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OHbaby! Forums : ARGH! To know or not to know??!! https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Tue, 19 May 2026 04:56:18 +0000 Mon, 04 Feb 2008 13:52:51 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 11.10 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=14123 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : My SIL found out with hers kids....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=293897&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#293897 Author: The_Stuarts
Subject: 14123
Posted: 04 February 2008 at 1:52pm

My SIL found out with hers kids. She had a son by her first hubby and 2 girls by her current DH and then they were told at 3 scans they were having another girl so when their son asked if it was a boy could he name it they said sure.

What a suprise they got when their 4th child turned out to be a little boy. He wore pink for several months (and was almost named Michael Jordon but they managed to get the name shortened to Jordon).]]> Mon, 04 Feb 2008 13:52:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=293897&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#293897 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : LOL fair enough. Well I say don't...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=293858&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#293858 Author: The_Stuarts
Subject: 14123
Posted: 04 February 2008 at 1:17pm

LOL fair enough. Well I say don't find out and keep a bit of mystery there since it's your last time around]]> Mon, 04 Feb 2008 13:17:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=293858&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#293858 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : LOL Emma! Def stick to your guns...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=293854&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#293854 Author: EmDee
Subject: 14123
Posted: 04 February 2008 at 1:16pm

LOL Emma! Def stick to your guns then and leave it as a surprise

]]> Mon, 04 Feb 2008 13:16:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=293854&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#293854 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : Ah but you see if I don't...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=293826&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#293826 Author: Maya
Subject: 14123
Posted: 04 February 2008 at 12:58pm

Ah but you see if I don't find out Willie doesn't get to either! He can bloody well wait too! Otherwise it's not fair!]]> Mon, 04 Feb 2008 12:58:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=293826&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#293826 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : ps. If willie found out could...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=293799&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#293799 Author: The_Stuarts
Subject: 14123
Posted: 04 February 2008 at 12:39pm

ps. If willie found out could he keep it secret from you and the girls?]]> Mon, 04 Feb 2008 12:39:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=293799&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#293799 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : We're taking turns. I wanted...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=293797&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#293797 Author: The_Stuarts
Subject: 14123
Posted: 04 February 2008 at 12:38pm

We're taking turns. I wanted to know but DH didn't so we found out with Michaela at 20 weeks but next one we'll wait till it's here. I'm kind of excited about it being a secret now (ok, that's a bit weird since I'm not pregnant but hey) the first time round everything was new but now I'm an old hand at this (LOL) it'll be nice to leave the babies sex as a mystery.

One thing I hated about finding out was the number of people who felt they had the right to tell me I shouldn't have found out and I should have kept it a surpise "um, excuse me, it was a surprise when we found out and mind your own business."]]> Mon, 04 Feb 2008 12:38:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=293797&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#293797 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : Don't find out. I wanted...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=293715&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#293715 Author: Bobbie
Subject: 14123
Posted: 04 February 2008 at 11:38am

Don't find out. I wanted to all the way through but DH didn't.When I had to have an elective C the birthdate wasn't going to be a surprise so I was glad that there was one unknown there.]]> Mon, 04 Feb 2008 11:38:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=293715&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#293715 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : Stick to your guns! You push...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=293705&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#293705 Author: fire_engine
Subject: 14123
Posted: 04 February 2008 at 11:28am

Stick to your guns! You push it out, you make the decisions. And yep, if you change your mind, you can find out later.]]> Mon, 04 Feb 2008 11:28:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=293705&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#293705 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : We didnt find out with Hannah...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292857&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292857 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 14123
Posted: 02 February 2008 at 10:07pm

We didnt find out with Hannah and it was great to have that little extra incentive at the end of labour, to find out what it was. This time we did find out tho and it has been great as well being second time around. If I was you I would wait and see how you feel later on, esp cos you found out with the others. ]]> Sat, 02 Feb 2008 22:07:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292857&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292857 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : DON'T DO IT!!!!! lol! ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292819&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292819 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 14123
Posted: 02 February 2008 at 9:18pm

DON'T DO IT!!!!! lol!]]> Sat, 02 Feb 2008 21:18:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292819&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292819 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : Could you get them to write it...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292581&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292581 Author: busymum
Subject: 14123
Posted: 02 February 2008 at 2:33pm

Could you get them to write it down for Willie?

Personally I think the surprise is more than it's worth haha I'm far too impatient and I like to find out when I'm 'with it' (ex drugs or labour!)]]> Sat, 02 Feb 2008 14:33:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292581&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292581 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : P.S. Though personally I quite...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292541&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292541 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 14123
Posted: 02 February 2008 at 1:24pm

P.S. Though personally I quite liked the surprise thing. And if you have found out with previous pregnancies then it might be nice to experience the other side

]]> Sat, 02 Feb 2008 13:24:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292541&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292541 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : I knit. Therefore I wanna know....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292540&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292540 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 14123
Posted: 02 February 2008 at 1:21pm

I knit. Therefore I wanna know.

]]> Sat, 02 Feb 2008 13:21:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292540&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292540 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : I'd find out, but that's...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292539&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292539 Author: EmDee
Subject: 14123
Posted: 02 February 2008 at 1:21pm

I'd find out, but that's just me!

If you want to wait for the surprise, then wait. If you wouldn't mind Wille knowing (and he wouldn't taunt you with it!) then maybe get them to write it down and pop it in an envelope. Though the temptation will then be there for you! So maybe get them to do it at a later scan ...]]> Sat, 02 Feb 2008 13:21:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292539&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292539 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : I think since you really dont...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292481&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292481 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 14123
Posted: 02 February 2008 at 11:25am

I think since you really dont want to find out you shouldnt and if Willie has a prob with it tell him he can find out at the scan when HE is pregnant , haha, or just tell him the legs were crossed

]]> Sat, 02 Feb 2008 11:25:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292481&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292481 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : I would do what you want Emma....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292419&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292419 Author: Mama2two
Subject: 14123
Posted: 02 February 2008 at 10:15am

I would do what you want Emma. If Willy won't be there, just tell him that they looked but legs were crossed

I personally couldn't do it though - far too nosey here

(Also maybe because I am a complete shop-a-holic

) ]]> Sat, 02 Feb 2008 10:15:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292419&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292419 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : we found out with jack but didn't...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292378&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292378 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 14123
Posted: 02 February 2008 at 9:39am

we found out with jack but didn't with charli....it was nice to have a surprise at the end.....DON'T FIND OUT....just tell willie you couldn't tell

]]> Sat, 02 Feb 2008 09:39:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292378&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292378 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : I agree with Fleury - wait for...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292358&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292358 Author: Joelle
Subject: 14123
Posted: 02 February 2008 at 9:19am

I agree with Fleury - wait for the next scan and see what the feelings are then.

We both wanted to know so that made it easier. DH kept saying it was a boy and the scan confirmed it but I will want to have it checked again at the next scan with the first one being early.]]> Sat, 02 Feb 2008 09:19:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292358&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292358 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : I really wanted to find out, DH...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292352&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292352 Author: hailstones
Subject: 14123
Posted: 02 February 2008 at 9:11am

I really wanted to find out, DH didn't and in the end she made the choice for us by crossing her legs! But even though I wanted to know, it was such a lovely surprise!! I don't think we'll find out next time. I agree with Fleury, I would wait for the next scan too]]> Sat, 02 Feb 2008 09:11:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292352&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292352 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : Wait and see you may change your...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292336&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292336 Author: caliandjack
Subject: 14123
Posted: 02 February 2008 at 8:54am

Wait and see you may change your mind before your next scan.
If Willie really wants to know he'll have to come along to one of your scans with you.
]]> Sat, 02 Feb 2008 08:54:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292336&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292336 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : With my son I didn't find...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292329&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292329 Author: mylilmosaic
Subject: 14123
Posted: 02 February 2008 at 8:47am

With my son I didn't find out so the surprise was lovely but then I always thought I was having a boy.

If we are lucky enough to have another then I would be tempted to find out cause I would have alot of fun shopping for the baby

But I think it really is a personal choice and I would wait if you are looking forward to the surprise.]]> Sat, 02 Feb 2008 08:47:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292329&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292329 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : You're never going to have...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292316&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292316 Author: Jennz
Subject: 14123
Posted: 02 February 2008 at 8:05am

You're never going to have another opportunity to have a surprise like this again- I would wait

Good luck with deciding!]]> Sat, 02 Feb 2008 08:05:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292316&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292316 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : As you don't seem to want...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292309&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292309 Author: yummymummy
Subject: 14123
Posted: 02 February 2008 at 7:51am

As you don't seem to want to find out, I'd wait if I were you. We found out but it's a personal choice

]]> Sat, 02 Feb 2008 07:51:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292309&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292309 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : nah dont find out emma i wish...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292292&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292292 Author: james
Subject: 14123
Posted: 02 February 2008 at 7:29am

nah dont find out emma i wish i hadnt found out with james and if i have another one i wont ind out then either

]]> Sat, 02 Feb 2008 07:29:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292292&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292292 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : I'm with you Emma, don't...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292217&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292217 Author: caraMel
Subject: 14123
Posted: 01 February 2008 at 10:42pm

I'm with you Emma, don't find out! Its your last one and it'll be awesome not knowing 100% until s/he is here in person

]]> Fri, 01 Feb 2008 22:42:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292217&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292217 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : I say don't find out. We...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292216&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292216 Author: myfullhouse
Subject: 14123
Posted: 01 February 2008 at 10:38pm

I say don't find out. We didn't find out with jack and it was a lovely surprise especially as I was expecting a girl - all first babies in our family are girls.
Tony wanted to find out and I told him that as I was doing all the work it was my choice!! :)]]> Fri, 01 Feb 2008 22:38:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292216&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292216 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : I would have to know!! Power...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292209&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292209 Author: BabyOnBoard
Subject: 14123
Posted: 01 February 2008 at 10:33pm

I would have to know!!
Power to those of you with patience 'coz I've got none]]> Fri, 01 Feb 2008 22:33:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292209&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292209 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : Nope keep it a surprise ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292203&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292203 Author: shelleybean
Subject: 14123
Posted: 01 February 2008 at 10:26pm

Nope keep it a surprise

]]> Fri, 01 Feb 2008 22:26:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292203&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292203 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : Noooo don't!!! Those last...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292197&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292197 Author: CindyD
Subject: 14123
Posted: 01 February 2008 at 10:22pm

Noooo don't!!! Those last few weeks are so exciting when you don't know. It's like being a kid at christmas again! I didn't find out with the first two and won't with this one either. If you like you could get them to write it down on a bit of paper, put it in an envelope and give it to willie, that way you don't have to know but he can. Just make him swear not to tell you! i love surprise's and baby surprises are the best!!!!]]> Fri, 01 Feb 2008 22:22:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292197&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292197 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : I didn't find out with Andrew...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292193&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292193 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 14123
Posted: 01 February 2008 at 10:19pm

I didn't find out with Andrew and it drove me nuts. But when I have my next one i'm still not sure if I want to know either.

]]> Fri, 01 Feb 2008 22:19:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292193&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292193 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : I'm with you Emma - don't...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292181&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292181 Author: Mazzy
Subject: 14123
Posted: 01 February 2008 at 10:11pm

I'm with you Emma - don't find out! This will probably be our last too, so I'm feeling the same way, I want to have the experience of a surprise. I don't reckon you gain much either way really, totally personal preference. Would Willie be able to keep it to himself if you got the technician to write it down in a sealed envelope to give to Willie? ]]> Fri, 01 Feb 2008 22:11:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292181&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292181 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : NO Dont do it Emma I'm with...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292180&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292180 Author: susieq
Subject: 14123
Posted: 01 February 2008 at 10:11pm

NO Dont do it Emma I'm with you too make this one a surprise as it is your last]]> Fri, 01 Feb 2008 22:11:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292180&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292180 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : DON"T DO IT!!!!! DON"T...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292173&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292173 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 14123
Posted: 01 February 2008 at 10:09pm

DON"T DO IT!!!!! DON"T FIND OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!]]> Fri, 01 Feb 2008 22:09:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292173&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292173 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : I'm with you to Emma Jesse...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292148&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292148 Author: Bubbaloo
Subject: 14123
Posted: 01 February 2008 at 9:57pm

I'm with you to Emma Jesse wanted to find out what we were having but he said since I didn't want to that we wouldn't it is nice to have that surprise and as my midwife says it makes you push harder because you want to find out what it is.

]]> Fri, 01 Feb 2008 21:57:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292148&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292148 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : I think I would have to agree...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292144&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292144 Author: Millie1976
Subject: 14123
Posted: 01 February 2008 at 9:53pm

I think I would have to agree with most of the other girls and would find out but that's just my personal preference! I am soooooo looking forward to finding out at my next scan but don't know how I am going to keep it a secret from my family as they want me to keep it a surprise from them.]]> Fri, 01 Feb 2008 21:53:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292144&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292144 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : I suspect it's a blue one,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292136&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292136 Author: Maya
Subject: 14123
Posted: 01 February 2008 at 9:48pm

I suspect it's a blue one, have from the beginning. But I am totally OK with waiting, it won't drive me nuts at all.
I could always tell him they couldn't see...
But then if I did find out, think of all the nappies I could buy!!
ARGH!]]> Fri, 01 Feb 2008 21:48:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292136&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292136 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : I'm with you Emma. It's...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292126&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292126 Author: gemsmum
Subject: 14123
Posted: 01 February 2008 at 9:46pm

I'm with you Emma. It's such a nice surprise at the end. I didn't find out with my two but was sure I knew what they were (and I was right both times). Personal choice though. ]]> Fri, 01 Feb 2008 21:46:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292126&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292126 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : Ems he has my vote too lol. And...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292123&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292123 Author: Kels
Subject: 14123
Posted: 01 February 2008 at 9:45pm

Ems he has my vote too lol. And yes the shopping if it was blue how much fun would that be!!

]]> Fri, 01 Feb 2008 21:45:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292123&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292123 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : I'd rather know. ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292118&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292118 Author: kebakat
Subject: 14123
Posted: 01 February 2008 at 9:43pm

I'd rather know.]]> Fri, 01 Feb 2008 21:43:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292118&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292118 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : I'd have to know too. Do...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292113&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292113 Author: .Mel
Subject: 14123
Posted: 01 February 2008 at 9:41pm

I'd have to know too. Do you have a feeling at all of what this little person is?]]> Fri, 01 Feb 2008 21:41:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292113&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292113 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : Sorry Emma I side with willie...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292105&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292105 Author: floss
Subject: 14123
Posted: 01 February 2008 at 9:36pm

Sorry Emma I side with willie to & if it is a blue one think of all the shopping you get to do before its born

]]> Fri, 01 Feb 2008 21:36:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292105&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292105 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : Well as you say it is up to you...but...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292099&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292099 Author: Paws
Subject: 14123
Posted: 01 February 2008 at 9:33pm

Well as you say it is up to you...but you know me...I'd side with Willie...I don't think I could handle not knowing!!!]]> Fri, 01 Feb 2008 21:33:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292099&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292099 <![CDATA[ARGH! To know or not to know??!! : I really, really don't want...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292096&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292096 Author: Maya
Subject: 14123
Posted: 01 February 2008 at 9:28pm

I really, really don't want to find out if wee Iggle Piggle is really an Iggle Piggle or in fact an Upsy Daisy, but Willie does want to know. I reckon it would be nice to have a surprise on the big day since it's our last baby, he reckons he's too old for surprises and what do we gain by waiting.
Help! What do I do? I mean, I know at the end of the day it's up to me coz he won't even be at the scan, but is he right, is there no point in waiting?
In my defence, I have to have scans at 32 and 37 weeks so if I don't find out at the 19 week scan we do get other opportunities, but I just don't wanna know!]]> Fri, 01 Feb 2008 21:28:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14123&PID=292096&title=argh-to-know-or-not-to-know#292096