https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 04 Apr 2026 09:10:08 +0000 Mon, 26 Nov 2007 17:27:45 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 11.10 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=12295 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=252917&title=am-i-strange#252917 Author: emachan
Subject: 12295
Posted: 26 November 2007 at 5:27pm

Kazzle wrote: you girls are so great, this is the best support group, i am so so so glad i found this website last year.

I agree totally with you Kazzle!! Its so good to have so many listening ears and helpful unbiased practical advice!!!]]> Mon, 26 Nov 2007 17:27:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=252917&title=am-i-strange#252917 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=248995&title=am-i-strange#248995 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 12295
Posted: 19 November 2007 at 1:50pm

youre not strange kazzle, sounds very normal to me, i really hope you get your BFP in the near future

and anyone that makes you feel you've made a fool of yourself if you (touch wood you dont) miscarry again....well you just let me know where they are, I'll deal to them

]]> Mon, 19 Nov 2007 13:50:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=248995&title=am-i-strange#248995 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=248724&title=am-i-strange#248724 Author: yummymummy
Subject: 12295
Posted: 19 November 2007 at 7:42am

I think you are normal too. We never told anyone IRL we were TTC (but told everyone here). I think the TTC journey is a private one and you are entitled to keeping to yourselves.
Good luck - hope you get a BFP soon ]]> Mon, 19 Nov 2007 07:42:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=248724&title=am-i-strange#248724 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=248720&title=am-i-strange#248720 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 12295
Posted: 19 November 2007 at 7:37am

you girls are so great, this is the best support group, i am so so so glad i found this website last year.]]> Mon, 19 Nov 2007 07:37:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=248720&title=am-i-strange#248720 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=248695&title=am-i-strange#248695 Author: Kels
Subject: 12295
Posted: 19 November 2007 at 12:39am

]]> Mon, 19 Nov 2007 00:39:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=248695&title=am-i-strange#248695 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=248676&title=am-i-strange#248676 Author: Maya
Subject: 12295
Posted: 18 November 2007 at 10:13pm

We didn't tell anyone we were TTC to start with so after the m/c I felt a bit 'exposed' coz then everyone knew we were TTC and I felt this pressure to succeed that hadn't been there before. Then when we succeeded first time round post m/c I felt like it invalidated the whole year we had been TTC in the first place, like I was a liar almost.

Hang on there Kazzle, you will get pregnant again and you will have another baby, and it will all be worth it in the end, it's just hard when you're in the middle of it to see the end in sight.]]> Sun, 18 Nov 2007 22:13:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=248676&title=am-i-strange#248676 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=247893&title=am-i-strange#247893 Author: mummy_dee
Subject: 12295
Posted: 16 November 2007 at 7:15pm

You sound perfectly normal Kazzle! While I may not have gone through what you have, I can imagine how hard it must be. ]]> Fri, 16 Nov 2007 19:15:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=247893&title=am-i-strange#247893 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=247845&title=am-i-strange#247845 Author: james
Subject: 12295
Posted: 16 November 2007 at 6:02pm

big hugs kazzle you have to do whats right for you hun ]]> Fri, 16 Nov 2007 18:02:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=247845&title=am-i-strange#247845 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=247843&title=am-i-strange#247843 Author: emachan
Subject: 12295
Posted: 16 November 2007 at 5:58pm

sounds like me - does that make me strange too? or are we just normal - I think we are! ]]> Fri, 16 Nov 2007 17:58:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=247843&title=am-i-strange#247843 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=247789&title=am-i-strange#247789 Author: kezplanet
Subject: 12295
Posted: 15 November 2007 at 10:11pm

Yes Kaz, you probably are strange (but not for having these thoughts)...... but then I know I'm a bit strange

I think those thoughts sound pretty normal/reasonable, I can totally understand the not wanting people "in your face" about ttc all the time!!]]> Thu, 15 Nov 2007 22:11:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=247789&title=am-i-strange#247789 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=247758&title=am-i-strange#247758 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 12295
Posted: 15 November 2007 at 9:23pm

We didn't tell anyone we were trying and we won't do when we try for number two either (well I might end up telling you lot). I think it is fair enough to not tell everyone. We went back to England when I was 6 weeks and I felt a bit gutted that everyone found out when we had only known for a week, I think it would be nice to have those first couple of months to yourself so to speak.
Next time will try not to be flying to England at 6 weeks ]]> Thu, 15 Nov 2007 21:23:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=247758&title=am-i-strange#247758 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=247729&title=am-i-strange#247729 Author: Bubbaloo
Subject: 12295
Posted: 15 November 2007 at 8:35pm

I was the same after we had been trying for a few months all my friends kept asking how everything was going and was starting to get a bit upset (I was a bit naive and thought it would happen straight away) I just started telling them we have decided it not the right time for us and a month after that I was pregnant. ]]> Thu, 15 Nov 2007 20:35:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=247729&title=am-i-strange#247729 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=247714&title=am-i-strange#247714 Author: busymum
Subject: 12295
Posted: 15 November 2007 at 8:19pm

I agree. Also maybe you feel some pressure from others to "hurry up and get pregnant" by the constant questions?]]> Thu, 15 Nov 2007 20:19:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=247714&title=am-i-strange#247714 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=247621&title=am-i-strange#247621 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 12295
Posted: 15 November 2007 at 4:55pm

Sounds pretty reasonable and normal to me Kaz. Your defence mechanisms trying to protect you in some way I suppose...]]> Thu, 15 Nov 2007 16:55:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=247621&title=am-i-strange#247621 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=247615&title=am-i-strange#247615 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 12295
Posted: 15 November 2007 at 4:49pm

okay so since my miscarriage, i have found that i just dont want to talk about how the ttcing is going, i will post in the threads, but no where near as much as i use too, i feel like if i talk about trying to get pregnant again and i miscarry again that i would have just made a fool of myself.

I am wanting to be pregnant with all my heart, but for some reason when ppl now ask me how the ttcing journey is going, i tend to say "its going", i almost feel like they are invading my personal space.

And funnily enough while its not anyone from this site, any of the other forums i belong to and even my family i just want to tell them to all bugger off and leave me to it.

We have already decided that when we fall pregnant again, until we have past the 11wk mark that we wont be telling anyone (except for you guys, and yeap i have Kents permission on that one lol). Oh and our parents of course, so im thinking that maybe because of that decision and of course being scared of miscarrying again, that im just avoiding the whole thing...oh i dont know, now im just rambling...as you were...lol]]> Thu, 15 Nov 2007 16:49:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12295&PID=247615&title=am-i-strange#247615