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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=150454">Bridget Lisa</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 May 2015 at 6:39pm<br /><br />Wow, so much amazing birth stories, really loved them. Thanks for sharing. ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=113507">laurenmcguir145848</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 01 June 2014 at 11:09pm<br /><br />My first birth-<br /><br />I went into pre labour at 10-30am Saturday morning and didnt go to the hospital until greys anatomy finished (lol my mother wasnt very happy) then i stayed in the shower at the hospital and tryed the bath but that freaked me out a bit as it was deep and i get claustrophobic so i hopped out and then sat on the loo ready to do a big poop hehehe i failed at that so they took me back to my room and checked me to find i was ten cm dilated then i was instructed to push 1 hour later i was holding my first baby boy born at 3-45am monday morning at 7lb 4 ounces, 10 days over due.<br /><br />My second birth-<br /><br />I was 9 days over due and and was booked in for a induction they put gel on my cervix to soften it three times all failed so on the twelth day overdue they broke my waters slightly and had the drip ready to go! the contraction started slow but then got very fast very quick i started feeling the need to push and the doctor checked to see my dilation etc, my baby wasnt even head down ready to go so the doctor said it would be best to get an epi because he might not drop for awhile, i opted to not get one and the moment the doctor left the room i pushed the nurse told me to stop but i just looked at her and said i swear i felt his head fall into place like the last peice of a puzzle so laying on my side i lifted my leg up and she could see his head, for three pushes whilst cuddling my partner i met my baby boy 10 minutes later born at 1-35pm and at 7lbs 4 ounces.<br />I loved that i cuddled my partner the whole way through it was romantic and safe in a way smile<br /><br />My last birth-<br /><br />I went into labour on the 4th of november thursday night shopping picking up xmas laybys, as my waters didnt break i continued on shopping and then went home we decided that the contractions werent bad enough so id sleep until they got worse and then go to the hospital. at 1-20am i got in the shower to ease pain and then thought nope those kiddies need to get in the car so i screamed to wake my partner up and said the baby is coming he near on fainted cause he got up so fast!! then we buckled the kids in the car and i went to sit but couldnt so i went for a walk through the house came back and said you need to get an ambulence cause im gonna push her out now, damien begged me not to while i pulled my pants down he could see it all dropped right down, i stood there with my hands ready to catch the baby and pushed all my waters broke over my hands, so i went and knelt next to the lounge i pushed one big push her head was out damien was instructed over the phone to check the cord which was wrapped around her neck so he took it off and then another big push and there she was my little princess! 2 minutes of pushing labour, born at 1-35am at 8lbs 5 ounces!<br /><br />I love giving birth i think its beautiful and amazing just hom much our bodies can go through!<br /><br />biggest tips iv learnt is breathing it really does work, water shower/bath and heat packs on the back for back labour and use gravity to help push.]]>
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   <pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2014 23:09:40 +0000</pubDate>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=104368">Shal</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 04 February 2014 at 4:42pm<br /><br />I loved reading these birth stories when I was pregnant... so I'd like to share my story (novel).<br /><br />On Monday 24 September at exactly 37wks, I text DP to say baby was coming this weekend. DP: “Oh yeah, why’s that?”. Me: “Because I said so”. DP “Good luck with that”. Me: “She is, she’s a good girl that listens to her mummy”. DP :”Uh huh”. I was absolutely ready, the homebirth box was sorted, the hospital bags packed just in case, I just needed my baby.<br /><br />On Friday 28 Sept, I went for my usual walk with my niece, but she decided we should walk an extra block tonight, which nearly killed me. As I hobbled back down my drive, my eyes were pouring because I was so exhausted. I said I’d be devastated to go into labour tonight because there’s no way I’d be able to do it.<br /><br />Lucky enough, I got a full night sleep (well as much as you can that far along), laid around in bed until 9am, when I felt a little ‘ping’. Went to the loo, and had blood dripping out. I started panicking and rang the midwife, who said to wait and see if any mucous would come out, about an hour later it did. Rang the midwife back and she said I’ll be having my baby today, which I absolutely didn’t believe, I was in complete denial the entire time up until the baby was in my arms.<br /><br />DP’s family came around, so informed them that I’d had a show, but I was sure it would still be days (or weeks) before I’d actually have the baby. While they were there, I started having cramps that felt exactly like period pains.<br /><br />My niece decided that morning that she wanted a bbq lunch at the Esplanade for her birthday that was earlier in the week. So off to that we went, and silly me informed the family what was happening, so every time I sat down, someone else took me for another walk. My sister wanted to go on the bush walk, but there was no way I was going that far from a road! The pains were 30 minutes apart when we got there, and then got down to 10 minutes apart, and a bit more ouchy. Everyone could tell when I was having a contraction because I’d sit up straight, and my face would go serious.<br /><br />About 4o’clock I needed to go home, and 2 minutes from home the contractions started to get a bit stronger. As soon as I got home, I vomited. I paced up and down the deck during contractions, and let the midwife know they were seven minutes apart, and lasting about 1 minute. She said to let her know once they got down to 3 minutes apart, and lasting a bit longer and then she’ll come.<br /><br />It was just DP and I at home, and as I was getting a bit more vocal during the contractions it was freaking DP out. DP kept asking to call my mum, but while still in complete denial, I said I was fine. About 8.00pm DP called her around anyway lol.<br /><br />I had booked a birth pool, it was due to arrive on Monday (2 weeks before due date). So I found the best position sitting on the edge of the couch rocking back and forth, and then in between I could lean back and relax. I decided about 8pm I’d like to try hopping in the bath, but I didn’t like that very much because I liked to push up on my arms and straighten my back as much as possible during a contraction, so after an hour I hopped out.<br /><br />My mum had turned up, and as I wanted no noise whatsoever, and no one to touch me, mum quietly did her knitting, and DP did some work. I had hunted high and low for some peaceful music to play during my labour, and ended up I actually didn’t want it at all. I carried on rocking on the edge of the couch for awhile, paced around the house a bit, noting down the time and length of each contraction. <br /><br />The contractions were very irregular, jumping from 5 minutes apart, back to 7, down to 4, back to 7, and each only lasting 1 minute. They eventually started sticking between 4-5 minutes apart, but still only lasting a minute. DP starting freaking out again, wanting to call the midwife, I was determined not to, because they still hadn’t got to the time and length she’d specified (and I was still in denial that this baby was actually coming). There was one 3 minute gap, and then back to 4-5 minutes, DP was adamant to call the midwife, but I said no.<br /><br />I felt like I needed to poo, so went to the toilet, tried going, but nothing, then this almighty pressure moved down with each contraction, I yelled out to mum that I think I was pushing and to call the midwife (haha). DP sort of hung back about here, only to walk down the hallway and make the lovely comment of “don’t have the baby on the toilet”… thanks!<br /><br />I desperately wanted to get off the toilet, but the contractions were on top of each other and I just couldn’t move. I briefly saw the midwife run down the hallway to set up in my bedroom, and I managed to move into the bathroom and sway against the sink. I was freaking that the baby was going to fall out onto the tiles, so made mum put some towels down lol.<br /><br />The midwife was ready, so I made the dash to my bed and lay down. She checked babies heartbeat, which was perfect, and then did a VE. I was terrified she was going to say I was 4cms, but I was 9!!! Woohoo! She told me not to push yet because I was only 9cm, then on the next contraction she saw a head. She quickly called the backup midwife, and in the rush said her lady was 11cm at 9 ******* Street lol. From here on out DP just hung back in the furthest corner of the room away from the bed.<br /><br />I didn’t need to push, the baby just moved down with each contraction, so I just focused on my breathing. There was a big gap in contractions and I snoozed for a couple minutes when all of a sudden I felt THE burn… I had no idea about the burn, and wasn’t expecting it, so yelled out it was burning!!! Which was the only time I really lost it through the whole thing. The head was out, and I was told to stop pushing as the cord was a bit around her neck, I wasn’t sure how I was supposed to not push when I hadn’t actually been trying to push in the first place, but luckily it was out of the way in time for the next contraction where the rest of my beautiful girl followed. She was born at 1.00am 30 September, weighing 2.6kg (5lb 12oz). The backup midwife arrived 10 minutes after.<br /><br />After enjoying some cuddles with my gorgeous baby I was given the injection to get the placenta out. After some tugging and pulling, there was still no luck. I whipped off my top so she could have her first feed, she didn’t quite get the hang of it, so we gave it a rest. DP had finally got over the shock and had some cuddles while I was told to get upright and try pushing the placenta out, I spent 10 minutes squatting on my bed over an ice-cream container trying with all my might to get the freaken thing out! After such a beautiful birth it was such a shame that now I felt so exposed and had lost all dignity. Still no luck, lay back down to have another tug, and FINALLY, nearly 2 hours after my baby was born, the placenta finally came out. I was so glad to not have to go into hospital for a silly placenta after an amazing labour and birth.<br /><br />Daylight came around, and family came and went throughout the morning to meet my little princess. I was on such a high that I didn’t manage to have a nap until 3pm.<br /><br />I loved the entire experience, and I would do it all over again tomorrow if I got the same prize at the end. I hope bringing any future children into the world goes just as smoothly, and I can’t wait to do it again :)]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=104262">Kathryn137955</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 02 February 2014 at 7:42pm<br /><br />Some great birthing stories here  <img src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0" align="middle" /> <br />For those ladies still waiting for there first birthing experience I have two things to share:<br /><br />1st, before I even got pregnant I was really worried about giving birth (and of course when you're pregnant everyone around you tells you how terrible theirs was! And ironically I always found the blokes to be the worst). But as my pregnancy progressed, I got calmer and calmer about it. I started thinking that no matter what others said, my birth experience would be all my own, and completely different from anyone else's. It would be an adventure all our own.<br /><br />2nd, and this is advice I actually got from my father. I was TERRIFIED of the idea of a c-section. And my dad told me - if you need a c-section that means things aren't going so great. You're labouring and not getting anywhere, and you and/or the baby may be in danger. So to have someone say to you at that point "lie back and relax, we'll take over from here" would most likely be a relief. This advice helped me immensely.<br /><br />And personally, I started initial contractions at about 1:30am; into hospital at 10am with stronger contractions; got urge to push about 12:45pm, and pushed my DD out by 1:30pm (for a first that's not bad!!). Unlike others on here, I didn't get gas UNTIL I started to push. I was in a bit of shock after DD came out, and I didn't want to hold her or anything - which can happen to some women, so don't feel guilty!!<br /><br />You can cope with giving birth. It is on the outer limits of what you can handle; but you can totally handle it. Best of luck to you all!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=41254">Talz</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 01 February 2014 at 11:07am<br /><br />Sorry about the typos etc...silly autocorrect! My boy was born at 7:28pm. So not too bad a labour first time round!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=41254">Talz</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 01 February 2014 at 11:05am<br /><br />Loved reading some of your stories! <br /><br />Here's how my son entered the world! <br />EDD 4th August 2012<br /><br />I had a feeling I'd go overdue, first timers normally do. Anyhow the night before my labour started I had a nice hog long bath and hubby gave me a shoulde/neck massage. By 5am on the 6th August I woke again for about the 5th time and went loo. By 6am I thought jeepers I've been loo lots this morning and felt restless so got up. Was having Braxton hicks like had been recently. I went on Facebook and had to sit at the table as my lazy boy felt too I comfy. I was restless up and down. Hubby went to work and I text him at 7:45 and said the niggles were feeling a bit weird. I wasn't convinced I was in labour yet, but rung my mum to come out to be with me for the day. She asked f I wasn't feeling well and I burst into tears!<br /><br />Mum turned up around 9:30am and said it lookalike I was in labour but I thought they might go away....how wrong was I! Rung midwife and she came out around 11am and checked how I was going. I was 1-2cm....so she said about 1cm an hour from there and I was thinking blimmin hell!!<br /><br />I laboured at home ok with that horrid back pain as bubs was prosterior too. I started vomiting with contractions and couldn't keep anything down. Tried to have a sleep but couldn't as contractions woke me every few mins. Had a bath for half an hour too. Then by about 2:30 I'd had enough and wanted to be checked again. By this stage mum was concerned about me being dehydrated anyway. So she took me to meet up with DH. Then DH and I went to the maternity centre where MW was. I was 5-6cm so ready to go to the hospital where I'd planned to deliver. So a half hour journey we made it to hospital. I was not in a very good state by now with fast contractions and still vomiting. <br /><br />Had a shower in the delivery room ensuite and my show apparently came not long after. By now it was about 6pm. MW had arrived and offered gas. I felt need to push around 6:45 so did and my waters still hadn't broken. She kept saying they would after each push. But the membranes were tough so I expelled the bag and she had to break them. It was 7pm. Then I really wanted to push and she said babies head was following bag down so ready to go. I began pushing and after a few pushes his head was out, but they told me to stop pushing as they had to cut the cord as babies was wrapped around babies head and under arm. His hand beside face, and two pushes and he was out.<br /><br />I got pooped on as he was delivered to me lol but he was healthy and well. 7lb 13oz boy! <br />Was a great labour and delivery, but next problem.....placenta wouldn't come. So I had to into theatre at 11pm for removal and also to fix my 3rd deg tear. So had a spinal for that.....gutted AFTER birth!<br />All was well otherwise and know have a 18month old boy and number two on its way due In August again!.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=67795">lauraangharad</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 14 November 2013 at 9:20pm<br /><br />I have really enjoyed reading the birth stories so I thought I'd share mine.  My little Samuel Donald came into the world five and a half weeks early at 1.17pm on 11 October 2013, and here is how it happened...<br /><br />At 34 weeks and 2 days, the Tuesday, I had some cramping pain while I was at my antenatal group.  It wasn’t coming in regular intervals and eased enough to sleep after a couple of hours.  The following morning I was still achy and crampy so called my midwife. She told me to take panadol and rest for a couple of hours.  Again the pain eased but didn’t go away completely so she asked me to come into hospital to be monitored.  After about 4 hours of monitoring during which nothing abnormal showed on the monitor my midwife and the doctor concluded that it was probably ligament pain.  Over the following day the pain eased again and I put it out of my mind.  <br /><br />When I woke up on Friday 11 October the cramping was a little stronger and I had my show.  I phoned my midwife who told me not to worry, that it doesn’t mean anything is happening and she’d had women before who had their show at 35 weeks and didn’t deliver until 42 weeks.  So, I got ready for work and tried to put it out of my mind.  The cramping was still quite painful so I took a couple more panadol.  Then, at about 8.15am, as I sat on the bus I had a wave of pain much worse than I had had before.  I had another as I was getting off the bus and thought that I should pay attention to when the cramps were coming to check they weren’t regular or escalating.  As I sat at my desk I had another and another wave of pain.  I realised it was bad enough that I was holding onto the edge of my desk and concentrating on breathing through the pain.  I realised that something was very wrong and called my midwife again, quite upset this time.  She told me to get straight to delivery suite and she would meet me there.  I told my manager that I was in a lot of pain and my midwife told me to get to the hospital.  She dropped everything and took me to delivery suite in a taxi.  I called my husband on the way and told him to meet me there.<br /><br />In delivery suite they hooked me up to the monitors to try and work out what was going on.  The pain was coming regularly, in pairs (an echo apparently) but wasn’t showing as contractions, however they concluded pretty quickly that they obviously were contractions. As I was under 36 weeks my midwife couldn’t lead my delivery, the hospital midwife did, my midwife was there though even though she had someone else being induced at the same time.  The hospital midwife was lovely though, as was the chief midwife and the doctor. The doctors considered trying to stop the labour, but once the midwife had examined me they decided there was no point trying because I was too far along.  <br /><br />My waters broke around 11.15am during a contraction.  I had gas to help with the contractions, which were getting stronger and more painful by this time, however there was no chance to talk about any other pain relief so I continued labouring and soon enough the midwives were telling me to push if I felt like I wanted to.  I didn’t to start with and in the end they told me to start pushing!  I pushed for what seemed like ages and nothing was happening, the baby was ok but stuck.  My labour was so fast he hadn’t been able to turn to posterior.  I pushed and pushed and pushed, gasping on the gas to get my through.  It was the most intense feeling.  I was starting to get really worried about the baby and then, eventually, I managed to push him out and Sam was born at 1.17pm.<br /><br />Even though he was born at 34 weeks and 5 days my little Sam breathed on his own straight away and we were able to have a skin to skin cuddle while they stitched up my two 2nd degree tears, before he was taken to NICU.<br /><br />Sam was 2.286kg / 5.03lb and stayed in NICU for a day short of three weeks.  He had quite bad jaundice and had just over a week of phototherapy in an incubator before coming out into a cot.  He also had two large lumps (kefalhaematoma) on his head and quite extensive bruising from being stuck.  Sam came home almost two weeks ago and is thriving now.<br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=46518">jessicajanea</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 20 August 2013 at 11:17pm<br /><br /><strong> my birth story </strong><br />i'll keep this brief ladies<br />my beautiful daughter was born 21 march. <br />I was 39 weeks pregnant and I had been drinking raspberry leaf tea to help thin out my cervix for about 3-4 weeks. I was feeling relaxed, knowing my baby would come when she was ready and nothing i could do would make her come sooner.<br />Every day I would go for a walk, and have some fruit. (some people say pineapple helps contractions start, I am unsure of whether this actually worked)<br />I was feeling a little queasy for a few days, my midwife sent me for a blood test to test my kidney function.<br />I went to bed. I woke up at about midnight, bit of a sore stomach.<br />I woke up at 1.30am, definite contraction. I just decided to stay in bed. I counted in my head how long the contractions were, I ignored them until I couldn't ignore them any longer. Then I had a couple of panadol.<br /><br />By 3.30am I was in full established labour, contracting 3 minutes apart. Called my midwife.She told me to call back once the contractions were worse. By 5 they were a lot worse and I called my MW to tell her to come at 6am I was checked and measured 6cm dialated.<br />By the time it was getting light about 7ish I really wanted to push.<br /><br />Because of my pelvic pain in my pregnancy the only way I could handle the contractions was sitting up on the couch (not an ideal way to get a baby out) I tried to get itno the bath. it was awful, I felt like I was just squishing around and no gravity to hold me together. Flag that. <br /><br />At about 8.25 I started pushing and at 8.40am my baby girl was born into the world at home safe and sound. :)<br /><br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=48720">Guest_91656</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 03 May 2013 at 4:02pm<br /><br />dfsd<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Guest_91656 - 03 May 2013 at 4:02pm</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=38945">Free2BeMe</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 20 April 2013 at 7:31pm<br /><br />It was supposed to be a waterbirth! The homebirth of Marley<br /><br />This baby really wanted to be born, he snuck in right under the radar, only days after Ian and I agreed completely we were only having two children, I suddenly realised my period was late, and when I tested, hey presto, pregnant! <br /><br />I rang my doula of choice straight away, worried she may be booked out, I had decided I did not want to have a midwife present at this birth, I wanted an unhindered birth, and this doula provided exactly the kind of support I was looking for.<br /><br />This was a really different pregnancy for me, a lot more difficult than my first two, which I put down to me not being terribly fit beforehand, wheras I had been for the others.<br /><br />I plodded along feeling pretty tired, running around after my two other youngsters, slowly getting bigger and bigger, seemingly much bigger than ever.<br /><br />I was getting great support from my doula, we had long lovely meetings where we chewed over the failings of the maternity system in Australia. <br /><br />I watched a good number of really inspiring homebirth dvds during my pregnancy, getting the boys to watch as well, to make sure they were prepared for how I may look and sound in labour, they really enjoyed them, which was reassuring.<br /><br />I fully expected to give birth a little before my ‘due date’ as Louie had been a week ‘early’ and I was tandem nursing, something I expected to impact my pregnancy by the end.<br /><br />Well, ‘due date’ came and went, I was not really coping with it too well, I was determined to let bub come in his own time, but was surprised (and annoyed! Whoops!) at how wrong I was about him being early.<br /><br />I got a pretty bad cough around this time, and a few days later I popped some cartilage in my ribs from coughing, wow, the pain was just excrutiating! I couldn’t really take anything for the pain, I didn’t really want to being pregnant. I went to see my doc, I just wanted to get my ribs taped up, and see if I could heal up before I went into labour. I was in a bit of a panic about it all, it was so painful.<br /><br />My doc was not at all reassuring, in fact she told me to go straight to the hospital and be assessed for a c/s. Hmmm…. I don’t think so.<br /><br />I decided to simply wait it out, and see if I could heal up, so from wanting bub out in a hurry, I was now willing him to wait, wait, wait, and let me be able to cope with a homebirth.<br /><br />I was healing well, and then I did it again, more cartilage was torn, I was over 41 weeks now, and really feeling stressed about it all. I just kept trying to heal up, still willing bub to stay put, and finally, on the evening of 41 weeks and 5 days, I got a bloody show, and started having the mildest of contractions.<br /><br />This was around 9pm, so I rang my doula, just to let her know something ‘may’ be happening. I really couldn’t sleep, and the pains were niggly enough to make Ian think full blown labour might be imminent, so he convinced me to ring my doula again, and ask her to come over.<br /><br />Well, she came, and nothing changed. We all tried to get some sleep, and that morning I was a bit annoyed it was not really happening, and feeling silly for having got my doula out so early.<br /><br />We could see bub had his butt sticking out of my belly on the right side, and my doula offered to do some rebozo work on me to see if we could straighten him up. She put the rebozo around my back, and held both ends, and pulling the ends alternately, she flicked my belly side to side. It felt lovely and relaxing, and then suddenly I felt a really odd sensation, I could feel bub sliding further down into my pelvis.<br /><br />I lay down for a sleep, and it must have been less than 10 minutes later, my waters broke, rather more than a trickle, this was midday. I was elated, good progress at last!! Yay for the rebozo technique!<br /><br />I was chatting to my doula out by the clothesline (she was getting the washing in!) and suddenly had a doozy of a contraction, waters leaking like crazy, I realized there was no point having any clothes on any longer, so stripped off on the back lawn, and I had a huge bloody show from that one contraction, things were really heating up. This was about 1:30pm.<br /><br />I asked for the birth pool to be filled up, dying to get in, and while I was waiting I had a couple of really good contractions while leaning on the edge of the deck, I must have been in transition at this stage, as the thoughts of “Whose stupid idea was a homebirth?” filtted briefly across my mind, and then I started to get ‘pushy’ feelings with the next contractions.<br /><br />I got into the pool, and it immediately felt really wrong, I couldn’t get comfortable, I felt totally ungrounded, and like a beached whale that was just floating this way and that, I just had to get out of there.<br /><br />We moved into the lounge, but I felt too exposed there as well, so my doula hung her rebozo over a door in the hallway for me to hold onto while in a semi squat. It was a really good position for me, but my hands couldn’t hold on after a while, they were just too tired, I was gripping it too tightly and the muscles in my hands were giving out.<br /><br />We moved to the bedroom (where my second son was born as well) and I leaned over the edge of my bed. It felt too low, so we found the ironing board, and I leaned over that with my head on a pillow, grasping it like it was my lover, trying to breathe my way through every contraction, trying to relax as much as humanly possible, labour was really underway, and my body was intent on pushing this bub out.<br /><br />I have long pushing stages unfortunately, and this was no exception, just over 2 hours of pushing, and then bubs head was on view. I put my hand down on my vagina to feel this little head sitting right on my perenium, pushing its way out of my body.<br /><br />I find crowning such a difficult part of labour, the pain is so intense for me I tend to push way to hard to get my bubs out, and tear badly. I was SO determined this time not to make that mistake, and I made myself go ‘elsewhere’ while the crowning was happening, just relaxing while my body did all the work.<br /><br />When my doula could see bub was about to pop out, she called to Ian to come to the bedroom to see, and I immediately tensed up, and said “No, I don’t want them here!” I was working so hard getting this crowning right, I kind of got stage fright, and didn’t want to be watched. I felt my body close up, and the baby got sucked back up into my body, it was a really uncanny feeling. <br /><br />My doula stalled everyone, and I got back to labouring to get this baby out, it took a few more full on contractions until baby was back to crowning again, and then out he came, he had his fist tightly stuck to his head, and this meant I had to work a little to get him out, and as his head emerged, with two loops of cord, his arm came at the same time, then his whole body slipped out really easily.<br /><br />He breathed pretty much straight away, and was quite mucously, so I faced him slightly down to drain it out.<br /><br />I was overwhelmed that it was all over, and I was sitting on my bedroom floor with a gorgeous baby in my arms. I didn’t look to see what sex he was, I just stared and stared at him, until Ian broke into my reverie to ask “what have we got?” and that was when I discovered I was the mum of three boys!<br /><br />Marley was 9lb 3oz, so by far the biggest of all my babies.<br /><br />My big fear of bleeding was unfounded, I hardly bled at all afterwards, and my placenta came out really easily after a couple of pushes. I also had only a small tear, nothing which would need stitching, I just treated it with colloidal silver spray, and it healed very easily.<br /><br />Marley was very interested in the breast straight away, and as soon as I got him positioned right, he latched on really strongly, and fed like a little champ.<br /><br />So, I proved the doctor wrong, no unnecesarean needed, although my ribs were extremely sore afterwards, two and a half weeks on, they are still sore every morning when I wake up, but get a lot better during the day.<br /><br />I did REALLY want a waterbirth, but obviously I am just a land birther, I like to have my feet planted squarely on the ground to bring these babies earthside.<br /><br />I am ecstatic with my choice to have no midwife present, this was my best birth so far, my doula provided the most amazing emotional support I could have wished for, if I ever have any more babies (I'm not  ) I would definitely have my doula again.<br /><br />My lovely doula very kindly prepared the placenta for me, she made me a placenta smoothie to drink immediately after the birth, and cut the rest into small pieces so I can eat them every day to stave off a repeat performance of PND.<br /><br />So far it seems to be working a treat, I'm feeling pretty upbeat despite being fairly sleep deprived.<br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=55897">ChrissyTakai97861</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 15 April 2013 at 12:58pm<br /><br />Wow MrsLissy you poor thing! You're very strong for going all of that and I don't blame you for wanting to choose an elective next time around. <br /><br />My story is very boring in comparison. <br /><br />My waters broke at 2am on Monday 18 February 2013. Our DD wasn't until 1 March 2013 so when I woke up I just thought I was going to the bathroom. I woke up my partner and he was convinced it was my waters and helped me to the bathroom. We then called our midwife who told us to try and get as much as possible while we can and she'd check in with us in the morning. At this point I was having very mild contractions and they were still very irregular. My partner and I didn't find it too easy to go back to sleep as we were just so excited at the prospect of seeing our daughter so soon. We txt my mum and my sister who were going to be there at the birth to let them know that things had started but it could still take some time before she arrives. My mum lives in Nelson so had to fly to Wellington so the advanced warning worked well for her. We eventually fell back alseep and I just had to keep getting up every now and then to go to the bathroom. In the morning my MW called to check the progress and I was very dissappointed that it hadn't progressed any further and the contractions had actually stopped. My MW organised a time to come by and see me at home and just instructed me to continue my day as per usual.<br /><br />So the day went on and my sister and I went to pick my mother up from the airport. Throughout the day we went out for lunch, went for a walk, watched movies and even went grocery shopping and all the while nothing much happened. My MW came to see me in the late afternoon and we went through what would happen from here. As things weren't progressing that well on their own at this stage and my waters had been broken for some time my MW instructed us to meet her at the hospital at 7.30pm that evening, if I wasn't in labour by then. At the hospital I would be monitored throughout the evening and then induced the next day. It is a risk for your waters to be broken for more than 24hours, which is where I seemed to be heading. Unfortunately no one would be able to stay with me at the hospital during this time. <br /><br />So we made sure everything was ready for the hospital, babys bag, my bag and the snacks etc. I also made sure that my support crew had what they needed. During this time I had contractions but nothing too major. We then made tracks for the hospital - all the while everyones buzzing with excitement. When we get to the hospital we're put in a tiny exam room and wait for our MW. When she arrives she takes my blood pressure and monitors baby for about 15mins or so. Everything with baby and myself seem absolutely fine so we're good to go and wait on the ward to see what happens. I say goodbye to my mother and sister and my partner comes with me to the ward to help me settle in. Once settled my MW and my partner head off for the evening and I'm left in the dark on my own. I must note that I have a fear of hospitals so this was the worst thing me! <br /><br />About 30mins after everyone leaves my contractions seem to be getting a little stronger and I feel slightly uncomfortable so ask to have a bath. I soak in the bath for about 20mins and then head back to my room. Once in my room i relax (as much as I can) and have a little snack. I try to sleep but its not possible at this point. About an hour passes and then I start to feel much more pain with each contraction. After I decide I have handled about all I can I call the nurse. She asks me questions and whether I would mind if she gave a VE to see how far along I am. The VE showed that I was 3cm and I could now be moved to the delivery suite. At this stage I am very scared that my partner and family won't make it for the birth. Once in the delivery suite I call home (2am at this point) and say that I am in labour and they need to hurry over. I then get in to the bath to try and help ease the discomfort and pain but it doesn't do too much to help me at this point so I ask the nurse if I could have an epidural. Another VE has to be done before they can confirm whether I can or cannot have an epidural and as it turns out I'm fully dilated and ready to push but neither my MW or my partner/family are with me. So I'm given some gas to help ease the discomfort and to hopefully help stall things until everyone arrives. By the time everyone arrives I'm sitting on the toilet puffing away on the gas. As soon as I see my partner I start crying and am ready to get this all underway. I am then transferred to the bed and start labouring. The labour is pretty smooth but my daughters head keeps going back up after each push which is very disheartning. Once her head is out we're told that her shoulders are stuck and the big red button is pushed and within seconds I have a doctor pushing on my stomach while I push with each contraction. Within seconds my daughter is on my chest and my support crew are crying and congratulating me and my partner. I was still a little confused as it all happened so fast and the additional doctors that rushed to help get her shoulders out disappeared as quickly as they came in - it sort of felt like a dream. The MW put my daughter on the breast and she just relaxed having her first feed while my MW stiched me up (they had to tear me slightly). My daughter then went to be weighed and measured while I said goodbye to everyone in preparation for the move to the ward with my daughter. <br /><br />My daughter was born 19 February 2013 at 4.19am. She was 3.43kgs and was 57cm long. She is 2months tomorrow and I can't believe all of this happened 2months ago. It really does all fly by. I always wanted to labour without any drugs and minus the gas I did achieve that (even though I asked for an epidural). In my personal opinion I prefer the labour to the 9months of pregnancy.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=40375">MummyM</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 01 April 2013 at 12:05am<br /><br />I'm going to break the drought and post my birth story after 6 months of no updates in here :)<br /><br />My birth was the most horrendous week of my life and if you want a nice induction story then this isn't for you.<br /><br />Lucas was born 8 June 2012 at 2.05pm.<br /><br />I go to my 37wk (tuesday) checkup and also happen to be meeting the backup midwife as I hadn't felt to comfortable with her and she takes my blood pressure and its sky high. I asked I have to go and have another blood test and she says no I'm sending you to hospital. Go to North Shore hospital to be monitored and baby is fine but they decide I may have pre esclampsia and I need to be kept in overnight for monitoring and to collect my wee for 24hrs so they can measure the protein. I stayed overnight collected what they needed and when the results came back they decided I probably just have hypertension and I could go home but needed to come back in next week to see an OB. <br /><br />The following Friday I go in to see the OB and she decides that I have pre-esclampsia and that I need to be induced ASAP. I'm booked in for induction at 7.30am on Sunday (38+6). We get really excited and spend Saturday tying up all the loose ends that need to be looked after and don't get much sleep that night because we were so close to meeting our baby!  Go to hospital on Sunday morning have a VE and midwife is happy to report I'm already 3cm and with the pre-esclampsia the labour should hopefully go quickly. Get gel put in and go for a big walk. Nothing really happens but they check me too late to put more in so have to sleep the night in the assessment area and hubby has to go home. He comes in the next day and I'm checked again and more gel is inserted. Nothing happens so in the afternoon they put more in and I start to get small contractions that are enough to make me take panadol. It gets late they send hubby home and tell me to get some sleep. I got up in the night a couple of times to go to the toilet and lose my plug and was still getting pains. Wake up in the morning and nothing is happening. I talked to the OB and they admit defeat calling it a failed induction. Bloods are done and the pre-esclampsia isn't a problem so they let me go home for a couple of nights but they make me come in the next day (Wednesday) to get a CTG and bloods to make sure everything is ok. Go in on Wednesday and everything is fine but have to come back the next day to start the induction again. It was really confusing being sent home as we expected we would be going home with a baby when I went in to be induced and it was a real let down that nothing had happened. We knew induction could take a couple of days but really hadn't prepared ourselves for the possibility it might not work. <br /><br />We go back in on Thursday morning and they do a VE and say we could probably break your waters (they had been saying this all along and we knew that would be the point of no return) but we will do some more gel and see how we go. I was really disappointed and had resigned myself to the fact that the gel was going to do nothing but they didn't want to do anything else. At about 1pm have another VE done by an OB who thinks she wants to try breaking my waters. I had already ahead so many s&s's which I found quite painful but really wanted something to happen so agreed to let her try. We finally got moved out of the assessment room into a birthing suite but were warned that if she couldn't break my waters I would be going back there. Because of how uncomfortable I had found the VE she suggested she puts my feet up in the stirrups to break the waters. We get into position and she goes to do it but it is even more painful than just lying on the bed so we spend another 10 mins getting out of that and putting the bed back together. She has a go and manages to break my waters. We think yay baby has to be on its way now if they like it or not. Wait for an hour walking around (having waters broken is what I think it would be like to be incontinent you have no control over what comes out and was a really funny feeling) and nothing happens. After an hour they put me onto the synto drip and as they increase it I start to get contractions but they have to put the drip up as often as they are allowed. At about 10pm (have been on drip for about 7 hours now) my contractions get nice and regular and painful and hospital mw suggests we call my one in. My mw gets there about 45 mins later and contractions are all over the place but still painful and OB comes in and suggests early epidural which I agree to because these contractions already hurt and we knew we may have to wait for the right person for a while. About half an hour later get epi and once it starts to work relax a bit. Still only about 4cm dilated but mw is hoping with epi and me relaxing things might start to kick off. Get VE every couple of hours and nothing is really changing. I started asking my mw at what point would we go to cs and me mw and hubby pretty much all agree that the writing is on the wall and that's where I'm going to end up. The synto drip was now put on the maximum and OB wants to leave it the for a while to see how I go. But also says if nothing much changes next exam I will go down to theatre. A couple of hours later (this is where I start to lose track of time OB comes back in and does VE and says it much change but we will keep going. Well I lost the plot I just wanted it to be over although a cs was the last thing I wanted and emotionally I couldn't take much more. I got hysterical and started bawling my eyes out and screamed at the OB if was being left they had to top up my epi. My mw had left by this point and handed me over to the hospital as she had been there too long and the hospital mw I had was awesome (I also had a student in too) and they got wet facecloths to put on my face and eventually calmed me down. For the next 6 or so hours it was them same story. I would be checked not having made much progress but was promised every time if nothing had changed at the next exam I would go to cs. Finally I had had enough and my husband got the OB to write that specifically into the notes and sign it so there would be no repeat of it next time. A couple of hours later I get checked and have made no progress and the decision is finally made to take me downstairs. After almost 12 hours of the synto being pumped into my system they finally take it off and my contractions die right down while we are waiting to go into theatre. Although I was classed as an emergency cs because baby was still happy they didn't have any sense of urgency around it. Go into theatre and get given a spinal because my epi had not been working and I developed a patch on my left side that I could feel (at some point in the night they had come back and fiddled with it and I had lay on my side etc but the patch still wasn't being covered). I was put on the table tied down and they got to work. <br /><br />Finally after over almost a week of being induced my baby was born at 2.05pm on Friday. They lifted him up over the drape as we didn't know what he was going to be and I started crying immediately and just kept saying its a boy (was convinced he was going to be a girl). They took him over to the table to weight, measure and check him out and my husband kept getting in the way so I kept telling him to move so I could see my bubba. I cried the whole time I think with relief that it was over he was born and we were both ok! The anaesthatist (sp) was awesome and was holding my hand and saying nice things until hubby came over with baby. The three of us cuddled and the student mw took heaps of pics for us. Then hubby and baby went to recovery while they finished up with me and he did skin to skin first which he was really stoked about :) then in no time at all it seemed I was being taken around to recovery. As soon as I got in there baby was out on me for skin to skin and I had my first proper cuddle with him. In recovery I heard the nurses talking saying that I had lost lots of blood and my placenta was quite small. This explained his low birthweight of 2.85kg. When we called my mw to tell her she kept getting my hubby to repeat it as I had a scan the day before they started inducing me and he was predicted to be a lot bigger than that. <br /><br />So after feeling so glad it was over we then got hit with a stack of info he was IUGR, jaundiced and was so sleepy he wasn't feeding for long so I was having to hand express colostrum for him which we were then syringing into his mouth. My mw told me that if we had known how little he was I would not have been pushed for anywhere near as long and they would have made the decision to go to cs far earlier. I got baby blues a couple of days later but they didn't last for long. <br /><br />So after the most horrendous experience of my life I am so looking forward to being able to choose an elective next time because there is no way I'm putting myself through that again. I was hoping for a as drug free natural childbirth as possible and got my absolute worst case scenario. But I am so glad we were both ok and he's so worth it but I do think I have the right to occasionally remind him what he put me through to get him here when he's older :)<br /><br />Sorry for the novel! <br /><br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=41658">Rexy</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 19 October 2012 at 10:33pm<br /><br />Went to bed early Sunday night with horrendous back pain that I was hoping was back labour, since I was due the day before. Told DP we wouldn’t make it to our 2.30 midwife appointment the next day, but he didn’t believe me and went to sleep. Woke up at 2am and went toilet, and saw some fluid and a bit of blood in my underwear. Decided it was just my show, so went back to bed until about 5, when I started feeling little gushes of fluid with contractions. So I woke up DP and said there was no way he was going to work that day, and could he ring the midwife and let her know, as I was a little worried that there was still blood on my pad. Except the MW wasn't answering and her voicemail said she was on leave. Started worrying a bit then that she'd gone away and not told me! <br />So we called the backup who told me the blood was just my show and not to worry, just head to the hospital when I was ready to. So we waited for Mum to turn up, and I sat down with a cup of tea and toast, trying to eat a bit between pains. When Mum turns up, we get a call from my midwife, who tells me she wants me at the hospital straight away because of the blood. Turns out she went swimming in my time of need.<br /><br />Left Mum with my stepson, and headed up to maternity where they settle me into a room. With a pool, as requested. Midwife turns up and immediately checks my pad and decides I need monitoring, while she talks to the obstetrician. She comes back soon, and says because the blood is more than what they’d expect for a show, they want to break my waters completely – was just the hindwaters that had gone before. Mum gets here about this point.<br /><br />So out comes the amniohook, which was a lot less uncomfortable than I was expecting, and my waters were broken, instantly taking me from 3cm to to 4 – 5cm dilated. Unfortunately, when my waters gushed out, my midwife noticed meconium staining the sheets, which she tells me, instantly stressing me out. The obstetrician decides that I need the Pitocin, as we can’t risk a long labour. But I have to wait til they come back from theatre, in case things progress quickly. During the waiting time, my contractions became bad enough for my midwife to tell me that she thought I needed an epidural, since I wasn’t going to be getting into the pool and the gas wasn’t doing enough. Discussed it with Mum and DP, and decided that she was right – I hadn’t wanted any pain relief originally, but knew I needed to relax and get baby out safely. It gets a bit fuzzy round this time from the gas, but I remember the very nice (and cute) doctor coming in and putting in the epidural, which I didn’t feel except for the tingling down one leg. Once that was in, I was able to relax for a while, though I could still feel the contractions, but was able to stop using the gas and chat with Mum, Anth and the midwife, who was just eating her breakfast now. My blood pressure dropped to 70/50 and they were about to give me medication to bring it up, but it eventually rose up again by itself, with the help of fluids. <br />Within an hour, I was 8cm, and my midwife said she wasn’t topping up my epidural just yet. Half an hour later the pains were so bad I was lifting off the bed with every contraction, so she checked me again, with the idea of topping me up if I wasn’t fully dilated. Amazingly, I was 10cm, but baby’s head was still high, so she didn’t want me to push for another half hour..15 minutes later I was telling her I HAD to push. I pushed for about 45 minutes before the midwife called in the obstetrician, who said if I didn’t get much further by 2pm she was sending me to theatre for a forceps delivery with the potential for a Caesarean. That gave me the motivation to push harder, and baby started descending more quickly, so I didn’t have to have assistance, but the doctors stayed in the room just in case. <br />About halfway through, the midwifes phone rings, and she manages to answer it, and hold a conversation while coaching me. It had us in hysterics! <br />Because my contractions were very short, only about a minute in length, I only got 3 pushes in each contraction, and the assisting midwife kept telling me to push after they had finished – if I hadn’t been in stirrups, I probably would have kicked her in the face! Right when I felt like it was time for the head to pop out, my midwife said she was going to have to give me an episiostomy. She managed to get the anesthetic in before I pushed again, but I tore about 3 seconds before she cut me. After that, I knew how close I was to meeting my baby, so I pushed harder than ever, and felt the head start to come out. The midwife asked Anth if he wanted to have a look, and though originally I had said no way, he was so excited by the whole thing, I had to let him. He was nearly in tears, watching our daughter slowly emerge. I had 3 different people telling me to push, when suddenly my midwife is saying “don’t push, don’t push, Nat the cord is looped, you need to stop”. Its quickly removed from around her neck, and three pushes later, I’m seeing a baby skidding across the bed! I barely have time to register the fact that my baby is here before my midwife is telling me to push again, and within 30 seconds, my placenta is out. DP chooses now to say, “see, we did make our 2.30 appointment!”<br />Baby was dried and popped on my chest, while the assisting midwife checked my abdomen. After everything that had happened already, I wasn’t surprised when she started massaging it, and I asked her quite casually, “its not contracting, is it?” It wasn’t, so I had to have the Syntometrine Injection... then an IV infusion, and eventually, a third lot rectally. I lost about 800ml of blood all up, but my uterus contracted in the end, and we could relax. The Doctor started suturing my tears, I had torn my urethra as well as a nearly 3rd degree perineum tear. While she’s doing this, my midwife hands me a sandwich and tells me I need to eat, and she shows me my placenta (I'm a nursing student, eating and looking at a placenta doesn't bother me), and the clot on it that could have been the cause of the bleeding. About 40 minutes later, I finally get my legs down from the stirrups and can enjoy my baby! I spent 6 more hours in delivery, in case of further complications, before going over to the post natal side where we spent 5 days, with baby having a tongue tie, and me getting a uterine infection. <br /><br />So officially my labour was 5 hours and 49 minutes from my first check to placenta being delivered (couldn't believe it came out so quickly after baby), which I thought was pretty good for a first time; and in the end I did all the pushing without any pain relief so the birth itself was natural, as planned. Midwife tells me I was very lucky to avoid forceps/ventouse/Caesarean.<br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=37934">Mummyinc</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 09 June 2012 at 1:31pm<br /><br />Wow Nannikin that was awesome, i remember felling pretty upset when they took the gas off me too....Midwife told DP to do it....poor guy]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=27888">nannikin</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 25 May 2012 at 5:36pm<br /><br />So my birth story ended up being a bit of a novel...<br /><br />For the most part I had the textbook birth story. Woke at 6am to a really weird feeling, my underpants were busy filling up with liquid! Somehow managed to wrangle myself out of bed and grab a towel - then off to the bathroom to have a wee looksee. Found part of my show on my liner and a whole lot of pinky-clear fluid hangin' around. Woohoo things are under way!<br /><br />Contractions started pretty much instantly, I was back in bed and feeling very excited. I remember thinking how uncomfortable the feeling of the contractions were. Little did I know they were just ickle baby ones... Got up around 8am and into the shower, was such an awkward space to be in while contracting - tried all sorts of positions, kneeling, sitting, leaning - everything but standing on my head. Started to feel pretty dizzy after about half an hour, so that was the end of that.<br /><br />Spent the rest of the morning sitting on my swiss ball, started vocalising as the contractions hit which helped. MW came to check on me at around 1pm and asked if I wanted an exam to see how things were looking. After what felt like the longest morning ever I was more than happy for her to get in there and tell me all about it! I was so so thankful to hear that I was 6cm dilated and soft and stretchy - was petrified that she would do the VE and tell me that I had only managed a couple of cm. She left saying to get in touch when I was ready to head to the hospital. At that point I thought I could manage at home for a bit longer, but almost as soon as she left I had 3 really full on contractions and that was it. Off to the hospital we go. Most uncomfortable car ride ever, and then one block away from the hospital we hit roadworks and backed up traffic! Cue two very sad faces in our little car!! MW told me later she wasn't surprised to hear from us so soon as she had done a sneaky wee stretch on my cervix as part of the VE.<br /><br />Finally we get to the hospital, and find a carpark just outside the hospital doors, and as soon as I get out of the car another cx hits - I couldn't move! My poor husband was trying to get me to keep walking, I think he thought baby was about to arrive on the footpath haha I vaguely remember some concerned passerby offering to run and get a wheelchair. So lovely. Make it up to the birthing suites - after almost passing out in the shower earlier I wasn't too bothered that it was a room without a birthpool, even though it had been part of my birthplan to use one.<br /><br />Back onto the birthing ball, and pretty promptly start using the gas. Made me feel so lightheaded to start off with, but sooooo good once I got the hang of it. The next three hours are pretty hazy, I remember being really comfy on the swiss ball for a long time, but ended up on all fours on the bed leaning on the raised head of the bed as the afternoon progressed. <br /><br />We had agreed on a VE 3 hours after the first, so at 4pm MW and my student MW checked me out - 9cm!! Excellent news. Started feeling pushy at around 5pm, was absolutely dismayed when they told me I had to let go of the gas if I was going to start pushing.... But, needs must - so very begrudginly gave it up. I have to say, pushing wasn't the amazing release that I thought it would be. It was damn hard work, and it took me a long time to get the hang of pushing properly. MW gave me some good direction (read: told me off for being too noisy, and told me to use my energy for pushing instead!) and we got underway. Poor bubba ended up bouncing on my perineum for around 45 minutes, so came out with bruising on the back of her head. Such a surreal feeling pushing a wee body out of your lady bits - the burn when she crowned was unreal. But, as DH kept telling me - every cx and every push was one little bit closer to meeting our baby. <br /><br />So out she came at 5.47pm, putting her lungs to good use as soon as she was out. Man newborn babies look alienlike, all purply and slippery and geez how NOISY! Conehead and all. DH and I got to find out her sex together - such an amazing moment to find out we had a wee girl. I think I was in shock, I just kept saying - look, it's our baby! it's our baby! <br /><br />So they leave us to have cuddles, we were both so excited that she was finally here. Kept just looking at each other with happy tears in our eyes. I had asked for a natural third stage so MW said she would give it an hour.<br /><br />So the hour passed, and I wasn't feeling any contractions and nothing was happening when I gave a tentative little push under her instruction. So she said she would give me another little while and then would have to give me the injection.<br /><br />So I got the injection. And we waited another hour. And we got nothin'. <br /><br />So they decided to put an IV line in and give me some syntocin. We wait another hour, and still nothing is happening. Somewhere along here I have a catheter inserted. I was far too busy ogling my beautiful little girl to even notice.<br /><br />Cue much pulling and tugging on the cord to see if it will come out. Placenta is obviously feeling far too comfortable in my little ute and won't budge an inch. MW starts to get a little worried she will break the cord so goes out of the room to organise someone higher up the foodchain to come and take a look. So the registrar gets called in to take a look, placenta won't behave for her either. They leave me on the drip for another wee while, telling me that I should be aware that I may need to be taken to theatre and get a spinal block so they can remove the darn thing. Registar comes back, lots more pulling and yanking. Tells me again that we will probably be heading to theatre :( then she decides to take a peek at my cervix as she thinks she can feel a corner of the placenta hanging out of it. So with speculum and 'soft forceps' and some more yanking my silly old placenta finally makes her entrance!! So utterly thankful I didn't have to have any further intervention, it got pretty close by the sounds of things.<br /><br />They were unsure if the placenta had come out whole, judging by the clots the size of my palm I had in the two days following birth my guess would be no, it didn't come out whole!!<br /><br />So all in all, a pretty positive experience - 12 hours labour for a first timer aint half bad really :D Had a second degree tear, which gave me a lot of grief in the first 10 days post partum, looking back now I really wish I had asked to have it stitched - my MW thought it looked like it would heal nicely as it was so left it. I'll know for next time now though!! <br /><br />We are both so in love with our amazing wee girl, hard to believe she is finally here but loving every minute of it. <br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=37934">Mummyinc</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 May 2012 at 6:28pm<br /><br />Afternoon all, I loved reading all the birth stories on here when i was pregnant and so now its my time to share.<br /><br />I will admit even according to my Midwife i had a pretty text book birth, few minor dramas but i am blessed to have had an amazing midwife and Partner who helped me stick to my plan, even when i was going a little mental....so here goes.<br /><br />I was "Due" the 24th April, i never gave too much thought to the date, both DP and i are pretty chilled out folk and i knew first timers usually always go late so even tho we counted down i had n misconception i would actually give birth on or even a few days either side of that date, i had a feeling he would arrive the 29th April and DP said he thought the 2nd May....<br /><br />Saw the midwife on the 25th April for our weekly visit and it was decided that our next apointment would be at the Hospital to do a stretch and sweep so that was booked for the afternoon of 2nd May ( DP was now very sure he had guessed the correct date haha, Yeah Right) <br /><br />Now maybe the time to let you know we live in Hahei, Coromandel and i was planning to give birth at Tauranga Hospital (approx 2.5 hour drive in good traffic) we have family in Tauranga and i was adamant i would not give birth in Thames hospital ( officaly our closest Hospital) due to a past bad experience there.<br /><br />So we drove home on the 25th April, and continued our daily routine of Walk, Curry every second night and accupressure/massage to induce Labour (sorry ladies i was unfourtunaly in NO way up to hankypanky at this stage in my pregnancy, feeling like a hormonal hippo walking the beach was hard work)<br /><br />I dont really feel like it was any of these things that kicked us off, i think Baby just decided it was his time to arrive..at 2am on Sunday the 29th i woke up to slightly more painful then the usual Braxton Hicks...went back to sleep, woke up again at 2.06am...then 2.12,2.18,2.24, and so on....exactly every 6min i was having a feeling, was not fully convinced so asked DP to grab me a hottie and put that on my tummy and went back to sleep, (not a very good sleep i must say) woke at 5am really busting for the loo and still having a cramp every 6min on the dot, when i wiped i saw a big bloody show and  called out to DP that i had lost it....we both still didnt think i was in latent labour, i was convinced that if i got up and had a shower and a walk around that it would go away...<br />So i did exactly that....did our usual daily stuff, except i had a hottie on my tummy for most of it, also we decided to stop timing them til later in the day...went for a nice long (slow) walk down the beach, up the stairs at the beach and home...this was about 4.30pm...started timing them again when we got home at 5pm, i had moved to sitting/leaning over the birth ball with a hottie on my front and on my back...by about 8.30pm they had amped up in intensity but not changed in timing, we decided it would be best to start the drive to Tauranga (just incase) and i was going to continue labouring at MIL home until it was time to go to hospital...<br /><br />I think by now i was still convinced as soon as we got on the road they would go away...possibly i was in denial, in hindsight i didnt quite believe we had gone into labour all on our own, i had always had the feeling i would need some kind of assistance to go into labour. but i was wrong, over the 3 hour car ride ( three instead of 2.5 due to DP needing to slow for every little bump) my contractions amped up to every 5 min, then every 4min, so by the time we arrived in Tauranga i was having a pretty horrid time and could'nt wait to get out of the car...DP was timing as well as driving and did'nt actually tell me til we got to Tauranga that they had gone to every 4min...cheeky.<br />we arrived at the MIL at 11.30pm on the 29th ( so i was not to have my April 29th bub...but close) Laboured until 2.30am by this time i had been having contractions 3 every 10min lasting 1min each, and dare i say the hot water bottle was now not exactly making a dent on the discomfort...as per the midwive we were now allowed to call her, she arranged to meet us at the hospital at 3am...we were only 5min away so DP packed the car while i laboured on the birth ball.<br /><br />Arrived at the hospital on time, and even tho i was determined to walk to the ward i had a intense contraction half way thru the automatic doors and almost got sliced in half by them, ended up getting wheeled up in a wheel chair and bawled my eyes out the whole way because i wanted to walk...funny now...but i was so sure i would be able to walk up and was looking forward to it...was not a happy chappy when i arrived in the delivery suite....<br /><br />My midwife checked me strait away, including baby heart monitor as bub had had a skippy heart beat during my pregnancy, i was only 2cm and fully effaced, and bubs Heart beat was dipping everytime i had a contraction, possibly due to him being in a strange position, slightly across wise instead of heading strait down, and he had his head tipped back so he was coming forehead first...she gave me some homeopathics and said i would need to labour on the bed with the monitor on for a while...NOT in my birth plan i wanted to keep as active as possible, I was able to handle the contractions well when sitting on a birth ball but flat on my back in bed was hideous, about 30min in i had an intense contraction and we actually saw him turn, it was very sore, but the upside was my midwife said since he was heading the right way now i was able to get up and labour in the shower for an hour, she got me a stool and towels and we turned off the lights and closed the door and me and DP sat facing each other (he was on the loo) i was having strong contractions every 3min and we were falling asleep ( still in the shower/on the loo) in between.<br /><br />4.30am and the midwive checked me again, woohoo i was 3cm! i think she was pretty shocked but happy as things were progressing properly, BUT bubs heart beat was still going down a bit with contractions, she decided to Break my waters as said this bub needs to come out sooner rather then later and maybe his head will go into a better position...i was kind of against having my waters broken but after a chat with DP we decided ok, i was scared it would hurt but it didnt at all, just felt like i had done the biggest wee of my life....and strait away i went to 5cm! yahoo...easiest 2cm of my life i recon.<br /><br />In my birth plan i had stated i only wanted to use Gas as  pain relief and this is when i got given it, it took a little getting used to but it helped me alot, tho i apologise it did make the next few hours a bit of a hazy blur, i remember labouring (on my back again to monitor bubs) then blessed be i was able to get up and onto a ball next to the bed...this is when i noticed things amping up, i had to stand up off the ball with every contraction, and felt my-self pushing a bit...this didnt go un-noticed and the midwife checked me, said i was 7cm and to stop pushing because i was causing my cervix to swell...that comment gave me the sh*ts, it was so hard not to push but i was terrified of causing swelling and couldnt stop thinking eeek im going to swell up and will have to have a c-section....<br />Tried not pushing for a few contractions and didnt have much luck i felt my body take over, midwive checked again and i was getting so tired by now my legs were shaking and i was having trouble standing with my contractions...got helped up onto the bed was on my knees holding on to the uprasied bed head, oh and they took the gas off me so i could concentrate, and lo and behold i was allowed to push....about 15min after she told me not to haha..<br />This is when time kind of stood still, i noticed my contractions had longer rest periods in between but were so intense i felt him moving down and back up a few times, then he didnt go back up on one of them and i knew the next contraction was going to push out his head...and it didnt!...i remember feeling a bit guttered after that one, i think the midiwfe could tell because she said it would be the next and it was, DP was just standing next to me at this stage i could not handle being touched at all, and he had a look ( i had originally not wanted him too but heck i was so out of it i didnt care and he is really glad he got to see so im happy).....next push and his arm and shoulder were out and then his body....all in all DP said was only 7 pushes...My son was passed to me between my legs ( a tad awkward lol) and latched strait away...and pooped a little on me also...i got to cuddle him while they stitched up my 2nd degree tear...that bliming hurt despite the local anisthetic....<br /><br />Louie James was born at 9.23am on 30th April 2012, he was 9lb2oz and 57cm long, with a head circumfrence of 36.5cm, he has blonde hair, and blue eyes and a wee dimple in his chin that i cant stop kissing...we love him so much and he is a really chilled out bub so far...<br /><br />I feel so blessed i was able to have the birth i planned, i would have liked to have had a water birth but i felt that being able to labour in the shower made up for this considering bubs had to be monitored...i did try to cave a few times whilst labouring and asked for pain killers but DP and Midwife helped me thru and as soon as Louie was born i felt so proud i was able to do it with out harder drugs.<br /><br /><img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley14.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=29780">Fernfrond</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 April 2012 at 11:51am<br /><br />Hi Reffinej, I was devastated at needing a c-section, and I am a theatre nurse so being on the other side of the drapes was one of the weirdest experiences of my life!  I had to focus really hard on the outcome being what mattered, and that there was nothing I could have done to change what had happened.  I will be much more proactive with my next, I was a bit timid with my midwife this time around, but now I know what to ask and what to expect I will be much more outspoken during the pregnancy.  I will also be spending many hours with my bum in the air. <br /><br />I'm sorry you had an awful experience, it is such an emotional time and has an enormous impact on every part of your life, which I don't think people can comprehend until it happens.  3 months later I was looking at the photos of our baby seconds after she was born, lying on the resus trolley being checked, and it felt like my heart broke because she wasn't lying on my chest in a quiet dark room like I'd imagined.  I don't think my other half quite understood why I was crying that long after...  <br /><br />I had quite a quick initial recovery, but it took my wound a long time to heal up.  It opened a bit on one side and leaked for about 6 weeks which really upset me, apparently it didn't need to be resutured.  It seems to be fully sealed up now at 5 months but it still looks red and I really don't like looking at it :(<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Fernfrond</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=32099">Reffinej</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 April 2012 at 10:24am<br /><br />Wow, Fernfrond, that all sounds quite frantic. Glad you were happy just to have your baby. I am still not over my birth yet. I have come to see it as the worst day of my life but the day that had the best moment. <br /><br />How are those who had c-sections recovering/recovered? One of my big passions is bellydancing and I hate being so immobile generally!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=29780">Fernfrond</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 April 2012 at 11:17pm<br /><br />I think it's time to post my story.  I was 6 days overdue and had been having lots of strong Braxton Hicks for a few days, and as per usual I was up from 2-4am feeling pretty uncomfortable but then managed to get back to sleep until 7.30am when I woke up with a strong painful cramp, enough to get me out of bed.  Then I felt a pop and realised my waters had broken so hobbled to the bathroom where it seemed like a river was pouring out.  I was quite upset to see the waters were greeny brown, and then I had another cramp, and was surprised by how much it hurt.  I made enough noise to wake my other half who went into a bit of a frenzy when I told him it had started.  We rang our midwife who said she would meet us in the hospital in half an hour, so off we went.  I don't know how much amniotic fluid there was, it was still pouring out of me with each contraction, and they were still surprisingly painful - so much for baking a cake as my midwife had suggested for the early stage.  All I could think was thank god my waters hadn't broken in the supermarket.  <br /><br />By the time we got to the hospital 10 minutes later at 8am the contractions felt really close together, I couldn't talk through them, and I was horrified by all the meconium that was coming out.  It was thick and black and I started freaking out a bit, especially as they wanted a urine sample.  I have no idea what they got, could have been urine, was probably amniotic fluid and meconium.  They put me on my back and strapped on the monitor - it was hard to find the heartbeat but once they did it was a good one.  By this stage I was in a lot of pain, and I desperately wanted to get off my back but couldn't because of the monitor.  They put in an IV and gave me some antibiotics, I'm sure they told me why at the time but I can't remember.  With each contraction the midwife would press the lower monitor onto my tummy, which seemed to make things so much worse.  By 9am I was on the gas, which did bugger all. I would suck it in then groan it out, and it sounded like I was making quite a lot of noise. I told them I had to get off my back so the midwife said she would attach a scalp clip.  <br /><br />She did the exam and told me I was 5-6cm which set me on a bit of a high.  However, she didn't attach the clip, and said she wanted to get the Registrar to check the baby's position.  I though oh crap she must be posterior or something.  SO half an hour later at about 9.45am in comes the Registrar, she does another exam, says that I'm 8cm and by this stage I'm losing it because I HAVE to get off my back because I can't cope.  She then gets an ultrasound machine to do a scan, and everyone goes a bit quiet (except for me, I was roaring the place down by now, much to my other half's horror) then my midwife told me my baby was breech.  I think I may have shrieked and sworn for a minute just in time for the Consultant to come in and ask why I was panicking.  He was lucky he didn't get a smack in the head.  So I sign off for a C-section, which was not part of my ideal birth but there was no suggestion of a vaginal birth and I was quite beyond questioning anything.  <br /><br />Off to theatre, and I have to say the best moment apart from meeting our wee girl, was when the spinal anaesthetic started to work.  I think I cried with relief, and my other half said the look of bliss was lovely to behold!  I still get a happy shiver when I remember that moment.  So out came our lovely breech girl, 8.8lb, and that moment of wonder wasn't diminished by the c-section.  The instant love was incredible.<br /><br />Suffice to say I will be requesting a 3rd trimester scan with my next pregnancy, and I hope to have a VBAC.  Nothing in my birth plan happened, apart from my baby being born safely, which I reckon is the only thing that really matters in the end for me.<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Fernfrond</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=42000">Guest_70282</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 06 April 2012 at 7:46pm<br /><br />One of my friend is pregnant. But she is afraid of giving birth. I am glad to discover this thread. I think she would be very happy with it.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19679">AandCsmum</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 04 April 2012 at 6:12pm<br /><br />Baby's EDD: 28th March<br />Actual Date and Time of Birth: 30th March 5.59am<br />Gestation at Birth: 40 + 2<br />Sex on Ultrasound: Surprise<br />Actual Sex of Baby: Girl<br />Baby's Name: Greer Rachael<br />Weight: 7lb 3oz/ 3.26kg<br />Length: 51.5cm<br />Head Circumference: 33cm<br />Place of Birth (Home, Hospital, Birth Centre, Carpark etc): At Home<br />Type of Delivery: Normal<br />Pain Relief: None<br /> <br />Story about labour and birth:<br />Had been having cramps for a couple of weeks so knew cervix was gearing up & probably had 4 nights of thinking ohhh maybe tonight & then 29th the cramps moved lower down & I text mw at 12.30pm to say maybe tonight's the night, around 10.30pm text and said I reckon it'll be all on tonight as cramps were more intense than I had been feeling (downloaded contraction timer for phone!), plus I just got the idea that this was different. So went to bed around 11pmish & woke at 3am to go to the loo and nothing happening! Was gutted! 3.36am I messaged on FB say oh well back to sleep &#091;:/&#093;<br /><br />Sorta went back to sleep & then went hang on these are starting up, had three cramps that I though hmmm contractions so started timing at 3.52am, at that point were 30 secs long at 2 1/2 mins in between. About 5-10mins later they were 50 sec and I thought I need to walk around. So got up & thought yep contractions, will run bath to help ease them in case they're bh's so I start running bath & then woke DH & said I think you need to light the fire. So he gets up, does that, hangs up the rest of the sheets over the windows (we have minimal curtains) & I jump in the bath. <br /><br />I text my mw friend & mw at the same time saying it's all on (4.20am), K (mw friend) keeps texting me talking to me through them & I said come in (lives 20 min away) rang mw around 4.50?? And could talk to her in the bath through them & so said I'd let you know, next contraction off the phone it was like Holy mother f**ken god, how the hell does water ease these bloody things! So I decided to get out. <br /><br />Went to the loo & then Mr 3 woke up! he wouldn't go to bed in my bed, wanted to be in the lounge & I knew I then that I didn't want to labour/birth in my bedroom so rang Mum and said come pick up the kids & she asked do you want to bring them here & I said no I'm not leaving home. <br /><br />Funnily, I then had to decide between contractions what to wear! Euge's T-shirt, no too hot, my breastfeeding nighty, no to tight, right my summer pj top plus I decided to put on undies with a super pad in it (just as well!!) Then ran, yes ran, to the loo & vomited!! (I vomited once with Miss 8 & I vomitted continually with Mr 3)At 5.18am text mw to tell her & she asked if she should come, I was in between contractions then I was like...maybe nahhhh... cue contraction, yes come now! K had arrived at this point. MW would have got there about 5.35am as Mum & Dad were there picking up kids, Mr 3 was rescued from behind chair as he was a little scared, he was so cute cause he ran to give me a kiss good bye (just as a contraction hit) everyone else rushed around getting things ready while K stayed with me in the lounge, Mum rang & asked DH if she should come lol which seemed like ages later but can't have been as she got there just after Greer was born. Was standing leaning on stool, trying to figure out how JPP (March Mummy) mooed through contractions, and as they got more intense I was kneeling leaning on stool. I think I started feeling pressure about 5.40? and was thinking holy crap that shouldn't be happening, I had no control over it. Waters broke about 5.50 while there was still nothing on the floor & when I said my waters just broke, everyone is like where! Go the budget super pad!!<br /><br />Apparently I panicked a little then cause my pants were still on plus I didn't know if I could lift my legs (prior hip/spd) to get stuff under them, but we got there & when my pants came off the next contraction showed heaps more water coming out! Yay budget pads saved my floor! <br /><br />From waters breaking it was all on, I was just trying to breathe through the contractions and had my hand down there trying to feel what was going on, her head was basically there but I was sure that I wasn't supposed to push her out yet! Interestingly this time I didn't need to think about pushing into my bum it was already happening, I tried to hold her in as the ring of fire hit & then though no get her out, so let her head out & then I felt her turn & then pushed her shoulders out. OMG the relief when her head came out!! I lifted her up and didn't look and then took a glimspe and said it's girl, they said are you sure & I was like did I miss something lol, so looked again & yep it's a girl. So she was born at 5.59. Then the back up mw arrived LMAO, got towels and put her skin to skin & then my Mum arrived & we said it's girl & told her her name. <br /><br />We had skin to skin for ages waiting for the placenta, I wasn't feeling cramps or anything really, so we just waited and talked & chilled on the couch, I tried to push but nothing really happening, we let her do the breast crawl and apart from getting stuck on the cliff of my boob she got there by herself & latched. <br /><br />About 6.50 they started getting worried about the placenta not coming out so had to do some hard out pushing to get it out, we were going to give the shot but Mum said no wait 5 more mins, we were waiting for DH to get back from supermarket, he was off getting the loaf of bread I wanted to get the night before LOL and just as well she said wait, but we managed to get it out, 3 grown women telling you that you have to push means business! Got it out & then had to get all the membranes out. K admitted later they were all slightly freaking out! We examined the placenta and found it was almost in two parts & was heart shaped, so either I have a funky uterus or I retained some placenta (don't think that now), still feeling quite wary about that & still have an injection in my fridge just in case. Also found to have a short cord! <br /><br />Rang DH after placenta was out to see how long he was going to be & if he wanted to cut the cord but he said let your Mum do it, I've done two LMAO So Mum was really chuffed to cut the cord! <br /><br />So then I got to relax on the couch in all my naked glory while they did blood pressure etc I had an internal tear but opted for it to not be stitched. <br /><br />So total labour time is 3 1/2 hours with long 3rd stage but baby only took 2hrs 10 mins. Baby was given apgars of 10/10 MW said it was weird doing that cause the highest she's gives usually is 9/10<br /><br />Then the funny bit came while DH was posting on FB & trying to get the right weight, he couldn't find the website so I got up with babe in arms and typed it in for him LMAO Reading his posts on my page afterwards were hilarious!<br /><br />Was so nice to shower in my own shower & then sit on my couch hanging out with the people that mean the most to me <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> Kids came back around 9am & got to meet their sister, they brought flowers which would be from another March Mummy's shop <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley4.gif" border="0"><br /><br />I wasn't allowed to be alone for 24 hours in case of bleeding, I learnt more about my own welfare this time that I ever knew! DH loved the idea of jabbing me in the thigh & ringing 111, me not so much!!! This was in case of bleeding.<br /><br />For a homebirth that was organised/decided on at 38 weeks it all went really well <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22431">Emmi_</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 03 April 2012 at 1:32pm<br /><br />They are :) Pages 33 and 37 from memory :)<br />My c section was pretty boring (apart from the infections, lack of milk (that bfing journey is a whole nother story!) etc) but it still gives me the sh*ts to think about, its just gross and horrible <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley6.gif" border="0">  I hope my vbac story shows how positive Ds birth was, despite not being 'perfect', I loved every minute of it, and really want to do it again!! (although Im still aiming for my lovely HB, no tears etc (despite MW saying def no HB next time...we will see!!)<br />Anyway Im here if you need :)]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=32099">Reffinej</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 03 April 2012 at 11:07am<br /><br />BG sounds like a similar story! I am lucky my baby has been so good since being born, 3weeks today! Glad you're enjoying motherhood too.<br /><br />Emmi - are your birth stories on here? One armed (due to bfing) and so not looking thoroughly. I'm so scared about the idea of having a 2nd baby, (wanted 2 kids) so I guess talking to others about it would be a good idea.  Obv. no more until this one is older but I would like to try and deal with my issues earlier rather than later!<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22431">Emmi_</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 02 April 2012 at 9:07pm<br /><br />Reffinej I had a really hard time with my c section too, im here if you want to talk about it. <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=32099">Reffinej</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 02 April 2012 at 5:52pm<br /><br />Warning! Traumatic and LONG story. Skip if you like!! <br /><br />I dreamt of a water birth, with no drugs or interventions. I wanted things as natural and as beautiful as possible. <br /><br />Beginning the 42nd week of pregnancy, and with an ultrasound showing a mature placenta as well as my baby’s head still not being engaged, induction ended up being booked for Monday  12th March at 1pm, despite how much I didn’t want to be induced if things had gone better.  My Braxton hicks had been amping up for well over a week, normally in the evenings. Sunday afternoon they got really strong.  Over the next few hours they got closer together and more intense until it became apparent that I wasn’t going to be able to sleep because they woke me up.  I was excited! It looked like I may not need that induction! We went in to the hospital at about 11 am on Monday to see what was happening – contractions were still painful but not increasing in strength or being regular enough - and see if I still needed to have the first part (the prostaglandin gel) of the induction. Thankfully, after an internal exam, we found that I was moving along all by myself but they still wanted me to either stay in or go home and then return the next morning to break my waters.  I went home with a pill to help me try and get some rest if I couldn’t sleep still. Induction was booked for 8am but it was agreed I could come in earlier if necessary. 3pm: Took pill to help sleep.  Could still feel contractions, they’d still wake me but I could fall asleep again straight away. Slept for about 2 hours on and off.<br />Contractions came on quite strongly again in the evening, but not very frequently.  I was too tired to try much to get them going and couldn’t sleep either. At about 3.30 am 13th March I woke Ian.  I’d realised that waiting for the 8am appointment was only going to mean I was even more exhausted...so we may as well get to the hospital sooner and get things moving.  This had been discussed with Lindsay, my midwife, at the hospital when we’d gone in earlier on Monday.<br /><br />Arrived at the birthing suite room at about 4.50 am.  When they did a vaginal exam they found I was about 2-3 cm dilated and that there wasn’t much liquid left when the waters were broken.  The conclusion: I’d been leaking waters for a while and we needed to consider antibiotics.  I don’t remember when exactly, but we did eventually agree to take the antibiotics.  They weren’t sure if there was meconium in the waters or not and so my hopes for a water birth were already sinking rapidly.<br /><br />My contractions were still not frequent enough to be considered established labour so Ian and I decided to go for a walk and to grab a coffee.  The idea being hopefully we could get my contractions flowing more so as to avoid needing to use syntocin, which would definitely rule out a water birth. Initially we planned to walk to the cafe by the river not far from the hospital, but once downstairs I realised I didn’t want to go so far.  We got coffees from the little stall near reception and, whilst Ian paid, I went to the loo.  Cue big contraction.  I came back to Ian and stood by the sugars and stirrers as another contraction hit me.  They were pretty strong and after it had passed, and I could talk/walk again, I decided I didn’t want to be in public anymore! So back to the birthing suite we went.<br /><br />I remember one of the doctors coming in to check up on us at some point and her commenting on how cool it was that we had coffee and ‘dance’ music (Shpongle) during labour, as well as how smiley I was for someone in labour!<br /><br />It was getting on a bit now and contractions were about 2 every 10 minutes; still not enough. It looked like I was about to have to take the first major step in the opposite direction of the birth I hoped for: syntocin. Either that or risk this latent labour going on for who knows how long and, ultimately, me being too exhausted to labour well.  Having the drip meant monitoring on the CTG; all in all leaving me much less mobile, though I was still able to stand and sway. I think, by this point, I was about 3-4 cm dilated.  Not only that, but they realised that although baby’s head was ‘high’, it was actually well into the pelvis thus, my pelvis was an unusual shape: wide and shallow as opposed to narrower and deeper.  This was good for me to hear: baby was basically engaged.<br /><br /><br />As the syntocin took hold there was a noticeable increase in the intensity of my contractions.  When they got really strong, and Ian’s thumbs in my lower back stopped helping much, I decided that –as I couldn’t use the birthing pool – I was definitely entitled to some entonox (gas). It took me a while to get the hang of how to use it, but it certainly helped take the edge of the peak of my contractions. I can’t remember at which point it was, but somewhere around here Ian left to move the car and was gone for about 40 minutes.  When he returned the contractions were amazingly intense.  I was no longer able to withhold from making pretty damn audible noise. They became so strong that the gas seemed to do next to nothing, and I took to breathing it in constantly...at the peaks of contractions, I’d often end up letting it go so I could moan, wail or gasp. I needed 2 mouths: one for releasing pain in the form of noise and one for inhaling gas!<br /><br />Poor Ian was quite shocked I think when he returned and witnessed –not only the dramatic change since he’d left, but – the quick increase in intensity and pain I felt from his arrival onwards.  Apparently I was on the birthing ball and he was still trying to push on my lower back but the pain was so much I stopped being able to hold myself up.  The contractions amped up to about 4 every 10 minutes and I was in another world.  A world of pain like I never imagined could exist. I was no longer aware of anything much but the pain...I dread to think what people could hear from outside the room as I wailed, sobbed and cried.  It was time for an epidural...there was no way in hell I could go on.  I think it’s the closest I’ve ever been to wanting to die, literally.  I just wanted the pain to end.<br /><br />The time between agreeing on an epidural and getting one seemed eternal.  I knew it wasn’t.  I didn’t shout at the anaesthetist, as easy as that could have been.  When she explained that, once it was hooked up, I would still have a few contractions before it kicked in, it felt like my world could be on the brink of collapse.  How could I take even one more?<br /><br />When the relief did come, it was amazing.  I think I cried some more...I know that I turned to Ian, whose face leant in close on my right hand side, and shakily told him how pleased I was to see him again.  Of course, he’d been there all along, and I knew that...but, I hadn’t been with him.  Being able to look into his eyes and actually see him again; to feel his love and support was overwhelming.<br /><br />The next internal exam, I believe, showed me to be a good 7-8cm dilated.  I was so relieved: my body was doing it! And quickly! I think I was meant to try and sleep at this point but I don’t remember managing it.  Despite the epidural I sometimes felt the strength –without the pain – of the bigger contractions.  At about 1pm I said I felt some pressure down low, around the anal area.  We ended up checking my progress a bit later because of this...<br />I was fully dilated! Amazing! I was so excited.  I was advised to wait a bit longer, up to an hour, before trying to push as sometimes a little bit of cervix can still be caught over a bit of the head.  But the news of how quickly we’d got to this stage, after all that agony, was awesome.<br />I’ll tell you, pushing when you can’t feel what you’re pushing on, or when the contractions are taking place is downright weird.  It’s also hard to let go and really go for it when there isn’t the pain to make you forget the audience you have.  So, it took me a while before I was able to feel comfortable making noises while pushing, but once I did, it really helped.  It meant I could breathe out/push for longer with just a sharp intake of breath in between.<br /><br />&lt;Some time during this I took a funny turn; I was suddenly dizzy, sick and felt so weak. I had to stop pushing and just lie there. I was sick a few times but eventually, as it started subsiding I said I wanted to keep going. It felt like I was so close, I couldn't give up!&gt;<br /><br />After a while, another examination was done.  It seemed that baby hadn’t really moved much.  They could feel the head, but it was still a few centimetres inside the opening. They got me pushing whilst they felt the head and I was definitely pushing correctly.  I also had a couple of comments about baby having a good head of hair.  Had I not been so eager to get the birth going I might have been a bit annoyed at having that surprise taken from me...but there were bigger fish to fry.<br /> On further examination, some time later, it seemed that the baby’s head was asynclitic - basically it was at a bit of an angle instead of chin down and tucked under.  My baby was stuck at the ‘spines’; the narrowest point in the pelvis. <br /><br />Knowing this, the options were becoming less.  They didn’t want me to push for too long if nothing was happening.  My baby’s heart rate was dropping with a lot of the contractions, but were quickly recovering; so not a huge worry but too much stress on the baby is never good I guess.  One of the doctors came in to discuss possibilities.  Basically it came down to: attempting forceps or ventouse delivery in theatre...and if that failed; a caesarean section.  It felt like my world was closing in on me and time was running out.  In the end I pushed for about 2 hours.  Though I was really low on energy by now I was also determined to give birth to my baby and so, during those 2 hours, I switched back and forth between sitting upright on the bed and turning onto my knees, holding on to the back of the propped up mattress.  I remember Lindsay asking if I was sure about it after a few switches; evidently she hadn’t expected me to keep moving so much...but I was pretty desperate to give birth vaginally! So, when it was time to take the next step, my trepidation and determination grew...<br /><br />In theatre I was surrounded by so many people and the lights were so bright and memories of the first time, in adulthood, that I’d been in a similar room came swimming back: the minor op back in January 2009 when I’d had a miscarriage and had to have an ERPC/D&C. I tried to shut out those thoughts and focus on my last chance to birth this baby as close to the way I wanted as was possible. <br />I had to wait for Ian to come in as he had to get into some scrubs.  Lindsay sat next to me on my right.  Ian on my left.  I tried to focus only on them, mostly on Ian.  The attempt to get my little baby out went like so: I had to wait for them to be ready and when they were, with a contraction, I would push as hard as I possibly could for as long as I could. Quick inhale. Repeat two more times. This whole procedure was repeated 3 times. I remember that towards the end, someone said ‘just one more time’....I put everything into pushing, I thought my baby was coming and I just had to push once more, so I gave it my absolute all...Sadly, I’d misinterpreted those words. That was my final push, but my baby was nowhere to be seen.  It was the end of the line...and realising that it was time for the surgeons was heart-wrenching; truly, utterly.  All the stress and strain of my efforts and hopes came crashing down on me like a huge broken damn of water. I couldn’t help it; I bawled: big, chest shaking sobs.  <br /><br />The caesarean itself was horrible...they say it’s like someone doing the washing up inside you but painless...well, it’s also damn creepy and terrifying especially when you haven’t prepared for it. It seemed an age before someone said ‘They’ve got the head out’...and even more of an age before the rest of the baby was born and I heard those cries.  They whisked my baby to the resuscitation table, as a matter of course, but there were no problems. Lindsay, knowing what I wanted, made sure they only did the absolutely necessary checks (no measuring or weighing yet, despite everyones curiosity due to the size!) and ensured that Ian brought our baby girl to me as soon as able to.  She was laid on my chest as I was being sewn up. She was crying and rooting about trying to feed, I just wanted to get out of there and let her do so...but we had to wait til I was in the recovery room.  Another age.  <br /><br />I love my daughter so much already...and I am SO grateful that we’re both here and that we live in a society where we could be saved from devastation.  But, I am still grieving for the birth I never had.  I still get flashbacks that bring me to tears, and I wish more than anything that I could have brought my daughter into this world, not some man in scrubs. People want to tell you that the most important thing is that you and your baby are OK (excepting the fact I have a serious post-op wound). Well, perhaps, but –as Lindsay has supported me in acknowledging – it doesn’t mean I can’t feel the sadness, grief and trauma of that day.  And one day I will be at peace about it, but I won’t forget it.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Reffinej</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22431">Emmi_</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 01 April 2012 at 5:52pm<br /><br />Awesome!!  If you need an ear Im here, I love talking birthy stuff and did a lot of research for my vbac <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23261">babygiraffe</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 March 2012 at 8:49pm<br /><br />I hope so Emmi!!  I'll be giving a natural birth another crack next time round <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22431">Emmi_</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 March 2012 at 1:27pm<br /><br />BG, im sorry but that whole too small pelvis thing is generally crap (its true for about 2% of women, and its usually hereditary)<br />What an amazing journey, so glad your both ok, I hope your path to number two is a bit smoother than the path to number 1!!  xxx much love!!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23261">babygiraffe</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 March 2012 at 11:18am<br /><br />Gorgeous story KR - I hope that things with you and Evie are going well <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> <br /><br />Here is my story...<br /><br />I was booked in to be induced on Friday 27th Jan much to my dissapointment.  I so wanted her to come naturally...but time was ticking on and and I was 9 days overdue and very much over it! According to the scan she was a big baby so I had visions of this 12 pounder entering the world and my vjajay being torn to bits! Haha..  <br />The morning of the 27th I woke up around 5.30am to dull period like pains...but I'd been having them on and off for a week so I didn't pay too much attention. Jumped in the shower to see if they would go away but they didn't, they just kept getting stronger so figured I was in labour. Yay! So happy she decided to come on her own - everything going to plan.  So far.  We had to be at the hospital at 8am so off we tootled, me feeling quite calm at this stage and DH looking like a dear in the headlights.  Got to hospital, midwife confirmed I was in labour and after an hour of monitering she sent DH and I off on a walk around the park.  Well, no sooner had I stepped off the hospital grounds the contractions started coming thick and fast.  Oh. My. God.  I was totally unprepared for how painful they were - they went from zero to a hundred in about 15 minutes.  I hobbled around the park clutching on to DH hating every minute of being out in public.  It was 9am on a Friday and lots of people in the park heading off to work!  Took me 15 minutes to walk in one direction and 40 min to walk back!  Got back to the hosptial and jumped in the shower to see if that would help me relax.  Midwife gave me a small, flat swissball to help ease the pain - I'm 6ft tall so yeah...it didn't.  Started vomiting in the shower, was in horrendous pain and my wish for a natural, drug free bith slowly started going out the window.  I was only 4cm dialiated and not coping very well at all!  My midwife offered me an epidural which I accepted much to my dismay, I had no idea I'd be such a wimp.  So from 11am - 5pm everything went according to plan, I dialted like clockwork and my midwife was happy with my progress.  The only thing was that the epidural made me sick so I vomited every 20-30 min from 11am til 8am when she was born, it was horrible.  You cant eat when you have an epidural so I just had to keep drinking water as there was nothing in my stomach to spew.  Was in a bit of a mess and feeling a tad sorry for myself.  Kept thinking of the final outcome, it would be worth it.  Anyway, it came time to start pushing ..... hour and half later no progress.  I was exhausted from vomiting and so was my baby, her heartrate kept peaking for a contracton and then dropping back as if she was sleeping. It didn't help that she was posterior as well...she was lying in an odd postion which wasn't helping.  And they make the contractions extra painful. I could tell by the look on my midwifes face that she wasn't happy with how things were going.  She got all the big-wigs in, numerous people with their hands up my fanny trying to figure out what to do - not that I cared at that stage! I started to panic that something was going to go wrong which was my worst fear.  I begged them not to leave me like I was.  The doctors decided to do an assisted birth using the forceps but said they would prep me for a c-secion just in case.  Thank god I didn't have a birth plan!  More drugs pumped into me, I could hardley keep my eyes open at this stage, sooooo tired.  Once we got into theatre they had another feel around again to see where she was sitting in the birth canal.  They decided to get her out then, apparently she backed away from them which indicated she wasn't happy.  15 min later my beautiful baby girl came into this world, screaming her lungs out.  At 7lb 12oz she was hardly the monster they told me I was having!  My world changed at that moment - she was simply perfect and I felt like the luckiest person in the world.  After everything we had gone through, here she was and she was mine.  DH cut the cord and they gave her to me for a cuddle.  I was so out of it though and shaking heaps so I passed her back to DH.  I just remember her staring at me so intently and she stopped crying when I talked to her.  I was in hospital for 4 days, c-sections are bloody awful!  I was told I wont be able to labour naturally again, my pelvis is too small.  Really?  I'm just not that tiny - baffled me!  I couldn't wait to get home and get things underway. The first 3 weeks passed in a blur - it really knocked me on my butt!  I had no idea on how hard it would be.  I had so much support though, thank god for Mum and my friends.  9 weeks on I am loving being a Mummy.  Our wee girl is beautiful, she smiles and burbles away to me - so in love <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> <br />She was worth every single bit of pain in took to get her and I cant wait for number 2!! <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley3.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24104">kelzie_rose</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 March 2012 at 7:03pm<br /><br />Basically, I cried as I walked into the operating room. The last two times I had had surgery before my c/s I had done the same, so I knew I would.<br /> <br />They got me on the side of the bed to do the epidural, and I freaked out. Neil sat on the chair and held my hands while they did the local and the epidural. Freak out subsided as my knees went warm and fuzzy. Freak out came back as they lay me down and I told them that I wanted them to put me under. The obstetrician talked me through it, while the anesthetist prepped for a general. Ob managed to talk me into staying awake, mainly by saying that it would be that much quicker that I'd be meeting my girl. (How wrong was he!) And so Neil and the anesthetist talked to me throughout the procedure. I can only describe it as someone tickling the inside of my tummy! No pain or anything.<br /> <br />They pulled Evie out and Neil leaned over to look at her, and they lifted her up so I could see her. And I said... "Eww." I knew she wouldn't cry right away as I had heard that a lot of c/s babies are a bit shocked and need a bit of oxygen.<br /> <br />Neil was allowed to go over and see her, but neither of us were prepared for the emergency team to get called in. I don't really know what went on as I was crying and couldn't see anything. From what I understand there was something unidentifiable (but possibly vernix) (like an inch long length of waxy stuff) stuck in her throat and she needed compressions and oxygen.<br /> <br />Finally, I heard her cry. She was then wheeled to the NICU and I was wheeled to recovery. DH, Mum, Dad, little bro and MIL all came in one at a time to see me, then all went one at a time to see Evie. Neil took some pics and brought them in to show me. I got to see her on the way back to the ward and I'm told it freaked me out seeing her in the NICU. And I was so drugged up that I can't remember it.<br /> <br />In the middle of the night, a nurse came in to help me express my colostrum, then I was wheeled down to the NICU to see her. She was eventually brought into me when she was about 24hrs old. And we spent the next 5 days in a nice routine of 3hr sleep - wake - change - feed - repeated cycles. In between all of that (because 5 days in hospital all blend into one!) she developed jaundice. We also realised she has Positional Talipes (club foot because of how she was sitting in my tummy, and should come right with massage, exercise and time.)<br /> <br />Because I didn't get my skin to skin and I saw her only twice briefly in her first 24hrs, I really didn't feel attached to her. Maternal Mental Health came to see me in hospital as some of the nurses could tell I was a bit sad and that I wasn't too attached to her.<br /> <br />Coming home was scary, as suddenly I didn't have midwives and nurses with me, but Neil and his mum were here with me for the first two weeks. I spent about three days just crying. I couldn't understand how four years after we starting trying to conceieve, and three miscarriages later, I wasn't over the moon to have my baby with me.<br /> <br />When MIL went back to the UK and Neil went back to work, I thought I'd feel pretty overwhelmed, but I really came into my own. We have a routine, and I feel a bit more attached to her now.<br /> <br />When she was 2 weeks old, we took her into Starship for her surgery. She had a 4cm mass removed from her bowel and 10cm of her small gut removed and resectioned. She's doing incredibly well!<br /> <br />I'm happy, not only that I'm a Mum, but that I'm Evie's Mum. I'm still not totally bonded to her yet, but I know it'll happen over time.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22457">SnuggleBear</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 March 2012 at 8:13am<br /><br />Wow what a marathon effort snowdengreen! The baby in the end is definitely worth all the drama for sure;)<br /><br />Here is micahs birth story (oops should really update my ticker!)<br /><br /> So had a stretch and sweep done on Monday 27th feb at 40+2 and felt nothing for the rest of the day not even single tightening much to my dismay! Then the next morning (Tuesday) started getting contractions about 10 mins apart for a couple of hours while in bed which spaced up once I got up to ds and then disappeared completely. Later that day while getting a cast put on ds s arm at about 4pm starting getting more contractions but wrote it off as more false labour. At around 8pm they were regular 10min apart but thought nah this can be it so took some panadol with warm milk said goodnight to dh and off I went for a shower. While in the shower at around 9pm they started coming every 5 mins and were a bit kore painful so I went back downstairs and got dh to put my tens machine on. At 945 I called mw and she said nah you sound too calm it's probably just earl labour, call me when they get intense. So called her back at 1015 and said we re coming in!! Lol. Got to hospital and got checked by mw at 1045, I was 7cms!! So hopped into the pool at 1115 and started to push by 1145pm but couldn't really feel him moving down so decided to hop out of pool at midnightish and shuffle back to delivery suite and on to the bed and one push and started crowning with my mw in the background going " wait wait let me put my gloves on" lol and then he was out at 12.08am. My perfect little man;) <br /><br />This birth was so much more calm and peaceful and I joked and laughed all the way through with dh and mw between contractions and sucked the life out of my gas canister when a contraction hit. Awesome birth awesome mw and awesome dh ... Can't wait to do it again;)]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=36695">SnowdenGreen</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 06 March 2012 at 1:25pm<br /><br />Hullo,<br />Before I even start I will apologise for what will no doubt be a huge essay because I'm terrible at keeping things short and sweet. Also this is a bit of a traumatic one so you may not want to read it at all!<br /><br /><br />As soon as I found out I was pregnant I knew I wanted as drug free a birth as possible so me and the beau (N) made plans for a home water birth. This was difficult as the MIL was dead set against any homebirth and any time she could she warned me that I would end up with a dead baby if doctors weren't involved. But I am stubborn as a mule. I found myself a midwife who is a huge advocate of natural birthing methods and with her behind me I took any preparations I could. I read through as many books as I could get my hands on about a variety of birth methods. After reading Misconceptions by Naomi Wolf I became adamant that I would not be 'tricked' into a route that wasn't altogether necessary BUT I would also take no risks with our baby. We had a low placenta early on but by 37 weeks the obstetrician had OKed us for a homebirth as we were within 5 minutes drive of the hospital. Our calculated due date was the 15th December but the scan date was the 21st December. The 15th came and went and on the night of the 19th I woke up at 2am with what I later realised was my show. Though I knew it was supposed to be bloody I was completely surprised by THAT much blood and I was having cramping and no matter what I did (drinking ice water, poking my belly etc) I couldn't get baby to move. N rang my midwife who was with us in 3 minutes flat and she found me crying hysterically, completely nude on the bedroom floor. It took her 3 minutes to find the heartbeat and that was the scariest 3 minutes of my life. She took us up to the hospital and put us on the monitor just to be sure everything was alright and we were back home by 4 with the words "This baby may be here by lunchtime." ringing in our ears. Roll on to Christmas day, 6 days of heavy heavy contractions later and still going. As far as we know, we were still going by the 21st December as a due date, knowing we wouldn't be induced until the start of January. My saint of a midwife was over every day to check on me, on the 28th she suggested a stretch and sweep the next day. So we head up to the hospital at 2pm where the MW tells us the Obs has decided they're going to induce me today. In 2 hours. Go home and get my things. No homebirth. Though I knew the baby was on her way this all seemed a bit rushed, I managed to grab a sandwich, make some calls to my family back home in the UK and got my stuff together. At 4pm my MW applied prostin gel to my cervix. I spent the next 6 hours walking constantly up and down the ward, squatting and lunging and breathing through contractions. <br />At 10pm and 4cm the MW moved me into the birthing suit to get comfy and ran the birthing pool. Until 2am I was having strong, uniform contractions, getting closer together and when the MW checked me at 1am I was 6/7cm. <br />AND THEN, a nurse comes in to say that N's mother, who has driven 6 hours to get there despite us ringing to say DO NOT COME UNTIL BABY IS HERE, is sitting in the waiting room and wants to come in. In to the birthing suit and into the bathroom where I am naked and in pain to watch. You can guess what I shouted. So N sends her off to our house with the spare key. <br />At this point, my contractions stopped. An hour later the MW burst my waters and sent me walking around the ward which seemed to be working, the contractions started up again and were bareable. One particularly strong one sent me running to throw up in the toilet, next thing I know I'm waking up on my back in a pool of vomit and waters, a huge lump on the back of my head and about 5 people bent over me wearing varying looks of horror. <br />So now I'm concussed and the contractions feel like I'm breaking in half. I beg for gas, having fallen off my high horse of NO DRUGS, NO GAS, NOTHING I end up chewing the mouthpiece on the gas to pieces. They make the call to inject syntocinon. Now I'm strapped on to the monitor, as soon as they give me the syntocinon, bubs heart rate goes haywire. 120 to 200 then down to 80 in a few seconds. My usually calm MW suddenly looks well, terrified and I know something is up. Suddenly my room is full of people, N is elbowed into a corner while they stick various things in me. It takes my MW 4 attempts to get the IV in and the obstetrician is leaning over me saying, we need to do a caesar and we need to do it now. I catch N's eye and despite my being high on gas I see him nod, tears in his eyes and I say OK. The obs then goes through all the health risks etc and potters off to get the paper work. People are forcing flight socks on my feet, feeling my pulse, pulling and poking and rolling me around. The obs returns and asks me to sign this piece of paper I can barely see in the haze of gas and pain and starts to go through ALL the health risks she just told me 2 minutes ago. AL EFFING RIGHT I scream and scribble something. As soon as I sign that piece of paper I get the overwhelming urge to push, I shout so and before anyone says anything I push, my MW is screaming stop at the obs staff who are pushing me along the corridors to surgery, I'm pushing and pushing the whole way there, until they tell me to stop while they give me the epidural. I can see my MW in a corner huddled with the obs having some frantic conversation. The caesar itself is not as bad as I think it will be, N is by my side and the surgery staff were all chatty and nice and though I'm shaking with shock it's a fairly calm environment. My MW is crying quietly while she watches and mouthes "I'm so sorry." at me. <br />So our beautiful baby girl is finally out at 7.46am, 30th December, they had to pull her back out the birth canal so she has a lovely conehead going on, but she's out and she is perfect and healthy with apgar scores of 9 and 10 and a birth weight of 8lbs7.<br />The next day the obstetrician comes to check on us. All is okay she says, and she leaves with the parting words "You probably could have pushed her out, actually." WELL THANKS. But I get over being angry because our baby is here and that was all I wanted out of this experience, even that day I was over the trauma of it. I worried I would feel like a failure for not being able to do it, but I didn't then and I don't know. I feared for my babies safety and at the end of the day, even if she could have come out vaginally I would have still been traumatised from worrying whether she would be alive once she got out during every contraction.<br />We have had no bonding problems that I had heard so much about through c-sections, we are 2 and a half months down the track and still exclusively and happily breastfeeding. Despite 2 infections from my wound, I'm all good now and so happy I know that I would do it all again, no matter how painful, no matter how upsetting or out of control the situation gets, I would do it over and over again because she is worth it all. I was home after 2 nights in hospital because I can't stand being fussed over and was back to normal by 5 weeks pretty much. <br />So there we go, if you managed to read through all that then you deserve a medal. To all soon to be mums, it's important to remember that the labour, the worst parts of it anyway are only a few hours out of a long life and at the end of it, no matter if it was easier or harder than you expected, you have the most amazing little person for the rest of your life.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22767">MummaHuhu</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 06 February 2012 at 7:10pm<br /><br />Hi ladies, <br /><br />I have started a blog to record the experiences I will gain through training to become a CBE and to also bring together positive birth and breastfeeding experiences from other women. By having a wide range of real-life experiences and reflections on what I’m learning I hope to empower women with information and help them to have a positive birth experience. <br /><br />The point is, I was after more lovely stories of natural (drug-free) birth and breastfeeding and was hoping someone here would be interested in sharing...actually I'm after any positive birth stories you wish to share! <br /><br />Here is the link to my Facebook page which is just linking through to my blog. <br /><a href="http://www.facebook.com/childbirthjourney" target="_blank">http://www.facebook.com/childbirthjourney</a><br /><br />TYIA <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=26220">cuppycake</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 03 February 2012 at 12:30pm<br /><br />Ahh I love these stories <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley27.gif" border="0"> The next 9 weeks need to hurry up! ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18790">xLUCKYx</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 03 February 2012 at 10:58am<br /><br />Love reading these birth stories!<br /><br />Just looked back and I haven't posted Tane's story in here... so trawled through my due in thread to find it - was so fun just re-living those memories.<br /><br />Here is Tane's short story:<br /><br />Well I am still stunned at the speedy arrival of our wee guy! <br /><br />As you all know waters broke at midnite (I had managed to post to due in thread before labour kicked off) - I sent DP to pick his mum up straight away - it didn't even occur to me labour might not start straight away lol. Anyway it did - contractions started mildly at about 5 mins apart so I fluffed around getting bags ready etc... then when DP got back they had picked up a bit and were more painful but still ok. 2 mins apart and lasting 40 secs! So I had a shower as knew they weren't strong enough yet. After my shower we timed again, still 2 mins apart and 40 secs long. I was ringing the midwife at 1:30am as it just felt like it was time to be at birthcare and I was in major pain by then. Got to Birthcare at 2 and straight in the pool, having a few good contractions and a few mild - I seriously thought labour might have been slowing down and was embarrased to have called MW in too early! Anyway I started to sleep in between contractions and at 3:15 asked MW to check me, 8cms!!! 10 mins later I felt baby drop into my pelvis and he was born in the water with 2 pushes and i caught him!! Was so amazing! Had a physiological 3rd stage about 10 mins later :) <br /><br />Still on a bit of a high when think about it and the recovery has been so much better! <br /><br />Tane came out screaming and I was worried that was a sign of things to come but he is actually a lovely chilled baby and just likes to eat and sleep :) <br /><br />Oh and he is 8lbs 8oz :) <br /><br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=35969">JuliaC</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 03 February 2012 at 8:38am<br /><br />That is a great read mummydee :-)  hopefully mine will be an easy birth too :-) ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=12584">EmDee</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 03 February 2012 at 8:34am<br /><br />Siara Callie Rose, born 12:44am, Thursday 2nd February 2012 at Waterford Birth Centre. 4.18kg (9lb 4oz) 51cm in length, 34.5cm head circumference, APGARs 9 & 10.<br /><br />On Wednesday morning I wake to some ‘niggles’ and wonder, ‘Is today the day?’.  At 40 weeks + 5 days, I was really hoping so! I ask DH to stay home from work and of course the niggles stop *sigh* So I head out for a walk hoping to get things moving. I pass a postie (on a moped) a few times and he stops and says, ‘Gosh you’re doing a big walk, are you trying to get that baby moving?’ Sure am! <br /><br />That afternoon I drop DD off at kindy and DH arranges for SIL to look after our boys which gives us a couple of hours to help things along ourselves ;p<br /><br />Around 4.30pm the niggles start up again and start coming in a regular pattern though spaced out and still very mild. They die off again *sigh*<br /><br />Around 6pm they start up again and very slowly build up in intensity. Around 9pm they are less than 10min apart and getting ouchie! Yay, this IS it!!<br /><br />I labour at home really well simply walking around and rocking or swaying my way through the contractions. At 10.30pm we call SIL and ask her to come over (she will be staying with the kids). By 11pm the contractions are getting too much to bear on my own and DH starts manipulating the pressure points on my back – aaahhh. After a few contraction come in quick succession I decide to call my mw who is at the hospital with a woman in labour – Nooo! However she lets me know the hospital mw’s will continue with her and that she’ll meet me at the birthing centre in about half an hour – yaayy!<br /><br />We arrive at 11.50pm. My mw listens to bubs’ heartbeat through a contraction and is happy with it. She takes my BP (good) and a VE reveals I’m 7cm – whoop! I labour leaning over the bed, rocking/swaying, clutching a comb and DH massaging my back until I start feeling like pushing. I’m pretty sure she’s not actually ready to come out yet so I get up on the bed and then feel my waters go. With my previous labours my membranes have been artificially ruptured so this was a new experience for me. I remember saying, ‘I can feel something coming out!’ <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley8.gif" border="0"> <br /><br />Then a few REALLY strong contractions happen and I feel my body start to push. 2 pushes/contractions later Siara makes her way into the world <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley27.gif" border="0"> DH catches her and comments, ‘Well, that was easy!’ <br /><br />She has a head full of dark hair like DD1 and DS2 – aptly, her name comes from ‘Ciara’ which means ‘little dark haired one’. We have skin-to-skin time and within minutes she is rooting around. She latches and suckles for a long time (no more contractions occur so we decide on the syntocin injection to get the placenta out). My mw leaves us to get to know each other and goes and does her paperwork and has a coffee.<br /><br />This has been the fastest and easiest labour & birth and I actually enjoyed (as much as you can enjoy it!) and I’m glad that my last birth was such a good experience <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley27.gif" border="0">]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18063">T_Rex</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 30 January 2012 at 7:54pm<br /><br />Awesome story hopes. I really should get onto sharing mine!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22431">Emmi_</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 30 January 2012 at 2:16pm<br /><br />Oh wow Hopes, Ithink I had missed you had your wee girl!  COngratulations!  Lovely story!<br /><br />OMG SB, only a few weeks left for you!!  Cant wait to hear your birth story <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley27.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22457">SnuggleBear</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 30 January 2012 at 7:31am<br /><br />What an awesome calm inspiring birth story hopes!! I hope mine is like that!:)]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20418">Hopes</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 29 January 2012 at 8:42pm<br /><br />I was woken by a contraction at quarter to five in the morning. I was pretty confident it was the real deal, but after the false alarm I’d had a few weeks before with regular (sore!) contractions for a few hours, then nothing, I didn’t want to get my hopes up too much. Still, an hour later when they were still there and still very very noticeable (although not at all regular) I woke DH up and had a shower just in case. DH didn’t believe I was in labour at all – he didn’t see me in the initial stages of labour with Jacob, and he was convinced that if he couldn’t tell when I was having a contraction they couldn’t be the real thing. In fact, he was all ready to go in to work, and it was only when I got a bit grumpy at that that he realised that I did actually think it was labour not a trial run, and he started taking it a bit more seriously :)  I had a rest for an hour or so while he looked after Jacob, then we all went out for a walk, which was seriously weird – apart from having to stop talking every so often when I had a contraction, it all felt a like a bit of a holiday with DH home from work and Jacob having a ball in the park. The walk was great, it got the contractions going properly and so the in-laws came and picked up Jacob after we got home. Although the contractions were really ramped up by then, we actually had a really nice morning chilling out and chatting in between them. I’ve decided I’ve got a bit of the ‘goldfish brain’ going on when I’m in labour. During contractions, I’d skull liquid morphine if I could… once they’re over everything goes away and I forget how much they hurt until the next one arrives. It’s the sole reason I think I didn’t ask for pain relief later on – I couldn’t talk when I would have asked and forgot to when I could get the words out ;) <br /><br />We tried timing the contractions, but I got a bit stressed out when we did that because they were really irregular – much longer contractions than with Jacob but all over the place, which was making me second-guess how far along I was. I had an inkling we were a way in, but the irregularity made me wonder if we were still at the beginning. In the end, we decided to go with my gut and forget the timing, it made it all a lot more relaxed. At about 12.30 they started getting a lot longer and stronger, so we decided to leave for the birthing centre… we were in our bedroom looking out the window at the windy day outside at the time, and literally as we got off the bed to get going saw the neighbours tree blow over and fall over our drive. Which set things back a bit, they weren’t there, so DH had to go remove it before we could get out! Thankfully, it was a smallish tree! Getting to the birthing centre was so different this time round – we actually got to get settled in a bit, the midwife did an internal (I was about 5cm, as opposed to fully dilated with Jacob!) and ran the pool. All very calm compared to the ‘turn-up-and-have-a-baby’ approach we inadvertently took last time. I was fascinated by the difference in the contractions between this labour and Jacob’s. With Jacob they were really in my back, and the most comfortable position to be in was reclining on my back (the one they all say not to use, but seriously, you couldn’t have stopped me). This time, any reclining position (like when the midwife did the internal) was just plain ouchy, even between contractions, I couldn’t get off the bed fast enough. <br /><br />Hopping in the pool was bliss, and from then it was all very fast. I remember at 2.10, we were talking between contractions about how much longer I had to go – DH thought she’d be born around three, I thought he was dreaming and that I had hours to go. In the end she was born 20 mins later at 2.30 – the contractions got frightful and I was pushing before I even really knew it myself. It definitely caught us all by surprise, the midwife didn’t have anything ready and it only took three pushes to get her pretty much out (although she had a fat little bottom which got stuck, so it was a bit more before she was properly out.) I hadn’t planned a water birth specifically, but it was so the right thing to do at the time. It was a much nicer position to catch her in, too, so I could see everything that was happening as she took her first breaths (after making us wait for ages, we were getting a bit worried!) and we cut the cord and gave her her first feed. It was just incredible – I had almost forgotten how amazing those first cuddles are, and how ridiculously you can care for that wet little wrinkled scrap of humanity. (And in Emily’s case, wrinkled and covered in vernax, if she hadn’t been such a chubby thing (9lb 1oz) and we hadn’t had a scan to be certain about our dates, the midwife said she would have been absolutely convinced she was premature with the amount she had on and the fact that she’s still covered in lanugo. <br /><br />I don’t know whether it was a) the fact it was my second time round, b) that she was anterior not posterior or c) the waterbirth – or maybe a combination of the three, but this time round was definitely a lot less painful. Oh, and only a small tear, too – with Jacob I had some bad tearing and stitches. I’m glad I had ittthat way around, because I didn’t realise how much the stitches hurt afterwards until I experienced not having them (if that makes any sense) – I hardly feel like I’ve had a baby this time in comparison! On the other hand, I lost a big clot of blood with the placenta (and we later found out my iron is still nasty and low) and after I’d fed Emily and transferred to the bed and they were weighing her, I went and fainted on them. I can remember glimpses, but was really kind of groggy. Some fluids and glucose did help, but I felt rotten for a while. Thankfully, Emily had had a feed and was going well, so she just got some cuddles with her Dad for a while.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20418">Hopes</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 29 January 2012 at 8:38pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by mummydee" alt="Originally posted by mummydee" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>mummydee wrote:</strong><br /><br />Now he is a beautiful and cheeky 19 month old who I can see getting away with all sorts because of his big eyes, dimples and infectious grin! <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley27.gif" border="0"></td></tr></table><br /><br />Oh, and he is gorgeous indeed! Awesome story <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> I should post Emily's. Why is it that trees have such a habit of falling on the driveways of ladies in labour? ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=12584">EmDee</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 29 January 2012 at 7:35pm<br /><br />So as I sit here waiting for bubba #4 to put in an appearance, I thought it was about time I write up #3's birth story! <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0"> <br /><br />Caleb Ian Maxwell, born at 11:48am, Saturday 12th June 2010 at River Ridge Birth Centre, Hamilton. Weight: 8lb, APGARs: 10 & 10.<br /><br />Just before I went to bed on Friday night my 'plug' came away and I expected that it wouldn't be too much longer before some action started. Around midnight I had a definite contraction - yay! My contractions were really irregular (like up to an hour between some of them) and then at 5.30am they became regular and were getting to the point where I wanted DH massaging my back, so I woke him up. At around 7.30am we called MIL to come over and stay with the kids. I then rung my mw and we'd originally agreed to meet at the birth centre in an hour, but then she heard me through a contraction and said to meet her there in half an hour instead. My MIL then turned up and said did we know that we can't get out of our driveway? Uumm no!!! Turns out one of our trees along the driveway had half fallen on to the driveway in the night (had been a windy night). I do think we could have driven over it if really necessary, but thankfully we had BIL's chainsaw so DH could chop it and get it off the driveway quickly. Anyway got to the birth centre and got into the bath. Unfortunately the water slowed my contractions down. I'd been really hoping that it would help it along. I got out of the pool and laboured on the bed until around 11.30-ish when I started pushing and Caleb was born at 11.48am!<br /> <br />The first thing I thought was, 'he looks like his sister!' with lots of dark hair and blue eyes. He was so alert quietly taking things in. After 10 minutes or so he starting searching for food and fed for a wee while.<br /> <br />The placenta came along about 5 minutes after Caleb (had a managed 3rd stage due to previous retained placenta and PPH).<br /> <br />Then my mum turned up! I was totally confused! While we'd told a few people I was in labour, I did not expect anyone to turn up to the birthing room! She's lucky it was after the action, I think she may have got her feelings hurt if I'd told her to bugger off! <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley8.gif" border="0"> <br /><br />Now he is a beautiful and cheeky 19 month old who I can see getting away with all sorts because of his big eyes, dimples and infectious grin! <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley27.gif" border="0">]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=26467">zian1</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 25 January 2012 at 11:11am<br /><br />Beautiful birth (and beyond) story tenryu.sky, I have tears in my eyes, very moving. I blame it on the preggy hormones :).]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=38924">tenryu.sky</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 18 January 2012 at 12:48pm<br /><br />Our little lad was born 30/11/11.. The day before he was due. <br /><br />Patrick’s Birth Story<br /><br />Your dad and I were the first to admit that you happened slightly before we expected, but we really couldn’t wait any longer for you, and obviously you for us. Later, whilst we adjusted to the idea that we were to be parents, I truly believed that this was for a reason. That you were meant to be. Because of this, I never doubted that you would arrive safe and sound, ready to be a part of both our little family and the extended families that were so happy to hear you were coming. I made many resolutions as we waited for you. I have always wanted to convey to you that you are loved and wanted and that those were of far more value than having expensive things. Not that you haven’t already ended up with some pretty expensive gadgets. <br />The Friday before you arrived, I lost my plug. I had arranged to care for Ashton that day, but I truly thought that this was the beginning of labour, and that you would arrive soon. I rung Taryn, who (in an extremely tired state) thought that I meant that I’d lost a spark plug in my car. Ashton and I enjoyed a calm lazy day together, with me knowing that soon you and him would meet. <br />Friday night was uneventful, however on Saturday night, contractions came more regularly. In the early hours of Sunday morning I was pretty sure that you mustn’t be far away, as it was getting pretty painful. However when the midwife turned up to check, this wasn’t the case, and I was given stern instructions to get some rest. This left me with some strong doubts about my own ability to birth you in the way that I wished – naturally, without drugs that would numb your entrance into the world and leave you feeling groggy and horrid. Sunday came and went, with contractions that I had to pause for. Monday those contractions got stronger, closer and much more painful and then disappeared. What a tease you were! I wanted to you out now, so I could see your little face and hold you! Tuesday I spent on my own at home, with pain in my hips, just pacing, kneeling and basically in constant motion. I wanted to rest for you, but it just wasn’t happening. That pain got worse, however given the lack of (previously experienced) contractions and midwife advice that I would know when you were coming, we tried to continue on as normal. <br />Normal, Ha! Wednesday morning saw your dad and I walking into the hospital at 5am, where they said my heartrate was up and they were going to induce me, with likelihood of needing an epidural alongside. I was so disappointed at this stage, that nothing I had wanted was going to occur, and I felt powerless to stop this process. When the hospital midwife checked me a few hours later, having struggled to get a catheter in, and found that I was nearly fully dilated, your gran and I were elated. You were coming! And there was a reason for me being in pain. I could do it! What’s more, I had been going just fine. It was just a waiting game. It was a bit scary, when the hospital couldn’t get hold of my midwife, given that one of the things I made clear that I wanted was consistency of care. When she did come, it was too late to transfer to birthcare, it was time to get you out of there. Push! And push and push and push! I felt a bit disconnected at this point, lying on this bed with the midwife and gran talking about how I was getting on, like I wasn’t part of the process. I could tell your dad was just concerned about me, and stood with me. We were nearly there, the midwife put a mirror down so I could see you crowning (lots of hair on that little head!), one more push, and there you were. You quickly had the worst of the gook covering you wiped off, before being placed up on my chest, heartbeat to heartbeat. You lay there for about an hour as we all admired you, slightly dazed. <br />For the first two weeks you slept and fed, with little in between. Slowly you are waking up to the world, spending more and more time alert and watching us, kicking with your little legs. I am starting to feel like I know you now, as a little person with a definite sense of humour. You love being naked, especially in the fresh air and you smile when your clothes come off. You give me big grins when you don’t want to go to sleep (even when you are tired) and hold your arms towards me when you are on the change table. You have a real temper, and have true faith that your needs will always be met, even if you have to scream to make it happen! <br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23311">isabel</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 16 January 2012 at 3:16pm<br /><br />Love your story Emmi!<br />Heres mine:<br /><br />So Emily was born on 24/11/11 10.56PM 2126g 46 cm <br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Marcus was born 24/11/11 11.00PM  2640g  50cm  at 35weeks gestation<br /><br />The saturday before they arrival i had contractions and spent 3 days in hospital trying to stop them. they successed and we went home. On thursday around 6 pm i noticed that i was starting to get contractions.finished dinner and rang mw. we met at hospital to check progress, by the time we arrived the contractions where 7 minutes apart, lasting 2 min. i was 6cm when we arrived so ambulance was orded to take us to rotorua. I kept thinking i can be that far along as they were not getting closer and not that painful. by the time we arrived in rotorua 30 minutes later i was 8,5 cm. I was still 5min apart lasting 1 minute. everyone at the hospital ran around doing paperwork, paedritrician introduced herself but said she was fininshing in 15 minutes but would love to stay and see a twin birth and asked if it was okey. i didnt mind so had now 3 paedritricians (sp?). Had 2 MWs in the room with me apart from DH.Soon i felt like pushing and got on to the bed.Specialist came and broke waters and then left. MW said darn we havnt done OBs, i said never mind im having the baby now.Emily was born in one push and so fast no one was there to catch her! (MWs were getting kit ready to clamp cord)she was put on my chest for skin to skin and then i specialist came to brake the second waters. they checked with ultrasound he was still heads down, and he was so all go. Marcus was born in one push and joined his sister on my chest.They then had their first breastfeed.they had great scores but emily had a tad low blood suger so they were both taken to SCBU. i had synto to help stop bleeding, and had a shower before checking on the babies.(DH was with them in SCBU). Had a couple of grazes. it all happened so fast that the paedritricians in the excitment didnt even take any notes down!<br /><br />So different to first time labour that i really didnt feel like it was any hard work at all!was so suprised i didnt have any painrelief, or hit transition stage.was quite suprised over how fast i progressed.<br /><br />we stayed for 2 weeks in SCBU before going home.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22431">Emmi_</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 December 2011 at 10:22am<br /><br />So its not my intended HB VBAC story (thats a whole nother story!) but here is our most recent additions story (sorry it might be a little too much/long, Ive just copied and pasted it)<br /><br />Not too sure where to start, so will just start from the first (spontanious (YAY!)) contraction, which was around 8am on Saturday the 24th of December.  I had woken up at 7ish but stayed in bed trying to go back to sleep till about 7.30 because for yet another night (2nd in a row) I had slept bugger all...  Couldnt get back to sleep though, so got up thinking "if I got into labour today, I dont care what I have left to do, Im having a nap!"<br /><br />We went to the supermarket around 8am and I think I had a couple of weird crampy feelings before we left, didnt say anything to anyone cos I was pretty sure I had just slept funny etc, by the time we got home an hour later they were coming every 2 mins, lasting about a minute although still not ouchy, but regular. <br /><br />Had a loooong shower (its hard to get anything done in the 1 minute between!),DH ended up leaving the house for a bit, leaving me with DD while I was still in the shower, I finally got out of the shower and decided I should call my MW (I was ment to be having my 'postdates' monitoring at the hospital at midday since I was 40+11) (it was now 10am and still going) and let her know since I might not be leaving the hospital after monitoring (or incase she wanted me in earlier or later etc).  She said it sounded like it could be early labour and that yes I should tell DH! (hehe)<br /><br />So I sent him a txt that said "MW said I should tell you that it might just be baby time" and he called me straight back.  Since he was with my family everyone was wondering what was going on!  I told him that Id been having some contractions and that we would still go to the hospital at 12 like planned but we might not leave again so we should start getting ready!<br /><br />Finished packing my hospital bags, worked out that Mum would stay with DD till we knew what was happening (since she has her nap at around 12.30/1ish and I knew she would be better if she had a good nap at home before coming in to hang at the hospital (and we didnt know if I would be staying or not anyway)) (I had planned to have DH, mum, my sister and DD all with me (as well as a friend to take photos and another two friends for support, although by the time I was actually staying it turns out Im one of teh 'quiet, dont touch me' types and didnt want them spending their xmas eve hanging around being quiet for me etc so didnt call them in)<br /><br />Got to the hospital at 12.30, did CTG, showed I was having regular contractions, 4 in 10 mins, baby was 3/5th engaged.<br /><br />We talked about what to do from here re: go home for a bit and come back or hang around...  as much as I didnt want to spend early labour hanging around delivery, strapped to the CTG (due to being a VBAC), I wasnt sure I really wanted to spend 20 mins in the car going home, and 20 mins to come back again when I was a bit further along...  MW went and talked to the OB, who came back and said it was suggested they break my waters and start me on synto...  I have to say I swore!  So she went back and said thanks but no thanks.  I also said no thanks to the IV line but let my MW take some blood for my G+H.  MW said if I was 4cm then I should stay and if I was less then I should/could go home..  I didnt like 4cm as 4cm was all I got to with DD after being on synto for 12 hours, so said if I was 5cm then I would stay (because who knew how long I would be at 4cm for).  It was a big decision to have the VE as I didnt actually want to know how dilated I was - I didnt want it to mess with my head if I didnt progress as I 'should', and even knowing if I was more or less than 5cm would give me more info that I wanted (even if I was really curious!).  So blood was taken, went to the loo before VE and had my show (yay! haha! (actually I was pleased to have had it before any intervention, made me feel like I was getting somewhere :) ) MW offered to do a S&S depending on how my cervix was (up until now (40+11) I hadnt had any VEs/S&Ss), I said thanks but no thanks, and at around 3.30pm had first VE...<br /><br />And I was 3-4cm (of course!!) but after some internal (and external) debate decided to stay.<br /><br />Switched to the wireless monitors (finally!), and agreed that next VE would be at 7.30pm.  Contractions were starting to get a little ouchy, it turns out I dont like light/noise/touch/smell when Im in labour so I was making everyone else be quiet too, and to keep their hands off.  Mum, my sister and DD came in at around 4, I couldnt really concentrate on DD so my sister took her to the Whanau room/the park across the road/to get some dinner for them all etc, bringing her in occasionally, which was perfect.  Mum and DH spent the time playing silent rummy, while making jokes everytime I went to the loo about how they never knew I was into Scientology :p<br /><br />With the contractions starting to get on top of me (there goes that mind game I had wanted to avoid), I asked for the next VE slightly early (7pm instead of 7.30) and guess what?<br /><br />I was 8 freaking cm!  Where on earth did that come from?!  I mean I was 3-4cm only 3.5 hours ago, thats manic!  All of a sudden they didnt hurt any more and I could relax into them again<br /><br />So with my new found momentum, I thought sh*t, this might actually happen!  I can do this! (and I thought sweet! even if things slow down a bit now I should still avoid having a Christmas baby!)<br /><br />The back up MW came in for a bit so my MW could go have some dinner.. I wasnt fussed with her cos she made lots of noise!  So I didnt repsond to her much :P  MW comes back from her break and at 9.30 I vomited up my sandwich that Id had for lunch (which was before we decided to stay since they didnt want me to eat and I was hungry!) - I thought sweet! Good sign! Not long to go now! Although Mum and DH couldnt understand why the MW told them it was good (I knew!) It must have been from around now that I occasionally had the urge to go to the loo and poo, although no matter how many times I tried I just couldnt go! (now I KNOW what was going on, but I just had a 'maybe' feeling at the time)<br /><br />Starting to feel a bit sick of being so close at 11pm I asked for 3rd VE, I guess hoping for the magic 10cm and confirmation that my poo-ey feeling really was a push-ey feeling and to go for it<br /><br />And I was 9.5cm, I think I had a little bit of a lip...  fark, by now I was totally over it and wanted this bloody baby out!  I felt like the contractions were never going away, so I was constantly sore, I had been on my feet for 99% of the time (most comfortable position, although I would have loved to have lay down and gone to sleep! or even been able to sit down for half an hour or so (but no luck!)) and I wanted it gone!<br /><br />I asked if I could have pethadine (knowing full well I couldnt, but it was my way of trying to say something needs to start happening, Im not coping with this very well any more (which up till now I had been, although I wouldnt say I was comfortable, they hadnt really 'hurt' (thank you media!))<br /><br />So yes, was told no pethidine, you can have gas or epi..  well the gas made me feel like I was about to pass out with DD, so no thank you, and the thought of an epi still grosses me out, so no thank you! (not that I wanted pethidine either tho).  Since my waters were still intact we discussed breaking them, and although I wasnt looking forward to the sudden increase in intensity in contractions (which were already on top of me) I wanted this baby out.  Baby was still really high (at -2 for those in the know), and hadnt moved down at all during labour.  We hoped that by breaking my waters baby would move down and hurry the feck up and come out!<br /><br />So at middnight (hello Christmas baby!  FARK!) my waters were broken, with thick meconium in them. 12.30 after much discussion it was looking like a c section was all there was left to do since baby still wasnt coming down, so in that case where the hell is my epi (me totally not dealing with the contractions now, pissed off that Id done everything right and it still not worked out (although also glad with everything that had happened so far but feeling so pipped at the post!!)), Had the epi at 1.30am, I declined the flluids that go with it (helps keep your BP up, I said if it drops then I will have them but not as a 'just in case' thank you).<br /><br />I had asked my MW if she could do one last VE before I go to theatre (JIC baby had moved down enough to use forceps or something that would enable me to avoid the c section), so my 5th VE was done at 2.30.  I was fully dilated, baby had come down to 0 (so a bit of improvement!), afterwards MW (apparently, I didnt know shed gone to talk to OB, or what she was planning) went and talked to the OB, came back in and said how would you feel about pushing for 30 mins...&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;ahhh wtf?!  Where did that come from? But of course! Like Im going to say no!<br /><br />So, with MW on one leg, and DH on the other I get taught how to push, after the 2nd one (where I finish the forced push with an involuntary one that Ive been trying to avoid!) I work out that my pooey feeling really was a pushy feeling after all! Sweet!<br /><br />I asked if that is the most productive way to push (me thinking that sitting on the toilet 2 hours ago was getting the same outcome) but yep.  15 mins later P asks Eric if he can see that 1cm of white when I push..  thats babys head! (Eric didnt believe her!).  After my 30 mins were up the OB let me have another 20 mins pushing since I had been doing such a good job, I said so long as I can get up and push on the loo (and came clean with the feelings Id had before!), so tehy went and found me a birthing stool.<br /><br />Sat down on that and OMG, I couldnt stop pushing!  I had no control over it!  Was mental!  After 6 mins MW made me get off as apparently you can tear pretty badly if you birth on the birthing stool, so I opted to kneel on the bed, leaning over the head of the bed.  P says I have 10 mins left before the OB comes back, I still push, but really like having my head on the pillow and just want to sleep!  But I keep at it, only 10 mins left, I would much rather finish this myself!  I remember P going out of the room, and the urges coming back to push..  Mum, Fern and Eric were all sitting down (not really near the bed) and I was pushing, I could feel baby start to come and would go back up again, but then bubs didnt go back up, I told them they better get ready to catch the baby cos bubs had moved down, I was sure baby was going to be born with out P there! (but nope!) P came back in and I said I was getting that stingy feeling now (she had mentioned it before but I wasnt there yet) and got what she ment.  OB came into the room and wanted to do a 'quick' scan to see where baby was, so she wanted me to turn around...  I didnt want to, I was in th emiddle of pushing!  After a couple more mins I decided I better, so rotated around, and mid rotate the bloody head comes out! (with the OB (who wasnt actually looking at me) saying to stop pushing now, I dont want to rupture my scar now do I? stop pushing) then when she looked down (either I said its a bit late or I thought it in my head) she suddenly changed to PUSH PUSH PUSH!! (Bahahaaha!)<br /><br />I some how finished making it to my back and pushed...<br /><br />Then I hear that babys shoulders are stuck, the bed head is put back, up go my knees to do the mc roberts manoeuvre, OB is saying push emma! (what do you think Im doing to do you batty woman?!  I think I actually told her I was!), MW was saying I was doing really well, there was a nice hosp MW who was saying nice things too (hmm maybe the OB had just pissed me off before so I didnt like her now?), Mum was standing beside me holding my hand, she said she could see baby coming, I opened my eyes and she had tears in her eyes saying that I was doing it, she looked so excited and proud! I closed them again and pushed, and out baby came! (at 4.11am Christmas morning, finally!)<br /><br />Baby was placed on me, skin to skin, OB had been told to wait to clamp the cord till it had stopped pulsing, next minute she was asking if she can clamp it yet I said so long as its stopped pulsing (MW said it had) so let her clamp it.  DH cut it.  I declined the drug to deliver the placenta, and Synto (which was precautionary since I lost around 1L of blood with DD), apparently my cervix had started to close already, before the placenta came out, so the OB did some pushing and pulling and out it came, then I was bleeding a fair bit so agreed to synto (with the OB muttering about how did I want to bleed out and die etc) which did its job.<br /><br />I think it was about now (15 mins after baby was born) that my sister walks past and says shes a girl (no one had looked till now! I had said DH and I were to look first), I didnt believe her, figuring she hadnt really seen or something (I was so sure she was a boy!) then realised baby really was a girl!<br /><br />We were left to do a breast crawl, baby decided to have a wee nap instead, but ended up latching on (naturally) about an hour and a bit after birth and fed for 45 mins<br /><br />Had the best toast in the world and some strawberry milk (magic meal!)<br /><br />Finally weighed baby at around 7.30am and found she is 4.240kgs :D  (I wondered how big she was going to be, since DD was 4.570, but I had had fluids in labour with her, and she lost a tonne of weight too, so wondered if it was her true weight, since I had avoided any extra fluids I figured this baby really was that 'big')<br /><br />Totally the best experience ever, I still cant believe I did it!  How amazing are our bodies and babies?  That they know what to do?  Totally unbelieveable!  I can so see how people get addicted to birth, I really hope I get to do it again!<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Emmi_</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=32234">SethsMama</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 03 October 2011 at 9:16am<br /><br />I thought after being such a chronic lurker of these forums for so long it was about time I contribute something! What better way to introduce myself than with Seths birth story.<br /><br />I was due on Feb 17, but I was convinced he was going to come early! (I guess that was mostly wishful thinking). I had stopped work 2 months before his due date as I worked on my feet all day, not very fun at 8months pregnant!<br /><br />Anyway the 17th cam and went. At every appointment my MW would say, see you tonight, she was so sure I was on the edge for about 3 weeks! At 1 week over I saw a specialist, she did a s&s and said there was no way I was going to have to get induced but she booked me in for 14 days over just in case.<br /><br />I was well and truly certain I was not going to get induced! My awesome cousin sent me every naturopathic 'bring on labour' remedy she knew, but still nothing for the next couple of days!<br /><br />Finally at 10days over about 9pm at night, I was watching a DVD with DH and POP. I was like 'that was weird, it felt like a balloon popped in my jayjay' DH laughed and told me to get out of bed in case the baby was sneaking out.<br />I went to the bathroom and sure enough waters starting gushing....I mean like with vengence! I never knew it was so MUCH! We rang my midwife to tell her and she said to call back when contraction are started and close-ish. <br /><br />Then they started...and boy did they start! I had imagined that I would have a slow build up to the pain. Everyone talks about niggles that get stronger. Mine started strong and never gave up the whole way! After about 20mins we rung my midwife back, they were 3mins apart and lasting 40 secs or so.<br /><br />So we drove into the birthing centre (worse car ride ever) and met my midwife. She was surprised that I was over-exagerating the contractions, she had assumed I was being a little dramatic! Haha!<br /><br />After checking she said I was only 3cm but with the strength of my contractions she thought thing would move quickly. So an hour later...4cm....much gas and two hours after that 5cm...grr!!! All this time contractions were still only 3mins apart so MW gave me some pethidine so I could get some sleep in. Man I love pethidine, I was so exhausted by that time, getting that rest was amazing. <br /><br />Midwife checked again at 3am and said I was 9cm (thank god!) but that I had a lip that wasn't moving and she wanted it to move naturally if possible. 2 hours later...still the same but I really wanted to push. Decided to jump in the pool to try and relax but as soon as a hit the water I wanted out! so much for a water birth...<br /><br />At 6am MW checked and said the lip was still there but only just and I was 10cm by then so she asked me to push but only a couple then she'll check again. That seemed to work and after a couple of checks the lip was gone. <br /><br />I kinda lose track of time after that, i'm sure there's more in my notes but they are hidden deep in a book somewhere. I know at about 7:20 they rang an ambulance and asked them to come in half an hour because my boy had been stuck for about half an hour and they were worried I might need intervention. After the phone call my MW got mean (in a good way) and told me that I had half an hour to get him out, or I'm giving birth in an ambulance. I really don't remember much apart for getting yelled at (again in a good way, trying to get me angry so I'd keep pushing) and frustration that DS wasn't moving. <br /><br />My husband said he remembers my MW saying that there wasn't time to get me in the ambulance and baby was turning blue, (thank god I didn't hear that). So quick epistomy and he shot out in one push! He had to get checked a bit but his colour came back quickly and he gave a little cry so all good! He was passed to me for skin to skin and I finally had my little in my arms.<br /><br />He was born at 7:58am on the 28th Feb, 11 days overdue. 4.06kg and 56cm long. Apgar was 7 then 9. Ambulance was waiting outside, never used :)<br /><br />Oh and MW gave me a shot to eject the placenta...I don't even remember delivering it.<br /><br />So that's my novel! I can't be bothered editing it so hopefully it's understandable.<br /><br />As a side note, what my DH remembers from the birth is... 'MW said baby had to get out NOW, then she cut my wife (he saw that), then a crap load of blood, then a baby, then they had to check the baby, and his wife was still bleeding, then everyone was okay, but there was still a lot of blood and he felt pretty useless.' <br />It took him a couple of minutes to calm down after the birth before he could actually sit down and enjoy his little boy. Poor guy!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=37844">Guest_62179</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 03 October 2011 at 9:11am<br /><br />EDIT: gah posted my as a guest, i'll sign in and post it under my handle.<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Guest_62179</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=21153">MamaT</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 19 September 2011 at 8:48pm<br /><br />Oh Squishysmum that is such a great story, I got all emotional reading that. ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17626">SquishysMum</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 19 September 2011 at 7:17pm<br /><br />I'll add mine too, reading these was so wonderful when I was pregnant! It's a bit of a novel... <br /><br /><br />We had just finished my DH's 30th birthday dinner, where I had told several people that "we'll get to 9pm tonight, and I'll relax enough to finally allow the baby to come!". Sure enough, about 9.20pm I started cramping, but having had LOTS of practice labour in the last couple of weeks thought not a lot of it. I DID, however, think that tonight was a good night to have a baby, while all the family was together, and became too afraid to go to bed in case it all stopped again (as it had every other time). So I sat up with DH and bounced on the swiss ball until midnight. Finally too tired, I went to bed.<br />Between midnight and 2am, I woke up several times to go to the bathroom, and noticed I was still achy, but nothing major. <br /><br />At 2.30 though, something shifted up a notch, and I became too uncomfortable to stay in bed. I got up and sat on the loo for a while, before coming downstairs at 2.50am to watch some TV on demand. This lasted about 20 mins before I got uncomfortable again, and I went back up to the bathroom again. TMI, needed to move my bowels, and got so pissed off that all that cramping was for a blasted BM (it had happened like that before!). BUT, they didn't stop. Washing my hands I tried leaning over the sink during the next cramp (still not thinking it was labour), which helped. I did this through a few cramps, and was starting to wonder if I was in labour or not.<br /><br />At about 3.45am, I woke up DH to have a bit of a cry, saying I don't know if I'm in labour or not but this bloody well hurts! I thought I'd call the MW, as the cramps were definitely closer than the 5-7 mins apart I was told to call at, but not lasting long (only 20-30 seconds each). So on the phone to her at about 4am, had one cramp while on the phone to her. Her words - "You may be in labour, it sounds like you're doing really well. Take a couple of panadol, run yourself a bath, and get in it. It will either amp up and you'll know, or you'll relax and it will go away." So, I started running a bath, couldn't find the panadol so didn't get that.<br /><br />About 15mins later (4.15 or so) I thought I'd go and wake up my mum, who happens to be a rather experienced midwife! I went in and told her I changed my mind, tonight was NOT a good time to have a baby, this hurts! "Are you in labour?" "I don't know, they're close enough but not lasting long enough". I explained that I had talked to the MW and was running the bath as per instructions. Mum asked "are you SURE you want to get in the bath?" and I immediately thought that she was telling me it was too soon to get in the bath, and it would slow things down. Turns out she was thinking it was time to head to Birthcare! Oops.<br /><br />Another 15 mins pass, and we are calling the MW saying we're coming in now, and I told DH to put the bags in the car. Now things all started happening at once, so I'll go off the call log on my phone :P<br /><br />0424 - Tried calling MIL to come and watch DD so mum can come with us in the car to Birthcare, just in case baby comes on the way. No answer.<br /><br />0426 - MW - we're on our way. Brief chat about where things were at, and just as mum said "no, she's not pushing yet" I felt that urge, but didn't push yet. I was still in denial that I was actually in labour and thought there was ages still to go. Apparantly I "made the noise", and mum decided we weren't going anywhere. I kept vocalising through all the contractions from here out. Woke up the flatmate (downstairs, through the soundproofing) but strangely not DD across the hallway!<br /><br />0431 - MIL calls back, is told to come now, baby is coming. I remember saying "your mum can come, tell her to come".<br /><br />0432 - MW again, she is pushing, we are not going anywhere. MW says to call an ambulance just in case. Mum asks me if it's ok if she turns back into a MW now (I'd expressed concern that she couldn't be "just a mum" lol)<br /><br />0436 - 111 - baby is coming, no we can't see any part of the baby yet. They're on their way.<br /><br />Then time blurs again - no more phone calls! I could feel a head moving down, and then the beginnings of the 'ring of fire'. I stopped pushing, and the head slipped back in, and I panicked a little ("it went away!"). Mum was being great, pushing on my back and reassuring me that it was all ok. DH was looking out the window for the ambulance - they were in the driveway next door. He wanted to go and get them, but both mum and I said NO! Then the baby was coming, the ambo's called and got directions, I screamed for DH to come back and hung on tight to his trouser leg as the head was born. I didn't make any more noise during the final crowning and delivery of the body, I didn't need to vocalise any more which surprised me a little. Ambo's arrived while the head was out, and stood back while the rest of her body slipped out into her Grandma's hands. Mum passed her through my legs so I could see, and we had another little girl!<br /><br />DH cut the cord with a disposable scalpel when it had stopped pulsing. MIL arrived about 5 mins later, and DD1 finally woke up and wandered into the bathroom just afterwards. I was so pleased to see her, it just felt so right! Time of birth is officially 0457, but we're not sure on this, cos there was no way I was pushing for 20 mins! But that's the time the ambo man said, so we went with it.<br /><br />Placenta took a while to come, we called the MW again and arranged to come in to Birthcare to deliver it and chack me out, as it was obvious DD2 was a decent sized baby. I was in a bit of shock, needed a LOT of help to get off the floor, down the stairs and into the car. Placenta arrived as were were turning around in the driveway. No tears, just a couple of small grazes that I never noticed. Stayed at Birthcare for the morning, but when I had a room mate move in (wasn't entitled to own room as baby/placenta arrived before arrival, dumb rules!) and started arranging for half of Auckland to come visit, we bolted for home again!<br /><br />DD2, 11 July 2011, 4.295kg (9lb 7.5oz), 52cm long.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23814">Kalimirella</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 September 2011 at 9:10pm<br /><br />May as well copy mine over too, this is for Teagan Rose, born 29th August, 9lb1oz (4.130kg) and 53 cm long.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Well, I'd been having mild contractions since the morning but nothing at all painful or intense. Because I wanted to go to church and the baby and child expo I kept it to myself. Once the expo was over I told my MIL and when we got home we went for a couple of walks round the block to get things going. Well basically, standing and walking made them closer together and sitting/lieing made them further apart. Intensity was varying but still not really painful. So at 11pm went into hospital for a check. Well on CTG machine, really slow, definite contractions but baby not moved down so nothing happening. 4cm dilated but until the head came down into contact the MW said nothing would happen. Given the choice to stay or go home, chose to go home as was quite disappointed at the time. Told to take panadol and go to sleep. So got home at 00:20 took panadol went to bed, got some sleep. Woke up at 1am and heard a POP, woke DP up and told him to grab towels. But there was no real gush so wasn't sure if the waters had broken yet so went back to bed. 1:05 had a contraction, very painful, complained to DP the panadol wasn't working, he said it prolly hadn't kicked in yet, I told him that it took less than 40 mins for panadol to kick in. Went back to snooze land, next contraction I was up out of bed saying we are going to the hospital 1:11am, no time to get dressed, just grabbed my dressing gown. Paced around the kitchen with another contraction saying "I should've stayed at the damn hospital" while DP told MIL we were off. DP sped to the hospital, had 3 nasty contractions in the car, remember thinking in between contractions that this had better be the real thing and during contractions that I really wanted it to stop (transition talk there!).<br /><br />Got to the hospital at 1:30am, paced around the room while the MW very quickly got everything ready, about 4-5 contractions later feeling pushy. So hop up on the bed and 3-4 contractions later out comes Teagan. Much MUCH faster than Kiara. Teagan born at 1:58am, I got to cut the cord :D and birthed the placenta naturally at 2:04am. Seems waters breaking is an auto hospital card for me!<br /><br />Oh and having stitches put in (I had a 2nd degree tear cause I couldn't stop pushing) took longer than her being born! So that took 1/2 to 1 hour, then my MW disappeared off to do up her notes (didn't have time during labour obviously lol) so I gave her her first Breastfeed, took a couple of mins for her to get the idea but then she fed like a champ for a whole hour! Got to have a shower while MW checked her over and gave her the vit K injection, then walked over to the antenatal ward (postnatal was full!) so I was in a 2 bed room but luckily the other bed was empty. Teagan slept until 8am when her big sister came to meet her. (DP went home once I was on the ward to be with her when she woke up). Kiara absolutely adores her little sister :D]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=21153">MamaT</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 September 2011 at 6:56pm<br /><br />What a great story Bex, sounds like you were amazing!!!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19287">erinalba</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 September 2011 at 3:11pm<br /><br />Great birth story Bex and pleased you managed to do it without epidural.  Theo is gorgeous.  Hope all is going well as a mum of two.<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by erinalba</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=21755">lillibit</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 September 2011 at 3:40pm<br /><br />Great birth story Bex sounds like you did so well!Congratulations!!! Love the name<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley10.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=21315">Lexidore</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 September 2011 at 10:32am<br /><br />My birth story<br /><br />I woke up on Thursday morning at about 3:30am feeling some pretty bad pains, I'd been feeling them in my sleep so got up went to the toilet and came back in and told Antz that I was fairly sure it was actually labour this time! They started in thick and fast every 1 minute for 30 seconds which kinda freaked me out a little bit! I was really confused so I called my midwife and told her, She let me know she was heading into the hospital anyway because she had another lady in labour. Got Antz to call his Mum to come round cause they were so close together I really didn't know what was going on! <br /><br />We sat around watching tv and they became completely irregular. Coming anywhere from 2 mins to 12 mins apart, lasting for 30-45 seconds. This basically occured all day, I asked midwife if she could pop round sometime soon at about 1pm and just check out how I was going so at least I would know possibly what was going on. She came round about 2pm and listened to baby, and gave me an internal let me know I was 3 cm very close to 4cm. I was pretty pleased to head that, I thought I was going to end up being told I was 1cm or something ridiculous. We chatted and made a plan for me to head into the hospital once the contractions were starting to get closer together. She was off to see a couple of other ladies for appointments and just to let her know when I wanted to go in. She told me to pop my left leg up on a raised surface and kinda flick my hip to try and get baby to move, and to try rocking my hips on all fours. I did both and that (and probably the internal) really got the contractions going, started getting them pretty much one on top of each other and text her to let her know, she said to meet at the hospital about 20 past 4, By quarter to 4 though I had to get Antz to call her and say we wanted to go then and there. <br /><br />Got to the hospital at about 4, I texted the student nurse on the way to let her know it was time. My midwife, the student midwife and the student nurse arrived in the next 15 mins or so. I found myself getting really hot so stripped down and they gave me a gown. They gave me another internal, the student midwife did it this time and when she was doing it she was saying I was only 3-4cm still, I nearly cried! Then a contraction came on, my midwife asked her to tell her what was happening during the contraction and it turns out my cervix was stretching up to 7cm with a contraction. They then asked what I would like to do now, and I asked to try out the gas. <br /><br />Gas came and at first I didn't know how to use it but then midwife showed me and it was good, still felt a LOT Of pain but it took the edge off it a little. Went through transition a wee while later and I was not happy lol! I kept saying I wanted an epidural and that I should've got one, midwifes both letting me know it was far too late for that! Felt pressure to push and so midwife did another internal, my waters hadn't managed to break yet so she said she wanted to see how I was doing. She did the internal and told me I was 9 3/4s dialated she said she didn't really want to intervene but that if I wanted she would break my waters as it "might" make things move a little faster. At this point being super exhausted I asked that they were broken. Everything is just on top of each other at this point with no break. Felt intense urge to push and midwife said to go for it. Peep was seen at 18:18 and baby was born at 18:25 with Antz catching our baby boy. Theo was then put on me for skin to skin and Antz cut the cord.  <br /><br />So in the end my established labour was just 4 1/2 hours, and I went from 4-5cm to fully dialted and baby out in 2 hours! Only a slight tear needing no stitches. So much more intense compared to Lexies birth in which I had an epidural, I was so proud this time round, though I did go into shock for a bit after the birth. Am super happy with how things went and am so thankful to have my beautiful baby boy in my arms now!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=21390">Black_Friday</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 16 July 2011 at 12:11am<br /><br />I thought I should add J's birth story (better late than never) since I enjoy reading everyone elses :)  Some of it is a bit vague due to how tired I was by the time he arrived and how long ago it was.  Sorry for the novel....<br /><br />Had final MW appointment on 20 October - was "officially" 40+1  based on scan dates.  I had been charting so didn't think that I was due for nearly another week after that so wasn't concerned.  Got booked in for a scan on 26/10 to make sure bubs was still happy in there.  Discussed need to go to hospital reasonably early if waters broke due to testing postive for Strep B.<br /><br />Started having uncomfortable cramps (30 seconds long about five minutes apart) midmorning on 21 Oct, and wasn't sure if it was labour or not.  Didn't really hurt, but was like a heavy period cramp and I couldn't hold still!  Had to get up and walk around or bounce on swiss ball.  Decided this might be early labour and decided I had better put away all my craft gear that was spread around the living room/kitchen.  I don't think it was nesting - just self-preservation as I knew if anyone else put it away I probably would never find it again!  Took a while as I had an awful lot of sewing/knitting gear spread around and lots of partially completed projects.<br /><br />DH came home from lunch and I told him I thought I might be in early labour, he started to get excited but I made him go back to work after lunch, promising to call him if things go serious.  I figured that there wasn't anything he could do to help.  Decided I didn't want to/couldn't eat and just kept fluids up.  Swiss ball wasn't helping anymore as contractions were getting a bit more serious, so I put the swiss ball away and switched to hugging hot water bottle under bump and walking during contractions and hot water bottle on lower back while resting on couch between contractions.  Timed the odd contraction.  Decided labour was boring as it destroyed my concentration span and I couldn't even watch trashy TV (we had only moved house a few weeks earlier and only had bunny ears).<br /><br />2 o'clock came and I was getting a bit tired as I was used to having an afternoon nap, so took some Panadol (like we got told to do during antenatal class) and tried to have a nap.  Lasted about 5 minutes and had to get up to walk around.  Waited..... Panadol did nothing....  Got a bit frustrated.  Decided labour was still boring and wondered that no-one had warned me about this.<br /><br />Around 3pm mucous plug started to come away - and I thought yippeee now we are getting somewhere.  Rang the midwife to let her know I thought I was in labour and that plug had come away, contractions had been five minutes apart and 30-45 seconds long all day, was disappointed to be told that plug can come away days or weeks before baby arrives!  Decided we shouldn't cancel the scan appointment....just in case.  Double checked at what stage we should go to hospital, wondered if contractions would ever get to a minute long.<br /><br />DH came home from work early (5 minutes away) thinking things might be happening, I sent him back to work to finish up paperwork and arrange for leave in the hope that baby might arrive over Labour weekend.  Hoped to not be in Labour ALL weekend.<br /><br />My sister was staying to help with meals, cleaning and company after baby arrived.  She cooked an early dinner for everyone in case we ended up going to hospital.  DH had dinner with her around 5.30, I still didn't want to eat and was getting pretty tired from being on my feet for a lot of the day pacing during contractions.  DH started timing contractions a bit more seriously.  He kept telling me how long it was between contractions and how long the contraction was.  By this time I was just over it and hoping that this didn't carry on all night.  I hadn't eaten since breakfast and just wanted a nap.  Asked to not be told until decision was made that it was time to go to hospital (1 min duration 5 min apart) since contractions had been 5 min apart all day!<br /><br />DH finally anounces we are good to go to hospital.  He calls midwife around 7pm to say we were on way to hospital.  Arrived at hospital approx 1/2 hour later.  Was hoping to not be told that I wasn't established enough and to go home....  Midwife did an internal and asked if I wanted to go home or not.  The look on my face must have been pretty priceless, I seem to remember muttering something like "I would rather have a baby" and then she tells me that's a good thing as I am 8cm dilated!  Call student midwife to come in.  She finishes her dinner in record time and arrives soon afterwards. Get monitored for a bit to make sure baby is OK, all is good so monitor comes off.  From here it kind of didn't go according to plan.  We are very flexible on birth plan (most of it was left blank).  I knew I really wanted to avoid C section/episiotomy and hoped to be drugfree but that was about it.  Plan was pretty much wait and see how we got on.<br /><br />More walking/eating lollies at this stage (got told off for not eating all day) and using hot water bottle for pain.  After what seemed like forever, midwife did another internal and asks if I'm happy to have membrane ruptured as things don't seem to be progressing (think it was around 9pm).  Agree and notice that things are a bit more comfy.  Bubs drops down a bit more and we walk/backrub/hot water bottle some more.  Have IV antibiotics for Strep B. <br /><br />Get asked about fluid intake as I don't seem to be passing as much fluid as I should be.  I have been drinking all day!  MW suggests a drip to make sure that I am hydrated, agree and get put on a drip.  MW notices that contractions seem to be spacing out, get montiored and put on Synto drip to try and get things moving.  Not much happens except I decide labour now hurts.  Somewhere in here I end up with a monitoring belt permanently and a fetal clip. Synto gets increased a whole bunch of times.  On call registrar comes and does an internal (asks if I want gas as he says it will be pretty unconfortable - I decide this is probably a good idea).  He announces that what MW thought was rear fontenalle is actually the back of neck and bubs has turned head transverse and can't come out like this.  Much debate ensues.  Given option of trying to turn baby by assuming incredibly contorted and uncomfortable position.  Agree as don't want C section and monitor is showing bubs is still happy.  Spend next few hours lying on side/tummy (VERY uncomfortable) with one knee up as close to chin as I can get it trying to get bubs to turn.  On gas through all contractions as Synto is know really pumped up.  Have more IV antibiotics for Strep B.  Try and rest. Now on ice chips only instead of water in case we end up in surgery.  DH trys to sleep. Get offered Epidural, ask MW if this will do anything to help bubs or if she is expecting pain will get a lot worse - she thinks that pain will likely stay about this level, I turn down Epidural (gas is fab and I am happy drunk on it).  Keep getting asked if I feel the urge to push, eventually I do and contractions don't seem to hurt anymore (had to give up the gas).  <br /><br />After some time of trying to push..... and lessons on how to push properly - Registrar comes back to check again around 3am and checks - Bubs still hasn't turned and my pushing was not achieving anything.  Get told that we are now surgical as there isn't anything else to try and baby has to come out, get told not to push (this just makes me want to push more!).  Get prepped for C section.  Think that student MW will be disappointed (all her ladies have ended in C section!).  Just want baby to be OK and labour to be done.  Get taken up to surgery, sign lots of forms while DH gets changed into scrubs.  Realise we are finally going to get to meet bubs!<br /><br />Get into surgical suite, get spinal block (bliss if tricky holding still during contractions to get it put in) and drips and monitors.  Much happier now things don't hurt, remember what it is like to be normal person.  Registrar says he will have an attempt if turning bubs with ventouse if I want (to avoid C section), I want.  Two attempts at ventouse, episiotomy and forceps delivery.  It is very weird having to push when told to and you can't feel anything.  A couple more pushes and we have baby announces his presence with a big yell as he is getting pulled out. 3.6kg boy is delivered onto my stomach at 0454 hrs 22 October.  I end up with PPH but don't have to have a transfusion - placenta doesn't seperate and has to be manually removed. <br /><br />As I am being taken out of surgery my body decides to finally give up all the fluid I have been drinking all day (plus the 3 bags of fluid I was given) and fills the catheter bag to nearly overflowing.  No-one has any idea where it all came from!  Baby was latched in recovery and has first feed. We get taken back to delivery suite to wait for a room in postnatal.  I develop a temp and baby is cold so I get to give lots of extra bonus cuddles to warm him up.  I get given IV antibiotics and decision gets made to leave catheter in for 24 hours in case my bladder was overstretched from all the extra fluid being held in there.  Baby gets hip check just before we are taken to postnatal ward.  <br /><br />Husband goes to have a sleep at a friends place in town as he has been up since 6am the previous day.  I get food and a nap.  Lots of help from ward MW in latching bubs properly, stay in hospital overnight and milk comes in the next morning. J gets a name.  Catheter comes out that morning and we get to go home after lunch :)<br /><br />I'm really grateful to my fabulour MW and student MW and the theatre team for making the extra effort so I didn't end up with C section and got a gorgeous healthy baby.  I was happy with the way everything turned out and I had a really positive experience with the hospital staff.  <br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=34995">Artsukoi</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 14 July 2011 at 12:26am<br /><br />Hey, its nice to be able to share our stories.<br /><br />At about 7.40am on the 28th of April I started getting pains in my back and had a small gush of clear oderless fluids so we made an appointment to go to the hospital to see my midwife. She did a check and a swab but although it looked like it should've been amniotic fluid (and was definitely from the right place, lol) it was negative for that (which confused my midwife even as she was fairly certain) so we were sent home.<br /><br />At 4pm that afternoon I had a scan as I was 40 weeks 6 days at that point. I was maybe 1.6cm dilated at the widest part, though my cervix was shortened. I was once again told it could still be any time, though my midwife later tells me the ultrasound technician rang her after my appointment all excited about how I was in early labour.<br /><br />By about 10pm that night the back pains were getting worse and worse. 5am it finally got to the point where all I could do was sit rocking back and forward to ease the pains so my fiance rang my midwife then my mother. We were finally heading in to the hospital. We got there at about 6am. My midwife was finishing up with another woman and about to head home for the night as she had done 3 births overnight, so I was assigned another midwife.<br /><br />When I got there they hooked me up to the monitors to check Dahlia's heartrate and my contractions etc and did an internal exam, I was at 4-5cm. After checking everything was fine I was allowed to strip down and labour in the birthing pool. At about 8.30am I asked for pain relief and was given gas, though I tried it for maybe 5 minutes before I gave up on it as it only made me feel dizzy and out of it but didn't ease the pain.<br /><br />At about 8.55am my waters finally broke and I started to push. At 9.25am my 55cm long, 3.52kg baby girl was born. They gave her to me to cuddle for a bit before helping me out of the pool to the bed so I could birth the placenta and then they could check for damage (which there was none! =D ) and make sure everything had come out cleanly. I was then given my daughter back to feed. After about an hour or so for everything post birth they suggested I showered and then led us to the recovery rooms.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=27673">Two_Puddle_Ducks</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 13 July 2011 at 5:14pm<br /><br />After going into labour at 34weeks and having problems with babies heart I am so pleased to be able to write about my planned homebirth which took place at 39weeks plus 1 day.<br />After my 34week scare I had been having contraction on and off for the last 5weeks so when I woke to yet another show I didn't think too much of it but somehow still felt that this was it. It was a week before my due date exactly. As I went on with my morning the contractions came and went as I carried on with life. I had been doing this for the last 5 weeks so when I told DH this is the baby coming he just laughed and went back to bed. <br />I had people coming to pick up a whole lot of trade me sales that day so was praying that I could hold out until they had all been picked up and that I wouldn't have any contractions while dealing with people. Thankfully both these things happened. As the last toy was picked up and I tucked my son into bed for the night the contraction picked up and I told my DH I was going to go to bed as I was going to have a baby in the morning and needed as much rest as I could. He laughed again as he had heard that before. He had even heard it from dr. and it still didn't happen.<br />Anyways at 1am I couldn't stay in bed any longer so I got up and watched reruns of FRIENDS as a laboured. Finally at 3am I got my DH up and said he needed to start filling the pool. He was surprised but it finally dawned on him that the baby was really coming and we got excited. He worked on filling the pool and keep my hot water bottle hot while I walked around and laboured. <br />At 5am things were really going strong so we decided to call the MW to come. My Mw was on weekend leave till 7am so we rang the back up who told us to ring my mw saying she wouldn't want to miss a home birth so we rang her but couldn't get her. We rang the back up and again she told us to ring my main MW. We tried this again and again couldn't reach her (she wasn't on call after all). I started to panic that I was going to deliver the baby by myself but still felt calm at the same time. In the end we rang the student mw as we thought she'd be better than no mw at all. She arrived and got the back up to come too. <br />When they arrived I was already 8cm dilated and was working hard. By 730am my mw had joined the party too and my son was awake giving me kisses on my hand each time I had a contraction and getting more and more excited about seeing his baby brother being born.<br />At 830am I decided I'd get my waters broken as things were slowing down. I got them broken and had 3 big contractions, got back in the pool and 2 minutes later was hold the most perfect baby boy you have ever seen. We sat in the pool for a while but I was feeling a bit faint so we got out onto the couch to deliver the placenta. <br />I got to cuddle my boy for the longest time and to bf him immediately. Everything was perfect. My older son was there for the whole thing and his presence and excitement made everything even more special. <br />DS2 was born 901am, 27th June, 2001. 3.6kg and 52cm long.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=26669">littlepickle</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 04 July 2011 at 7:04pm<br /><br />Have really enjoyed reading others' birth stories so here is mine :)<br /><br />I woke up around 7am on Sunday the 19th of June, a week overdue and feeling pretty over it. I got up to go to the toilet and felt a leaking sensation and when I checked there was a bit of clear fluid, but nothing major. We'd had quite a few false starts, so I didn't get excited, I headed back to bed. An hour later I got up for another loo trip, this time I felt a very definite leak, and lots more clear fluid when I checked. I made DP check to make sure I wasn't imagining things - and hadn't wet myself! - and shortly after that I started to get some mild contractions. We still didn't want to get our hopes up, and we were meeting our MW Fiona at the hospital at 11 for monitoring anyway, so DP got me a hot water bottle for the back pain and we had some breakfast. <br /><br />At 10 the MW called to say she was at the hospital as she'd been delivering another baby, and could we come down early. No problem! Off we went, by this time the contractions were increasing in intensity but we still weren't sure. When we got there we explained about the waters possibly leaking and the contractions and the MW checked my pad for fluid. The leaking had stopped by then however so she wasn't sure whether the waters had really broken, and neither were we! We started monitoring and baby's heart rate was really good, and I could finally see that my contractions were real and things were happening. As I had tested positive for Group B Strep, we needed to establish whether the waters had broken so antibiotics could be administered. The MW went and had a chat to the hospital MWs and the OB and decided to go ahead and administer the antibiotics. Before she administered them though, she asked if I'd like an internal to see how things were progressing, which I did. I'd just had the hot water bottle refilled for the back pain, so when Fiona started the internal and hot fluid suddenly gushed everywhere, my first thought was that the hot water bottle had burst! The MW announced that my waters had broken and we were in business now, and that I was 2.5cm dilated already. DP and I were so relieved that this was not another false start, it took us a while to actually click that this meant we would at last be meeting our baby. Because of the Group B Strep, we had the first lot of antibiotics and went over the plan to get the next lot administered and the fact that we would need to be induced if we didn't have a baby by Monday morning due to the risk of infection. With our plans set, we headed home to labour as we were planning a home birth. <br /><br />At home, we called our parents to let them know what was going on, and my mum & sister organised themselves to come over as they were my support people along with DP. My dad & other younger sister were already on their way to visit us, plans we had made pre-labour. All the while my contractions continued to slowly ramp up, and by 2pm my parents and sisters were at our house. I found it difficult having my dad & younger sister present though and found myself really wanting them to go. They weren't too keen to stick around for the gory stuff so that was fine, they headed back to Palmy with promises that we would keep them updated. The MW came round at 4:30 to be ready to administer the next lot of antibiotics and said I was now in established labour as the contractions were much closer together and more intense. By this time the pain in my back was so intense I couldn't stand to have it touched - DP, mum and my sister had all been taking turns to rub it and refill my hot water bottle before that. At 5:30 the next lot of antibiotics was administered and the MW asked if I would like another internal to see how things were progressing. <br /><br />We headed upstairs to the bedroom when a wave of nausea hit me and I yelled for a bucket. Luckily we had one handy as my mum had warned me she was very vomity when transitioning with all of us kids. Fiona the MW went to do an internal, which is a bit hazy as I was transitioning and felt somewhat disconnected to my body by this stage. My sister says I got very vocal during this stage which she found hard to hear - she didn't like hearing me in pain at all! But my support people were great and told me I was doing really well all the way through. Fiona got the doppler out to listen to baby's heartbeat and it had dropped a bit, which had her concerned. She wanted to get to the hospital right away for monitoring, so the hospital bags were scooped up and fired into the car. Luckily we'd packed them in case we needed them even though we'd planned a homebirth. I think DP was panicking on the drive to the hospital but I was too focussed on labour to communicate or panic. We got to the hospital and started monitoring and the heartbeat was back to normal. As we were at the hospital and the pain was intense, I managed to ask for the gas, which was bliss! The first few minutes I thought 'what a waste of time, this isn't working at all' and then seconds later I felt slightly dizzy and drunk - but in a good way. The pain was lessened, though I could still feel it, and it added to my internalized state, which I didn't mind. I was slumped over the end of the hospital bed, which the MW had set at an angle, in a dreamy state, gas in hand, occasionally groaning with the contractions while DP and Mum told me I was doing well, and my sister applied acupressure to my feet through the contractions, which helped a lot too. All the while I could hear the sound of running water as the MW ran the bath for a water birth, which I'd been hoping for. I'm not sure how long that continued - it felt like a very long time, but at some stage the MW decided it was time for another internal and discovered I was 10cm dilated. I hated the internal and found it really painful and was yelling at her to get her hand out! Poor Fiona. No time for the water birth, it was time for me to start pushing! She called for a hospital MW and took the gas away. Because I was already on my back on the hospital bed for the internal, I had to deliver in that position, which I remember being vaguely annoyed about as I wouldn't have the benefits of gravity to help with. <br /><br />The hospital MW coached me through the pushing really well and was very no-nonsense, which I found very helpful, it bought me back to earth when all I wanted to do was groan and grunt - which was wasting valuable energy I needed for pushing. DP & my mum continued to tell me I was doing well as they held my hands. I was asked if I wanted to feel the baby's head - "No!" I grumbled but DP did, so I reached down too and felt ALOT of hair! After more pushing, the MW was concerned that we weren't getting any further and baby's heart rate was dropping a bit and started discussing the need for an episiotomy with the hospital MW. Well, I heard that, and was very vocal in my protests according to DP. I didn't manage to actually swear at them, but apparently got a lot of 'F's out in my attempts. Despite my protests, baby's head and shoulders were stuck, bubs was getting distressed and I wasn't stretching, so the cut was made. As soon as they performed the episiotomy the baby was out on the next push, and suddenly he was on my chest before I knew what had happened! <br /><br />Having him suddenly in my arms was the most overwhelming, amazing feeling in the world. I barely noticed the MW stitching me back up (I had one small tear and the episiotomy wound in the end), I was just on cloud 9. <br /><br />Noel Walter Alan Glass was born at 7:27pm after 3 hours established labour and 22 minutes of pushing, weighing 8lb 13, scoring a 9 on the Apgar. We stayed in hospital overnight, which I was VERY reluctant to do without DP, but the Group B Strep and my low iron levels and blood loss made it necessary. I slept with my little boy in my arms that night and DP bought me Maccas and a hot chocolate for breakfast in the morning, lol. Well deserved and much tastier than the hospital breakfast! We were discharged at 3pm that day and have been enjoying our amazing little boy ever since! <br /><br />Sorry for the novel guys - I didn't want to miss anything out :) ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20169">Angs1982</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 04 July 2011 at 10:17am<br /><br />At 10days overdue I was in hospital again for CTG monitoring, 4th day in a row. The news was getting worse baby was not engaged and huge.  Headed home about 10:30am and decided to go for a drive with DH, we got KFC (wanted to try wicked wings as suggested by a friend) and contractions started in the car.  They were pretty regular, we hung out for a bit and then headed home.  Timed the contractions at 5mins about lasting 30secs. By 8:30pm we tried to head to bed but I couldn't, nothing was very comfortable at that stage. Sat in bed timing contractions willng them to increase to 1min in length. They were 3mins about and 45secs long.  At 11pm I decided enough waiting, time to ring MW.  We got to hosptial and was checked at 12am, 6cms! I knew I needed to be upright to help the labour so sat on a swiss ball, I used the gas to get me through the contractions, and it made me rather happy in between.  2:30am MW came back.  Asked if  I wanted an internal... YES PLEASE.  I really wanted my waters broken this time as with DD's birth they didnt break and I'm sure it slowed the labour down.  So MW said I was 8cms and broke my waters and put me on the monitors. It was ALL ON, not long after that I knew I wanted to push this baby was coming! MW checked and I had a lip of cervix in the way and she couldn't find babies heartrate.  I was told not to push, just use the gas they were all telling me. I CANT.  He was on his way.  I think I pushed for about 2mins, maybe 2 contractions, I remember briefly thinking "Theres the ring of fire" his head must be out, then suddenly his whole body was out. Very quick from 8cms to delievery at 3:31am.<br />The MW said about 3 times "he's very floppy" but after 10secs he was fine, up on my chest. "He's a big one" they said... yip 10lbs 7oz, my arm  got sore just holding him after the birth.  The worse part was the stitches, they seemed to take forever and hurt. Just one small tear.  Not bad for a whopper baby who came flying out. ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=21723">MrsJMcD</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 09 June 2011 at 7:42pm<br /><br />lana+3 I can't believe a midwife told your partner his daughter was probably going to die.  That's awful! Congrats on your very much alive little girl.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=33442">lana+3</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 09 June 2011 at 6:08pm<br /><br />my birth story...<br />i was due ond th 2nd june 2011<br />it was the 22nd june 2011 and all was going great... i had cooked dinner eaten it was was settling down in bed wit my partner and 2 yr old to watch some tv. it was 10 to 8pm when my son stated complaining of a sore bum and i had a sore stomach adn the runs so i thought it must be bad chicken so i jumped in the shower with my son to help him then i realised the pain in my stomach was coming and going but didnt feel like contractions but i told my partner to time them anyway.. as it happens they wer less than two mins apart and 1min 30 long so i called my midwife and let her know what was happening (by this time it was 8pm and family guy had jus started) and got my partner on the phone and told him to bring me to th hospital straight away no stopping. by the time her hung up the phone i was sitting on my toilet completly naked and pushing!!! my partner yelled at me to get up get dressed and get in  the car so i got upo got dressed and my partners lil bro turnd up jus in time for him to take my 2 yr old to his partents house and call his mom (we hadnt even called him yet) so i got in the back of the car and  we left for the hospital... i was panting all the was trying not to push  but couldnt control the urged any more and did an almighty push and i heard a big gush of water and her head was out... i told my partner to do his window up coz her head was in my hand and he freaked and as if he wasnt going fast enough he went faster (180kms in a 50m area) and as we go into th maternity part of the hospital (after my partner tried to take me to the older aduts unit!) my partnerpulled the handbrak up and drifted into maternity and 1 more push while her was drifting her body slid out into my hands and i put her straight up my tshirt to eep her warm. he then jump out of the car (engine running still in gear music loud only with the hand brake up) and banged on the dorrs yelling "shes here, shes born and crying in the car" to his horror aprox 10 midwives came out with warm towels.. one even had the nerve to tell him his daughter is probebly going to die nd not to have his hopes too high. <br />but all in all was a vary quick (30 mins all up) and relitivly painless birth experiance.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=30356">Boni</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 23 May 2011 at 1:24pm<br /><br />Greeniemum - Wow, what a scary, trying time for you all! :( Made me tear up reading it, thank god you're home and your bub is doing well!!! xo]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=30356">Boni</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 23 May 2011 at 1:00pm<br /><br />EcoMummy - wow thanks for sharing your story! I'm early in my pregnancy but so inspired by stories like yours <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley17.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=30356">Boni</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 23 May 2011 at 12:17pm<br /><br />Wow those are such amazing birth stories... I'm slightly freaked out (I feel like I know nothing!!! a "show"? "mucus plug"? Oh my how I'm going to get a fright! <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley5.gif" border="0"> ) but inspired by all of your strength! <br /><br />KirstyLeigh - your story made me weepy! I'm very emo lately, lol.<br /><br />RachelSea - Wow what a great story, although reading it sounds like it didn't hurt or anything.. LOL.. So tell me about this swissball thing?? Had you planned a home birth?? <span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Boni</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19293">rachelsea</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 15 May 2011 at 6:20pm<br /><br />Aww I love reading everyone's birth stories! Can add my 2nd one now <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"><br /><br />Austin's birth story <br /><br />We went to bed at 10pm on Sunday the 8th, and Chelsea woke up at 11pm and midnight, but I managed to resettle her quickly each time. I woke at 1am to go to the loo, got back into bed and felt a little popping feeling down low in my belly. I thought "ooh I wonder if that was my water breaking." But then decided it probably wasn't and I was going to be pregnant forever <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0"> but then started feeling quite wet! So back to the loo where more and more came out. Called out to DH that my water had broken. Started getting contractions right away but they weren't painful or regular. I timed a few and they were anywhere from 3-6mins apart lasting 30sec - 1min. Told DH I was in early labour but it could still be a while. He got up and cleaned the bathroom, said he was nesting <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley17.gif" border="0">  <br />Contractions eventually started getting more painful, so went out into the lounge and turned on the heater. Rocked on swissball thru contractions but they were getting more uncomfy, so got down on my knees and leaned over the swissball instead, which is when I noticed the pressure feeling in my bum. My MW had said to ring her if I started feeling that because being that my 1st labour was only 3.5hrs it could be a short one again. Told DH to ring MW, he didn't want to though - think he was in denial. I kept asking and he kept saying to wait, so said fine I'd call her myself, which is when he realised that maybe it was time to ring her afterall. That was around 3:30am. MW lives over the back fence so arrived at 3:50am, and student MW turned up not long after. I just continued leaning over swissball, and breathing and squeezing the student mw's wrist during contractions. Chelsea woke up at 4:20am so DH was busy trying to keep her occupied and rang my mum to come over to look after her. She arrived at 4:50, about a minute after I started pushing. I was still kneeling and leaning on swissball (now with waterproof stuff underneath me!). Got my bloody show at this point too, along with a whole lot of meconium! Midwife asked me to concentrate on pushing to get the baby out asap. Soon I felt something come out and asked if that was his head. She replied that no, he was being born bottom first! I pushed some more and felt a huge relief so asked if it was over yet, but no that was just his legs, head still inside. She said I needed to push whether I felt the urge or not, so I pushed and she pulled and out came his head at 5:04am, Monday 9th May. He was given oxygen and was breathing on his own within 2mins. <br />Placenta fell out 5mins later! <br /><br />According to my notes, established labour was 1hr 34mins, with 15mins of pushing. <br /><br />I ended up with a 2nd degree tear so a few stitches but all good and am not having any pain. Austin was just fine and no need to go to the hospital despite him being born breech (we had no idea he'd turned, had been head down since 26wks!!). Am so glad in hindsight that we didn't know as it turned out wonderfully <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley10.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20403">Puddleduck</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 07 May 2011 at 12:06pm<br /><br />Wow kirsty, I got a bit emotional reading that, well done on a healthy bub and not giving up on yourself. Your midwife sounds like a bit of a biarch!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=26552">KirstyLeigh</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 07 May 2011 at 9:33am<br /><br />Birth Story of Micah &lt;3<br /><br />*This is written how I remember it, obviously I cant remember everything that happened, and it is also written how I *felt* about it all, so it's from a very emotive perspective*<br /><br />I was lying in bed reading on the 23rd April, 2011, when at 2.15pm I felt a strange, hard POP in my belly. It gave me such a fright that I arched backwards. It wasn't painful, just sharp. Ten seconds later I felt trickling, and thought, "Ooof .. either my waters just broke or he kicked me super hard in the bladder and I have wet my pants.". SO typical of me not to know! I got up and told Aaron, and went to the bathroom. I decided to lie back down and wait for half an hour before calling my midwife, as I still just wasn't sure what had happened. I'd had some crampy back pain, but nothing regular, and I'd been having that for days.<br />An hour later I had my "show" (THAT was foul), and thought, "Oh gosh, wow, this IS happening.", so called mw, and she confirmed it based on what I described, and told me to stay comfy and relaxed, and to call her when they were 4-5mins apart and lasting a minute.<br />I spent most of the afternoon lying down, trying to be chilled, and coming to terms with the fact it really was happening. The pains were coming regularly, but by 630pm were still totally manageable, which is when my mw called me back to check on me. We had started timing them, and they were 6-7 mins apart, lasting 30 seconds.<br />However, by 830pm, they were making me cry and lose focus. And by 10pm, I could barely stand. They were def 5 mins apart, so Aaron called mw, I guess she could hear me crying because she told us to go to the hospital where she'd meet us.<br />The car trip wasn't as bad as I'd imagined, but it wasnt awesome by any means.<br />When we got to the hospital and up to my room, mw did a V/E and I was only 4cm, GAH! I was gutted and felt like such a weakling for already not coping with the pain :( Regardless, mw wanted me to get the epidural I'd previously discussed wanting, and I agreed- quickly.<br />There was an hpur and a half wait for the anaesthetist, which was unbelievably hard and painful. I had the gas, but it wasnt really that effective. Aaron had some gas too, he found it more beneficial than I did at that stage.<br />By the time the anaesthetist came I was barely coherent, and finally had the epidural. I'd thought it would hurt, and while the local stung a bit, the rest barely registered.<br />After that (it was about 1245am by this stage), I felt no pain, just pressure. Aaron went to sleep, mw read her book, and I just lay there thinking, "Hmmm.".<br />It started to wear off about 3am, so mw gave me a top up. Then at 4am it wore off some more, and more, and more, despite yet another top up, I was feeling everything. Agony. Mw did a v/e, and I was fully dilated, and told me it was time to push.<br />This is where things started to get crazy. I started pushing, but nothing was happening. I then got told I wasn't pushing the right way, so I tried and tried, but none of what I was doing seemed to be right, or having any effect. And obviously I was still in crazy amounts of pain, but no pain relief was working. Mw even said very sternly, "Kirsty, there is NOTHING else I can do for you".<br />*As I write this, I'm starting to cry, bc I remember how awful it was because I felt like such a failure*<br />So after an hour and a half of ineffective pushing, pain, and feeling like I was letting everyone down, mw left the room to try and find a doctor to figure out what to do next.<br />I was so upset. She had looked so annoyed, like she was losing patience with me. She's been encouraging at first, but had soon just stopped saying much at all. Aaron looked frustrated (even though he was just worried and feeling helpless), and I told him how I was feeling. He tried to reassure me, but didn't have much luck. I honestly didn't know how I was going to do it. I'd tried my best with pushing, it wasn't progressing, I was in agony, and exhausted already. It must have been about 6am by this stage.<br />So far it hadn't been the positive, calm, empowering event I'd hoped for. I felt like a let-down to everyone, Aaron, my mw, myself, and moreover, my baby.<br />*crying crying*<br />Mw came back in with a couple of women, one of whom was a specialist. Her name was Katie, and she was a superstar. She was so calm and caring, and really positive. She told me that I could either keep pushing for awhile longer, see what happened, and then potentially use the ventouse if needed, or if I was too tired, she could set up the ventouse straight away.<br />I felt like I owed it to my baby to try some more, as even though I knew deep down he wouldnt be born without some assistance, I wanted to try and shorten the length of time they'd have to use it on him. I'll never forget how proud Aaron looked when I told Katie I'd like to keep trying to push for awhile.<br />And push I did. I pushed and pushed and pushed. For whatever reason, it ceased to hurt. I kept pushing, and pushing. I pushed when they told me to push, and I pushed when they told me to rest. I'm still not sure how much progress was made, if any, but the specialist was so encouraging it didn't matter.<br />I vaguely remember her picking up from scissors for an episiotomy, but I didn't feel that. Just kept pushing.<br />Then they started setting up for the ventouse, my feet went in the stirrups, and I remember looking at Aaron and saying something jokily about having no dignity whatsoever anymore.<br />The rest is a haze. I felt pressure, tugging, and through it all I pushed.<br />Then all of a sudden a very warm and slimy baby was popped on my chest, GAH! He was here! I think I said, "Oh my God, our child!!", and looked at Aaron who was so happy and crying, I was in shock I think. Micah was born at 9.23am screaming his head off. and he was/is PERFECT.<br />The rest...my mw approached me with a needle and said, "This wont hurt you" and put it in my thigh, I jumped and said, "OW, f**k!" (I'm assumong it was the ecbolic injection, as the placenta came out a few mins later, that didnt hurt).<br />We just lay there snuggling, then the specialist told me that she was going to stitch me up, and do some other stuff (she didn't say THAT, but I cant remember clearly!) because I was losing quite a bit of blood. That's when I saw the bench beside her which was covered in blood clots :/ I wasn't fazed though, I was too wrapped up in my son.<br />So, after she did. stuff, mw took Micah and did all the newborn tests etc on him. I made Aaron take pics of that while I had a Milo and attempted to eat, but I really just wanted my boy back! They dressed him and gave him back to me, and I haven't let go since.<br /><br />&lt;3 &lt;3 &lt;3 ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25851">mum2QTs</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 28 April 2011 at 9:04pm<br /><br />wow puddleduck, beautiful story, and what a big boy, <br />LOVE the photos, such a special moment, thanks for sharing <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20403">Puddleduck</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 28 April 2011 at 11:42am<br /><br />Heres my birth story, an elective section with DS IN february<br /><br />My section was scheduled for 2 days past my EDD. The OB recommended I have a section after multiple scans estimated Quinn's weight at over 9lb at 38 weeks.  The morning of the section I woke up at 4am with cramps and a bloody show. The cramping got worse and more regular so we went to the hospital a little bit early, I called my mum who was meeting DH and me there to tell her we were going in. <br /><br />We arrived at Auckland Hospital at 8am and got checked in and then we just had to wait. At 10am they got me and DH changed for theatre and the anesthetist came and placed an IV luer in my hand.  I was still having cramping at this point, I guess they were contractions really, lasting a minute and five minutes apart and they were pretty uncomfortable! Once I was ready to go I started to get all scared and felt really hot all of a sudden.  Mum came to my rescue with a magazine and fanned up my gown while we waited <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley9.gif" border="0"> <br /><br /><a href="http://img263.imageshack.us/i/dsc01680ip.jpg/" target="_blank" border="0"><img src="http://img263.imageshack.us/img263/2422/dsc01680ip.jpg" border="0"></a><br /><br />Then the nurse came to take us to theatre, on the way we ran into to charge nurse who both DH and I have worked with before. She asked if she could be in the theatre and we said yes because she's absolutely lovely. When we to theatre they did the spinal epidural, which was probably the worst part. No problems getting it in, it was just uncomfortable and painful. <br /><br />Once that was done they lay me down which was really weird because I had already started to loose all the feeling and movement in my legs. My OB checked I couldn't feel anything and they started. <br /><br /><img src="http://img840.imageshack.us/img840/7292/dsc01685nr.jpg" border="0"><br /><br />The surgery was quite odd, you can feel everything just not the pain, crazy. Then all of a sudden Dr Phil leaned over the drapes and said that my baby would be here in about a minute. The team dropped the drapes so that I could see Quinn come out. He was so big they had to use forceps and the tugging was pretty hard, poor bub. Quinn was half way out when I saw him properly, I was very overwhelmed and emotional and then my OB grabbed his little arm and waved it at me saying hi mum. Made me laugh but it kind of snapped me out of my oh my gosh thats my baby trance! You can see his arm being held up in the second photo.<br /><br /><img src="http://img5.imageshack.us/img5/330/dsc01694mi.jpg" border="0"><br /><br /><a href="http://img135.imageshack.us/i/dsc01695fs.jpg/" target="_blank" border="0"><img src="http://img135.imageshack.us/img135/9001/dsc01695fs.jpg" border="0"></a><br /><br />They took Quinn to be weighed and checked by the pediatrician and he cried the whole time. Very loud, was incredibly reassuring but I just wanted to hold him. <br /><br /><img src="http://img30.imageshack.us/img30/7593/dsc01704n.jpg" border="0"><br /><br /><img src="http://img857.imageshack.us/img857/2953/dsc01712m.jpg" border="0"><br /><br />Once he was all wrapped DH bought him over to me and placed him on my chest. From memory he stopped crying but let out these indignant little yells every few seconds.<br /><br /><img src="http://img862.imageshack.us/img862/5307/dsc01711.jpg" border="0"><br /><br />The charge nurse came over and asked if I wanted to try latching Quinn on, I did so much, one of the things I was worried about the most with the cesarean was the delayed skin to skin. So she helped DH get Quinn latched (both my arms were occupied with IV lines and BP cuffs) which was amazing (and then painful!) and Quinn had his first little feed.<br /><br />Once I was all closed they took us round to recovery and popped Quinn back on my chest and I got to have my first really good cuddle. I remember his eyes were a really dark blue just after he was born and he was really staring back at me.  <br /><br /><img src="http://img545.imageshack.us/img545/2943/dsc01719w.jpg" border="0"><br /><br />I just wanted to share because I had a really positive birth after being really upset that I wasn't going to even try giving birth naturally. In the end Quinn weighed 10lb 9oz and my OB told me the next day that I had been in early labour but I was not dilating, Quinn was not engaged and there was meconium in the waters. He said I almost certainly would have ended up having an emergency cesarean anyway. I am still disappointed that I didn't experience a more traditional labour and birth but I know we made the right choice and I have a beautiful healthy boy (plus an intact pelvic floor!)]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=26867">sweetknights</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 20 April 2011 at 12:37pm<br /><br />Caughtknee --- I was Living in Alex for most of my pregnancy and as Dunedin hospital is the nearest hospital to Alex she covers it for births so she was willing to keep me on when i moved as long as i was xxxx ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=27708">red1</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 19 April 2011 at 2:03pm<br /><br /><P align=left>It all began wednesday the 9th of feb, had an appontment at hospital for CTG and scan&nbsp;just to check fluid etc. round bubs, and because I was post 4 days. DH did end up being able to come with me so that was good, but anyway was just a routine visit, which it was, nothing to report, yip everything is fine said the dr, will book you in for induction on the 16th.&nbsp; Before we left though DH said to me "are you taking ya bags with you just incase they say, you cant go home?"&nbsp; No I said, cos I wont need them, that makes me nervous.&nbsp; Anyway he said "rito, dont take anything then" whilst he was in the shower getting ready I thought "bugger it" and chucked everything in the car.&nbsp; Anyway after the appmt, got home and DH decided to go mow lawns etc, was about 6pmish, thats cool I was fluffy round inside then DH mate called in on his way home and they had a beer together, I couldnt really sit still whilst he was there and kept moving round, uncomfy, &nbsp;I thought great the pains that I had been getting every nite for the past 3 nites were starting again but earlier, (instead of bedtime) Anyway MW rang to see how I got on @apptmt, said all was well but getting pains again, she said to hang in there just a few more "practice" contractions and it will happen, she told me I could take some panadiene instead of just panadol, told her I would get some in the morning, that was cool, a bit later was trying to watch usual TV, Packed to the Rafters, actually, love that program, and I just couldnt get comfy....telling DH I was in a bit of pain, and how long the nite was going to be if it was going to be like the rest and just keep dragging out.&nbsp; Anyway, he ran me a bath and I went and soaked in that till I was ready to go to bed, it was nice and took pain away a bit.&nbsp;Dreading bedtime again, hoped in and lay there til 11.15pm-cos I remember thinkin after DH was asleep, man I cant handle it being all nite again....lay on counch til 12am ish then I had to go wake DH cos I was so uncomfy, pains were getting alot closer together, but yet I didnt really think I was in labour cos it was similar to other nites, DH started to time the contractions, they were&nbsp;between 3-4mins apart and lasting between 30-90secs, I had a&nbsp;piece of paper on the fridge in the weeks up to labour saying the differnt phases of&nbsp;labour and what to look 4, I told DH cant be labour cause 30 sec contractions didnt sound long enough.&nbsp; DH said by this time my breathing had changed and got far more intense really breathing through my teeth, and my whole body was shivering uncontrollably, he wrapped me up trying to keep me warm and said we needed to contact MW,&nbsp;I really didnt want to ring here thinkin it was 1am in the morning, and Id already been talking to her,&nbsp;and&nbsp;I didnt think I was in labour then, but didnt want&nbsp;to ly in bed all nite either,&nbsp;anyway rang her and she said for us to meet her at the&nbsp;maternity home&nbsp;at 2am, 30min drive for us, luckily the car was still packed from the afternoon, got there with my spew bowl, and she said "feeling nausish, thats a good sign"&nbsp;&nbsp; she checked me and said I was 5cm dialated but my cervix was paper thin,so all I needed was my waters to break &amp; it would be all go, asked me what I wanted to do, stay there or still go to hospital, I choose to go to hospital, (which I had always wanted)&nbsp; she was pretty quick about it then,&nbsp;pretty much hurrying us&nbsp;out the door, I think it hit me I was in labour when she said-"you are going to have a baby tonight!!!"&nbsp;Anyway that meant another 30min trip in the car......urghhhhh yuck!!!!!!&nbsp; Got to hosp, the delivery suite was all ready, got me on the gas, which was absolutely gross but I liked being able to focus on my breathing with it,&nbsp; MW asked how I felt bout waters being broken, I said go 4 it, cos she said it can delay the process a bit with bubs head bouncing round on the membranes for some time.....broke my waters and discovered there was meconium in them, which was lucky she did that cos would never had known otherwise, I panicked at bit, and said the baby is stressed isnt it,&nbsp;but the MW was very good and said "its ok we are going to get this baby out"&nbsp; A bit after that the contractions got alot more intense and stronger&nbsp;&amp; longer, MW said if I wanted pethidine I would have to make the decision to have it very shortly, DH reckons I prob had 1-2 more contractions and was like "yip give me pethidine!!&nbsp; Wasnt too much longer after that, that I started to get the urge to push....MW told me what to do and took the gas away, told me to push push push with the contraction, it felt so weird cos I was trying to hold onto my legs breathe through the contraction and yet push with all my might in the contraction......At one point I said I couldnt do it I was to tired and just couldnt do it, she told me to focus and I needed to push this baby out, as weird as it was I had kinda got caught up in everything else that I hadnt been thinking about the baby at the end of it all, so hearing her say that was good incentive to get through.....next couple of contractions I pushed so hard like nothing I had ever done before and I felt this huge relise of pressure and next thing this&nbsp;warm, defenceless, slippery little&nbsp;person was put up on my chest,&nbsp; I was completely shocked he was here....DH was so proud and amazed himself, he thought it would have been more like&nbsp;mid-day before they even talked about seeing a head lol, me too, amazed at how quickley he was here 4.49am, after arriving at the hospital at 2.35am-the time just went so fast, even though it was most the nite.&nbsp; DH got to cuddle Alex whilst I lay there and gazed at&nbsp;my beautiful family, the MWives worked there magic and stitched me up.&nbsp; Within the hour I was out of bed showered,&nbsp; and we were back at the maternity home by 10am that morning.&nbsp; Because Alex had meconium in his waters, his was on 24hr obs, which they did at the home, and everything is ok.&nbsp; I still cant belive our little man is here, and his entrance into the world was nothing like I had expected.&nbsp; Absolutely loving my new role as his Mummy, he is just the cutest and I could stare at him all day long-LOVING IT!!</P>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=30457">leaupeepz</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 13 April 2011 at 6:27pm<br /><br />My bub was due Tuesday 9th November 2010. Unfortunately I developed diabetes during my pregnancy and so 6 times a day I had to prick my finger and I had stay in control of my diet (and I love my carbs!).<br />Anyways I managed my diabetes and I was booked in for a scan to check how big baby is at 36 weeks and thankfully bubs was growing at a "normal" rate. Which meant I did not have to be induced at 38 weeks.<br />My Specialist however booked be in for an induction on Monday 8th November at 7.30pm. Can I say, up till that time I had never experienced any pains whatsoever.<br /> <br />Well I arrived at Middlemore Hospital (I wanted to give birth at Botany but because I had diabetes I had to go Middlemore) and they monitored me for an hour, the doctor came in and to my horror it was a male! my mother gave me the "oh-no" look and my partner chuckled to himself- b@$t@rd. Anyway i couldnt be stuffed asking for a female doctor so I just went along with the male.<br />He induced me and it was so uncomfortable but I think it was more my pride that was hurting. Well 2 hours later the nurse checked on me to see how things were going, still no pain. And then I was told I will be checked again in the morning.<br />Around 4am I started getting pains I buzzed the nurse and she said she will get me panadol. My pains then became more intense, I woke up my partner and he buzzed the nurse, I was 6cm dilated. From then on the pain was sooooo bad!<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> Nurse suggested I have a hot shower while she calls my midwife. My partner helped me have a shower, he then helped me walk to the delivery room which had to be the furtherest room away! I finally got there and I was propped onto the bed. My midwife and trainee midwife (who had followed my pregnancy too) arrived and started prepping. I tell you it felt like aaages before I was allowed to start pushing. When I was given the green light to push at every contraction, it honestly felt like I was pushing forever! And I'm pretty sure I blacked out for 2 seconds. I really wanted to give up and just say "cut me open" but I took a deep breath and kept on pushing. I was then told baby was close to crowning and the pain just intensified. That was the "i want this baby out NOW" moment. I did 2 long pushes and just like that baby shot out and landed on the bed. <br />What a relief! <br />Peyton Winterstein born at 7.45am. <br />Had skin to skin time and what a blessing my lil girl is. Because baby shot out I had to get 8 stitches which was done by another male doctor  He asked if I wanted the gas but I said no, at that time I didnt care what they did to me I was just so happy the birthing pain was over.<br /><br />Anyways I stayed in hospital for 1 night only as I did not like the way I was treated overnight. After midnight I kept buzzing for the nurses to help watch baby while I change cos of my bleeding, not my fault its their job! (everytime i buzzed I was getting the "not you again" look).I was lucky to have a 3 time mother next to me who helped me and gave me great advice.<br />So the next morning baby and I did 1 final blood test, we were ok, midwife gave us the thumbs up and I was out of there by 11am :)<br />5 months on I keep getting asked when I will have the next baby... well, not anytime soon im still traumatised <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25851">mum2QTs</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 April 2011 at 8:43pm<br /><br />Here is our 3rd child's birth story, <br /><br />Baby Nikhil born 26th March<br /><br /><br />I had been getting cramps on/off for a few days and a lot of shows, the first bloody show came on the Tuesday, and just kept coming for the next few days, as with the cramps, which seemed to kick off in the evenings and then completely stop during the days, so come Friday I was getting pretty fed up with nothing happening, so decided if there was nothing happening down there come Saturday which is when I was booked in for my next appointment and monitoring, I would just book my c-section, well Friday evening it all started............<br />Contractions probably started about 10ish, but weren’t regular or different from the other nights, so didn’t think much about them, then around 11 were becoming more regular but still quite similar to previous nights, though was cursing hubby a bit, as was trying to sort he girls out as they had both woken up, while I was have contractions, really bot the easiest of things to do, anyway he got home about 11.30 and thats when I realized, yay this could be it!!!! So once he settled girls we went to bed to get some rest, though I was up and down with trips to the loo, as things where coming out both ends, vomiting and mucus plug, and by 12ish things had really kicked off and didn’t want to wake the girls with my breathing, so totted off to the lounge to breath through the contractions, leaving hubby to sleep, then around 1 I thought about ringing MW, due to high chance of having c-section, but didn’t think I was that far along, as had only been about an hour of regular contractions, so just breathed through them, then by 2 thought, na I want gas and realised they where 5mins apart, so rang MW and mum to come and look after girls, got ready then woke hubby, who didn’t really know what was going on., told him to hurry up as was quite uncomfortable by now, and had been sick quite a few times and started leaking.<br />So got to the hospital around 3am, and contractions where coming thick and fast now, MW wasn’t there yet so just breathed through them, once she was there she did all the prep like lure and belt etc, and I finally got some gas, which really helped take the edge of them. When she did the exam she was surprised that I was fully dilated already and was about ready to push, though she wasn’t happy with his position due to being so high, so got a 2nd/3rd option, and yep after all that it was a c-section, so in my state I said in not such a nice tone, “well if I have to have one I want my drugs NOW!!!” <br />So while they where getting things sorted and getting me ready to go up I asked about breaking my waters, but was told this wasn’t an option due to how high he was, and could be dangerous, then as they started to take me up my membranes broke, so things were put on a fast track.<br />Only thing was the atheistic couldn’t get the spinal in, and I was reluctant to let go of my precious gas (which I OD a bit) Anyway finally got it in by sitting me up and by this stage my waters had broken aswell, and after a quick exam to check for placenta the doctor said he had come down enough to try a forceps birth, so after 2 pushes he was out and I finally got my VBA2C, and couldn’t be more stocked, though still on a bit of a high from the gas &#61514;<br />Had some skin to skin, then didn’t see him again for about 30-40mins due to his breathing, though he came right and didn’t need to go to NICU, everyone in the room was shocked that we had a natural birth due to how high he was, and they didn’t think it was at all possible doctor even commented that I was a legend,  on the video as hubby recorded it all, but everyone was just so supportive and knew how much a natural birth meant, words can’t explain how happy I was, especially since Nikhil is our last wee bubba. <br />He was born at 4.10am, so all in all quite a fast labour and pretty much drug free till the end, and home the same day, just a bit sore but mainly from my lovely friends the haemorrhoids!!! <br />Oh sorry that went a bit longer than I expected!!<br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=27708">red1</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 08 April 2011 at 9:31pm<br /><br /><P align=left>Amazing birth stories ladies, crazy sweet knights that would have been so out of it to see the baby still in her water bag!!&nbsp; How come your MW had to come from Alex can I ask, that is a wee way away from you if your based in Dunedin</P><P align=left>ChikkyD-I didnt get numbed to be stitched just got told to suck on the gas.....reckon that hurt more then the labour itself.&nbsp; lol&nbsp; I also birthed at the same hospital as you literally 4 days later!!</P><P align=left>Bowie Im also a feb mummie and have been lurking in the jan feb, what gorgeous pics of your wee man, I need to get my act together and get some pics of our wee boy before he gets too big!!!&nbsp; I mite come back tommorow and share my birth story too!!</P>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24583">Marengo</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 08 April 2011 at 12:47pm<br /><br />i should write mine while i can still remember most of it, its not very inspiring!  but a story none the less<br /><br />baby Emily was born 2.56 on feb 16th<br /><br />the week or so before Emily was born i admitted to hospital with what i thought was kidney stones, right sided severe abdo pain, however it turned out i was in threatened prem labour when i got to the hospital (i was 35 weeks.  I had thought they were just the braxton hiscks id been having for weeks anyway but the contractions really ramped up i guess because of the stress of the abdominal pain and the fact i was in hospital!  <br /><br />i was admitted to maternity ward and monitored, the contractions stayed the same and nothing was really happening and then the next day i went to the antenatal ward to be monitored further as now it was clear there wouldnt be a baby coming right then, i had had very high blood pressure during this and it wasnt going down at all. <br /><br />the next day i was still getting tightenings, but nothing was happening, this went on for another couple days they kept me in for the high blood pressure and i ended up discharging myself to get things organised at home as i knew the baby would be coming early.<br /><br />couple days later on valentines day i got the awful pain in my side again, it was so bad i couldnt walk and i was having sore contractions so i thought  yep back to hospital and it was a mission to get out of the house and into the car to actually get there!  the pain was so so bad i thought something was so wrong, got to hospital and they monitored me and baby, baby was okay but i needed pethidene for the pain it managed to take away most of it which was such a relief..<br /><br />the tightenings were still regular but they took me down to a scan the next day as they were concerned my pain was getting worse and the pethidene was making baby very sleepy and effective for me for shorter and shorter periods.. each tightening was such agony <br /><br />the scan showed inflamed appendix and something wrong with my right ovary, they decided that they needed to operate to try and save it, which meant i was going to meet my baby!!!  This was about 11am on 16th, Called partner and told him today was the day and to come to hospital, his mother had been with me in hosp so went and picked him up and he came and sat with me in hospital untill we knew more.<br /><br />another few hours and around 2 they came and told me i was to go down NOW.  I was so scared i felt like i hadnt really prepared myself, they hurredly wheeled me down to theatre, i met with the anaesthetist and nurses (the anaesthetist was a lovely lady who i had had with two of my prev surgeries so i felt more at ease, or was that the drugs they gave me heh) going into theatre was so scary i cried when they wheeled me in, popped me on the table, well heaved me on cause i was in so much pain i couldnt move.. they put the mask over me and told me to breathe, i wasnt getting tired so panicked a bit thinking they were going to operate on me awake!  it was different to my other anaesthetic experiences, then they put sometihng in my lure, i smelt the gas and was out like a light.. <br /><br />i woke up in recovery and immediately asked about my baby and told everyone loudly her name was emily louise and i wanted to see her!  they told me she was with her dad and i had to stay there a bit longer, untill my uterus contracted down, the pain was awful then i had to keep asking for pain relief it was very intense and i couldnt stop tensing my abdomen it was horrible.. but at least baby was okay, a couple hours later they wheeled me up with me dileriously thanking all the drs and nurses for taking care of me and my baby and i got to see emily with her dad, i couldnt hold her i was too groggy so she was held on me so i could see her.. i was soo happy but very very sore and groggy.. she was alive and okay.<br /><br />her apgars were not great at first, 4 then 10, she needed recuscitation, and she was jaundiced but she was okay.. <br /><br />unfortunately they had to take out my ovary as it was torted around the fallopian tube and some round ligament (no WONDER i was in agony!), and they were laughing in recovery about how stinky it was lol.. i was stinky ovary lady.. nice!<br /><br />and thats my birth novel heh.. ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22873">High9</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 06 April 2011 at 9:34pm<br /><br />Haha, we don't have any photo's was only DP and I + Midwife and we simply 'forgot' so I'm quite annoyed/upset by that! But never mind! <br /><br />I was also pooed on... She pooed about 10mins before she came out and then as she was coming out and being lifted onto me... Lovely! ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25326">ChikkyD</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 06 April 2011 at 7:53pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by High9" alt="Originally posted by High9" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>High9 wrote:</strong><br /><br />ChkkyD - great birth story! I was worried about what to wear too and ended up basically naked the whole time haha! DP had known I was worried and he kept asking did I want him to find me something to wear and I was just like 'NO! I'm fine as I am!!'</td></tr></table><br /><br />hehe same with my DF, he kept on trying to cover me with a towel (i got kinda cold) and apparently i kept throwing it off. But in the photo's just after shiloh's born and shes on my chest my nipples are totally showing and i was all like 'GEEZ why didn't you at least cover me with a towel?!' lol now i have no appropriate post-birth photos dammit  ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20394">_Soda_</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 06 April 2011 at 4:05pm<br /><br />oops double post <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley16.gif" border="0"> <span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by _Soda_</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20394">_Soda_</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 06 April 2011 at 4:05pm<br /><br />wow great birth stories ladies! hehe Bowie yup my charming baby girl pood ALLLL over me too even the MW said "that is just disgusting!"in her english accent lol there was sooo much poo it just cracked me up <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley17.gif" border="0"> and what a lovely BIG boy you had! <br />and YAY kelly for a fab birth too! lol can relate to how over it you get by 13 days overdue! glad that like me bubs got scared out by the thought of being induced and you had your lovely natural birth <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley4.gif" border="0"><br /><br />congrats to everyone else too x x x ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22873">High9</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 06 April 2011 at 11:49am<br /><br />ChkkyD - great birth story! I was worried about what to wear too and ended up basically naked the whole time haha! DP had known I was worried and he kept asking did I want him to find me something to wear and I was just like 'NO! I'm fine as I am!!']]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=26867">sweetknights</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 06 April 2011 at 10:48am<br /><br />Unfortunately I didn't get any pictures of it as  was Giving birth in the Hospital rest room rather than the delivery suit and my husband had just popped to get my bag from the next room which had the camera in and she was out by the time he got back she came that quick lol.. But they had to tear her out of the waters and they had to do it quick as she had passed meconium too and had to be suctioned after and spent all that night bringing up lots of mucus the poor thing....But i thought i had given birth to an alien at first lol]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=27016">Ashleya</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 April 2011 at 4:32pm<br /><br />sweetknights, was it tuff to break it like if something sharp was needed or just a light tug? i feel so nosey asking. i was kinda hoping something like that would happen with my baby cause it looked so amazing in a video i watched but i popped at like 6:38 on her due date that i knew shed come... didnt want to have water everywhere also but i must of jinx myself as it saturated the bed and floor even everywhere i walked (waddled to the shower). did you get any pictures of the sack? thatd be a great memory photo.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=26867">sweetknights</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 04 April 2011 at 1:46pm<br /><br />Chikky they had to Break her out of the waters lol ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24599">TheKelly</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 04 April 2011 at 11:51am<br /><br />Yep,they numb you up when they do stitches,I got stitches with C and fark it hurt,I had a 24 hour no drugs labour with her and my poor fufu had had enough by then<br /><br />Ty came out with his hand by his head too, I yelled at the mw to "move her f*cking hand!" ha,wasn't even hers.<br /><br />My fast labour was fine,but sometimes extremely quick can mean much more intense (I was lucky )]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25326">ChikkyD</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 04 April 2011 at 11:08am<br /><br />Bowie i cant believe you watched in a mirror, you are a brave lady! I remember the midwife asking me if i wanted to reach between my legs and touch her head.. that freaked me out! I was really freaked out when her head was coming out for some reason even though it didn't really hurt (well, not compared to the contractions). Random question but do they numb you up when they do the stitches? <br /><br />WOW SK your birth story is awesome!! Next time i would like a 1hr25min labour <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley4.gif" border="0"> Did the water bag break when baby came out or did they have to break it?]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25326">ChikkyD</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 04 April 2011 at 10:53am<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by MooCow" alt="Originally posted by MooCow" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>MooCow wrote:</strong><br /><br />ChikkyD do you mind if I ask what was the first name of the independant midwife you saw in Invercargill?</td></tr></table><br /><br />her name was Sarah ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19714">Plushie</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 03 April 2011 at 5:52pm<br /><br />Ooooh Sweetknights i didnt know she was born in her waters! Thats supposed to be really really good luck <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley10.gif" border="0"> So pleased you girls posted your stories because i missed them being all in hospital at the same time and stuff!!<br /><br />Hayz you should stop lurking and post with us! Though i lurk in the Feb thread to see what those born around the same time as Max are up to!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=26867">sweetknights</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 03 April 2011 at 5:01pm<br /><br />Well after reading those birthing stories i thought i would share my own.... <br /><br />I was 11 days overdue and well and truly over it. Was Monday morning and my midwife said that I would have had the baby over the weekend but that hadn't happened..So I phoned her and she said she would give the hospital a call and ring me back.... It was midday by the time she phoned me back and she said the hospital wanted to see me to do some checks and put me on the monitor ect.... So I was well upset thinking if everything was fine I would be going home...Got to the hospital and was put on the monitor for half an hour and baby was well and truly happy after that they took me another room to do and inter which the doctor came and did and as I was 11 days over and they wasn't busy she put in some prostin gel to kick things off... and they admitted me to the ward. Where I sat all day long without a book ect.. as I didn't expect to get admitted and just sent husband off to work lol.. My husband came in after work and asked how things were going and I said I was fine so he went home sorted out the kids and come back with my hospital bag ect... at 8pm my mw texted me to asked what happened at the hospital and I called to let her know and she asked how I had progressed and I said well I don't know as no one has checked me since 2pm and I also said that the doctor said she was going to call my mw after but never did...So 10 minutes later I had a mw come and check me after my mw phoned the hospital but was still 2 cm dilated and no change from earlier but by 11 pm i did start getting very mild pains but thought nothing off them at 11pm I told my husband to go home as nothing was happing... At midnight the contractions had kicked up a notch and I called the on call mw who took me off and put me on a monitor where my contractions were showing pretty strong so she decided to do an internal so while she went off to get her stuff I phoned my husband and said he better come back (he had just dropped of to sleep bless him) she checked me and I was finally 3 cms and classed as in active labour yippee so she went off to phone my midwife as she had a long drive as I was in Dunedin and she is in Alex..When my husband arrive about 25 mins past midnight they took me to get into the bath for pain relief I was in there for 40 minutes when I finally decided I could do with more pain relief.It was funny as every-time I got a contraction I would say to hubby  I need pain relief then the contraction would stop and I would say actually I'm OK only to get another contraction and repeat that I need pain relief... Anyway pulled the buzzer for mw and she said lets take you to the delivery room and like Bowie they were chasing me with a sheet as I was walking down the corridor in the nude... Got into the delivery room and said I need the toilet so went into the en suit toilet. My hubby said I had left my night gown in the bathroom so went off to get it... I was just about to sit on the toilet when I said to the mw sorry the baby is coming now she turned round and the babies head was out and she was telling me not to push and I said I'm not its just coming so she gave the buzzer a really good tug 3-4 times and I was suddenly swamped with mw's and my baby was born with the water bag around her in tack while I was stood in the bathroom. Meanwhile my hubby came back into the room to here me saying sorry and he thought I had pooed myself or something and then was surprised when a mw came out of the bathroom with the baby she came so quickly he missed it in the short walk between rooms. she was 4.1 kg 9lbs 2oz and both me and hubby was so surprised it was a girl xxx My mw came 20 minutes later to do the checks ect... I had to have a couple of stitches but I hadn't torn but the skin had stretched out thin so there was a chance it could have torn so they stitched it to tighten it back up.. So ended up with a total labour of 1hour and 25 minutes and managed without pain relief was just a little shocked as she came so quickly and the bathroom looked like a scene from Psycho (felt sorry for the cleaners) Then was took to the ward for a rest and I went home later that day xxxx<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by sweetknights</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25651">Hayz001</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 02 April 2011 at 10:54am<br /><br />Awesome stories chikky and bowie, and can I just say Bowie, I lurk in Jan thread all the time (Max is only a few days older than my little girl) and you ALWAYS crack me up. Love the image of you being chased with a sheet and the poor visitors faces hehe]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25121">RedHeadDuck</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 01 April 2011 at 4:44pm<br /><br />ChikkyD do you mind if I ask what was the first name of the independant midwife you saw in Invercargill?]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19714">Plushie</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 01 April 2011 at 3:27pm<br /><br />LOL Chikky, The End like a story book <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley4.gif" border="0">Also stoked you got to watch friends Kelly, i kept meaning to ask since you'd said she was born so quickly i wondered if you'd had time. Chikky you've given me the nudge to do mine too.<br /><br />6 days overdue and starting to go a bit mental i had a whole bunch of bleeding overnight - actually spotting but i rang my midwife and made it sound like i was dying. She came over, checked me out (bubs was fine, barely engaged and happy as a clam) but as i had partial placenta previa was packed off to hospital for a CTG. No one was home so i rode with the midwife and took only a small bag with bits and pieces in it - no big hospital bag. It wasnt until we got there that she pointed out i wouldnt be leaving without a baby! CTG showed i was in 'pre labour' with teeny contractions i couldnt feel. They suspected i would need a c-section so i was hussled off for a scan which showed a happy baby (guesstimated at 4kg) and a placenta clear of vagina so i was cleared for a vaginal birth. Relief!! <br />They asked me to wait overnight and as nothing had happened they were about to release me the next morning to wait. I could have cried! I was promised i wouldnt leave without a baby and they were kicking me out! I was under the care of an independant midwife but fortunatly the OB had some spare time and popped in to chitchat and read over my notes and i almost begged him to induce me. I think he was having a slow morning because he examined me and said my cervix was high and prosterier and i wasnt at all favourable but figured he'd give me 2ml of the gel since they were quiet and it didnt matter if i stayed another night! <br />I had a few minor cramps overnight, nothing bad and the next morning on the CTG it showed just the same teeny little contractions from the day before. They were about to free me when the OB showed up again and examined me and declared i was already 3cm dialated and broke my waters! I was like WTF is happening and i remember him in his full scrubs grinning and saying congratulations you're now in active labour. Contractions after they broke my water started almost instantly and were 5min apart from the start. I was alone in my room - expecting a 2 day labour like they warn first time moms about - and i didnt bother to call my mom, baby's father, friends, or midwife. I think i did text Limochick though <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley17.gif" border="0">. A hospital midwife popped in to check on me and i had 3 contractions while she was dithering around doing her checks, she got a funny look and soon my midwife arrived having been summoned by the first one. Apparently things were going well! I backed into the corner of the room and wouldnt leave it, they said some woman do that in a weird instinctual way. Something about cavewoman birthing in caves because they were safer from wild animals sneakig up on them! Within an hour of my waters being broken contractions were a minute apart and lasting about 45 seconds each time. They examined me and i was 5cm dialted already! Time to move to the delivery room and get me my bath. Like Chikky, i had been concerned about being in the nake in front of people but i was actually in tights and a sports bra - refused to put a top on to go down the hallway they had to chase me with a sheet to cover me as visitors etc were in the hallway.  <br />Once reaching the delivery room only a short walk down the hall i was trying to climb the walls - they talked me onto the bed and the short walk had dialted me to 7cm! Contractions were intense - hence me clawing the walls but the bath slowed them down. It took another half hour to go through transition during which i attempted to curl into the fetal position on the bed but midwife kept a doppler on baby and said he didnt like it so i had to move. I found out later she was lying but it certainly got me moving and i think that was for the best. <br />I started pushing in all kinds of weird positions, standing against the wall and hanging of the edge of the bed - midwifes were very accomodating and just followed me around patiently with a mirror and a giant torch (????) and a mat for me to kneel on. At this point my mom - who hadnt heard from me all day arrived and i told her to f**k off she wasnt coming in. Caused a bit of a fight there but i really wasnt in the mood!!<br />The next bit i barely remember - i pushed for 2 hours total, mostly on my back as i was exhausted and just lay there. When i felt a contraction coming i'd wave my arm and my midwifes would lift my legs and brace them against them so i could push. I vaguely remember the third midwife doing crosstitch (she was there as the 2nd midwife was a student and they have to have two registered midwifes at the birth but she was just watching, the student was doing all the work). <br />They cheated me by saying 'we can see his head!' and i thought he was crowning and got all excited because the end was near and it didnt hurt but really it was a 50c sized bit of head barely visable as i pushed. It really helped to watch as i could concentrate on the small bit getting bigger but it took AGES and i was already tearing - each push i'd see more head but also see the tear creep downwards. I certainly had the ring of fire feeling and its the only time during the labour i fully lost control and screamed my head off. They were telling me to pant and all kinds of things but all i could feel was the fire and the fact i was tearing UPWARDS, i honestly thought i was going to rip right through the clit and that was what i was thinking at the time but was trying not to say it out loud as it sounded a bit obscene lol! <br /><br />Then all of a sudden this giant purple thing came out and they threw him onto my chest - i remember being startled that they didnt hold him at all, he was straight onto me and covered with a towel. And HE screamed and screamed and screamed. And then crapped on me. Then screamed some more. <br /><br />Vaguely remember being put into stirrups to be stitched. They thought i had a 3rd degree tear but was downgraded to a 2nd degree. I asked the OB for purple thread and he obliged <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley4.gif" border="0"> <br /><br />Then i was rolled back into my sheet and shuffled back to my room where i showered and they did all their checks and whatnot. He weighed in at 4.3kg and 60cm long and failed at breastfeeding for the first three days while nurses milked me for colostrum <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley10.gif" border="0"> <br /><br />No regrets about what happened, and i'm so happy i did it with no drugs (my goal!) and alone (except for the midwifes of course) as i was determined to birth alone as crazy as it sounds.<br /><br />That was a freaking novel, but man it feels good to get it out there!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25326">ChikkyD</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 01 April 2011 at 2:53pm<br /><br />Shiloh Isla, Born 06/02/2011 @ 5.34 Invercargill Hospital <br /><br />Thought I would right this up as I really appreciated reading birth stories when I was pregnant! Sorry for the novel, it was a long labour! <br /><br />My due date was the 2nd of Feb, that came and went. On the morning of the 3rd I woke up and straight away started having cramps, after much googling I decided that these were contractions. By 6.00 at night they were coming every 7-10 mins. I went to bed that night at 10 and then woke up at 1am with cramps coming every 5mins. I rang the on call midwife who told me if I hadn’t had a show then I wasn’t in labour! And to have some panadol and go to sleep. Which I did. Woke up in the morning in one piece. Damn she was right.<br /><br />On the 4th the cramps started again around lunch time and were coming around every 10mins. I did a lot of bouncing on the swiss ball until DF came home around 4. We went to the lake to give the dog some exercise and the cramps started to become painful. When we got home around 5.30 I went to the toilet to discover I had lost my mucous plug. Hung around home for a couple more hours then called the on call midwife at around 9 and we met her at the hospital, where she did and S&S and said I was 2cm. At this point we decided we would get on the road and get down to Invercargill hospital (2hrs drive from Queenstown) as the contractions were getting quite painful.<br /><br />Arrived in Invercargill after a very painful trip down there. Got to the hospital and after an internal at 3am we were told to find a hotel for the night as I wasn’t progressing very fast and to not come back to  the hospital until I was getting 3 contractions every 10 mins. GRRR! Found a motel but didn’t get much sleep that night as the contractions were sore. Got up in the morning and decided to walk around town to rev things up! Got a bit of shopping in even, DF dragged me around a hardware store, I was having to stop every couple of mins to breathe through contractions lol he even took me to a car sales yard and told the car sales man that ‘my missus is in labour, were just killing time’ haha the poor guy was so shocked and gave me a look that said ‘don’t you dare sit in my cars!’. <br /><br />Around 6 my contractions became very painful but were not regular. I rang my queenstown midwife who organized me an independent MW to meet me at invercargill hospital as they were so busy and told me to head in. Arrived at the hospital at 7, had another S&S where they stretch me to 4cm and told me at this point they were able to admit me, got told to do laps of the hospital while they waiting for my independent MW to arrive. After 2 hours of walking the halls I met my MW and we went into the birthing room, I liked her instantly. After about 30mins of being in the room I decided to get into the pool. I was so worried while I was pregnant about what I was going to wear in labour, I was totally naked the whole time! And felt most comfortable that way. <br /><br />When in the pool DF started rubbing my back, which broke my waters. I can’t remember the finer details but I started on the gas sometime shortly after that. Got out of the pool every hour or so for an internal. Was very intimate just me, DF and midwife coming and going. The last time I got out of the pool and got on the bed, MW noticed that a lip had developed and that my cervix wasn’t dilating.  As I was 9 am she got me to change positions and start pushing. I did this for about 2 hours with no success, and became very very tired. A doctor was called in to push back the lip, this was possibly the most painful experience of my life.  At this stage the midwife Apparently I asked her to “PLEASE get your F’ing hand out of me!” ha! But once this was push back all systems were go and after another hour and a half or so Shilohs head popped out. Call me crazy but I didn’t experience the infamous ring of fire. Her hand was up by her face and the cord was around her neck, DF was going to catch her but the MW yanked her out by her head. She was born at 5.34 am 8lb1oz and a mighty 60cm long! We were super surprised that she was a girl!!! <br /><br />Got away with no tearing or stitches (Yus!) <br /><br />So then after a bit of skin on skin and a BF I put my clothes back on and went to my hospital room. THE END<br /><span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by ChikkyD</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18996">_Deb_</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 01 April 2011 at 2:35pm<br /><br />Wow Kelly what a quick labour. Well done! lol at the swearing comment, that really made me laugh. Maybe she was angry at being forced out of her nice cosy home so fast.<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0"> <span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by _Deb_</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24599">TheKelly</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 01 April 2011 at 10:59am<br /><br />Amelia Charlotte's birth story<br /><br />She was 13 days over due,I was booked for an induction at 7:30 pm<br /><br />Woke up with very bad back ache that morning,ignored it focused on Ty etc,had a bit of pink mucous,thought labour probably already started.<br />Started getting what I thought MIGHT be contractions,but then they only came like,every hour.<br /><br />Got to the hospital at 7:15,got hooked up to CTG monitor and DH and I watched Friends for awhile,hospital MW came back in,checked how dilated I was and I was at 3cms<br /><br />My MW came at 9:50,I was still at 3cms,she broke my waters,I laboured with my mum,MIL and DH there,I didn't think the contractions got as bad as Ty's,kept expecting them to though,so was getting anxious. <br /><br />Heard MW say to the student MW that was also there to call the doctor,I thought they were getting me an epidural,but I was watching my MIL watch the monitor and I asked if something was wrong with the baby,she said,"they're just a bit concerned " or something like that,anyway as soon as she said that I thought "get through the contractions,just get her out safe" <br />So I did.<br />She was born at 11:41pm.....so a very short labour,considering I was 3cms dilated at 9:50 and she was completely out at 11:41pm<br /><br />And unlike my other two I didn't watch her come out,when I was pushing I had my eyes tightly closed and was putting every ounce of energy that I had in getting her the heck out of me haha <br /><br />she was 8lbs 5ozs,and 52cms ..the exact weight and length of her brother. <br />And she was the angriest looking baby I have ever seen,was a bit scared to hold her in case she swore at me,haha ! <br /><br />I was expecting it to be so bad,Ty's was excruciating,but hers was actually fine,almost...ALMOST makes me think I could do it again....<br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22431">Emmi_</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 28 March 2011 at 1:46pm<br /><br />Beautiful story Spacette, what a perfect way to welcome your gorgeous daughter into the world! &lt;3]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25505">Spacette</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 28 March 2011 at 10:36am<br /><br />Forgot to copy this across at the time (Feb), but here we go - a nice homebirth story! DD came 2 weeks early.<br /><br />The eve before the 8th I did a full day on my Masters and biked to a friend’s for dinner and felt particularly tired – ate lots though which was good in retrospect! That night felt a huge amount of hard kicks for a long time, about two hours, and then in the morning felt a weird sudden crunch sort of move in the pelvis round 6am. Half an hour later I dashed into the bathroom and proceeded to gush all over the floor. Right then! Guess she might be early after all. Took it very cruisy in the morning, baked, started to feel semi regular mild contractions like period pains. MW dropped by to check on us (baby HB good, my BP up) and gave me a talk about how this might not be proper labour and we’d have to think about what to do if nothing had happened by the next morning. I still felt ok and like it was progressing though. We were always keen for a homebirth, so DP set up the pool and went shopping for some more op shop towels and whatnot.<br /><br />By lunchtime contractions were a bit more regular. I messed about with positions and a TENS machine as they got a bit sorer (jury’s out on how much it helped, but it seemed to a bit and zapping myself was at least something to do!) Put on easy-watching DVDs for the afternoon (Princess Bride, couple of seasons of ‘Friends’!) which was nice distraction in between things. Contractions hotted up, got on the swiss ball and had DP pressing the hot water bottle on my back, which is pretty much what I stuck with for the rest of the time. And much loud vocalization, of course – was hoping most of the neighbours were out/at work! – but it did seem to help a lot (guess I couldn’t be a silent Scientology mum..).<br /><br />We were meant to be getting my mum from the airport but sent instructions to get a shuttle and she turned up in time to give DP a break when needed. The MW situation was a bit complex – she had a compulsory assessment that day, and then her 2nd got called away to another birth by the arvo – and then the backup had to come from Raglan. Plus she still thought I would be some time, from what DP was passing on over the ph. But he called again around 6pm and she could hear the tone of my bellowing, and said she was coming right over. About then contractions got more intense but with bigger gaps, so I thought ‘damn…it’s slowing down.’ This was actually transition, but I thought I’d feel weirder or like I couldn’t handle it, which hadn’t really happened (was hard but still manageable). Got reminded to go loo, and noticed there that I could feel some membranes (I think sitting on the swiss ball meant I’d been pushing for a little while, but not getting anywhere!). <br /><br />So I finally allowed myself to get into the pool (had been told to hold off until nothing else was helping, but again, hadn’t thought it was that time yet). MW turned up…I had a few contractions in the pool…and 9 minutes later, out came the head! It was good MW was there then at least, cos she could reassure us it was all going fine. Next contraction out came the body. DP tried to catch her but was a bit unsure…she swam through to me and I picked up our gorgeous girl. Very cool! 6.50pm. The cord was short, but she was all good and breathing well within a couple of minutes. Hung out a bit in the pool which was nice. MW was a bit worried the placenta wasn’t coming so we got out and tried getting baby on the breast (slow business) and I had some herbs to help the placenta, which arrived about 60 mins after the baby.<br /><br />Basically it all went really well, and I feel pretty lucky to have had a straightforward home birth for a first time (had hoped, but you never know). My hunch that she’d be on time/late was totally wrong, so she showed me! Masters will somehow have to work around her (update - yes, it was hard work but I submitted everything on time 3 weeks later - marks out next week!). Funny though, the day before, two people had agreed that she hadn’t dropped and would be a while yet. Guess you never know..<br /><br />ETA - she was 6lb3.<br /><span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Spacette</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=27016">Ashleya</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 25 March 2011 at 5:52pm<br /><br />When i was 38 weeks (by my records, the midwife kept saying im 37 but it was a planned baby and i knew eeeevery detail) i had a sweep done. I am extremely tiny and my babies head was too but boy she started growing fast from being too tiny as the scans showed. It did nothing though. when i hit week 39 and 6 days i was walking around the beach having an icecream and we saw must of been about 20 cats no older then a year old i couldnt help but follow them haha. I felt so happy. I had a bedridden pregnancy in bed vomiting all day everyday i kept food down maybe a couple of times only went to the hospital once towards the end when my heart was going extremely fast as my midwife/doctors told me to just wait it out and take it as it comes (which im angry about) so i never enjoyed my pregnancy except for the kicking and such.<br /><br />It was 6:34 am on my phone on the dot of week 40 i could smell smoke so i stood on the bed to close the window, went to stand over my partner to get to the other side of the bed since its a small as room but changed my mind and laid back down then POP! GUSHHHHHHHHHHH.<br /><br />My partner jumps up hearing it and so do i letting the water dribble all over the bed down onto the floor as i waddle to the shower shaking to the bone with nerves, excitement and it being so cold. I couldnt stop laughing at how she had decided to pop on my exact due date that i knew shed come.<br /><br />after an hour waiting for the gush to calm down enough i could stick a giant pad on and drive off to my mothers in west auckland (we live in an apartment). still shaking im waddle into the house and my sister made me some eggs and we went on as if it was a normal day but not leaving the house. i was so hungry my partner went to get me my cravings of pizza, but when he got back i wen to take a bit and BAM first contaction just straight up no messing around build up pains just "hey there nice to meet you not long to go now" that was 12pm. 15 min later it got properly strong i couldnt talk through it but between i was able to talk and walk around slowly which i kept doing.<br /><br />i had an appointment at midwife at 1:30 since she was thinking i was 39weeks still we went in after telling her what happened. by the time we got there i was on my hands and knees contractions where every 2min lasting a min by the time we got there it was 1min30s apart 30sec long she checked me saying i was 4cm dilated and not in labour... i was like SRE YOU KIDDING ME type feeling. my guts said NO! that i was but she wouldnt listen. i kept blacking out and my mother had to hold me up. she was tellin me to go walk around the school next door to bring it on my mum was furious at her i said no and stuck to it but she kept pulling me off the ground wtf was she thinking. we went home, once in the car... it began.<br /><br />i felt an opening and started screaming i couldnt stop it i was trying to hold it, and still when we rung she said i was not in labour till she heard the screaming and told us to come back to her... as if i was going to stop my pain just to come to you!!!! it was after 3 i was taken to hospital ignoring the midwife i got out of the car at 3:34pm exact trying to walk through the doors but i kept stopping i couldnt move, some midwifes came rushing towards me and dragged me in i thought it was so funny but ob couldnt laugh.<br /><br />As soon as i got on the bed the backup midwife was there and got me to go on my back saying baby didnt like me on my hands and knees (i was 100% on not wanting to do it on my back as i have bad problems on my back but she didnt read my notes too little time) i had been crowning the lttile head popping out already at 4:02 she was out on my chest big eyes beaming.<br /><br />the next day i had midwives saying to me that for how far along in labour i was if i didgo walking in that school she would of gushed straight out head down to the ground. if i didnt go for my gut feeling she would deff not of been here and its made me SO angry. but i have my little girl so life goes on.<br /><br />turned out she had not been a midwife for long i was told. next time ill be going through the hospital with a midwife that remembers me whenever i go in (which is everytime im too tiny to forget).<br /><br />only took afew min to really get her out. most the time was spent getting out of the car trying to walk in being checked. she was 6lb7oz 47cm long exact same as what i was at birth :)]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24536">Marama</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 146<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 09 February 2011 at 9:02pm<br /><br />I agree - Soda, that is an amazing story! I'd love a birth like that next time. Well done, hope everything is going great for you guys!!!]]>
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