ((hugs))]]> Sat, 05 Apr 2008 01:07:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=345362&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#345362 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Fingers crossed for you Kaz! Hoping...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=345342&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#345342 Author: AliaDawn
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 11:43pm

Fingers crossed for you Kaz! Hoping for gooood test results next time. ]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 23:43:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=345342&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#345342 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : I know nothing about early scans...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=345336&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#345336 Author: Rachael21
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 11:34pm

I know nothing about early scans but is there a chance they missed the fetal pole and sac?

Have a fun weekend Kaz and hopefully its some really great news when you come back.]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 23:34:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=345336&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#345336 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : hey kaz, thinking of you guys....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344960&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344960 Author: chonny
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 8:39pm

hey kaz, thinking of you guys. the heart doesn't even start beating til week 6, so there is no way you would haev seen one if you were only 4 weeks. i just hope things turn out ok for you. Positive thinking hun.

What's this bout a meet up in aucks?]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 20:39:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344960&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344960 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : nope cant call the ob tomorrow...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344951&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344951 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 8:28pm

nope cant call the ob tomorrow as it through the hospital and her department isnt open or at least i cant get through.]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 20:28:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344951&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344951 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : That must be so frustrating! Can...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344873&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344873 Author: busymum
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 7:38pm

That must be so frustrating! Can you call your OB tomorrow? Hopefully the scan was just too early and a follow-up scan will all be ok]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 19:38:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344873&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344873 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : OMG how strange Kaz, hope you...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344848&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344848 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 7:19pm

OMG how strange Kaz, hope you have a good weekend away thou.

]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 19:19:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344848&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344848 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : someone just pointed out to me...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344837&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344837 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 6:59pm

someone just pointed out to me that before 6wks they dont normally see a heartbeat, so the fact that we saw one is a good sign]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 18:59:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344837&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344837 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Sounds like the person who did...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344799&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344799 Author: Vanillabean
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 6:04pm

Sounds like the person who did the scan didn't know what they were doing. Hope they got it all wrong!!!]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 18:04:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344799&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344799 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Kazzle wrote:i have been chatting...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344783&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344783 Author: emachan
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 5:38pm

Originally posted by Kazzle Kazzle wrote:

i have been chatting to some other mums, and like me they were 7 wks but measured 4wks with a heartbeat and all of them have healthy babies now, so am going to be positive until i know otherwise.

I am going to enjoy my trip to auckland and meeting up with you girls and will deal with it all when i get back

oh and the other thought was, if i am only 4 wks, then how come i got a bfp almost 3 wks ago


great positive thinking Kaz - thats just what your baby needs! No worrying or stress allowed!
And yeah, about your BFP, that would be far too random unless you were stuck in time (which you're not!) so I reckon you have nothing to worry about!
Have a nice relaxing weekend and put your feet up! You deserve it chicky! ]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 17:38:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344783&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344783 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : i have been chatting to some other...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344780&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344780 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 5:30pm

i have been chatting to some other mums, and like me they were 7 wks but measured 4wks with a heartbeat and all of them have healthy babies now, so am going to be positive until i know otherwise.

I am going to enjoy my trip to auckland and meeting up with you girls and will deal with it all when i get back

oh and the other thought was, if i am only 4 wks, then how come i got a bfp almost 3 wks ago

Edited by Kazzle]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 17:30:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344780&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344780 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : kaz - hugs for having to have...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344774&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344774 Author: emachan
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 5:27pm

kaz - hugs for having to have this confusion! I hope that you get some answers really soon.
Good thing is you have a heartbeat and that surely couldnt be felt at just 4 weeks. Hoping that the sonographer measured wrong.
xx]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 17:27:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344774&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344774 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : i,m a bit confussed aswell hears...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344731&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344731 Author: james
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 4:49pm

i,m a bit confussed aswell hears hoping they didnt scan you propley big hugs]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 16:49:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344731&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344731 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Sending you HUGS ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344720&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344720 Author: Glag2
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 4:37pm

Sending you HUGS ]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 16:37:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344720&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344720 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : *hugs* very confusing, I really...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344718&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344718 Author: Cassie
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 4:37pm

*hugs* very confusing, I really hope they call you back soon and let you know what can happen next and when, sucks when you don't know what to think about things. ]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 16:37:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344718&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344718 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Kazzle - and on a Friday no less!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344698&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344698 Author: JessDub
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 4:23pm

Kazzle - and on a Friday no less! Thinking of you too. Hope you can relax this weekend. Take care.]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 16:23:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344698&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344698 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Wow Kaz that is so weird. The...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344687&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344687 Author: FionaS
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 4:16pm

Wow Kaz that is so weird. The unknown is really tough. Thinking of you. Hang in there until you know more.]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 16:16:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344687&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344687 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Big hugs Kaz! I agree with everyone!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344628&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344628 Author: Snickerdoodle
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 3:40pm

Big hugs Kaz!

I agree with everyone! Get a second opinion as there can't be a heartbeat without a pole. And a heartbeat at 4 weeks? Who was scanning you? Doogie Howser?

Just as a side this: What I dislike about having scans at a general radiology place is that if there ARE concerns, they just say "Well, this that and the other. See ya".
There's no reassurance or opinion/advice from your GP/MW/OB etc... So you have no idea where you stand until you can get in to see your GP/MW/OB.


My thoughts are with you Kaz ]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 15:40:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344628&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344628 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Hmmm, hope they call you soon...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344627&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344627 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 3:39pm

Hmmm, hope they call you soon Kaz. Take care.]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 15:39:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344627&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344627 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Thinking of you Kaz. As Redbedrock...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344618&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344618 Author: MrsMojo
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 3:34pm

Thinking of you Kaz. As Redbedrock said try and relax (i know, it's hard to do but there's nothing you can do until you get back and worrying isn't going to help at all).

Take care and keep us up to date. ]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 15:34:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344618&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344618 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Ahh Kaz, hope you get some answers...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344588&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344588 Author: Redbedrock
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 2:58pm

Ahh Kaz, hope you get some answers to clear up this confusion, I know this may sound ridiculous but try and relax on your trip, you can't do anything to change this except relax (As I said I know that is a ridiculous suggestion, who can relax with this much confusion???? )]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 14:58:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344588&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344588 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : I would also get a second opinion...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344587&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344587 Author: Millie1976
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 2:57pm

I would also get a second opinion and then at least put your mind at ease.]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 14:57:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344587&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344587 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : I get a second opinion aswell...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344575&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344575 Author: Shezamumof3
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 2:41pm

I get a second opinion aswell Kaz, that doesnt make sense....you cant see a heartbeat at 4 weeks....and If theres a heartbeat there should be a fetal pole...
Heartbeat is good news, so hopefully you just had someone who didnt scan you very well....did you see the heartbeat ur self flicking away on the screen?]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 14:41:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344575&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344575 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : I&#039;d def suggest getting a...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344558&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344558 Author: yummymummy
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 2:25pm

I'd def suggest getting a second opinion too - hope all is well ]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 14:25:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344558&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344558 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : he did say if i was only 4 wks...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344555&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344555 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 2:24pm

he did say if i was only 4 wks pregnant then i was measuring bang on...except i know that you dont get a heartbeat at 4 weeks...come on hospital ring me back]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 14:24:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344555&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344555 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : I agree with Emma - surely if...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344549&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344549 Author: CuriousG
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 2:19pm

I agree with Emma - surely if there is a heartbeat then surely there would be a pole? And I also agree with Jess, I would be getting a second opinion.

Big hugs - fingers, legs and toes crossed for you.]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 14:19:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344549&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344549 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : i should have an appointment for...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344544&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344544 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 2:15pm

i should have an appointment for another scan, just waiting for the hospital to ring me back, have rung and left a msg, as i am hoping to get some bloods done today and get the results back
]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 14:15:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344544&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344544 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : How annoying and worrying for...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344539&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344539 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 2:13pm

How annoying and worrying for you to get such a confusing result. Are you able to speak to anyone today before you go away?]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 14:13:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344539&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344539 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : im so confused, i mean how can...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344536&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344536 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 2:10pm

im so confused, i mean how can i be measuring 4 wks and have a heartbeat...there is no way im 3 weeks out on my dates...i go away tomorrow so wont be able to see anyone till we get back...so now its just a wait and see game
]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 14:10:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344536&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344536 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Kazzle that is so confusing you...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344534&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344534 Author: kiwigal
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 2:09pm

Kazzle that is so confusing you wouldn't be able to see the heartbeat if you were only 4 weeks along 

Lots of hugs and prayers that everything will be okay

]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 14:09:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344534&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344534 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : How confusing Kaz. That is all...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344531&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344531 Author: katie1
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 2:05pm

How confusing Kaz. That is all you need.
The heartbeat is a good sign surely?
I can't believe they have just left you like this now not knowing what is properly going on?
Can you ring your midwife? Or someone to ask questions.
Big hugs. Thinking of you.]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 14:05:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344531&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344531 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : That doesn&#039;t make sense?...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344520&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344520 Author: Maya
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 1:59pm

That doesn't make sense? How can there be a heertbeat without a fetal pole?

Big hugs Kaz, hope you hear back from the doc soon!]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 13:59:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344520&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344520 <![CDATA[arrrgghhh good news not so good news : Well had my scan this morning...couldnt...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344514&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344514 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 16002
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 1:55pm

Well had my scan this morning...couldnt see anything so had to have an internal....

the good news is there is a heartbeat...the bad news is that im only measuring about 4 wks and there is no fetal pole or yolk sack

I dont know what to think

i was told to expect the worst but hope for the best

and ive had no contact from the ob for almost 2 wks, so my so called close monitoring has really sucked ]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 13:55:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16002&PID=344514&title=arrrgghhh-good-news-not-so-good-news#344514